Different stroke for different folks.

Only weak men cheat, real men remain faithful to their partner. Which one are you? Choose....

On a serious note: not all men cheat, somebody like will not try that will my wife. #faithfulhusband

Greatigbos:
ask afonjas dey will explain beter

Wehray leleyi oooo

I guess I am weird then

cheating seems a natural tendency in men... it is somewhat inveterate. Guys like me are different, though.

Lack of self control and commitment.

its viceversa....wives too dey do am...the problem is it is not easy to eat one food everyday cuz e go tire u...becos one day e no go sweet for mouth again

Bc single women wont let married men be.

Example stephanie otobo

highchief3:
Only weak men cheat, real men remain faithful to their partner. Which one are you? Choose....

will u keep quiet in pe' voice...

SmellingAnus:
Most likely, there are still some faithful men but my experiences with two married pals of mine in less than one week brought about this topic..

The first pal, is a business Man that is not doing badly, he has at least two kids that I know of all attending the so called expensive schools... He is from the East, an elder in the Church and we were having some business related conversation when somehow our discussions went into the arena of women.. lol... I told him some of my experiences and he also told me how he almost sent his wife packing for losing 4 million naira in two different ponzi schemes namely donation hub and earnfifty... He then told me about an Akwa-Ibom girl that he came across and made love to and ever since he has been praying to God to help him leave her but instead he is getting deeper into her....

This Man has a very beautiful wife with light skin but he confessed to me how the Akwa-Ibom babe is very sweet and neat... Infact he talked about going home to sleep and snore each time he has his routine sexual exercise with her which invariably means that he may not eat and most likely not touch his wife. When his wife complains of his strange lifestyle, he blames it on working too hard in his office of which he is the Boss...

What surprised me most as we were discussing in his office was that , he said he will not lie to me, that if the Akwa-Ibom babe calls him now, he will leave what he is doing to go and meet her... Within me, I was scared for so many reasons knowing fully well that I am still single and will not want that kind of life but the greater fear was that is possible that this man never planned for this type of life but he somehow found himself with a strange woman....

My second encounter was yesterday night with another Pal who is younger than the Man from the East... This one is from the West, his wife is in the West with their Kid while he is in Port Harcourt... This particular one is not necessarily as successful as the other man but he mentors people in business/investment related affairs... He is the kind of guy you could call to talk to your staff on how they could perform better (Business Consultant). In the course of our conversation, I found out that he is actually waiting for one small girl that lives in my neighborhood that just finished secondary school in FGGC Okigwe I suppose....

While I learnt some things from him, I also told him about the importance of starving his distractions and feeding his focus and we both agreed that women are major distractions.. he told me , he discovered that spends more on accommodating women in hotels for days just to have a sexually nice time....

I'm conclusion I ask, why do many married Men cheat on their wives, how can we help our future/current wives to help us not to cheat on them? What are those things men's married need that will make them not to cheat on their wives ? (Note: not al married cheat)..

. Men were polygamous in nature. But religious doctrines have brainwashed. So cheating and many wives which do you prefer

Until we accept reality.

megama:
. Men were polygamous in nature. But religious doctrines have brainwashed. So cheating and many wives which do you prefer

unfortunately even with many wives , men still cheat

i dont really know whether its a curse or what, right from the days of King David and Solomon in bible. All a woman needs are prayers otherwise forget it.
Men will always want their third leg to walk around anyhw, sometimes its the cause of the house wife.
Some women after marriage stop their normal package, and prefer and to tie wrappers, they forget their husband got attracted to them as a result of the exposure of their laps and breasts back then.
And when the husband go out there and see fresh laps and smooth breasts, he will definitely give it a try.
women are advices to always expose their body to their husband. like i say, prayers will help God keep ur man. women are dangerous.

SmellingAnus:
exactly my fears... It looks so normal as if all men must cheat on their wives although theoretically , all men don't cheat

Only sexually deficient men remain faithfool.

