bennyann:


I Can't remember the last time I was dishonest here. But since this issue is about the future, then I wouldn't say I have the answer but I can tell you about myself.

I've known myself or rather seen myself to be the very faithful and loyal type no matter what except you cut me out yourself. In other words, I expect to remain so in future especially to my husband.

Thank God you said he is all that sweet, we can work the rest out together.

Though I've heard of virgins being loosed once they're married. I don't really know what's in that sex of a thing to make one change that much but I know one thing for sure, I wouldn't disappoint God and my husband by God's grace. Because I live for God, not for myself, therefore I go by His Word.

Good response . God bless you for this .

And I think I will try the 'art of seduction' in solving the issue also . That's what you've taught me so far

Haaa ... but I'm okay with that being the only thing I've taught you so far . I believe it would help lots of women solve some of their marital problems. You know , women expect too much from men ; I believe the knowledge from this book will help provide the balance needed in the marriage in some areas . Balance in the sense that both parties understand what they should do and how they should go about it .

Seriously, I'll do all I can to work it out together with him. Besides there are women who have lived without sex yet they survived, so anyone out there can survive If they really want to.

Sex is over-hyped I think . The people who believe man's purpose in life is to seek pleasure and avoid pain promote pleasure-seeking ; they make people see sexual pleasure as a priority and should be pursued at all cost . Life can be so good between a couple full of joy and happiness without sex . Imagine women being in abusive relationship because the sex is good - shallow thinking .

God forbid my husband won't be good in bed though because I expect to learn a lot from him rather

Sure babe

postmann:


Of course. And I don't see any reason why it should be hard for you to fathom.

Or maybe you need an elementary arithmetic analysis of my total posts or topics on here and how much time was dedicated to romantic overtures with how many ladies.

I'm not the good guy but chasing or seducing women is not what I'm known for here.
You may want to look beyond my brief and rare stint exchanging romantic correspondence with less than a handful of lucky ladies.

There's quite a lot more about postmann.

The bolded, you're known for it in other places?

Ok. I went through some of your posts and I realized you have a Godly stance on almost everything.

I guess your romantic poetic words with Ishilove gave a different version of you but my my, where did you get all that from? You wouldn't blame them, would you?

And how come you were able to combine the two, I mean romance and God? it's quite rare you know.

From the little I skimmed through I can say it was just all for the play, jokes and entertainment. But you know yourself best

I doubt if you can play that romantically outside here. I really doubt it.

Analice107, postmann only played around for some few minutes. just as he said, it was indeed "a literary gift of which only a fragment was deployed for romantic entertainment"

Cc: KingEbukasBlog

temi4fash:


Hmmmm..

Prayers, patience and understanding can change fate

Thank you dear. Thumbs up!

bennyann:


The bolded, you're known for it in other places?

Ok. I went through some of your posts and I realized you have a Godly stance on almost everything.

I guess your romantic poetic words with Ishilove gave a different version of you but my my, where did you get all that from? You wouldn't blame them, would you?

And how come you were able to combine the two, I mean romance and God? it's quite rare you know.

From the little I skimmed through I can say it was just all for the play, jokes and entertainment. But you know yourself best

I doubt if you can play that romantically outside here. I really doubt it.

Analice107, postmann only played around for some few minutes. just as he said, it was indeed "a literary gift of which only a fragment was deployed for romantic entertainment"

Cc: KingEbukasBlog

No no.no, i didn't say he was serious about anything. There were all jokes or shd i say Yabbies? He was making fun of some ladies who called themselves Feminists.
His words play was what i meant not that he is a bad guy, far from it.
@postmann, biko, i didn't mean it badly.

KingEbukasBlog:


Good response . God bless you for this .



Haaa ... but I'm okay with that being the only thing I've taught you so far . I believe it would help lots of women solve some of their marital problems. You know , women expect too much from men ; I believe the knowledge from this book will help provide the balance needed in the marriage in some areas . Balance in the sense that both parties understand what they should do and how they should go about it .



