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Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 1:44am On Apr 03, 2017
Women crave male attention, you decide whether you give it to them or they earn it

Women love male attention whether they admit it or not. In fact, women get upset when men don’t notice them, especially if they have spent a lot of time on putting their war paint (makeup) on and bought some sort of new garment or shoes from the store. If men who women think should be noticing them aren’t, women will start acting childish. From giving men who ignore them dirty looks to seething about it in the bathroom with their girlfriends, women cannot stand being invisible to men. If men only knew the power of this tactic, intentionally withholding attention from women on a regular basis rather than giving it to them for nothing, they could affect real change in the way women act and treat men.

Rule 1: ALOOF ATTITUDE

The Red Pill man uses aloof behavior to his advantage when dealing with females. An aloof attitude is one of the best qualities a man can develop: cool, calm, collected, uncaring, indifferent. Women want attention and approval from their peers as well as men they find desirable. When they don’t get this attention, the hamster hops on the wheel and spins very quickly, often until it falls off the wheel. Women who don’t get the proper level of attention will do everything from accusing men who ignore them of being gay to hurling personal insults at them. How many times have we seen women throw around the “loser” insult? Whenever you hear this word, her ego has been pinpricked by something you did to her.

Hilariously, female attention-seeking behavior now powers a gigantic trophy industry in Anglo America. Women are getting trophies for everything from good work at their jobs to beauty contests. While they tell men to lower their standards (do not look for a trophy wife), women are doing everything they can to become a trophy themselves, including rewarding themselves with faux trophies for doing little more than existing. Yes, their egos are that fragile.

Women’s attitudes change when have to do more for male attention than just looking pretty

Rule 2: THE NEG
The neg. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s one of the most important concepts of Game. A neg is a backhanded compliment, impeccably timed and delivered. Something along the lines of: That blouse is nice, my mother has one just like it. As petty as the neg sounds, it is actually a great tactic for catching women off guard instead of the usual Beta male butt kissing that helps inflate their egos.

One of the reasons women are so arrogant today is because of a sexual market that has shifted towards the Pareto Principle. With most men figuratively (and sometimes literally) begging for sex, women receive constant attention from thirsty, incel Betas. The last thing she wants is another Beta to kiss her behind and orbit her in hopes he’ll get a few sexual crumbs off the table. The neg can be an important way to demonstrate higher value, letting her know subconsciously you are not an thirsty Beta, you are a man that other women desire. As mentioned above, women are pack and herd creatures, so a man other women want is a man your target is going to want.

If you already have a woman, keeping her ego in check is essential if you want to keep her around. There are several tips to assist you in managing her. To the uninitiated, the tips will seem counterintuitive to everything you have been told by society. But to the experienced, the tips will be common sense. Here’s a list of dos and don’ts to avoid becoming a Beta male in the female mind, all based the power of ignoring:

-Ignore what women want
-Don’t do what they demand you do
-Do not listen to what they say they want
-Be aloof, ignoring her insults and having impeccably delivered comebacks to each of them
Additionally:

-Develop yourself; never make a female your main priority

By ignoring women and refusing to cave to their whims, you are demonstrating subconsciously that you are a man of high value. A man with options does not jump when a girl squawks, because he doesn’t have to. Staying cool and distant demonstrates that you are the prize, and she is seeking you. WOMEN CHASE WHAT RETREATS. Make yourself the sought after prize rather than turning her into the sought after prize.

Men putting themselves first makes them the pursued rather than the pursuer

Rule 3: YOU ARE THE PRICE

The biggest mistake men make is becoming trained monkeys for women, inflating their egos (as they desire men to do) with constant attention and doing what women want them to do, essentially turning themselves into doormats. Then, these men act surprised when they get walked on.

Men must remember they spend a lifetime becoming something of value while women just are women, there’s no becoming.

Women, as the gatekeepers of sex hold the power to what men want. However, men also are gatekeepers. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Ignoring women and ignoring what they want shows you do not give your commitment away for nothing. In the male mind, a woman that gives sex away easily is a LovePeddler. In the female mind, a man that gives away his attention and commitment easily is a Beta.