Greatigbos:
ask afonjas dey will explain beter

SMH

because women are they cause of it...

MDG007:

I understand your fears but not all men cheat. And honestly speaking women determined weather their man should cheat or not.

you are right to a point but the rate at which many of them cheat... Is it that all their wives are not doing enough to prevent it

fufuNegusi:
Marry a man that has the fear of God
Marry a woman that has the fear of God


CASE CLOSED

Abia....see u...as if suleman is not godfearing abi....or even David and Solomon.....man must cheat...just do it with a little iota of respect for ur spouse.... Never sleep with your wife's friends,relatives,neighbours or anyone your wife knows....cheat so so far from home and never ever allow ur wife to catch you.....only mumus get caught.

bullabong:
Only sexually deficient men remain faithfool.

hahhahaha unfortunately, you just increased my fears... It's as if married men helplessly cheat

highchief3:
Only weak men cheat, real men remain faithful to their partner. Which one are you? Choose....

weak men like King Solomon abi?
You and I know that d reverse is d case.

It will even get worse with things I see these days. Sex is so easy to get especially now that there are so many loose girls and men who are so willing to cheat.
Sin is sweet to the natural man whether you Want to agree to that or not, it will only take the grace of God and a man that truly loves God to not cheat apart from that every other thing na mouth. Trust me. I pity girls who think they can in some way change a man cause they'll be so disappointed.

Whoever the op is... Please apply sense! Married women too cheat on their husbands too! Infact surprisingly statistics has it that more women cheat on their spouse than men! Logically one man cheats with two different women that equals to 2 ratio 1 that common sense

The question should be why do couples cheat? Don't attribute it to any gender

And for the records if men are scum then women are scumbags

Op, answer is so simple. Everyone longs for change of food once in a while.

Like my wife is lazy in bed

So I take to be the mother of my kid


She always have one excuse or the other

I work hard I don't drink nor smoke

All I want 3 times a week

I can't kill myself

kimbra:
Only men with flawed values cheat on their wives. I know for sure that there are men that no matter what the lady looks like or how enticing the free sex offer is they'd never cheat on their wives 'cause is usually some minutes pleasure which is likely to ruin your matrimonial home. Weak men cheat, real men don't.

"Cheating is in our DNA". Is an excuse weak men use to feel it's ok to cheat.

U're not a man,so u don't know ow it feels like being a man.

It is a very solid fact the married women cheat more than single girls of nowadays.don't talk about men alone

They do so because...

#Women age faster than men. Once females get to age 35 and above, their bodies start looking really unattractive, and the men ain't moved to have sex with them again. So, they go for younger girls. Please note that most men cheat for sex alone, not for affection or love. It is strictly physical for most married men.

#When their wives start ignoring them. I was at a table with friends and friends of friends drinking last weekend, and this guy said his wife had been denying him sex for 10 months now. Please note that this dude got married just three years ago. What do you expect the dude to do in a situation like this?

#And three, some men are never satisfied, they just want more. They want to always conquer a new girl.

SmellingAnus:
hahhahaha unfortunately, you just increased my fears... It's as if married men helplessly cheat

truth is that the sexual drive of the average woman can't compare to that of the average man. When a wife turns a husband down for one reason or the other. Of which u know most women use sex as a weapon to negotiate,then the other lady who will gladly oblige any time and style just to win a place in a mans heart, suddenly becomes an option.

olapluto:
With your username, I dont think anything good can come out of this.

you are right something better came out of it... This thread is currently on front page... So have a successful week

eating banga soup daily is very Ok ooo but the Problem is that banga soup should not last more than a day, a new banga should be made ie to say, the man should be ready for expenses on making new banga soup daily.
This implies that men should be able to maintain their wives the way they made them before marriage if not, she'll always look less attractive. Also wives should by all means maintain there body as it were, when they were single. Even though there's a place of "self-control " but, both partners have role to play in maintaining sanity in marriage.
#myopinion