Sex is over-hyped I think . The people who believe man's purpose in life is to seek pleasure and avoid pain promote pleasure-seeking ; they make people see sexual pleasure as a priority and should be pursued at all cost . Life can be so good between a couple full of joy and happiness without sex . Imagine women being in abusive relationship because the sex is good - shallow thinking .



Sure babe

Boss,

Wonderful discuss do far and i have learnt from it.

I would say its a fallacy of hasty conclusion for you to make that statement.

Though i respect it as your opinion.

But the trick there is under-rating sex is a very dangerous thing because you can never guess how you would respond to it.

A weapon as you said that has brought down great men and a weapon the devil uses to cart away people's glory, virtues among others you call it over hyped.

Bro, i think it worth the hype, Worth the hype so that you get understand and consciously guide oneself away from falling victim.

@ the topic

Most Godly girls have meet and seen are usually very stubborn and domineering

For me, i believe the part where ladies are emotional being makes them all the same whether Godly or Ungodly

So the basic principle applies which having to the wooing and the likes, the only difference is the type and anture of the convo and among other.

What make the ungodly as we call it for the purpose of the thread is the fact that ungodly ladies usually know to make themselves available,

even if the guy is shy or nice as the case maybe, they then to understand the dynamism and get to make friends with him or encourage him

and the story continues.

@MZlady39

Whether you are 39 or 50 or 100, the major thing is you are alive enjoying God.

Don't let any body whether tongue speaking, spirit moving or any other form make you feel less.

Just forgive yourself, try and heal if you have not, and if you have be double sure you have.

Though i believe its good to share one's story, well everyone has done one or two things they are not proud about.

I believe if you dont heal properly discussing about it in the wrong circle can make begin to worry all over again

What i tell ladies who believe they have a bad past or did not chose rightly back in the days is....

That you are alive and that decision did not kill actually means God has a wonderful agenda for you life.

Accept it as who you were, made you thick, and out of it you have become a better person. the so called people saying otherwise might have contemplated suicide self.


To all the Godly ladies who are believing God for the bones of their bones and the flesh of their flesh, you would not be disappointed and those that are going through a bad marriage as a result of lack of patience i pray the lord would heal the marriage and add salt to it as he did through his servant Elisha to that bitter river.

its friday yipeeeee

bennyann:


The bolded, you're known for it in other places?

Very probing!
My values here are same as in the real world.

bennyann:

Ok. I went through some of your posts and I realized you have a Godly stance on almost everything.

This is true. It's arguably the most distinguished feature I exhibit here.

bennyann:

I guess your romantic poetic words with Ishilove gave a different version of you but my my, where did you get all that from? You wouldn't blame them, would you?

That's true, a clear divergence from the usual. Though it wasn't actually the first - there have been some flashes of some much subdued romantic banter with a couple of other actors which could be termed OK. Entertainment or amusement was the chief factor behind it.

But the one in question was of a league of its own. It was more than was bargained for. No one is to blame. Sometimes the wind has a mind of its own and the sailor may find himself in an uncharterd waters.

Jerimaiah 8:4 comes to mind:

"When people fall down, don't they get up again?
When they discover they're on the wrong road, don't they turn back?"

bennyann:

And how come you were able to combine the two, I mean romance and God? it's quite rare you know.

The Christian notion that the GODly ought to be less romantic or less gifted in the field of romance must be dispensed with.

While we discourage immorality and indiscriminate and disproportionate application of romantic overtures, it is an essential part of good, healthy and sustainable relationship. Its proper application is quite GODly. You must not consider it strange when GODliness blends seemslessly with romance in an individual. You may only frown at its misuse of which I have been culpable.

bennyann:

From the little I skimmed through I can say it was just all for the play, jokes and entertainment. But you know yourself best

Mostly. A little bit of a mixed bag.

bennyann:

I doubt if you can play that romantically outside here. I really doubt it.

It shouldn't matter.

bennyann:

Analice107, postmann only played around for some few minutes. just as he said, it was indeed "a literary gift of which only a fragment was deployed for romantic entertainment"

Cc: KingEbukasBlog

Sacarsm noted and understood.