Remember: Stay aloof, neg, ignore wishes, demands, and female attention seeking, and look out for number one. Playing with women’s emotions by ignoring them most of the time, while occasionally throwing their egos a bone with a halfhearted compliment, and not doing things for them like trained puppy dogs might seem cold to the uninitiated in the romantic arts, but the man who learns the correct behavior wields an enormous amount of power in today’s sexual jungle.
grin

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by slyzy(m): 2:36am On Apr 03, 2017
Me thinks acting withdrawn as a guy may be seen as lack of interest by women. And they may not stay around for long before they move on.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Nobody: 2:44am On Apr 03, 2017
slyzy:
Me thinks acting withdrawn as a guy may be seen as lack of interest by women. And they may not stay around for long before they move on.

And so?

They're not a limited edition, more are available.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by izospindle(m): 3:06am On Apr 03, 2017
D fact you had so much tym to spend writing about them shows how needy you are of them........am nt saying give them all d attention but admit to you self that you need them........and reseach on how to attract the kind of women you desire

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Nobody: 3:10am On Apr 03, 2017
Sierusvirus:
Women crave male attention, you decide whether you give it to them or they earn it

Women love male attention whether they admit it or not. In fact, women get upset when men don’t notice them, especially if they have spent a lot of time on putting their war paint (makeup) on and bought some sort of new garment or shoes from the store. If men who women think should be noticing them aren’t, women will start acting childish. From giving men who ignore them dirty looks to seething about it in the bathroom with their girlfriends, women cannot stand being invisible to men. If men only knew the power of this tactic, intentionally withholding attention from women on a regular basis rather than giving it to them for nothing, they could affect real change in the way women act and treat men.

Rule 1: ALOOF ATTITUDE

The Red Pill man uses aloof behavior to his advantage when dealing with females. An aloof attitude is one of the best qualities a man can develop: cool, calm, collected, uncaring, indifferent. Women want attention and approval from their peers as well as men they find desirable. When they don’t get this attention, the hamster hops on the wheel and spins very quickly, often until it falls off the wheel. Women who don’t get the proper level of attention will do everything from accusing men who ignore them of being gay to hurling personal insults at them. How many times have we seen women throw around the “loser” insult? Whenever you hear this word, her ego has been pinpricked by something you did to her.

Hilariously, female attention-seeking behavior now powers a gigantic trophy industry in Anglo America. Women are getting trophies for everything from good work at their jobs to beauty contests. While they tell men to lower their standards (do not look for a trophy wife), women are doing everything they can to become a trophy themselves, including rewarding themselves with faux trophies for doing little more than existing. Yes, their egos are that fragile.

Women’s attitudes change when have to do more for male attention than just looking pretty

Rule 2: THE NEG
The neg. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s one of the most important concepts of Game. A neg is a backhanded compliment, impeccably timed and delivered. Something along the lines of: That blouse is nice, my mother has one just like it. As petty as the neg sounds, it is actually a great tactic for catching women off guard instead of the usual Beta male butt kissing that helps inflate their egos.

One of the reasons women are so arrogant today is because of a sexual market that has shifted towards the Pareto Principle. With most men figuratively (and sometimes literally) begging for sex, women receive constant attention from thirsty, incel Betas. The last thing she wants is another Beta to kiss her behind and orbit her in hopes he’ll get a few sexual crumbs off the table. The neg can be an important way to demonstrate higher value, letting her know subconsciously you are not an thirsty Beta, you are a man that other women desire. As mentioned above, women are pack and herd creatures, so a man other women want is a man your target is going to want.

If you already have a woman, keeping her ego in check is essential if you want to keep her around. There are several tips to assist you in managing her. To the uninitiated, the tips will seem counterintuitive to everything you have been told by society. But to the experienced, the tips will be common sense. Here’s a list of dos and don’ts to avoid becoming a Beta male in the female mind, all based the power of ignoring:

-Ignore what women want
-Don’t do what they demand you do
-Do not listen to what they say they want
-Be aloof, ignoring her insults and having impeccably delivered comebacks to each of them
Additionally:

-Develop yourself; never make a female your main priority

By ignoring women and refusing to cave to their whims, you are demonstrating subconsciously that you are a man of high value. A man with options does not jump when a girl squawks, because he doesn’t have to. Staying cool and distant demonstrates that you are the prize, and she is seeking you. WOMEN CHASE WHAT RETREATS. Make yourself the sought after prize rather than turning her into the sought after prize.

Men putting themselves first makes them the pursued rather than the pursuer

Rule 3: YOU ARE THE PRICE

The biggest mistake men make is becoming trained monkeys for women, inflating their egos (as they desire men to do) with constant attention and doing what women want them to do, essentially turning themselves into doormats. Then, these men act surprised when they get walked on.

