So with all your forming you still allowed her to play you. Sorry.

You are working and a woman is your problem in these nigeria that. Girls are now loking for guys that will take them serious.
My friend I hope say u don build house if u haven't that should be your problem and not girls that are so cheap.
As far as i am gettin money,women can never and will never be my problem in these country.

The OP is stupidly obsessed and his lover is a narcissist, she maintains her sources of supply and the empathic men she captures are charmed by her beauty. What love is doing to some men is not good. A girl is fuccking 2 other men and and this OP is just the one whose emotions is crushed.

Is this one a man ?

Go to her house and break up with her. Her house, not yours. Let her decide right there if you are worth being her lover. Terminate if she says no. And move the fucck on.

Tklabelle:


She doesn't want to view her as an easy lay.

are u sure u ar not ogban.....?

Just hopping by.

A girl who doesn't want you to touch her started confessing because she saw another female stuff in your house. There is more to this story because it does not make sense.

What happens der is jealousy whc proves she is into you but if she ddnt see dat wallet in ur table she would av continue giving u red light. Seeing the wallet made her give u green light for the fear of losing u

She said she wants to FEEL YOU.

You need to get some bed Game Bro.

Spice up your Bed Game..

Put her in a situation she can't say NO.

Raine80:
She has two men, you are I don't know what to call you. Side side man? Goes away cannot be contacted yet wants to claim ownership over you. Are you actually this naive? What's wrong with some men? Honestly there is no hope for you.

Dude.. I'm shocked.

She told him she had 2 boyfriends and offered him position 3. At that point - the part where her colleague said "this one pass you" suppose ring for e head but noooo .. ego ( I can get any girl) and konji (disconnects your brain) worked against him.

I am an asshole when it comes to girls. I don't take shit. Girl have called me all sorts of name but I never change - for this very reason; once you appear weak (price you can pay for sex) to a woman , you'll get stripped of all your dignity before you wake up. A man with a good job, moving up in his career should be concentrating on search for a wife that will compliment him, motivate him and stand by his side unconditionally.

OP. If you continue to keep sex as a before your pride, dignity, honor as a man and family name. You will never keep the change in any transaction you make with these women. Think of the number of men she has slept with.. my GOD

prinsam30:
I met this young vibrant, pretty, fair in complexion and charming lady sometimes in January this year, second week precisely, she's a nurse in one of these private hospitals around my work place, very loving and caring lady.

Please guys I want you to take your time and read to the end, please pardon my use of English, thank you.

My story goes like this, I was away from office for like 7months of last year 2016 on a special assignment, I returned to the office after my assignment early January 2017 and I was accelerated to the next level, this acceleration gave me the opportunity to use the facilities of a private hospital located in the area as ours, and be attended to speedily as a core member of the organization.

This hospital is where my organization goes for medical check ups and other health related issues and it was this same hospital I met this beautiful lady, her name is Rebecca and she's 26.

I started liking this lady ever since I set my eyes on her, this very lady is every man's wish to have as a life partner "I for upload her picture but I dey fear make she no com be one of these nairalanders MOD",

I asked around within the office about her but the response I got was not encouraging at all, I took my time, made friends with some of the staff of the hospital just to inquire about this very lady, all they told me was "bros this girl pass ur power oooo" one of my superiors in the office with all his money and ego, tried this very lady out but failed woefully, "as in eh, the girl no send anybody at all" life just tire me but one thing so special about me is that, if I want something I go all out to get it.