Nice being your guest in today's Up and Personal chat show.

analice107:

No no.no, i didn't say he was serious about anything. There were all jokes or shd i say Yabbies? He was making fun of some ladies who called themselves Feminists.
His words play was what i meant not that he is a bad guy, far from it.
@postmann, biko, i didn't mean it badly.

I never said you did.

temi4fash:


Boss,

Wonderful discuss do far and i have learnt from it.

I would say its a fallacy of hasty conclusion for you to make that statement.

Though i respect it as your opinion.

But the trick there is under-rating sex is a very dangerous thing because you can never guess how you would respond to it.

A weapon as you said that has brought down great men and a weapon the devil uses to cart away people's glory, virtues among others you call it over hyped.

Bro, i think it worth the hype, Worth the hype so that you get understand and consciously guide oneself away from falling victim.

Thanks

But people are quickly drawn to it because of the hype - it piques their interest and they'd love to pursuit it at all cost . Very detrimental

bennyann:


The bolded, you're known for it in other places?

Ok. I went through some of your posts and I realized you have a Godly stance on almost everything.

I guess your romantic poetic words with Ishilove gave a different version of you but my my, where did you get all that from? You wouldn't blame them, would you?

And how come you were able to combine the two, I mean romance and God? it's quite rare you know.

From the little I skimmed through I can say it was just all for the play, jokes and entertainment. But you know yourself best

I doubt if you can play that romantically outside here. I really doubt it.

Analice107, postmann only played around for some few minutes. just as he said, it was indeed "a literary gift of which only a fragment was deployed for romantic entertainment"

Cc: KingEbukasBlog

I really want to know how he got the skill . If only he realizes the power he possesses .

temi4fash:



@ the topic

Most Godly girls have meet and seen are usually very stubborn and domineering

For me, i believe the part where ladies are emotional being makes them all the same whether Godly or Ungodly

So the basic principle applies which having to the wooing and the likes, the only difference is the type and anture of the convo and among other.

What make the ungodly as we call it for the purpose of the thread is the fact that ungodly ladies usually know to make themselves available,

even if the guy is shy or nice as the case maybe, they then to understand the dynamism and get to make friends with him or encourage him.

To all the Godly ladies who are believing God for the bones of their bones and the flesh of their flesh, you would not be disappointed and those that are going through a bad marriage as a result of lack of patience i pray the lord would heal the marriage and add salt to it as he did through his servant Elisha to that bitter river.

It's Friday yippeeee

It seems the way I was seeing most Godly men when I opened this thread is how you see most Godly ladies.

Hmmm
God help us and give us the grace to enjoy each other wherever we find ourselves.

It means it boils down to pride on both sides in the eyes of each gender.

Are you a shy person?

A big Amen to the bolded.

bennyann:


It seems the way I was seeing Godly men when I opened this thread is how you see Godly ladies. Hmmm
God help us and give us the grace to enjoy each other wherever we find ourselves.

It means it boils down to pride on both sides in the eyes of each gender.

Are you a shy person?

A big Amen to the bolded.

Kind off....

@bolded

Yes it does...

analice107:

No no.no, i didn't say he was serious about anything. There were all jokes or shd i say Yabbies? He was making fun of some ladies who called themselves Feminists.
His words play was what i meant not that he is a bad guy, far from it.
@postmann, biko, i didn't mean it badly.

Oh no! He knows you were all heaping romantic praises on him. That's all
Nothing bad sis.

postmann:


This is true. It's arguably the most distinguished feature I exhibit here.

I love that.

The Christian notion that the GODly ought to be less romantic or less gifted in the field of romance must be dispensed with.

While we discourage immorality and indiscriminate and disproportionate application of romantic overtures, it is an essential part of good, healthy and sustainable relationship. Its proper application is quite GODly. You must not consider it strange when GODliness blends seemslessly with romance in an individual. You may only frown at its misuse of which I have been culpable.

It shouldn't matter.

it should matter judging from what you preached above. But it isn't a must to tell here.

Sacarsm noted and understood.

Finally I got your sarcasm

Nice being your guest in today's Up and Personal chat show.

