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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by maasoap(m): 12:40pm On Apr 02, 2017
darioNaharis:
You sef, your baby is just two months and you want another sperm to win another race grin grin

That's why there's something called self-service. Get your mobile device, some lotion, some paper wipes and ease yourself grin grin

Xvideos oo, not waptrick
If I should tell you that you're not properly informed here, will you agree with me?
Breastfeeding mother that breastfeed her baby very well can't get pregnant for few months after delivery. What happened to condom?
But @OP, two months after birth, is that not too early?
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by dammieco(m): 12:41pm On Apr 02, 2017
alfredo4u:


I understand..... I have condom at home and never intended pregnanting her.. My first issue was two years in between and that's my plan for the third issue by the grace of God.
Calm down! Her mother is not staying with you forever. Let your joystick shows some respect!

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 02, 2017
darioNaharis:
You sef, your baby is just two months and you want another sperm to win another race grin grin

That's why there's something called self-service. Get your mobile device, some lotion, some paper wipes and ease yourself grin grin

Xvideos oo, not waptrick

I like people who are realistic like you. Tell am

grin
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by maasoap(m): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2017
eezeribe:


Op,this is your second family issue on nairaland....
Are you the only married man on nairaland
Did you marry your wife on nairaland
Please stop congesting our cyberspace with your small family wahala.Thanks
Better than for him to make silly mistakes. Many people would have preferred to come to nairaland for advice but for the people like you who are ready to tear them apart, take them to cleaner and make them feel stup!d.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by jeromzy(m): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2017
Amberon:
Sorry for asking o but during that six months, were you faithful to your wife?
to tell u the truth I've always bin faithful.if u start cheating, you'll find it hard to stop n you'll spend more money.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Fiso4real: 12:45pm On Apr 02, 2017
lifestyle1:
If my wife born i go wait at least six months make that place close and heal.
Bros i dt think u ve married




Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Apr 02, 2017
lifestyle1:
If my wife born i go wait at least six months make that place close and heal.






Easier said
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by cyril700(m): 12:49pm On Apr 02, 2017
don't always tell her u want sex, romance her till she loose guard
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by 9jatatafo(m): 12:50pm On Apr 02, 2017
OP let your rest. She is having a two month old baby
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Luqas: 12:50pm On Apr 02, 2017
Am darm so sure this guy stays in Abuja else how much be 2 bedroom wey you dey bring the matter come this court.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by AceVentura: 12:52pm On Apr 02, 2017
@Poster,

Firstly, get a bigger apartment. You can't accommodate 5 people in a one-bedroom flat.

Secondly, deal with your issues with your wife between you two. Nairaland members aren't marriage counselors.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by isahsalee: 12:54pm On Apr 02, 2017
Lesbianism practice ongoning in your home but, you're not aware, ur wife and her mom are lesbians, know now.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Mboi2: 12:56pm On Apr 02, 2017
jbaby265:
Men like my fiance are rare to find. Now I know the value of what I have

After all said and done.. I have this to say

Op have you ever been to the hospital to see women in labour.. NO
Did you follow your wife to the hospital during her delivery and see the pains she had to pass through just to deliver the sperm you deposited in her? NO

And lastly as a woman I will tell you this.. Some women during delivery do have cuts in the private part just so the baby could come out easily.. Most women pass through this pain and it takes at least 2-3months to heal.. Believe me some gynecologist will advice you abstain from sex for at least 6months..to enable you (woman) regain all that you've lost during that period and set all hormons right.

A loving and caring husband will give HONOUR AND RESPECT to his wife for at least 4months (that is if he can't wait till six months) only men who does not have any pity for women will forcefully sex their wife.. Not minding what she went through or still going through..

Now forget the fact that your mother in-law is around and face the truth.. YOU DID NOT DO RIGHT AT ALL
Wait for your wife.. Give her that time.. Respect your mother in-law.. Is not too much to ask




You are not even yet married and you are condeming a married man, no wonder you addressed the whole issue wrongly.
To all those telling op, you live in one room, you need a duplex,a 3bedroom flat tire that, I suppose many of you still live in your father's house,some of you live by the support of your parents till date that why your argument here shows you all live in denials.

