TheTrueSeeker:
Nonsense, so what was the moral lesson for his daughter's taking laws into her hands to assault her classmate? What about warning the erring young man not to do it again instead of rendering a slap and getting away with it.

Lol.this is bullying we are talking about here

For those who doesn't understand ,emir sanusi is only trying to establish the rights of women which every responsible man shouldn't be afraid or ashamed of recognizing. there are some cultures that this is a threat to and they won't feel good entertaining the full actualization of women rights.
Emir sanusu is a reformed northerner who northern elites should rally round If truly they mean their words of 'one Nigeria' else they will always be seen as enemy of the Nigeria state

megareal:


I hope you understand this guy was a class bully? That's how he would graduate from pushing their foreheads to taking their lunch and finally beating them up. Bullies make people cower not because they are strong but because they pretend to be. When you react, it stops . I'm sure that boy never did that rubbish to the girls again.

Like I asked, what if it was a guy that punches a lady because she used her finger to push him on his forehead? Is that one also justified?

If a girl slaps a guy, feminists will say he should walk away. But if a guy slaps a lady, you irrational and sadistic feminists will cry blue murder, in fact, you will HAIL the lady if she reacts by using an object to hit him. Maka why?

Unfortunately, bigots like you tend to call every woman who has an independent opinion feminist. My father taught me to defend myself. I owe nobody an apology for being strong.

I'm sure you have been coming across the word "bigot" without knowing what it means. Please, help yourself with Google.

Your opinion isn't that of a feminist but that of a sadistic and confused lady that is aligned with the Naija brand of feminism. Defending yourself is GOOD but I hope your father won't cry blue murder when your self defence go haywire?

I'm sure you will land a guy on the street that provokes you a heavy slap, please, don't play victim card when he reacts with greater measure.

Being a female is no licence for irresponsible behavior.

magoo10:
For those who doesn't understand ,emir sanusi is only trying to establish the rights of women which every responsible man shouldn't be afraid or ashamed of recognizing. there are some cultures that this is a threat to and they won't feel good entertaining the full actualization of women rights.
Emir sanusu is a reformed northerner who northern elites should rally round If truly they mean their words of 'one Nigeria' else they will always be seen as enemy of the Nigeria state

How is he establishing the rights of women when you encourage your kids to take laws into their hands.

The girl did not react emediately she was pushed but kept it in her heart till the next day. This kind of person can kill and its called premeditated murder if she had killed the boy.

Concerning your signature, do you think it make any sense at all?

fuckyoumhen:
eko wo lo ko wa? moral of this story?

That boy is a bully who targets girls because like a typical coward he considers them weaker and easier to pick on . Glad she's taught him that not all girls will take that crap.

His type will go on to beating his wife if left unchecked !

joliyp:
trash......the day i go slap 1 guy .....i saw hell on earth

lolz...u just remind m of a girl that did same to me...but when I returned mine...she got confused for minutes... before she realized she has messed up.

Take it easy emir. Girls shouldn't be abused, but I doubt going physical is the best response to abuse. What if she had been assaulted by the guy(the abuse happened the other day remember?)
I am for mutual respect# am with the emir on most of his ideas# no one is perfect # I support girl empowerment and education

numericalguy:
This Emir is a disgrace to Muslims. How can you encourage your daughter to be taking laws into their hands in a place where their is a constituted authority.

Mr. Emir, who made your daughter the judge, jury and executioner in the case. By what standard did she judge the boy guilty before administering punishment. What if your daughter had decided that death is the appropriate punishment for the boy's offence, that means you will be glad your daughter is a murderer. Why does your rich and spoilt daughter feel too big to report the incident to the school authority.

Mr. Emir, your daughter is bad influence in her school and I would not be surprised if she later becomes a cult member and start killing her fellow students in the university.

U see what religion has done 2 u
Reasoning from ur anus

pcguru1:


He does have a point as much as I support the girl even if it was a girl who bullied his son and he slapped her he would still be castigated I guess men can never the be victims always the aggressors

I would maybe have seen his point if he wasn't being disdainful by calling me a confused Naija feminist.

