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I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:18pm On May 28, 2017 |
Am sorry guys but this thread is gonna make you feel as depressed as I'm. I think I'm just finding it difficult to relate with friends like I dont know how, when and to what extent to react, like sometimes I go over the board and sometimes I just mum out, I just dont feel sane! Friends, they keep on reminding me how goofed up I'm, infact I'm slightly disabled (just my step no biggie) maybe I dont feel that quality, that fullness that brings confidence that make you feel cool. Recently a girl I realy liked told a friend of mine that I behave like a drunkard cos I was trying so hard to feel game like I overdo it and end up pissing her off. Guys! I feel sad being alive (not thinking suicide though) |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by dingbang(m): 8:20pm On May 28, 2017 |
You think too much.. That's your problem |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:25pm On May 28, 2017 |
dingbang:Is there a possibility of reducing it |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by midehill(m): 8:35pm On May 28, 2017 |
guy drink a lot of beer nd perform madness |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:38pm On May 28, 2017 |
midehill:You are mocking me right? |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by NairalandCS(m): 8:44pm On May 28, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: No he's not. Alcohol helps. Why do you think guys who can't talk to girls are advised to drink before walking up to them. It's helps you loosen up and not overthink. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:46pm On May 28, 2017 |
NairalandCS:Thanks but I dont take alcohol |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by bsideboii(m): 8:47pm On May 28, 2017 |
You are being you...you need to live your life. There's no status quo on how a person should behave as long as you are not breaking the law.Just chill and go with the flow of the moment.... say your mind otherwise..if you've got nothing to say,just be quiet. You are just taking yourself too serious. If may ask how old are you? |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by twisteddaNy(m): 8:51pm On May 28, 2017 |
Op make a research on AVPD it should help |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:52pm On May 28, 2017 |
bsideboii:In my early 20s |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by NairalandCS(m): 8:55pm On May 28, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: Still, you'd have to loosen up. Start by hanging out with a relative you're familiar with, then a very close friend and then friends. You know, baby steps. You'll be fine. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by abbainfotech: 9:02pm On May 28, 2017 |
You may just be an INTROVERT who wants to be EXTROVERTED by all means. Be yourelf dude! 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by bsideboii(m): 9:09pm On May 28, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt:well,you are still on a path of self discovery. Pay more attention to finding your life purpose. Engage in sports,music learn a skill etc. This way,u get to meet people purposefully. And above all maintain a positive outlook about life...It only gets better son. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by firstking01(m): 9:12pm On May 28, 2017 |
Another introvert on the spotlight. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Rukkydelta(f): 9:16pm On May 28, 2017 |
abbainfotech:I can relate I was once like the op was forcing myself to become an extrovert that lead me to a state of depression until I came to a thread on nl introverts longue that was how I embrace myself for whom I am and not what the society wants me to be 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by lashorrt(f): 9:24pm On May 28, 2017 |
Sounds like you are my long lost twin, the way you described yourself that's exactly how I am, I personally enjoy my own company and I bore myself. I don't talk a lot, if I do I get overly excited and annoying. I'm a nuisance if you ask me. I can't even make friends without trembling and mumbling |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by dingbang(m): 9:28pm On May 28, 2017 |
lashorrt:lol...the videos I still can't stop laughing anytime I watch... |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by TosinDru: 9:31pm On May 28, 2017 |
I'll be right back |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 28, 2017 |
Be yourself. Don't force yourself on people. Dress well with good sneakers. Don't borrow none from anyone. Read books. Eat well. Listen to lot of good music. Play games. Live like a king but not a false life. Free your mind... That's all you need. 3 Likes |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Nobody: 9:34pm On May 28, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: Nobody owes you anything... All this disability talk has nothing to do with the present issue at hand. You need to find something you like to do and work at excelling at it. Success in one area of your life will spill into the other, people will notice it and will want to make friends with you. The girls you want are good, but the girls that want you are better . |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:34pm On May 28, 2017 |
iyke926:Maybe you should just add stop talking to people and then it'll be perfect |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:40pm On May 28, 2017 |
TheCabal:I agree totally but sadly I am living with disability and I cant help buh feel and resort to it sometimes |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 28, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: Not stop talking to people totally. I do talk when talked to and especially if the topic interests me. The first time a chic saw me talking for long...she was surprised. You probably bore the sh!t out of your friends and then can't continue the conversation. I never go out chasing after people or trying to do funny things just to make friends. I know girls that are dying to be with my ugly ass ..Be yourself and play it cool. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 28, 2017 |
Baba u r very okay aswear,just smoke shiit often and u will enjoy staying alone always.hehehehehehe |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by mzhorlah(f): 9:56pm On May 28, 2017 |
hmm. I think you lack self confidence and esteem. stop seeing yourself as inferior. no one cme here with a gift on how to interact. stop being negative about yourself. deal with yourself, say positive words to boost your self esteem, then take it one step at a time. am sure you would be fine |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by lashorrt(f): 10:16pm On May 28, 2017 |
dingbang: Issorite. Free amusement for your eyes buddy. |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by drezzyx(m): 11:00pm On May 28, 2017 |
Be yourself |
Re: I Dont Get It, How Do You Interact With People? by IBNgemini: 12:46am On May 29, 2017 |
Day and night The loner stoner seems to free his mind at night. He's all alone all thru the day and night The lonely loner seems to free his mind at night Day and night The lonely loner seems to free his mind at night He's all alone,somethings will never change.... The lonely loner seems to free his mind at night..... Do you,the world will adjust... |
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