Not really. It's rather an honour having you here after my inability to recognize one worthy of recognition. My bad

A happy Friday to you.

KingEbukasBlog:

Thanks

But people are quickly drawn to it because of the hype - it piques their interest and they'd love to pursuit it at all cost . Very detrimental

Very detrimenta?l.... Yes

Worth the hype?.. Yes it does....... Some thing very good but can be dangerous if done outside confines in which it was made for.. is definitely worth the hype

But are the information well communicated?... Nah.. Most people love it but hate the consequence

And the fusing of western culture with ours thereby causing a watering down of the age long principle has done to us more harm than good

Phew I am bored here..where are the good godly single ladies... Come and take me out

KingEbukasBlog:


I really want to know how he got the skill . If only he realizes the power he possesses .

postmann help!

temi4fash:


Kind off....

@bolded

Yes it does...

Ok. Once we have identified the problem the solution becomes easy. So it's left for the good boys and girls to know how to wisely combine love and humility to the success of their relationship.

You don't know if you're the shy type?

bennyann:


Ok. Once we have identified the problem the solution becomes easy. So it's left for the good boys and girls to know how to wisely combine love and humility to the success of their relationship.

You don't know if you're the shy type?

Before they get to the relationship nko...

Once they handle the friendship stage well, the relationship would not be an issue cos they would already understand themselves basically

But then if the friendship is not well handled instead of progressing to the relationship he gets zoned

Its even been friends self that is major headache,

That why in school fellowship you scarcely see the good boys/ good girls dating outside their clique or comfort zone.

its either the bible coord is dating drama coord and vice versa.

For me once they cross the friendship stage to the dating/courtship am sure they would be good.

Most times they dont get to cross.. Cos the guy is usually zoned or seen as not been spiritual enough..

Sometimes even doctrinal differences causes all these issues too

@ bolded

I know am shy but i talk alot so it covers for shyness so when i tell people am shy they tend not to believe me

KingEbukasBlog:


I really want to know how he got the skill . If only he realizes the power he possesses .

I wont mind too...

Make i learn every abeg

temi4fash:


I wont mind too...

Make i learn every abeg

Abi oo

bennyann:


It seems the way I was seeing most Godly men when I opened this thread is how you see most Godly ladies.

Hmmm
God help us and give us the grace to enjoy each other wherever we find ourselves.

It means it boils down to pride on both sides in the eyes of each gender.

Are you a shy person?

A big Amen to the bolded.

Looks like you have a thing for shy guys?

Temi4fash,
Brother....nice to meet you & thank you for your spiritually mature & encouraging words...
The Lord still has 7,000 that have not bowed to Baal.....& you are 1 of them

MZLady39:
Temi4fash,
Brother....nice to meet you & thank you for your spiritually mature & encouraging words...
The Lord still has 7,000 that have not bowed to Baal.....& you are 1 of them

Nice to meet you too sis

No need for the thanks it is what we do as brothers and sisters in Christ...

God bless you...

Continue to love yourself and enjoy God..

Baba is at work

Have a lovely weekend....

temi4fash:




Nice to meet you too sis

No need for the thanks it is what we do as brothers and sisters in Christ...

God bless you...

Continue to love yourself and enjoy God..

Baba is at work

Have a lovely weekend....

I will.....you do the same.

KingEbukasBlog:


Looks like you have a thing for shy guys?

I don't know about that ooo

But I think an outspoken person will do for me because I've lived a very private life almost all my life and I need someone that can change that for me.

I need someone who can tell me he loves me, not someone waiting for me to tell him

You know most shy guys are like that. I only have the time to put a little smile on their faces but not the time to waste time with them. *personal lessons*

bennyann:


I don't know about that ooo

But I think an outspoken person will do for me because I've lived a very private life almost all my life and I need someone that can change that for me.

I need someone who can tell me he loves me, not someone waiting for me to tell him

You know most shy guys are like that. I only have the time to put a little smile on their faces but not the time to waste time with them. *personal lessons*

Lol . Very true . You shouldn't date or associate with people who would reinforce the defects in your life that hold you back . It would only make you unhappy . Those that have the kind of positive nature or attitude you crave for or desire are the type of people you should date or associate with . I respect your decision , its a smart one .

temi4fash:


Before they get to the relationship nko...