So, on a very good day, I summoned up courage, walked up to this lady at the counter, greeted her with a smile on my face and she innocently responded with that kind of acceptance smiling, I asked her if she has seen my face around and she warmly said, "are you not Sam? " wow! Within me there was a burning fire erupting like the Volcanoes, to cut the long story short, she accepted my proposal and we started dating "Pls don't ask me how I did it" but if you really wanna know just inbox me. Lol

At the beginning of the relationship, she told me, two guys are in her life already, one of the guys is a student presently and they grew up together in the same locality while the other one works at the local government secretariat which she met about three years ago and she asked if I can cope with been the third guy, and I gladly accepted. "na who no like better thing"

Around March I went for a one month course, during that period she has missed me so much, I came back first week of April, she invited me to her house, that was the first time of visiting her house and she has never been to my place, I spent the weekend in her place but we never got down, of cause, I tried to, you know but she declined, saying not yet time but later promised that if she visits me, we shall get down.

This has never happened to me before because my first date always ends up getting down.

On that fateful day, she came to my house but to my greatest surprise after a very long fuckplay and touchtouch, she still don't let me do, I said baby what's the problem, this is the second time refusing me of this thing, she replied and said, why am I in so much rush to have it? I was like WTF.

I tried forcing myself through and she said if I succeeded in penetrating her, she will quit the relationship "na for there I give up" and ever since that time we've been visiting each other without touching, kissing and smooching.

Just last two weeks, she started touching me, lying on my body and all that "but I bone her like say I no sabi wetin dey shele "
Last week thursday she visited me and told me she will be on three day off duty and she will like to use that opportunity in visiting her parents which I obliged to, during her visit that Thursday, we had a little quarrel which resulted in me reminding her of how she was giving it to her so called boyfriends and depriving me of that same thing, she was surprised.

I can see the guilt in her face, because I noticed whenever we are together, she doesn't want me to receive a female phone call even if na my mother dey call me and she doesn't want to have that feeling that I'm cheating on her.

We don fight like 5 times because of these issues, as in eh she doesn't want me to fvck around and you know, body no be firewood, at the end sha, we kissed, romanced and still never get down.

After spending the off days with her parents, she resumed work on Monday, we never talked because her phone number was not reachable.

Today been Wednesday, her number finally goes through and she promised she will pay me a visit after she closed from work.

15mins to 5 o'clock I heard someone knocking on my door, I opened the door, alas! She was the one, she cooked, we ate and did some rough play, all this while I never asked for sex and she never either.

she was about to take her leave then she saw a lady's wallet on my computer desk and this wallet belongs to one of my colleagues who visited me with his babe last night and I forgot to take the wallet back to him for his babe at work today, so she was furious and started nagging, to my greatest surprise, what this lady will tell me at the end of her nagging was.

"so you are cheating on me, good, God don catch you today and you have the right to be fucking all these girls and be forgetting their wallet abi? No wonder each time I come visiting, you will only be kissing me, you don't let me to feel you, na kissing I go chop? "

Hearing those words from her I was speechless, this lady actually wants me to fvck her, see me see wahala oooo, I no even sabi wetin I go talk sef or do, because she left angrily without letting me seeing her off, even the match wey I dey watch don comot for my mind.

Please nairalanders what should I do, knowing fully well that, she has deprived me of this same sex since inception, am confused right now. I really need to get down with this lady but don't know how to go about it.

Guys Pls I need your contribution, advise, suggestion whatever abeg, no abuse oooo

prinsam30:
I met this young vibrant, pretty, fair in complexion and charming lady sometimes in January this year, second week precisely, she's a nurse in one of these private hospitals around my work place, very loving and caring lady.

Please guys I want you to take your time and read to the end, please pardon my use of English, thank you.

My story goes like this, I was away from office for like 7months of last year 2016 on a special assignment, I returned to the office after my assignment early January 2017 and I was accelerated to the next level, this acceleration gave me the opportunity to use the facilities of a private hospital located in the area as ours, and be attended to speedily as a core member of the organization.

This hospital is where my organization goes for medical check ups and other health related issues and it was this same hospital I met this beautiful lady, her name is Rebecca and she's 26.