Men must remember they spend a lifetime becoming something of value while women just are women, there’s no becoming.

Women, as the gatekeepers of sex hold the power to what men want. However, men also are gatekeepers. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Ignoring women and ignoring what they want shows you do not give your commitment away for nothing. In the male mind, a woman that gives sex away easily is a LovePeddler. In the female mind, a man that gives away his attention and commitment easily is a Beta.

Remember: Stay aloof, neg, ignore wishes, demands, and female attention seeking, and look out for number one. Playing with women’s emotions by ignoring them most of the time, while occasionally throwing their egos a bone with a halfhearted compliment, and not doing things for them like trained puppy dogs might seem cold to the uninitiated in the romantic arts, but the man who learns the correct behavior wields an enormous amount of power in today’s sexual jungle.
grin
This post is highly needed in this forum. The wise will learn

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Nobody: 3:53am On Apr 03, 2017
EgunMogaji:


And so?

They're not a limited edition, more are available.

Spot on bruv!
@ slyzy that's the point. Most if they percieve you're not interested they become baffled And go out of their way to catch ur interest

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by slyzy(m): 4:03am On Apr 03, 2017
EgunMogaji:


And so?

They're not a limited edition, more are available.

Actually.
And u just keep watching them slip through ur fingers by acting withdrawn? It kind of painful though. Romance should be spontaneous and this shouldn't be sacrificed for strategy

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by potent5(m): 4:04am On Apr 03, 2017
Thanks, Op. Just seen the light!

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Nobody: 4:07am On Apr 03, 2017
slyzy:


Actually.
And u just keep watching them slip through ur fingers by acting withdrawn? It kind of painful though. Romance should be spontaneous and this shouldn't be sacrificed for strategy

You say that as if it's a bad thing. More are still being made.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Kondomatic(m): 5:32am On Apr 03, 2017
slyzy:
Me thinks acting withdrawn as a guy may be seen as lack of interest by women. And they may not stay around for long before they move on.
Be available all the time and they will dump you quickly.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Jengem: 6:01am On Apr 03, 2017
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by gcof(m): 7:01am On Apr 03, 2017
Hehehehe... you've definitely not met someone you love when you do, you'd realize there's nothing like specific rules, "how to do this", "how not to do that". You'd be willing to do anything as long as it keeps both of you happy

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Dekatron(m): 7:05am On Apr 03, 2017
Jengem:
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.


Woof Woof!! Na your type dey thank women for accepting them on facebook. Y'all called bitch ass niggas

.
Op nice one... But a remark there was sexist.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Dekatron(m): 7:08am On Apr 03, 2017
gcof:
Hehehehe... you've definitely not met someone you love when you do, you'd realize there's nothing like specific rules, "how to do this", "how not to do that". You'd be willing to do anything as long as it keeps both of you happy


Y'all getting it wrong.... The idea is keeping her interested while maintaining your ego as a man, not treating her like trash. Aiit??

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 7:34am On Apr 03, 2017
Jengem:
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.
stupid quotes like urs is why men think all women want from a man is money money money. listen it's called a trophy mentality, women can perceive lack of confidence from a mile even if ure donald trump. fact is if u want to continue attracting goffball, run of the mill and unsophisticated women then ignore the details of this article cuz u can get those with JUST MONEY . however, if ur priority is classy,Top of the food chain exquisite women then money is not enuff. personality, confidence, decision making, dress sense ( good smell inclusive ) , ambition are qualities that would make women drool over you.
imagine a gathering of 5 rich and good looking men who all want a particular woman, money is no object at dis point, quality women want more than money cuz they understand that ANYONE can make money overnight by hook or by crook but personality is built over time and stays with u regardless of ur financial status

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 7:42am On Apr 03, 2017
gcof:
Hehehehe... you've definitely not met someone you love when you do, you'd realize there's nothing like specific rules, "how to do this", "how not to do that". You'd be willing to do anything as long as it keeps both of you happy
that's the mistake alot of u guys make, whatever happens in a relationship must be earned. their r strict rules to dating that stem from mistakes lots of men made in the past. the essence of the article is to ensure that u don't fall victim to these dating pitfalls. understand how women think and how u shud act around them otherwise another guy wud b sleeping with ur woman in no time eventhough it seems ure doing everything right in the relationship

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by NevetsIbot(m): 7:45am On Apr 03, 2017
slyzy:
Me thinks acting withdrawn as a guy may be seen as lack of interest by women. And they may not stay around for long before they move on.
i con bet my hand on it. This tactics works as hell!

