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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 10:59am On May 25, 2017
zeezeegal:
Then Spend It On Her And Stop Complaining... Let Her Get All That U Need... Sentence!



Am lady o
Take it easy grin cheesy
Guys complaining , una see wetin una Don cause shocked . This babe is transferring her aggression on me ! grin
Una better wake up!

Bae,my man spends on me, he knows the rule and he's making it .
Givers never lack.
Am simply advising guys complaining to stop and focus on doubling their hustle and praying more to God for more money ,
Simple .
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Sparklee(m): 11:02am On May 25, 2017
Bad girls everywhere. Their was lady I met few days ago, now she's asking from to make her heir. I don pick race shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by zeezeegal(m): 11:06am On May 25, 2017
alexialin:




Am lady o
Take it easy grin cheesy
Guys complaining , una see wetin una Don cause shocked . This babe is transferring her aggression on me ! grin
Una better wake up!

Bae,my man spends on me, he knows the rule and he's making it .
Givers never lack.
Am simply advising guys complaining to stop and focus on doubling their hustle and praying more to God for more money ,
Simple .
I Garret Now...
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Tonto007(f): 11:11am On May 25, 2017
come and date me...i no get problem...
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by don89(m): 11:22am On May 25, 2017
Bro, I find myself in this kind of bad luck situation too. It's really disturbing.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by mojounited(m): 11:23am On May 25, 2017
Tonto007:
come and date me...i no get problem...
Sure you don't?
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Gudfrie(m): 11:32am On May 25, 2017
26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones
Soup wey sweet na money kill am
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 3verblazing(m): 11:32am On May 25, 2017
Evablizin:
nope
hello namesake

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by sizzlingcold(m): 11:39am On May 25, 2017
jpphilips:


Because you are dumb
and you are dumber for that comment
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 11:41am On May 25, 2017
reereespace:

it is not normal! I am a girl and I do not ask for financial favours from guys expect they offer and even when I do I find a way to return the favour!
it's not normal!!
Men not atm machines, biko
Nice. VicFunTop what's your take?
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by sizzlingcold(m): 11:42am On May 25, 2017
lexy2014:
na lie
Could be true? I have had such experiences, if she ain't into you she will devise means to let you go. Money could be a trick
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Evablizin(f): 11:43am On May 25, 2017
3verblazing:
hello namesake
xup dear dis my first time seeing someone answering dis name
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 11:49am On May 25, 2017
CaraJewel:
Wel dunno.but there are nice gals.me inclusive
Stale
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Abdul124(m): 11:56am On May 25, 2017
All wht u have said has already been said.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by gnykelly(m): 11:57am On May 25, 2017
Joavid:
Let me give you some clues.

* When you approach a girl wearing expensive Brazilian hair, makeup on fleek (which I think is your definition of beautiful) using Iphone7,ask yourself, how is she able to afford that?

If you put all indications together, and you see she definitely can't afford that on her own, flee!!! cos you're about to be her next maga.

*When you meet a girl that's desperately interested in what you do for a living, where you live, if you have properties, flee!!


*when you meet a girl, roaming around a mall for instance, and by your conversation with her, her didn't come for anything in particular, flee!!

*When you go on a date with a girl,and she orders heaven and earth, flee!

*For instance, you're talking to a girl on GSM, and you run out of airtime, she doesn't call back, or never calls you, flee!

* If she's always telling you she has no airtime, data or constantly talking about her problems, flee!

@26andsearching

I don't know about guys, but as a lady myself, I can smell a materialistic lady the moment I meet her.

100% untainted fact... as for me I've taken a step back going on an indefinite break from dating.. this my time to gather.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by sizzlingcold(m): 11:58am On May 25, 2017
My 2 pence advise, you are probably too quick to cut to the chase, see her as a friend first (the kind you talk to on the phone) then gradually work your way up. P.S Don't get stuck in the friend zone
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Ayoolajumoke(f): 11:59am On May 25, 2017
abels:
Guy if u nor b worwor boy dat means u r among guys dat bug women too much and such guys irritate ladies so they wil do evrytin to chase u out.. After d first day toasting bone dem for som time, even if u have their number, do as if u regret even toosing dem. U ll c they will start flashing u, dont call immediately.. The day u ll eventually call warn her never to flash u again nd cut d call guy d grl go de kolo for u.. On ur first dat wit her dont praise her too much, tell her tins like, "for beauty i score u 60/100",tell her" ur make up is too harsh nd it does nt fit ur face", just let her knw u r in charge, guy d babe go de tink of u de wet.. All tis tins if u knw hw to play ur game u ll get any grl of ur dreams