Op just threw a straight question about his wife and a lot of sentimental and biased minds here who know not sex means in marriage are here talking about duplex and 3rooms Apartment.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by 2shur: 12:57pm On Apr 02, 2017
Wen dey say make money and quit pussies
Imagine i staying in a one bedroom.
Wtf.
U married and gor a wife and a child.dats 2 plus your mum in law..3 plus u for.
Wtf.
Y cant u at least rent a 2 bedroom apartment.
Wtf
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Chijosky(m): 12:59pm On Apr 02, 2017
You are not old enough to marry, small thing like this you run to Internet to report your wife, Not to mention that your baby is two months old, can't you use your brain small

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Dom2020: 1:00pm On Apr 02, 2017
Guy, I beg u in d name of whatever God u worship, free that woman for at least 3months. Trying to engaged her in sex just after 2month of delivery is wrong, come to think of it what happened to self control.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by annnikky(f): 1:01pm On Apr 02, 2017
princechurchill:
Just tell her to tie up her if she wants to scream, and you gentleman please slow and steady should be your rythm may be your John Thomas is not easy to handle,
Can u s3x ur wife 2mnths after delivery undecided
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Gkay1(m): 1:03pm On Apr 02, 2017
your wife just gave birth within 2 months and you want to sex, Mr man, advice yourself and respect your mother in law.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Laird(m): 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2017
ifyalways:
Two children plus you and wifey in a room and parlour? And thats excluding visitors like Granny them.

Oga no vex but I think you should channel your energy on making more money so you can move your family into a 2 bedroom atleast.

Truly, it's awkward to make love in such a set-up knowing lil'baby can wake at any time, making Granny wake and then hear her daughter moaning. If Granny had her own room or there's a lil privacy like you and wife to a room by yourself, she might allow you cut show small.

Sorry o. Get your vaseline or soap and gba ncha. cheesy


I wanted to post and. Commment on the apartment part but a Nairalander has done justice tomit so.let Me just conclude.. GUY LEAVE MAKING BABIES.....GO MAKE MONEY



We are in the Capitalist Independent Contractor Age ( No job Security) and not in the Agrarian age where Children join to work on the family farmland or Industrial age where You could get an industry company job and pension for life

GO LEGALLY HONESTLY SERIOUSLY PURSUE MAKING MONEY

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Topshow2010(m): 1:10pm On Apr 02, 2017
alfredo4u:


You won't understand... I have benefited so much from nairaland.

I love my family and nothing can change it. Nairaland is my second home. I confide in you guys because I only take the good advices and do away with the useless one that people like you give.

Today, I do say thank ma to my mother Inlaw and everybody around.

Unless you, you don't benefit and take the best advise as I do on this platform.

Thanks

So so appalling and nauseating ,"Nairaland is my second home indeed".Anyway I guess u are one of the young bt immature and accidental married man.
Kwantinu ur social media rantings cuz its ur second home.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by alfredo4u(m): 1:10pm On Apr 02, 2017
Mr2kay3:
wait oooo why should I tell my mother in law thank ma


Read.



https://www.nairaland.com/3702542/it-right-say-thank-ma

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Roseey0(f): 1:13pm On Apr 02, 2017
alfredo4u:
I got offended and did it without her offer. Up till now she don't like joining me in the parlor.

If I should do away runs now they will start complaining.
Pals you guys should pls advice me urgently because if this continues, I might do the otherwise.
Thanks





Did you just rape your wife?
As in..
Forced her?

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 02, 2017
Lilyqueeny:
it seems you are a sex addict.

Your baby is just two months
That's why he got married. Narrow minded creature.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by glossy6(f): 1:17pm On Apr 02, 2017
She is lucky fa. My hubby will come for his food just after two weeks after delivery
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Roseey0(f): 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2017
isahsalee:
Lesbianism practice ongoning in your home but, you're not aware, ur wife and her mom are lesbians, know now.
Some people are crazy

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Roseey0(f): 1:19pm On Apr 02, 2017
glossy6:
She is lucky fa. My hubby will come for his food just after two weeks after delivery
shocked
Jesu!!!
Lochia hasn't even stopped...

