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Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 08, 2017
A married man updated his facebook status and it reads;

I know you are a lady and might not agree with me but I need to address this issue on domestic violence in women . This domestic violence thing is overrated and women are beginning to hang on it to become more senseless without putting any effort on making their marriage work.

Am a married man and I have been married for 9years and am pleased to tell you that I hit my wife. I beat her sometimes to correct her because women are like babies so you need to go extra miles to correct them . My wife is my baby and am her man so I can't watch her do wrong . I beat her up and apologize to her , is the same thing as flogging a child and dragging them with the other hand.

Look at our African parents , they beat us with all sorts of objects , shoes , stick, bottles, anything they can lay their hands on. I have seen parents pour pee pee on kids just to correct them and even do worse just to correct them and will you call that violence? If you can do all that to a child and they survive how can an adult die ? 
Many domestic violence we hear, is not their husbands that deliberately killed them , it's always an accident so I want you ladies to know that violence is a part of marriage . Believe it or not , your husband must at least give you a slap for you to have sense especially here in Africa . So make your marriage work please , those people you celebrate and admire their anniversaries also endured violence .
Stop calling it violence , see it as correction , see yourself as the child and your man your daddy , that way you will understand the love comes with tears.

I know the ladies will insult me but I will continue to beat my wife if she misbehaves, is the best form of correction but I will never kill her, I love her so much . Ladies , beating is not enough to leave your marriage please see it as correction to make it work ."
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by thorpido(m): 11:16am On Jan 08, 2017
Well some women say men are babies too,so I guess this man in question will be a 'baby' and deserve beating too.

Some men who beat don't know there are women who can match them in violence.


Violence doesn't help anyone.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Onegai(f): 11:25am On Jan 08, 2017
prekumohtim:



Look at our African parents , they beat us with all sorts of objects , shoes , stick, bottles, anything they can lay their hands on. I have seen parents pour pee pee on kids just to correct them and even do worse just to correct them and will you call that violence? If you can do all that to a child and they survive how can an adult die ?

Mehnnn what kind of households were people growing up in that this was normal??

Why can't these men come and marry 2 of my cousins whom are gangster like this and can fight well?? Is it fair to leave women who can and have matched most men, blow for blow, punch for punch, broken bottle for broken bottle, unmarried? Why are they always marrying women who cannot fight back?

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by marshalcarter: 11:43am On Jan 08, 2017
#proudlyWifeBeater grin grin
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Abiagirl777(f): 2:09pm On Jan 08, 2017
nkea by anuofia.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Mskrisx(f): 2:51pm On Jan 08, 2017
Oshheeey! Bash Ali... grin

All I can say is....

Well, him get luck. smiley

If u jam me....heaven will reject you for hell to receive you speedily. smiley


That day, you will plead and nobody will hear you cry. The walls would be the last thing you will see. smiley Remember, I'd do it slow and painful so it seems like it's gon be foreversmiley.
I will make a video and show it to your family so, even at the other side, your ilks we have something to entertain them wink
Your wife dares not be friends with me, u'd REGRET smiley smiley


Cc...Esthafabian, crackhaus, byvan, Ahnie, cococandy. Oh! how I miss idowuogbo.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Fortissimo502: 3:19pm On Jan 08, 2017
Why is it ok to hit kids though?

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by inemani: 3:28pm On Jan 08, 2017
Okokobioko! Why not post his name used on FB? It wouldn't hurt to see the proud wife beater, just to know him. Chai!

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jan 08, 2017
Mskrisx:
Oshheeey! Bash Ali... grin

All I can say is....

Well, him get luck. smiley

If u jam me....heaven will reject you for hell to receive you speedily. smiley


That day, you will plead and nobody will hear you cry. The walls would be the last thing you will see. smiley Remember, I'd do it slow and painful so it seems like it's gon be foreversmiley.
I will make a video and show it to your family so, even at the other side, your ilks we have something to entertain them wink
Your wife dares not be friends with me, u'd REGRET smiley smiley

Cc...Esthafabian, crackhaus, byvan, Ahnie, cococandy. Oh! how I miss idowuogbo.

Are you saying you will go physical with him too or some type of passive aggressive psychological tactics?

Are you the one in the display pic?
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by inemani: 3:32pm On Jan 08, 2017
thorpido:
Well some women say men are babies too,so I guess this man in question will be a 'baby' and deserve beating too.

Some men who beat don't know there are women who can match them in violence.


Violence doesn't help anyone.


I tell ya, they noh know say some women na Bash Ali. Freeze of CoolFM is a testifier
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Mskrisx(f): 3:38pm On Jan 08, 2017
Vorpal:


Are you saying you will go physical with him too or some type of passive aggressive psychological tactics?

