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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by goldstar25(f): 12:14pm On May 06, 2017 |
I would prefer it if you told him because if he hears it from someone else believe me he won't trust you again. also if you decide to tell him don't badmouth the babe. this is my opinion sha 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by skedemi(m): 12:14pm On May 06, 2017 |
Bumbae1: you is smart girl 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:15pm On May 06, 2017 |
Missonas:Thanks,I really appreciate your comments,you've said it all.I don't want to hurt any of them,I want to stay out of their picture for good. 3 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:18pm On May 06, 2017 |
goldstar25:I can never badmouth my ex(never),I don't do that but my cousin is very impulsive.I'm just afraid of the aftermath... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:22pm On May 06, 2017 |
lodphil:I know this already,just seeking for the best advice. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by bilulu(m): 12:25pm On May 06, 2017 |
Headlesschicken:all d ones u ve been dating are dey not left over? ve u dated a virgin? d one u will marry if she's not a virgin is she not someone's left over? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Funkybabee(f): 12:27pm On May 06, 2017 |
I just dey wonder why guys here are saying leftover, and not even think that lady is somebody else sister oo.even they know it can be their junior Sister one day!!!!!but the most worst part of it is even girls here are saying no ko Jo rara truly women are their own enemy, and to u Op tell ur nephew abi weting u call him about ur ex relationship if he truly love her he will continue if he can't let him leave her be. it look like that lady have already curse abt meeting ur family, let her begin to live her new life!!!!karma is surely coming bk watch out for it. nonsense talk |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Odianose13(m): 12:30pm On May 06, 2017 |
Brother, just tell him before the wedding (without emotions in words). but tell him your affair with her was not sexual ( i do not think the lady will tell him you bleeped her). Cos if u tell ur cousin that u bleeped her, it will always be in his memory and i tell u, he will end his closeness to you and keep a great distance from you (as men consider these actions safe in such situations). Just tell him the lady frustrated your advances and u left her. But please, if really that lady was unfaithful to u or was bleeping a lot of guys in ur area and u just cut your own share...... DO NOT LET YOUR COUSIN MARRY HER!!!!! cos many men will tell him. Just treat it with much maturity and leave the rest to them. Regards. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Snow5(m): 12:31pm On May 06, 2017 |
Mynd44: That person is very insensitive for posting such.. I just tire for the post.. Makes me wanna puke. Just look at his lame man's explanation.. Very opposite with what's on ground. Behave oo |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by lereinter(m): 12:34pm On May 06, 2017 |
this is really hard ooo immediately u saw her pics you should ve mentioned her name to your cousin... he will then question u but u can tell your cousin to show the gal your pics and take it from there |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by dingbang(m): 12:34pm On May 06, 2017 |
Phew |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:35pm On May 06, 2017 |
Funkybabee:Na wa o,karma how?I didn't rape her na,this is just life drama.You can't marry all your admirers or toasters,can you? 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 12:37pm On May 06, 2017 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:38pm On May 06, 2017 |
Odianose13:I don tire self.Thanks for your advice. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by babyfaceafrica: 12:39pm On May 06, 2017 |
daylyt:some friends are closer than family..those are the kind I roll wiyh |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Mpanyi: 12:39pm On May 06, 2017 |
Since it's got to marriage level, don't tell him. But always distance yourself from her. He may find out later about you people's past but by that time they may have had kids and his love for the wife unbreakable. He may feel bad but then there would nothing he can do about it. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:40pm On May 06, 2017 |
lereinter:Bros,dis your advice na gobe oooo(lol) 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by ollymaye: 12:42pm On May 06, 2017 |
permit:Sibling bad, but nothing bad if it's friend... its love that really matter my dear |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Missonas(f): 12:47pm On May 06, 2017 |
Odianose13: He has no right to stop the wedding if thats what his cousin wants. She may have had her past as we all do but what if shes changed? Let the cousin make the decision he dont have to be the third wheel. Maybe this is another test of their love for eachother sef. Love conquers ALL! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 12:55pm On May 06, 2017 |
Missonas:I'm not even the type that interfere in another man's life.I have seen worse scenes in life,till date I'm still keeping them.I have regretted some,while I'm still happy for keeping some.I'm an introvert,I don't like bugs so I don't bug people also. 3 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Missonas(f): 12:56pm On May 06, 2017 |
Mpanyi: How sure are you about that? People react differently to things. You heard the op say his cousin is impulsive. What if he changes completely when he finds out or worse still walks out. What can be healed nw should be healed not nursed. My opinion 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 12:58pm On May 06, 2017 |
Kondomatic: You are right guy! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Atunma(f): 1:08pm On May 06, 2017 |
Because u know the groom abi? Pls lets be mature , if I were the one, I will attend my cousin's wedding and let the girl deal with it her own way. We dated before and parted amicably, kini big deal? All u guys who are dating non virgins are eating left overs. Besides this guy is not ur blood brother which means you do not get to see them regularly. Abeg no use ur aproko spoil their marital bliss. If ur conscience dey wound u , u can look for a perfect excuse for not attending the wedding. If u must attend, relate as acquaintances. Old tins have passed and behold everything is new. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Missonas(f): 1:09pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: I get you. Life just happened which is normal the main thing now is how you handle. You can choose to bottle it all up and stay away or still ease up your conscience and let it all out. But you should be ready for whatever happens after that. Their reactions and relationship with u may be affected aftr u spill be ready. And then again if u decide not to spill, be ready to distance yourself 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by SmartyPants(m): 1:12pm On May 06, 2017 |
Youdondeymad: Why not just tell him the plain truth and leave him to make his decision? Why are you people so inclined to tell lies to protect yourselves? Cowards! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by kizyalex10(m): 1:16pm On May 06, 2017 |
The question should be,is the girl a marriage material?since u have dated her before,if yes then no problem,keep it low Nd avoid letting ur bro knw,maybe after the wedding u can tell him. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by kizyalex10(m): 1:17pm On May 06, 2017 |
kizyalex10:or discuss with d girl bfor deciding |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 06, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: Oh I see.. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 1:20pm On May 06, 2017 |
Atunma:Point of correction madam,please I'm not an "aproko"(no hard feeling).Some of you are deviating from the main issue,I'm not angry with them.I'm very happy that they are getting married,I'm only looking for ways to stay out of their lives for good.If you think I'm jealous,you are on a long thing(lol).I don't want my ex to cause commotion on that day,my family won't forgive me,I'm just praying for her to comport herself. 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Youdondeymad: 1:22pm On May 06, 2017 |
SmartyPants:Do you think the lady and her family would be happy with me if my cousin break up with her,we are Africans bruh....moreover there's no need for your last word,there's nothing cowardice in this matter(no offence).Thanks for your contribution though. 3 3 |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Papichulo8888(m): 1:39pm On May 06, 2017 |
Well!!! My own opinion, was she a responsible babe when u guys dated? what causes the break up? if she not good for your cousin, if better you let him know before is too late ,but if is the other way round, you just mind your own business and wish them best of luck.... you can even attend the wedding , since there's nothing to hide and she didn't messed up while you guys were dating. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Sibling Or Friend Once Dated? by Noniee: 1:45pm On May 06, 2017 |
Nop, i cant marry! |
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