I started liking this lady ever since I set my eyes on her, this very lady is every man's wish to have as a life partner "I for upload her picture but I dey fear make she no com be one of these nairalanders MOD",

I asked around within the office about her but the response I got was not encouraging at all, I took my time, made friends with some of the staff of the hospital just to inquire about this very lady, all they told me was "bros this girl pass ur power oooo" one of my superiors in the office with all his money and ego, tried this very lady out but failed woefully, "as in eh, the girl no send anybody at all" life just tire me but one thing so special about me is that, if I want something I go all out to get it.

So, on a very good day, I summoned up courage, walked up to this lady at the counter, greeted her with a smile on my face and she innocently responded with that kind of acceptance smiling, I asked her if she has seen my face around and she warmly said, "are you not Sam? " wow! Within me there was a burning fire erupting like the Volcanoes, to cut the long story short, she accepted my proposal and we started dating "Pls don't ask me how I did it" but if you really wanna know just inbox me. Lol

At the beginning of the relationship, she told me, two guys are in her life already, one of the guys is a student presently and they grew up together in the same locality while the other one works at the local government secretariat which she met about three years ago and she asked if I can cope with been the third guy, and I gladly accepted. "na who no like better thing"

Around March I went for a one month course, during that period she has missed me so much, I came back first week of April, she invited me to her house, that was the first time of visiting her house and she has never been to my place, I spent the weekend in her place but we never got down, of cause, I tried to, you know but she declined, saying not yet time but later promised that if she visits me, we shall get down.

This has never happened to me before because my first date always ends up getting down.

On that fateful day, she came to my house but to my greatest surprise after a very long fuckplay and touchtouch, she still don't let me do, I said baby what's the problem, this is the second time refusing me of this thing, she replied and said, why am I in so much rush to have it? I was like WTF.

I tried forcing myself through and she said if I succeeded in penetrating her, she will quit the relationship "na for there I give up" and ever since that time we've been visiting each other without touching, kissing and smooching.

Just last two weeks, she started touching me, lying on my body and all that "but I bone her like say I no sabi wetin dey shele "
Last week thursday she visited me and told me she will be on three day off duty and she will like to use that opportunity in visiting her parents which I obliged to, during her visit that Thursday, we had a little quarrel which resulted in me reminding her of how she was giving it to her so called boyfriends and depriving me of that same thing, she was surprised.

I can see the guilt in her face, because I noticed whenever we are together, she doesn't want me to receive a female phone call even if na my mother dey call me and she doesn't want to have that feeling that I'm cheating on her.

We don fight like 5 times because of these issues, as in eh she doesn't want me to fvck around and you know, body no be firewood, at the end sha, we kissed, romanced and still never get down.

After spending the off days with her parents, she resumed work on Monday, we never talked because her phone number was not reachable.

Today been Wednesday, her number finally goes through and she promised she will pay me a visit after she closed from work.

15mins to 5 o'clock I heard someone knocking on my door, I opened the door, alas! She was the one, she cooked, we ate and did some rough play, all this while I never asked for sex and she never either.

she was about to take her leave then she saw a lady's wallet on my computer desk and this wallet belongs to one of my colleagues who visited me with his babe last night and I forgot to take the wallet back to him for his babe at work today, so she was furious and started nagging, to my greatest surprise, what this lady will tell me at the end of her nagging was.

"so you are cheating on me, good, God don catch you today and you have the right to be fucking all these girls and be forgetting their wallet abi? No wonder each time I come visiting, you will only be kissing me, you don't let me to feel you, na kissing I go chop? "

Hearing those words from her I was speechless, this lady actually wants me to fvck her, see me see wahala oooo, I no even sabi wetin I go talk sef or do, because she left angrily without letting me seeing her off, even the match wey I dey watch don comot for my mind.

Please nairalanders what should I do, knowing fully well that, she has deprived me of this same sex since inception, am confused right now. I really need to get down with this lady but don't know how to go about it.