But I would still have argued that when it comes to bullying, boys take the lead. Girls naturally regard boys as stronger so they hardly go find their trouble.

I always tell folks; when you go looking for trouble be well prepared cos the other party may take their retaliation way beyond your original trouble... don't cry foul after. That's what this girl did.

dominique:
Violence is violence regardless of the gender it is being meted upon. What the daughter did was wrong, she had no rights to hit somebody that was of no threat to her.

You are the real daughter of your ancestors.

I am disturbed that some so called "female folks" that have been wailing against violence are in support of the irresponsible act of the daughter of the shameless monarch.

JERRY1925:



lolz...u just remind m of a girl that did same to me...but when I returned mine...she got confused for minutes... before she realized she has messed up.

same goes for mi....the guy double mine

ThatFairGuy:
Ah beg no slap me, ah never eat

go n eat den

Tell me samthing

kristian98:
what did the guy do to you when you slapped him?

he kissed me jor

bamisho:


Submission does not equal taking abuse . The boy is a bully and got what he deserves . If her husband treats her with respect he will get the same and if he tries to abuse or bully her he will also get the same .

The way you treat people is the way they will treat you back. Women will no longer take rubbish

That's an encouraging line...cz it should be a norm

But I do believe there are times we apply wisdom in our reaction

There are different ways of conflict management, it's all about approach

I felt the emir or his wife should have educated her on that as a public figure

When you're in the limelight, every action you make speaks a thousand words to those watching...just like the emir's words on the post

Victornezzar:

U see what religion has done 2 u
Reasoning from ur anus

If only you had a brain you would have been able to use it. You must be one of those terrible killer cultists who think they are laws unto themselves which is why you can't see the wrong in what the girl did.

St00pid brain dead animal like you. Keep taking laws into your hands and I can bet you that the long arm of the law will throw you in jail if you are lucky, but if you are not lucky, the police will gun you down like a common criminal that you are.

Khaleesi Shasheeda!

AdoraAmadi:
‘Dad, that boy has no respect for women’.

Am I the only one thinking this man is just sugarring the whole episode?
Which primary 3 girl thinks like that? But what do I know.

AdoraAmadi:
So, long before we started talking about marriage and talking about whether when your husband slaps you, you should slap him back, Shaheeda had decided for herself that she would not take abuse, she would not take insult and she would not be disrespected by any man,

Problem is: can she finish the fight?

Your Daughter,

Your Support,

Your Problem.



......not my business

You are sitting on a stool that represents inequality and abuse of women and yet you dare speak against it? make you watch your back ooo

dominique:
Violence is violence regardless of the gender it is being meted upon. What the daughter did was wrong, she had no rights to hit somebody that was of no threat to her.

No no no. She said the boy placed a finger on her head and pushed it backwards.

If that is not to hit first, then I wonder what is. That is clearly a threat to her. What if she falls down and sustain an injury? You want her to wait till he gets out a gun abi?

If the guy truly did that, she did well in my book. Bullying can never be addressed by more laws

joliyp:
trash......the day i go slap 1 guy .....i saw hell on earth

, what really happened?

johnydon22:
"Don't take shit from nobody"

Really? I understand u a bit but why do u take 'poos' from ur political representatives (ur senator, governor), soldiers, etc?
U can only do ur best and leave the rest, man.

Sinmi53:
dis man is a modernist,reformer and too liberal for dis post.....i hope he his not assassinated sha....he needs to take things slowly and thread carefully

All those northerners nor like d man na
D man too display intelligence and e de actually behave like who don go school come out
All those aboki nor de feel d man at all

Oh divine guidance descend. Emir is totally derailed .He is not representing Islaam. He is OYO (on your own).

TonyeBarcanista:

Like I asked, what if it was a guy that punches a lady because she used her finger to push him on his forehead? Is that one also justified?