Are you the one in the display pic?



My dear, let it slide.

I have personally witnessed the death of a young woman who was sent to yonder by her horesbanding... Hehehehe....immediately, I had that no- man-will-do-this-to-me in my subconscious mind.

Physical? That will end it too fast. smiley

My profile? Very much me.

In the end, wetyn dey sweet bonny-face dey sweet bonny-yansh smiley smiley
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jan 08, 2017
Mskrisx:




My dear, let it slide.

I have personally witnessed the death of a young woman who was sent to yonder by her horesbanding... Hehehehe....immediately, I had that no- man-will-do-this-to-me in my subconscious mind.

Physical? That will end it too fast. smiley

My profile? Very much me.

In the end, wetyn dey sweet bonny-face dey sweet bonny-yansh smiley smiley

You saying you will have an upper hand you go physical with him?

I don't support domestic violence,, but do you think you will be helping him and especially yourself if you decide to match him physically?

You look sweet tho, wink
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Mskrisx(f): 4:12pm On Jan 08, 2017
Vorpal:


You saying you will have an upper hand you go physical with him?

I don't support domestic violence,, but do you think you will be helping him and especially yourself if you decide to match him physically?

You look sweet tho, wink


At your last sentence.. grin grin thank yaaa!
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by cococandy(f): 5:52pm On Jan 08, 2017
Fortissimo502:
Why is it ok to hit kids though?
it's not
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On Jan 08, 2017
Floyd Wifebeater.

Someone should send him my way or the way of any lady like me. If I don't shoot off his kneecaps and confine him to a wheelchair for the rest of his life, we will know the interesting part hasn't yet begun.

Efulefu.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by dyabman(m): 6:02pm On Jan 08, 2017
cococandy:
Floyd Wifebeater.

Someone should send him my way or the way of any lady like me. If I don't shoot off his kneecaps and confine him to a wheelchair for the rest of his life, we will know the interesting part hasn't yet begun.

Efulefu.

Oshey Avenger undecided
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by greatgod2012(f): 6:32pm On Jan 08, 2017
cococandy:
Floyd Wifebeater.

Someone should send him my way or the way of any lady like me. If I don't shoot off his kneecaps and confine him to a wheelchair for the rest of his life, we will know the interesting part hasn't yet begun.

Efulefu.


You I don't believe you joor! You're not violent, I know you well!

The best treatment for an abuser is to run far away from him/her before s/he starts the madness.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Ginaz(f): 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2017
When I was in j.s.s 3, I said in my heart to God, give me a man that won't lay his hands on me no matter the provocation or situation.

I won't tolerate any form of abuse physically or verbally. Nobody will hold me down to such a marriage I don't care if I got children or whatever.

God answered, I haven't been touched except the day my daddy beat me, that was 4 years ago. It ruined our relationship which was never recovered, the slap he gave me made my ears bled blood and rang for days.

No way I would have feelings for a man who beats me. It is humiliating especially when everyone gather to watch.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by austinereds(m): 6:39pm On Jan 08, 2017
oshey. 3 gbosa for you. baba wife beater. if am your boss at work I will beat you to correct you.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by shanicemel(f): 6:43pm On Jan 08, 2017
prekumohtim:
A married man updated his facebook status and it reads;

I know you are a lady and might not agree with me but I need to address this issue on domestic violence in women . This domestic violence thing is overrated and women are beginning to hang on it to become more senseless without putting any effort on making their marriage work.

Am a married man and I have been married for 9years and am pleased to tell you that I hit my wife. I beat her sometimes to correct her because women are like babies so you need to go extra miles to correct them . My wife is my baby and am her man so I can't watch her do wrong . I beat her up and apologize to her , is the same thing as flogging a child and dragging them with the other hand.

Look at our African parents , they beat us with all sorts of objects , shoes , stick, bottles, anything they can lay their hands on. I have seen parents pour pee pee on kids just to correct them and even do worse just to correct them and will you call that violence? If you can do all that to a child and they survive how can an adult die ? 
Many domestic violence we hear, is not their husbands that deliberately killed them , it's always an accident so I want you ladies to know that violence is a part of marriage . Believe it or not , your husband must at least give you a slap for you to have sense especially here in Africa . So make your marriage work please , those people you celebrate and admire their anniversaries also endured violence .
Stop calling it violence , see it as correction , see yourself as the child and your man your daddy , that way you will understand the love comes with tears.

I know the ladies will insult me but I will continue to beat my wife if she misbehaves, is the best form of correction but I will never kill her, I love her so much . Ladies , beating is not enough to leave your marriage please see it as correction to make it work ."



