Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

cococandy:
She gives you twice a week. It's more than many married people get. Count your blessings and love on. The only problem I have is with the rigidity of the plan. Sex should be spontaneous and fun.

If you like listen to fools telling you to discard her or marry another wife. YOUR LOSS. It's that simple.

All I see are hormonal boys advising you to ruin your marriage because of sex. not that your wife is a bad person or is abusive. You can go ahead and listen to them.

hammerT:
so far all the men here have not represented manhood well.

women that love sex more than men, tells u she only want sex on certain days and u think all is well in that marriage.

the young man either has no game or is a one minute guy that does not satisfy her in bed and outside the bed.

u need classes on how to hammer and get her addicted.

haba! if i dont hammer in one week, na "u are cheating on me dem go dey take sing song" until i hammer.

Damn right am cheating on u, "a booty came calling i had to put the hammer down."

young man, ur wife is not a sex object, u cannot just open her up and dump and then start sleeping. that is the message she is sending to u here.


Spend time with her, seduce her, take her out, charm her, play with her, buy her things, make her feel like a woman and make sure u hammer.

No woman will give me dates and walk away that day and minute without the violation of those terms of contract straight away.

i must to hammer.

UIA04:


Good advice


u are pretty btw

hammerT:
so far all the men here have not represented manhood well.

women that love sex more than men, tells u she only want sex on certain days and u think all is well in that marriage.

the young man either has no game or is a one minute guy that does not satisfy her in bed and outside the bed.

u need classes on how to hammer and get her addicted.

haba! if i dont hammer in one week, na "u are cheating on me dem go dey take sing song" until i hammer.

Damn right am cheating on u, "a booty came calling i had to put the hammer down."

young man, ur wife is not a sex object, u cannot just open her up and dump and then start sleeping. that is the message she is sending to u here.


Spend time with her, seduce her, take her out, charm her, play with her, buy her things, make her feel like a woman and make sure u hammer.

No woman will give me dates and walk away that day and minute without the violation of those terms of contract straight away.

i must to hammer.

bbmpin:

@highlighted Will*

Child please!!!!

I "USUALLY" ignore ["ignorant outburst"] from naive clowns

But..... your unintelligent stance against ["patriarchal" of humanity] shows your limitless ignorance.

He(OP) is the leader of his home, she can share an opinion/thought but it's wrong for her to lay down terms, it's wrong!

There is nothing wrong in being nice to a woman but being "overly nice" makes him look weak(that shouldn't be hard for your "small brain" to understand)

Reply me and egregiously display your purposeless ignorance, i wont read or reply, i can't engage in conversations with warbling trash

You have been granted 2mins of my time. Goodbye! #intractable clown

boladale:
Hammer T, you must be really good if you think that women love sex more than men cos i dont think so. I really root for this your comment but i need to ask: are you married? Cos you know that sex in marriage is a different ball game from sex outside it.

boladale:
Hammer T, you must be really good if you think that women love sex more than men cos i dont think so. I really root for this your comment but i need to ask: are you married? Cos you know that sex in marriage is a different ball game from sex outside it. You see, most men here feel that having unlimited sex with their wives is their right, hence they are not willing to go through all the trouble you advised to please them. The wife is just to lie down and spread her legs. They don't feel this way about a girlfriend, so, normally they would do these things for a woman that they have not married. In marriage, couples easily take each other for granted, you know they see each other in and out, everyday and then think too much about responsibilities. Many couples are actually not friends, they don't even laugh with each other,sex at night becomes mechanical and the woman who wants real intimacy just wants to cut it out! Real underlying issues bro.

momentarylapse:




You should have corrected yourself too child. It's "IGNORANT OUTBURSTS"get it?


And what the hell does "PATRIACHAL AGAINST HUMANITY" mean?

You seem to be one of those kids who needs a dictionary by their side and an abundance of big sounding words in their posts in order to feel smart! Try to write from the heart next time okay, it will save you from grammatical errors and spewing nonsense!

What now!!!

I don't think that i owe an ineffably uncivilized simpleton any explanation for my accurate use of words

The mere fact that you are ignorant enough to question my statement validates my point(illiterate)

Educating you will be a waste of "mental resources" The sad truth is that you wouldn’t even understand, even if I tried to explain it to you, your "small brain" might implode from information overload.

Feel free to reply and air more ignorant garbage .

Me pretending to read them should be enough for you! #preposterously insufferable ignoramus

bbmpin:

What now!!!

I don't think that i owe an ineffably uncivilized simpleton any explanation for my accurate use of words

The mere fact that you are ignorant enough to question my statement validates my point(illiterate)

Educating you will be a waste of "mental resources" The sad truth is that you wouldn’t even understand, even if I tried to explain it to you, your "small brain" might implode from information overload.

Feel free to reply and air more ignorant garbage .

Me pretending to read them should be enough for you! #preposterously insufferable ignoramus

Pidgin2:


This is very bad advice, OP you will be surprised that it is a secondary school student giving you advice. Nairaland is not the best place to seek counsel

Do you do anything in the house besides eat, sleep, watch TV and have endless sex? Your wife may be overburdened with house chores and she might be too tired to meet up to your demands.

Help her with domestic work or get someone to help her. Try and exercise self control, what if you have to travel away for a month, wouldn't you be able to hold yourself, is sex food, or does it sustain your breathing?

cococandy:
She gives you twice a week. It's more than many married people get. Count your blessings and love on. The only problem I have is with the rigidity of the plan. Sex should be spontaneous and fun.

If you like listen to fools telling you to discard her or marry another wife. YOUR LOSS. It's that simple.

All I see are hormonal boys advising you to ruin your marriage because of sex. not that your wife is a bad person or is abusive. You can go ahead and listen to them.

pmc01:


You're indeed spoilt and not fit for marriage.
If your husband is satisfied with once a month, should you bring your feminist jargons here to come and spoil other people's homes?

austinosita:
Sex is very sweet and both men and women enjoy it! Why would she deny you or choose just 2 days in a week? Are you not good in bed? Don't u hit the right spot that will make her never hesitate anytime u want it? Or is it that she just does not like sex? How old is your marriage?

Oga, I'm sorry to tell you, but it's like she's seeing someone! Her love for you is "diminishing"


Sit her down and talk some sense into her.#whatnonsense

Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

bakynes:
I swear have looked at this world critically, we give women too much attention. Why must everything be about them. Everything we do as men is to please women am like why the fuxk did God have to create men with so much high urge for sex. These women know these things that's why they do to us as they like.

Oga please if you can find another lady to have sex please do and let your wife know you getting it real good outside.

Fuxk this women.

dopedealer:


^
Do you truely want to kill her ?
Dont lie. MakaNaki

Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

chiefoluigwe:


you are saying rubbish and people like you are why people should not post their problems in public. terrible human being

bakynes:
I swear have looked at this world critically, we give women too much attention. Why must everything be about them. Everything we do as men is to please women am like why the fuxk did God have to create men with so much high urge for sex. These women know these things that's why they do to us as they like.

Oga please if you can find another lady to have sex please do and let your wife know you getting it real good outside.

Fuxk this women.