Guys Pls I need your contribution, advise, suggestion whatever abeg, no abuse oooo

...ok ..so u sayin babe open for u an u refuse to enter?....WTF.
.bro..we give up!!!! (No oofensece)

Mtcheeeew

I think sey na something serious

Most times girls say one thing but mean another, half the time they barely know what they want.. and some of them want you to force em before they agree to ur terms maybe she is one

prinsam30:
wetin dey vex me sef na this statement wey she make.....

No wonder each time I come visiting, you will only be kissing me, you don't let me to feel you, na kissing I go chop? "

this statement keeps ringing in my brain, she actually wants me to fvck her, then why is she stopping me

You simply failed to locate/ touch certain sensitive parts of her body which could have triggered her to lay * yakata* for you. Do more next time

op if your story is true i ve a feeling your nurse is married or in a serious relationship just using u to rundown time at her work location

prinsam30:



bros, ko n se beye Ke, settle down and read the content again

I don read am, oponu no e Jo, you deserve slap, if to say na me , DAT gal for don collect kondo tay tay.

Frankicent:
bros I like you... You be comfam alphamale....women are bended with complains and trouble.... my apologies. You won Bleep.... you rushing.... you no Bleep.... You not a man..... women....Now. you've succeed in making her jealous that wallet just made know she aren't the only one. So her Sakara go melt.
My advice ingore her for a while. No calls, no vist, no text.
Can't expose all here pm me....


One Thing I notice from women during pre-intimacy if she says no don't stop.... act like your libido is gonna explode..... or kinda you must yash her..... b4 you no she go melt..... lolz... bros pm me make i add you to our alpha men pack group on whatsapp..... plenty gist, advice,Tori dey ooooooo, meet more alphas......

thanks man, I will do that

O.p not go and look for a wife when the sun is shining brighter for you. Be looking for how to eat her kpekus. If you don't eat kpekus and break up with her to concentrate on more important things will you die?

Somebody told you she has two boyfriends already but cos of your greed for kpekus you accepted the crown to be a third mugu.

Now tell me, since you knew this lady, has your feelings ran deeply for her? Sincerely ask yourself, if you love her or just a lust thing.

All I see are signs of lust. May kpekus not destroy your life. Stay there o, be looking for green light till it lands you in trouble.

This is how you look when she refuses you to chop kpekus.
She has your mugu and mumu button.
*disorganized and pathetic *

Only1mi:
So with all your forming you still allowed her to play you. Sorry.

my dear it's not like that oooo, the thing get as e be o jare

technicallyrich:
You are working and a woman is your problem in these nigeria that. Girls are now loking for guys that will take them serious.
My friend I hope say u don build house if u haven't that should be your problem and not girls that are so cheap.
As far as i am gettin money,women can never and will never be my problem in these country.

Bro I'm not saying women na my problem na, try to understand the content and where I'm going to, thanks anyway

Billyonaire:
The OP is stupidly obsessed and his lover is a narcissist, she maintains her sources of supply and the empathic men she captures are charmed by her beauty. What love is doing to some men is not good. A girl is fuccking 2 other men and and this OP is just the one whose emotions is crushed.

Is this one a man ?

Go to her house and break up with her. Her house, not yours. Let her decide right there if you are worth being her lover. Terminate if she says no. And move the fucck on.

nice piece u got there, but my emotions are still intact, I think I'm not obsessed and in my write up I never mentioned love, this is pure LUST, all I ever wanted was 63X, take ur time read the content again

SillyeRabbit:
A girl who doesn't want you to touch her started confessing because she saw another female stuff in your house. There is more to this story because it does not make sense.

that's the whole truth, the complete truth and nothing but the truth

shabidu:
What happens der is jealousy whc proves she is into you but if she ddnt see dat wallet in ur table she would av continue giving u red light. Seeing the wallet made her give u green light for the fear of losing u

I think ur right, she's a very jealous type

biz2get:
She said she wants to FEEL YOU.
You need to get some bed Game Bro.
Spice up your Bed Game..
Put her in a situation she can't say NO.

great point

TheCabal:


Dude.. I'm shocked.