Once they handle the friendship stage well, the relationship would not be an issue cos they would already understand themselves basically

But then if the friendship is not well handled instead of progressing to the relationship he gets zoned

Its even been friends self that is major headache,

That why in school fellowship you scarcely see the good boys/ good girls dating outside their clique or comfort zone.

its either the bible coord is dating drama coord and vice versa.

For me once they cross the friendship stage to the dating/courtship am sure they would be good.

Most times they dont get to cross.. Cos the guy is usually zoned or seen as not been spiritual enough..

Sometimes even doctrinal differences causes all these issues too

@ bolded

I know am shy but i talk alot so it covers for shyness so when i tell people am shy they tend not to believe me

Ok. The friendship stage is the basic thing. Understood. But what if she wasn't the proud type but because the guy couldn't approach that's why they couldn't reach the basic stage?

Then the crossing over stage, the guy might be zoned or termed not spiritual enough. Hmmm. This is a big one.

If the guy has voiced out his interest and he was still zoned, that's OK but if he hasn't then I wouldn't call that zoning. And about not being spiritual, God will help us not to look at the outward activities done in church but we should be able to discern if one is aligned with God or not.

About the doctrinal differences I believe if one is for you, God would have prepared the person's heart so by the time you meet, doctrine wouldn't be an issue. Both will come out with a solution easily than when you're not meant to be.

The bolded - shy and talking a lot how come? You mean talking a lot only to those who are very close to you, right? Because I'm sometimes like that.

bennyann:


Ok. The friendship stage is the basic thing. Understood. But what if she wasn't the proud type but because the guy couldn't approach that's why they couldn't reach the basic stage?

Well, that one is in God's hands. There is nothing that can be done about that.
But then most times when a guy likes a girl and they are in the same circle, the girl/lady usually know, how they do i don't know but somehow they get to know and sometimes you see the girl giving the green light and doing all other things to make it easy for him to approach

bennyann:
Then the crossing over stage, the guy might be zoned or termed not spiritual enough. Hmmm. This is a big one.

Very big one....

bennyann:
If the guy has voiced out his interest and he was still zoned, that's OK but if he hasn't then I wouldn't call that zoning.

Sorry what is that called

Rejection??

bennyann:
And about not being spiritual, God will help us not to look at the outward activities done in church but we should be able to discern if one is aligned with God or not.

Amen

bennyann:
About the doctrinal differences I believe if one is for you, God would have prepared the person's heart so by the time you meet, doctrine wouldn't be an issue. Both will come out with a solution easily than when you're not meant to be.

Well, if both are not flexible and open to shifting grounds. But there are some beliefs that most would not change ground on or probably due to one's experience.

bennyann:
The bolded - shy and talking a lot how come? You mean talking a lot only to those who are very close to you, right? Because I'm sometimes like that.

Exactly.... Sometimes hmmmmm....

Hope you had a wonderful weekend...

Let me share a story with you...

Over the weekend i was with a man, young man too but married too.

We just meet and clicked immediately and we started gisting, somehow we got to the part of marriage,life battles and all

Then he told me he meet a girl before he got married, she was every dose of a good girl, easy going, calm and all the many adjectives you can call, funnily she was a virgin too, comfortable too, ( Just so you know how good she was)

Then the bomb shell, He started going out with her, In short he was ready to marry her, But he just realized since the moment the lady got involved in his life, things just started getting hard for him and in short, his life that was all good and all started just getting unnecessarily though.

He said he had to leave her, he just gave her space cos he could not bring himself to tell her, He said the lady did not offend him. He just had to let her go. But he remained friends with her too, after sometime she dated another guy same issue the guy just left too.

said the last time he saw she was not married and she was a good girl....