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by gcof(m): 8:25am On Apr 03, 2017
jaysan82:

that's the mistake alot of u guys make, whatever happens in a relationship must be earned. their r strict rules to dating that stem from mistakes lots of men made in the past. the essence of the article is to ensure that u don't fall victim to these dating pitfalls. understand how women think and how u shud act around them otherwise another guy wud b sleeping with ur woman in no time eventhough it seems ure doing everything right in the relationship
my brother , that something didn't work for someone doesn't mean it won't work for. I make a mistake, I find a better way of doing it better next time. That mr A does something and it didn't work for him doesn't mean it won't work for me too. We are so different therefore everyone should find out the things that work for him or her

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by gcof(m): 8:28am On Apr 03, 2017
Dekatron:



Y'all getting it wrong.... The idea is keeping her interested while maintaining your ego as a man, not treating her like trash. Aiit??
there should be no such thing like ego with someone you really care about

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 9:16am On Apr 03, 2017
gcof:
my brother , that something didn't work for someone doesn't mean it won't work for. I make a mistake, I find a better way of doing it better next time. That mr A does something and it didn't work for him doesn't mean it won't work for me too. We are so different therefore everyone should find out the things that work for him or her
I agree with u bredren. my point is there r certain tips and tricks infact I can call them hacks that typically works when it comes to women. women love comfort,they love ambition,they love confidence, they love persona, they love power..... I am talking about quality women... around d way chicks can fall for u for just money. if u exhibit these qualities i mentioned above a lot of high profile women would want to be around you
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:10am On Apr 03, 2017
izospindle:
D fact you had so much tym to spend writing about them shows how needy you are of them........am nt saying give them all d attention but admit to you self that you need them........and reseach on how to attract the kind of women you desire

Both gender needs each other from the way God made it to be.

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:11am On Apr 03, 2017
BUTCHCASSIDY:

This post is highly needed in this forum. The wise will learn

You are a great man
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:18am On Apr 03, 2017
potent5:
Thanks, Op. Just seen the light!

Sail on bro

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:19am On Apr 03, 2017
Kondomatic:
Be available all the time and they will dump you quickly.

Exactly
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:22am On Apr 03, 2017
Dekatron:



Woof Woof!! Na your type dey thank women for accepting them on facebook. Y'all called bitch ass niggas

.
Op nice one... But a remark there was sexist.

Thanks Bro.
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:24am On Apr 03, 2017
Dekatron:



Y'all getting it wrong.... The idea is keeping her interested while maintaining your ego as a man, not treating her like trash. Aiit??

That's the idea and not presenting yourself as desperate
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Sierusvirus(m): 10:28am On Apr 03, 2017
jaysan82:

stupid quotes like urs is why men think all women want from a man is money money money. listen it's called a trophy mentality, women can perceive lack of confidence from a mile even if ure donald trump. fact is if u want to continue attracting goffball, run of the mill and unsophisticated women then ignore the details of this article cuz u can get those with JUST MONEY . however, if ur priority is classy,Top of the food chain exquisite women then money is not enuff. personality, confidence, decision making, dress sense ( good smell inclusive ) , ambition are qualities that would make women drool over you.
imagine a gathering of 5 rich and good looking men who all want a particular woman, money is no object at dis point, quality women want more than money cuz they understand that ANYONE can make money overnight by hook or by crook but personality is built over time and stays with u regardless of ur financial status

On point

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 03, 2017
Sierusvirus all u said been a part of me for as long as I can remember... But the neg grin grin grin I luv that sh1t man..You r golden bruv...
Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by bmxshop: 10:35am On Apr 03, 2017
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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Rukkydelta(f): 10:39am On Apr 03, 2017
Buhari see what you have caused?
Baba God pick all these jobless romancelanders call abeg

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by Rukkydelta(f): 10:43am On Apr 03, 2017
I can never be interested in a man that is scared of me
(in terms of ego, success and so on)
Op your write up may work for some females but certainly not all
I'm a attention freak and once you don't give me the attention I desire I cut you off, this also applies to friends too

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Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by vislabraye(m): 11:00am On Apr 03, 2017
Jengem:
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.

You can't say all the points are useless. And it would surprise you that it's not all about money or success. I realise that giving them too much attention can be counterproductive. The key is finding the balance.

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