If you do that to a good girl, trust me you're gonna lose her, good girls don't come as cheap, when she sees all the attributes above she's gonna run because she knows that she deserves better.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by gnykelly(m): 12:00pm On May 25, 2017
Joromi1:

Always making sense. cool

But the part I highlighted is not clear to me; are you saying girls can't buy expensive stuff with their own money? I'm sure there are still many independent ladies out there.

the first question you need to ask yourself is. how much is the Nigeria average salary.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by sizzlingcold(m): 12:01pm On May 25, 2017
missmeek:
its obvious you like the good looking girls, the presentable one. am a girl so trust me on this. girls know how to package and hit a maga. you see them fine and you admire, next thing the want your money to look fine for another man to admire and that is how it goes. the fine geh u are seeing is another man's handwork. all this slay queens with no job or businesses depend on guys. I advice you step down a little on your preference or endure till u find a slay queen that is independent. cheers
Can I get to know you?
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by vislabraye(m): 12:04pm On May 25, 2017
Evablizin:
beautiful boy i'm fine

Lolz
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by mctowel01: 12:07pm On May 25, 2017
majekdom2:
it applies to the male gender too.. They turn yahoo yahoo, do sorts of crime, looking for girls to pay their bills. Nigeria has a social problem, this problem is irrespective of gender. The girls and the boys are only a product of the economy they have found themselves. Survival is a critical part of the human nature.
I agree with your oter points except looking for girls to pay their bills. Yes, in everything, there are always exceptions, but look around you, how many guys do you see looking for girls to pay their bills? in what proportion. The male psyche is naturally wired to even detest such. I don't mean online love scam now, which is different... i mean real life. Don't just generalize instances and lies to support your point

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Joromi1: 12:10pm On May 25, 2017
gnykelly:


the first question you need to ask yourself is. how much is the Nigeria average salary.
That doesn't mean some ladies are not above the average.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by gnykelly(m): 12:15pm On May 25, 2017
Joromi1:

That doesn't mean some ladies are not above the average.

very few. iPhone are way above 100k. if a lady can afford that she shouldn't bother you for 3k to plait hair. or recharge card. hope you get the drift.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Joromi1: 12:27pm On May 25, 2017
gnykelly:


very few. iPhone are way above 100k. if a lady can afford that she shouldn't bother you for 3k to plait hair. or recharge card. hope you get the drift.
LOL! Yes, I do. Most women, naturally, tend to be reliant on men to foot their bills even when they're capable. It's the reason we all should encourage true feminism in Nigeria, not women having the right to ride men as some misinterpret it.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by torres89: 12:29pm On May 25, 2017
majekdom2:
that how to is... Likes attracts likes. Do you want to argue it. He is complaining because he is broke or stingy, that's why he attracts such babes... those are the likes. You attract people on your level. When you are well placed or on a particular independent level, you'd attract same.

stop mis quoting the law if Nature

if u did physics which is physical science

u will know like charges repel unlike charges attract ?

that's why it's easy for you to see couples of different career paths
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by mctowel01: 12:34pm On May 25, 2017
neoapocalypse:



That na the old saying , they have updated it. Once you start talking to a girl , you don owe her money be that.
Lol... baba, you stale o.. Now na once you make eye contact, the bills start counting.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 12:39pm On May 25, 2017
CreamyMoltenLar:
Nice. VicFunTop what's your take?


Really. grin. I had to check the moniker and I realized I didn't type that. I value my dignity more than anything in this world, doesn't mean I won't love birthday gifts wink. This is honesty.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by oluogbon0000(m): 12:45pm On May 25, 2017
26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks
you just have to look at your self in the mirror

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by mctowel01: 12:46pm On May 25, 2017
Alphamale2017:
and 9 idiots liked that post . been in charge is all about push and pull . how can u tell him to pull when he has not pushed. he has not even made an impression on her. they don't even know each other yet and you say he should tell her not ever flash him . tell her she is only 60percent beautiful . lol this can only be done on a girl u have firm grip over. when u have made her mad over you not on a total stranger you just exchanged contact with. Na slap you go receive from phone when next u call. you have no emotional grip over her at that moment so this is stupid , u and those other 9 people that liked that shit need some schooling
so true

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 25, 2017
torres89:


stop mis quoting the law if Nature

if u did physics which is physical science

u will know like charges repel unlike charges attract ?

that's why it's easy for you to see couples of different career paths
Crap... I am not quoting physics. I am telling you what's obtainable with living things not science. Likes attracts likes. Your friends are a reflection of who you are in most cases. Who's talking career?? Kids everywhere. I am talking personality.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by ioreth69(f): 12:47pm On May 25, 2017
free2ryhme:


The thing touch you where u no expect abi

Then you be one of dem
hahaha,u dey hyper vex

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