Oga so u r confidently saying u r proud to hit your wife. Maybe u were born in the 70s, but l dnt think any present day mother will pee break bottle on her childs head r body. Ur idea on marriage and other dey paranoid ooo.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 08, 2017
It's not okay to beat/hit your wife.

It's not okay to beat/hit anyone.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 08, 2017
I hope and pray I never meet a man like this.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by edwife(f): 7:03pm On Jan 08, 2017
What do i think of him? Nothing, rather i think little of the woman he calls wife. Such a pathetic woman with no self esteem or worth.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by greatgod2012(f): 7:11pm On Jan 08, 2017
prekumohtim:
A married man updated his facebook status and it reads;

I know you are a lady and might not agree with me but I need to address this issue on domestic violence in women . This domestic violence thing is overrated and women are beginning to hang on it to become more senseless without putting any effort on making their marriage work.

Am a married man and I have been married for 9years and am pleased to tell you that I hit my wife. I beat her sometimes to correct her because women are like babies so you need to go extra miles to correct them . My wife is my baby and am her man so I can't watch her do wrong . I beat her up and apologize to her , is the same thing as flogging a child and dragging them with the other hand.

Look at our African parents , they beat us with all sorts of objects , shoes , stick, bottles, anything they can lay their hands on. I have seen parents pour pee pee on kids just to correct them and even do worse just to correct them and will you call that violence? If you can do all that to a child and they survive how can an adult die ? 
Many domestic violence we hear, is not their husbands that deliberately killed them , it's always an accident so I want you ladies to know that violence is a part of marriage . Believe it or not , your husband must at least give you a slap for you to have sense especially here in Africa . So make your marriage work please , those people you celebrate and admire their anniversaries also endured violence .
Stop calling it violence , see it as correction , see yourself as the child and your man your daddy , that way you will understand the love comes with tears.

I know the ladies will insult me but I will continue to beat my wife if she misbehaves, is the best form of correction but I will never kill her, I love her so much . Ladies , beating is not enough to leave your marriage please see it as correction to make it work ."




Blood of Jesus!
And someone is this man's wife o!
If what this man wrote here about hitting his wife and the wife sees that as a form of correction instead of abuse, then, that woman is the real issue here.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by greatgod2012(f): 7:13pm On Jan 08, 2017
edwife:
What do i think of him? Nothing, rather i think little of the woman he calls wife. Such a pathetic woman with no self esteem or worth.



Edwife, happy new year o.
How are you and yours kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by edwife(f): 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2017
greatgod2012:




Edwife, happy new year o.
How are you and yours kiss kiss kiss kiss

Happy New Year darling. kiss We are all hale and hearty, thanks.

How about you and yours?
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by bennyrazz: 7:52pm On Jan 08, 2017
we are discouraging something but a demented fellow somewhere with access to internet is posting naanseense to encourage wife-beaters or groom wife-beaters. This is so ridiculous and I think the post should be reported to facebook and I also hope facebook delete it and if possible ban the account.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by Mznaett: 8:38pm On Jan 08, 2017
shocked
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by AngelsAndStars(m): 12:27am On Jan 09, 2017
Ginaz:
When I was in j.s.s 3, I said in my heart to God, give me a man that won't lay his hands on me no matter the provocation or situation.

I won't tolerate any form of abuse physically or verbally. Nobody will hold me down to such a marriage I don't care if I got children or whatever.

God answered, I haven't been touched except the day my daddy beat me, that was 4 years ago. It ruined our relationship which was never recovered, the slap he gave me made my ears bled blood and rang for days.

No way I would have feelings for a man who beats me. It is humiliating especially when everyone gather to watch.
no matter the provocation or situation? no way am not buying that.
Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by bellong: 12:38am On Jan 09, 2017
Who pays attention to a brain damaged fellow like the original author of that post?

Such a man is not fit to live in any Society except among baboons where violence against another is a sport.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by fxbot: 1:11am On Jan 09, 2017
Onegai:


Mehnnn what kind of households were people growing up in that this was normal??

Why can't these men come and marry 2 of my cousins?? Is it fair to leave women who can and have matched most men, blow for blow, punch for punch, broken bottle for broken bottle, unmarried? Why are they always marrying women who cannot fight back?
lol. I can understand what you are saying. I had some aunts who take no for answer. Na fight o.

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Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by johnson232: 5:39am On Jan 09, 2017
NotOfThis:
It's not okay to beat/hit your wife.

It's not okay to beat/hit anyone.


But considerable number of women beat/hit their kids.... why?

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