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by FILEBE(m): 1:22pm On Apr 02, 2017
ifyalways:
Two children plus you and wifey in a room and parlour? And thats excluding visitors like Granny them.

Oga no vex but I think you should channel your energy on making more money so you can move your family into a 2 bedroom atleast.

Truly, it's awkward to make love in such a set-up knowing lil'baby can wake at any time, making Granny wake and then hear her daughter moaning. If Granny had her own room or there's a lil privacy like you and wife to a room by yourself, she might allow you cut show small.

Sorry o. Get your vaseline or soap and gba ncha. cheesy

I am sure he knows he needs to work harder you needn't rub it on his face. He was brave enough to write about it. You don't know how hard he works or what he is expecting. So, on behalf of all bros , i tell you this: if you are not his wife, you are not in the position to tell a man how hard he should work except he confides in u.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by biggie73(m): 1:25pm On Apr 02, 2017
Though congi is a dangerous thing, please respect her mum.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by CIII: 1:25pm On Apr 02, 2017
alfredo4u:


You won't understand... I have benefited so much from nairaland.

I love my family and nothing can change it. Nairaland is my second home. I confide in you guys because I only take the good advices and do away with the useless one that people like you give.

Today, I do say thank ma to my mother Inlaw and everybody around.

Unless you, you don't benefit and take the best advise as I do on this platform.

Thanks
Hmm bro. You're bringing family matters to public domain. You're seeking advice from TOTAL strangers. It would shock you to know that most of these "Senior Special Advisers" on NL are still living with their patents. Yet you, a married man, bringing issues to be resolved inside to them on NL. Chai, I'm just sorry for you.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by FILEBE(m): 1:27pm On Apr 02, 2017
Laird:



I wanted to post and. Commment on the apartment part but a Nairalander has done justice tomit so.let Me just conclude.. GUY LEAVE MAKING BABIES.....GO MAKE MONEY



We are in the Capitalist Independent Contractor Age ( No job Security) and not in the Agrarian age where Children join to work on thr family farmland or Industrial age where You could get an industry company job and pension for life

GO LEGALLY HONESTLY SERIOUSLY PURSUE MAKING MONEY

A bro is allowed to say what you have said to another bro but not a lady who is not his wife. You should reprimand her for talking about the apartment. angry
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by 1234onyekwe: 1:30pm On Apr 02, 2017
LesbianBoy:
Op sorry to say, but your wife is senseless and have no respect for you! I am sure you are a "real man" thats why! First it was you not telling her mother "thank ma" after you finish eating IN YOUR OWN HOUSE now she is denying you sex! Chai! Real men dey suffer for their women hand o! grin grin grin grin
You the only person that made a lot of sense in your post. imagine ur own wife denying sex in ur own matrimonial home when he starts getting it outside the same woman will shout to high heavens without knowing she was the cause of it all, I must comend this man is a real man.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by richiepolymer(m): 1:30pm On Apr 02, 2017
alfredo4u:
House, I know how helpful you guys have been. The last time I came hear was about my wife and I having argument for not saying thank ma to her mum.

Last night something happened. I'm staying in one bed room flat. Since her mum came for omugo/visit. I left the bedroom for them and start staying in the parlor. At night, I do expect her to join me in the parlor because our baby is two months and...

Last week, I have to beg her to join me in the parlor which she did. Three ocassions, I tried making love to her, she said... MY MUM IS AROUND AND WE SHOULD RESPECT HER PRESENCE. Seriously I got offended and did it without her offer. Up till now she don't like joining me in the parlor.

If I should do away runs now they will start complaining.

Pals you guys should pls advice me urgently because if this continues, I might do the otherwise.


Thanks





But wait o. You said your baby is just two months old?
Why can't you allow your wife to heal properly? Can't you contain yourself and allow her regain herself for at least 3 months? So you just quickly accessed her so soon? What if she doesn't want to tell you she's bruised? And you had to just have your way.
Brother man, please don't hurt your wife. Try as much as possible to be understanding.
As for your mother in law, I guess she too doesn't expect you to be engaging your wife again so soon.

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