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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by ipreach: 9:02am On May 10, 2017 |
SammyAx: Maybe you will look for a man that will buy you gold. You are too materialistic. You fought him when you have not even married to him? Myself, I cannot even date a lady like you no matter your profile 11 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by positivelord: 9:02am On May 10, 2017 |
My dad gave them a small price because he said we don't need their money and he is not selling me. But the problem was that the boxes of items they were to bring for me ended up being all cheap stuff, not even one single set of gold jewelry. My mum was unhappy and embarrassed, and i was terribly unhappy too. The above quote is not just contradictory but scary. If he visits you in the U.S as often as possible I guess he is well-to-do , but you feeling "terribly unhappy" about cheap box of gold, just define you. Baby girl, take a deep reflection. seven years together is a long time and am surprise you have not ascertain compatibility. 7 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Kelvin1971(m): 9:02am On May 10, 2017 |
You prefer gold so go and marry gold how can you say because he buy gold and silver in the box you decided to quarrel him now you lost him 8 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Cornerstone001: 9:02am On May 10, 2017 |
madone: Thank you, this have really spoke my mind. This piece is enough for OP to learn and mend her way too. 3 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by PatriotTemidayo: 9:03am On May 10, 2017 |
daclint: By blood, I am not, but by philosophy and spirit, I am to the core. One love brotherly. 3 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Zane2point4(m): 9:03am On May 10, 2017 |
I sometimes wonder why nairaland is full of rhetoric and hate speech. Just reading through the advices here and cant help but wonder why is everyone causing and abusing someone who seeks advice fron this forum. If you think she was wrong, critice her in a matured way and give advice,pls make una go learn from quora.com on how those guys behave even Nigerian guys there say somthing reasonable everytime. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:03am On May 10, 2017 |
Best Decision the dude will ever make and I'm sure he won't regret. You and your parents should go and mold who will send you real Gold. Nonsense. Obviously the guy ain't broke since he travels down to US to see you from time to time. 8 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Jaabioro(m): 9:04am On May 10, 2017 |
madone:OP follow this pieces of advice and it be well with your relationship anything outside this I would personal help you sing in Fela song "Wahala dey look for " 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by lustra89(m): 9:04am On May 10, 2017 |
Wait, like for real, he watch Porn with ur laptop and you picked a quarrel, and because he bought cheap items u also picked a quarrel, then why are u bothered with making things up with him, my friend get down from your high horse and be humble for one's, tomorrow I guess you will quarrel with him for using a sub standard sperm on you 11 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by PatriotTemidayo: 9:04am On May 10, 2017 |
slurryeye2: There's something about Rich and highly educated folks, they want to spread their superiority complex like carpet. 14 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
slurryeye2:What do you mean? The fact is the whites don't do sentiments like blacks and that is why they enjoy life more. If it isn't working,move on! Simple!! 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by sweeterman(m): 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
cos of porn u fight... cos of gold u fight... gehs una matter tire person... He is gone now.. what a 7 wastful years. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by BiggyBamBam: 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
SammyAx: Too much "Americana" made you fight him over ordinary porn movie. Too much "Americana" made you fight him because he didn't buy Gold (Long throat). Too much "Americana made you believe you are the Boss of the relationship (As usual with ladies in the US). Remember, good men are hard to find in America (You must know this). Did you pay for his ticket the times he came to see you? I rejoice for the guy because there is no way you guys won't divorce, were you to get married and have one or two child(ren), because you are a Lady Boss. Then you will take him to court for Child Support payments. Now you have put yourself in square one, you should suspect your mom! May God give the guy a good and understanding woman 21 Likes 1 Share
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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by neocortex: 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
Springsdy456958:Please explain how I am wrong ? |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by otobomax(m): 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
Urukpe: Only the rich marry the rich orientation. Maybe the guy no dey their standard n they'll end up pushing the guy away even if he was meant for her. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by thunderbabs: 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
Cries out? Plz, give her tissue or handkerchief while we say Sorry....iraanu |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by CuddleMe(f): 9:05am On May 10, 2017 |