She told him she had 2 boyfriends and offered him position 3. At that point - the part where her colleague said "this one pass you" suppose ring for e head but noooo .. ego ( I can get any girl) and konji (disconnects your brain) worked against him.

I am an asshole when it comes to girls. I don't take shit. Girl have called me all sorts of name but I never change - for this very reason; once you appear weak (price you can pay for sex) to a woman , you'll get stripped of all your dignity before you wake up. A man with a good job, moving up in his career should be concentrating on search for a wife that will compliment him, motivate him and stand by his side unconditionally.

OP. If you continue to keep sex as a before your pride, dignity, honor as a man and family name. You will never keep the change in any transaction you make with these women. Think of the number of men she has slept with.. my GOD

ur taking it all wrong, this is a game of LUST, and Wat makes u think finding a wife is the alpha and omega in a man's life....

thanks anyway

rex444:
Most times girls say one thing but mean another, half the time they barely know what they want.. and some of them want you to force em before they agree to ur terms maybe she is one

another great point

lereinter:

op if your story is true i ve a feeling your nurse is married or in a serious relationship just using u to rundown time at her work location

she's not married but in a complicated relationship

Ginaz:
O.p not go and look for a wife when the sun is shining brighter for you. Be looking for how to eat her kpekus. If you don't eat kpekus and break up with her to concentrate on more important things will you die?

Somebody told you she has two boyfriends already but cos of your greed for kpekus you accepted the crown to be a third mugu.

Now tell me, since you knew this lady, has your feelings ran deeply for her? Sincerely ask yourself, if you love her or just a lust thing.

All I see are signs of lust. May kpekus not destroy your life. Stay there o, be looking for green light till it lands you in trouble.

This is how you look when she refuses you to chop kpekus.
She has your mugu and mumu button.
*disorganized and pathetic *

absolutely correct, this is just lust, nothing else, sorry I'm not the type that settle down with a woman, I'm not the marriage type, I do my package based on Contract and that has produced me 3 beautiful girls, the eldest already in 300L in the University at 17. thanks anyway

Tklabelle:


She doesn't want to view her as an easy lay.

U nailed dat fucker!!!!!! N girls dat form like dat are not my favourites!!!! She has like 2 other guys in her life so y WTF isnt she giving OP some of dat action? Ladies n drama!!!

prinsam30:




nice piece u got there, but my emotions are still intact, I think I'm not obsessed and in my write up I never mentioned love, this is pure LUST, all I ever wanted was 63X, take ur time read the content again

You are confused. The emotion has fuccked up your mind. If sex is all you wanted, there are countless more beautiful women out there, why do you stick to the one that constantly manipulates you while fuccking others. Dont you see how you make yourself less than yourself ? Common dude, snap out of this emotional virus and go to the next strip club for a lap dance. It will make those feelings go away.

prinsam30:



Pls what could be wrong with her? me I dey suspect say she Ogbanje oooo

Nothing like ogbanje. it's your fault, you should have go a head and Bleep her the day she told you 'if you penetrated her she will quite the relationship(is their nature, she was just pretending). The only thing there is, if you win the match (Bleep her well) she will come back begging for more but if loose...

Billyonaire:


You are confused. The emotion has fuccked up your mind. If sex is all you wanted, there are countless more beautiful women out there, why do you stick to the one that constantly manipulates you while fuccking others. Dont you see how you make yourself less than yourself ? Common dude, snap out of this emotional virus and go to the next strip club for a lap dance. It will make those feelings go away.

Don't put ur early morning hunger on d guy na! He already said na lust not love.. U want to tell me u never fvcked a geh on PURE lust D guy already has 3 kids....all he needs is a pussy not a wife!!!
#take a chill pill bro...we alpha males don't sound like U!!!