Life is crazy and so unfair but then the consolation we have is that through the victory of Jesus on the cross, we make life fair to us

temi4fash:


Well, that one is in God's hands. There is nothing that can be done about that.
But then most times when a guy likes a girl and they are in the same circle, the girl/lady usually know, how they do i don't know but somehow they get to know and sometimes you see the girl giving the green light and doing all other things to make it easy for him to approach

It's a pity our individual experiences is somehow deciding for us. like I've decided on how to handle so many issues due to my past experience until the ladies here and a guy's comment made me think twice.

You feel ladies know when a guy is interested in them, well that is said to be unknown until the guy admits it.

I once met a guy who was the quiet type and he was so God fearing even till now, he stammers ( I realised I like the odd things about him ).

He drew so close to me and start calling me on phone daily after collecting my number from someone else. We could talk for hours daily and the conversation was focused on God and the Bible . But after some months, he called no longer as he used to. I was then beginning to wonder why, so I started doing the calling.

It turned out during my time of being the caller, he wasn't as receptive as I had been to him. Most times he acts so snobbish. But it was kind of too late for me because I realized I've fallen for him. That was the first time I've ever been in love - if I'm allowed to call that love. So I kind of felt hurt with how I was being treated.

When we find ourselves in a group, he hides from me and doesn't relate with me at all. He spends time with others more and when we're alone he leaves first. If you ask me why, I'll tell you it's because he was shy of his feelings towards me but I think I'm wrong because he says so

I didn't give up on calling him, though everything he does hurts me from time to time but it seemed I forgot then there were terms like a woman's pride and dignity. I couldn't even tell when and how I told him I loved him on phone .

Because of that he got closer to me, so that was my only relationship and I am not proud of it because it hurts.
We couldn't last because we were kind of having childish arguments like, who loved each other first? Can you imagine? And he will say I loved him first.

Well it wouldn't have been a big deal but I felt I wasn't healed enough with all I've been through. So his answers increased or awaken the hurt in me. I then had to admit that the foundation of our relationship was not strong at all and if we continue building on that foundation, none of us would be happy. Because he can only be happy if I am but if I'm not then the relationship is as good as dead. During one of those arguments I let off my guard and call him some names like he isn't wise enough with the way he is going about it all and I think he is acting stupid. Well, that ended it all. Everything ended there because I was becoming who I wasn't and I was using the opportunity to take away his respect which I know no man like to trade for anything.

How can I tell him, he isn't wise or he is stupid?. God doesn't like that too. I hurt myself for saying those things to him also because I loved him. But I've forgiven myself and I know God has forgiven me. I also asked the guy to forgive me but one thing I never did was for me to ask him to take me back since that's what he wants.

We trust each other so much that he seeks my advice before doing anything. Anything I tell him now he believes, I don't know why but maybe because he knows the kind of person I am and what I can do.

You know how we put God into the wrong picture? The guy told me he prayed to God that anyone who is for him should tell him she loves him first. When he told me that I was shocked and I was like then that would be unfair of God if He actually made me do that because I feel I don't deserve that kind of a start in a relationship especially since I haven't involved myself in any before, all because I want to please God and don't want to make any funny mistakes when it comes to relationships.

So you see why we're on the different side of the divide?

How can you be so shy and you wouldn't know when or if you should propose to that lady? What's then stopping you from doing that when you see you're connected and she has all the qualities you need and want.

It's a pity I love him no more though he is good and Godly. I really prayed for God to take that love for him away from my heart. And I can't believe it worked because I know and everyone else knew how much I loved him. I have a great feeling he let all these played out easily because he saw I loved him than he does.

At a point in time, he even explained why he stopped calling me from the start. He said he realized I was having feelings for him and that was why he withdrew.

How can someone who is shy, know how to destroy the emotional pride of a lady? It doesn't make sense to me. Is that shyness or pride?


Temi4fash, I'm telling you all these so you won't pet your shyness and let go of whom you know you shouldn't let go. You have your story and I have mine and it makes both of us not to agree in some ways. But I hope you see now you don't have to feed your shyness when you shouldn't. I don't know if I should call it shyness anymore than I should call it pride. But you should know when to let it go

No matter how you see it and how you take it, the standard is for the man to speak first. So if you're rejected it shouldn't be a big deal because that's your calling. It's ladies who feel bad when they're rejected because it wasn't their original responsibility.