beautiful232:The one God gave to her she rejected him. Op is a drama Queen, she nag cause of gold which was not among the items on her wedding list. She's a spoilt brat. 5 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by distilledwalex(m): 9:06am On May 10, 2017 |
IamAirforce1:Yo ma niqqa... U just yawn ma mind niqqa. .. 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by otobomax(m): 9:06am On May 10, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: That's the strongest part of African parents. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by PatriotTemidayo: 9:06am On May 10, 2017 |
otobomax: I think she's innocent, she really wanna be with the guy but her parents are playing a smart and subtle rejection intrigue with her mind. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 9:07am On May 10, 2017 |
"A man with a box of gold share not to one hoe". You pick quarrels unnecessarily! Don't do that, if he doesn't love you, he won't wait for 7years, he won't travel over miles to say hello! As for the box of gold by the time you guys settled your dispute you can talk to him in a way that will compel him to do more and give to your parents! Pray for direction, may the Lord guide you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by israelmao(m): 9:07am On May 10, 2017 |
Let go he is not yours. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by HumanistMike(m): 9:07am On May 10, 2017 |
SammyAx: Since you're not for sale, why are you bothered about the costs of his gifts? How much gifts did you give his people? Is he free of charge? He made a dumb move by trying to marry you. He's lucky he corrected the move before it got late. You know my dear, countries in the west and Europe have no respect for men's right. It gets worse when a man marries. Marriage to men in those countries is like giving the woman a fully loaded gun. She may not shoot you but why take that chance? You have already proved you can't control your temper at least twice...and this is before marriage. Wonder what you'll do when you have the full control of the loaded gun. Leave the man alone. He has regained his senses. 27 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by FearFactor1: 9:07am On May 10, 2017 |
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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Jossyfwesh(m): 9:08am On May 10, 2017 |
madone:baba true talk, barman two bottles of star for this man |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by thunderbabs: 9:08am On May 10, 2017 |
You be Mercy Aigbe? You want sympathy from us, abi? Infact, you two are incompatible....types dt quarrel over trivial things |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by nairaman66(m): 9:08am On May 10, 2017 |
He was watching porn and you fought with him? How nice.. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by grafixdon: 9:08am On May 10, 2017 |
Trina0936: Senseless advice. 4 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by kkins25(m): 9:09am On May 10, 2017 |
SammyAx:na wa oh..... the boxes. of items were all cheap stuff" hmmmm.. na diamond and pearls u been dey expect... 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by godswillo550(m): 9:09am On May 10, 2017 |
My dear try another branch there you can get a drum of gold[color=#000099][/color] |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 9:09am On May 10, 2017 |
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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by dangotesmummy: 9:10am On May 10, 2017 |
MASTERCC:haaa.I don't understand your post sir I thought all relationships are all about disagreeing to agree. In every relationship conflicts of interest and plans are inevitable but through it all both parties should be able to come to or reach a happy ending. Conflicts is supposed to enhance relationship or a means to understand your partners idiocyncracies better and not to destroy relationships For example you fight with your boss over how a particular work should go or if he's not seeing it from your perspective. If the said job or boss doesn't reason with you do you because of that resign?don't you find a way of working things out to enhance a better working relationship If you have disagreement woth your siblings because you have different school of thought over a particular issue do you now say because of that you don't want to have anything to do with them The point is friends disagree,office colleagues disagree,church members disagree, parents disagree, couple disagree. Infact anywhere human beings are and there's something valuable at stake there'll always be disagreement but in all the Bible says we should love one another AS GOD LOVED US.God doesn't love us less because we're black,selfish, don't go to church, fat ,slim,white,Muslim, Buddhist, Christian or whatever. He loves us UNCONDITIONALLY even with our human flaws so if you say you are a child of God why can't you love your fellow human being you can see unconditionally irrespective of even though you don't agree on every issue Moreover Yoruba's say because you have headache doesn't mean cutting off the head is the solution. More like you don't throw away the baby with the bath water .in any case who is Mr or miss perfect.we are all imperfect .if you have disagreement with Mr a because you don't agree with him on an issue,you get to the house you quarell with your neighbor because he did this,you get home you quarell with your wife because she did that.please who will you talk to.who will be there for you in times of challenges This talkative woman kemi olunoyo comes to my mind now.who is there for her now that she has fought with everyone 1 Like |
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