If a girl slaps a guy, feminists will say he should walk away. But if a guy slaps a lady, you irrational and sadistic feminists will cry blue murder, in fact, you will HAIL the lady if she reacts by using an object to hit him. Maka why?


I'm sure you have been coming across the word "bigot" without knowing what it means. Please, help yourself with Google.

Your opinion isn't that of a feminist but that of a sadistic and confused lady that is aligned with the Naija brand of feminism. Defending yourself is GOOD but I hope your father won't cry blue murder when your self defence go haywire?

I'm sure you will land a guy on the street that provokes you a heavy slap, please, don't play victim card when he reacts with greater measure.

Being a female is no licence for irresponsible behavior.

You still don't get it, do you? First, make up your mind whether I'm an irrational feminist or just sadistic and cruel.

I still maintain you are a bigot. The fact that I don't side with your sympathetic view on the boy does not give you the right to label me.

Moreover, I'm all for self defense. I don't care which way it blows. My father told us something profound "don't go looking for trouble, but when it comes face it with everything you've got irrespective of who it is. Because the trouble maker will keep preying on you and will never give up until you react". I've experienced that truth all through my young life.

And in this regard, the greatest compliment I can give myself is that I'm a very level headed female who treats others as I want to be treated. But don't cross the line cos I'm female, simple.

I think you are yet to meet very strong females who can take on anything, that's why you reason that we all play the victim card.

TheTrueSeeker:
Nonsense, so what was the moral lesson for his daughter's taking laws into her hands to assault her classmate? What about warning the erring young man not to do it again instead of rendering a slap and getting away with it.

She was a child, the boy in question too was a child. She didn't like being bullied, and responded in kind.

I'm sure she knows better now as an adult, and can make better decisions than when she was still in primary or secondary school.

Modified
All those fighting and cursing themselves above, please note that these were children when the incident happened. Most children don't know much about conflict resolution, and are impulsive.
She was wrong in hitting the boy, and that's why the mother reported her to her father. Like any reasonable parent, you ask what happened which he did. I'm sure he may have laughed over it, but will tell her to report to her teacher next time. I'm also sure the boy never went near her again with his 'play'.

TheLordIsGr8:

Am I the only one thinking this man is just sugarring the whole episode?
Which primary 3 girl thinks like that? But what do I know.



Problem is: can she finish the fight?

Its not about finishing the fight, its about defending urself first
Like me if person bring fight e nor matter if d person beat me up, all i know na say we must both carry injury go house
Even if i carry broken back and head, u must carry at least swollen eye and broken jaw but injusry must dey
I get ideology say person wey enter fight na winner, regardless of if them beat am or him beat them, long as say u enter and u nor run comot

megareal:


I would maybe have seen his point if he wasn't being disdainful by calling me a confused Naija feminist.

But I would still have argued that when it comes to bullying, boys take the lead. Girls naturally regard boys as stronger so they hardly go find their trouble.

I always tell folks; when you go looking for trouble be well prepared cos the other party may take their retaliation way beyond your original trouble... don't cry foul after. That's what this girl did.

It depends physical bullying maybe however girls are no stranger to mental bullying it's not something taken serious here maybe in other countries. However I feel the boy got what he deserved. If you bully someone then be prepared to be met with whatever force it is.

numericalguy:


How is he establishing the rights of women when you encourage your kids to take laws into their hands.

The girl did not react emediately she was pushed but kept it in her heart till the next day. This kind of person can kill and its called premeditated murder if she had killed the boy.

if you read well he was talking to a targeted audience and it was an occasion for the girl child right and he used that particular incident to explain the rights of every girl child especially against the aggressive male child.,
if you give birth to a girl child and teach her how to run away or cry each time a male molest her that is your own pot of stew but he will continue to bring up his daughter the way he feels will be beneficial for her and earn her respect amongst men.

Why will the daughter be ask to come there. She is not from the Chad basic region.

She is from the northern region, not the Chad basic region.