If you want to wait for the feeling to be mutual, fine. But when you see it's mutual, don't hesitate any longer for your type who is shy

Exactly.... Sometimes hmmmmm....

Hope you had a wonderful weekend...

Ok. I say sometimes or should I rather say most times cos I think I'm more of an introvert than an extrovert.

Yes dear, my weekend was very OK. Thanks.

temi4fash:
Let me share a story with you...

Over the weekend i was with a man, young man too but married too.

We just meet and clicked immediately and we started gisting, somehow we got to the part of marriage,life battles and all

Then he told me he meet a girl before he got married, she was every dose of a good girl, easy going, calm and all the many adjectives you can call, funnily she was a virgin too, comfortable too, ( Just so you know how good she was)

Then the bomb shell, He started going out with her, In short he was ready to marry her, But he just realized since the moment the lady got involved in his life, things just started getting hard for him and in short, his life that was all good and all started just getting unnecessarily though.

He said he had to leave her, he just gave her space cos he could not bring himself to tell her, He said the lady did not offend him. He just had to let her go. But he remained friends with her too, after sometime she dated another guy same issue the guy just left too .

said the last time he saw she was not married and she was a good girl....

Life is crazy and so unfair but then the consolation we have is that through the victory of Jesus on the cross, we make life fair to us

It's such a sad story. I pray the one who will turn her destiny for good will locate her.

I'm so short of words but God please change her story, put songs of praise and wonderful testimony on her lips. Amen!

bennyann:


It's such a sad story. I pray the one who will turn her destiny for good will locate her.

I'm so short of words but God please change her story, put songs of praise and wonderful testimony on her lips. Amen!

Amen




Well, My own shyness no reach that level abeg....

My father would be disappointed me, and i walked so many bad guys though people wonder, how am able to live such a very wonderful and Godly life even after rolling with them. When i have to talk i go talk abeg no time to check time..

These your story brought bitter sweet experience to me.

I was in that guys shoe at one point when i use to tell the lady that same statement, then one day we had these ish una mehn, the way she para eh, i was life Jeezzz wetin be dis

Una mehn, I look left and right begin, as pa guy wey i be na i no apologize straight but i had to calm her down begin speak many English, then she apologise for her for paraing me too i apologise for tortoring her head.. All in all we were good from then on, it made us stronger and better and so i refrained from making those statements too, but once in a while i use it with humor and we just laff it off..

I dont want to start picking holes how it could have managed the situation, its all in the past now. but i would make some point.

For me, the guy asked God for something and he got it, He asked God to give him a lady that would love him first, he got it, and you were the answer but you didnt like that part cos you felt it should be the other way, your way.. So you asked God to remove the love, the energy you use to ask God to remove the love, you would have ask for him to make the guy love so much that he begin to chase you up and down, dont you think its possible.

Even if you see a vision that a guy is your bobo, as in in revelation, dreams and so on. God has done is part by giving direction making happen is your own job through wisdom managing situations,, the person character and the likes. But ego on our parts usually deny us for so many things.

Especially if we have been in relationship where we felt we were treated the wrong way, Naturally your emotions/fences are up and any small thing you react the other way, not because that is us, but because of that past experience. That is why it is very important to heal and ask God to help us heal from all previous bad experience so it does not affect the future and better ones coming.

Am pretty sure you would get your own boo very soon but you need to heal well of every previous bad experience that way when you need to talk to your friend about an attitude, you do instead of beginning to trigger unnecessary worry and attitude, mehn these guy is acting like A oo, these was how A started these guy too is following these trend, when all you need is talk to the guy like Mr Man wat all these now, i dont like these and these and these, and most times from experience love dai craze gan,you just see the guy changing cos of the lady, for me communication is very key, that why you were friends before moving to the next level so you can talk things through, if he is a Godly man, he will adjust and change.

Sorry for my epistle jawe..

let me stop here..

Enjoy your day