By TonyeBarcanista



Earlier today, a group of frustrated and bitter feminists took to Facebook to spoil the mindset of our lovely Nigeria ladies, wives and wives-to-be with a campaign of #WifeNotCook. 

The aim of the said campaign is not to "liberate" our mothers, wives and sisters from any form of oppression, but it is to plant bitterness in the heart and minds of our ladies so as to cause a crack and break in marriages and relationships to achieve breakup of families.

These women with bitter, evil and frustrated souls are never happy seeing ladies that are young enough to be their daughters, sisters and nieces in happy marriages and relationships simply because most of them, due to their bitter and evil hearts are perpetually unable to find a true soulmate.

Enough is enough, these so called bitter feminists must be called to order by the women folks that means well for the society and those with fear of God.

I want to state for the sake of emphasis that the concept of feminism is NOT to create social disorder in the society, it is actually an agitation to treat the female folks in dignified manner as equal partner in the human establishment. The concept of feminism, which I strongly support is about respect to the women folk, including wives, sisters, daughters and mothers. Feminism is not aimed at causing societal, family and social disorder.

Traditionally, the Almighty in His Supreme wisdom made the man the tiller of the ground(bread winner) and the woman as the helper/co-partner to the man. It is a fact that women of virtue as defined in the Book of Proverbs 10 are those that take good care of their home while their husbands go out to "till the ground".

So there is nothing amiss if a woman help prepare food for her husband and her children, there is also nothing wrong for a husband to assist the wife in the home front or make provision for that, and not place unnecessary burden on her. In fact, this is what sane and responsible men do.

Let me also warn those promoting #HusbandNotATM that the primary responsibility of any man is to take care of his family. In fact, the Holy Bible called those that fail to do so as being irresponsible and worse than infidel.

Finally, I wish to admonish our married sisters not to allow any strange woman or group of women to sow seed of discord in their home. To our sisters in courtship (including my lady), I admonished you all to seek and heed to advice that will build and not destroy your future homes. To the single and other young ladies, please don't allow anyone or group to condition your minds with their frustration so as to have you in their position at older age.

As for the frustrated and embittered feminists, I implore you, in your own interest
to turn a new leaf and desist from this path that will only compound your frustration.


May God Bless Us All And Bless Nigeria
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Nor preach for anybody abeg...
se na because them see man mary them...abi .

You cannot fight nature and win. Let this sink into the hearts of these bunch of bitter, heart-broken and disgruntled ladies called feminists.

cuedish:
Nor preach for anybody abeg...
se na because them see man mary them...abi .

We have the duty of enlightening our wives, sisters and daughters so that they won't be misled by these frustrated and misguided ladies parading as feminists

As the saying goes in pidgin English, "dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall". So by the time many single ladies find themselves still single, and many married women find themselves single, then they'll know never to listen to the advise of women who they don't even know.

I've long discovered that women who spew such garbage about not cooking for their 'man' are only bitter because they can't find a man to call their own.

ColonelDrake:
You cannot fight nature and win. Let this sink into the hearts of these bunch of bitter, heart-broken and disgruntled ladies called feminists.

I don't get it. They have wasted their, they have made their choice, why can't they maintain their lane? Why are these evil ladies keen on causing marital and societal problems?

Phewwww

LAFO:

Now that smile is creepy.

Mimzyy:
Phewwww

Mimzy, I hope you aren't part of "them"?

Any woman who is old enough to get married should know what is right for her to do! Nobody should be able to plant any seed of discord in anyone's marriage. Women should know what they want in their marriages and not waiting for what someone will tell them or write for them as guidance. Any woman who can't personally take decision as regards how she would run and maintain her marriage do not have business getting married in the first instance!


My humble opinion!

greatgod2012:
Any woman who is old enough to get married should know what is right for her to do! Nobody should be able to plant any seed of discord in anyone's marriage. Women should know what they want in their marriages and not waiting for what someone will tell them or write for them as guidance. Any woman who can't personally take decision as regards how she would run and maintain her marriage do not have business getting married in the first instance!


My humble opinion!

Nevertheless, it is a fact that humans are influenced by information they are exposed to.

Enough of all these madness by the misguided ladies posing as feminists

This campaign won't last

The way wey husband take scarce these days sef,no woman go gree join these feminist

Edwife, how are you dear sister. Seems you've been so busy these days! How is my angel?



This your gift........na siddon dey look mood you dey?

No wahala!

Op, what is your point exactly. I don't understand the purpose of this essay. Or are you trying to say that a woman must die in the kitchen? Do you really understand the purpose of that campaign or is this an emotional outburst. Maybe they are rebelling against men like you who want fresh food everyday but cannot even boil water successfully.

izzou:
This campaign won't last

The way wey husband take scarce these days sef,no woman go gree join these feminist

Ideally, I don't like bothering myself with the choices of those ladies but the fact that I have a responsibility to ensure that our societal and family values are protected, I choose to speak.

TonyeBarcanista:

Ideally, I don't like bothering myself with the choices of those ladies but the fact that I have a responsibility to ensure that our societal and family values are protected, I choose to speak.

True talk

Life was simpler back then. Who even brought up this feminist shiit?

baby124:
Op, what is your point exactly. I don't understand the purpose of this essay. Or are you trying to say that a woman must die in the kitchen? Do you really understand the purpose of that campaign or is this an emotional outburst. Maybe they are rebelling against men like you who want fresh food everyday but cannot even boil water successfully.

I suppose you aren't suffering from comprehension disorder. If you are, I can't help it.

If this is what you can come with after reading a post that was written in simple grammar, then I plead that you institute lawsuits against your English Language teachers from primary to tertiary institutions

izzou:


True talk

Life was simpler back then. Who even brought up this feminist shiit?

Exactly! These people are bent on complicating our lives just to satisfy their bitter soul.

Are you surprised Tonye. Haven't heard that modern day Feminist movement have deviated from the original movement. Besides most so called feminist are old frustrated greedy women who are not happy seeing their opposition sex progressing.

Let them go and check the real purpose of the movement not what they are fighting

baby124:
Op, what is your point exactly. I don't understand the purpose of this essay. Or are you trying to say that a woman must die in the kitchen? Do you really understand the purpose of that campaign or is this an emotional outburst. Maybe they are rebelling against men like you who want fresh food everyday but cannot even boil water successfully.

Is it bad for a man to want fresh food everyday, that is, as long as he's providing the money for it.

And what's wrong if a man can't boil water? Surely we have electric kettle to do for that, so why are you being emotional over something this plain?

They have the right to protest anywhere they like. We know where everything dey end last last. No be today y.ash dey back

Op... You said so much yet you said nothing

An0nimus:
They have the right to protest anywhere they like. We know where everything dey end last last. No be today y.ash dey back

Them go tire o

baby124:
Op, what is your point exactly. I don't understand the purpose of this essay. Or are you trying to say that a woman must die in the kitchen? Do you really understand the purpose of that campaign or is this an emotional outburst. Maybe they are rebelling against men like you who want fresh food everyday but cannot even boil water successfully.

Busted

izzou:


True talk

Life was simpler back then. Who even brought up this feminist shiit?

Brother what you have to understand is the purpose not what frustrated old greedy women are fighting this days

RadiantBae:
Op... You said so much yet you said nothing

You'll be fine

TonyeBarcanista:

You'll be fine

So will you... now get your Behind in the kitchen and start learning to cook

RadiantBae:


So will you... now get your Behind in the kitchen and start learning to cook

Be prepared to have a co-wife

Some of you need to get your emotions in check.
A group of women gather for a campaign and you tag them feminist? Were they with a badge or you're so obsessed with feminism?

Why this issue of feminism gives you guys sleepless night is beyond me. Are you so insecure that you're constantly on the lookout for a woman to Lord over?
Marry the kind of woman you want, there are millions to billions of women in Nigeria, Africa...and the world. If you don't see your ideal woman in Nigeria, check Mozambique!

Everyday on front page, one rape news or the other, kidnap, murder...and your problem is that woman no gree cook? Nawa!