ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults

Oyindidi:
Op, pls tell me how she flirt with the guys, I didn't see it in your post

Michellla:
She's obviously not ready for marriage.
Move on

StrawberryGloss:
You must respect yourself first and foremost if you want somebody else to respect you back. What she is doing is a lack of respect. You need to think that the reason for doing that is that she is lacking attention from you, or yours isn’t enough.

Flirting is a symptom of future cheating. Think about it, if you were married.. would you want the mother of your children doing that? Would you be okay with that? It is all about perspective and putting yourself in the shoes of your future self.

Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over.

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults

KelvinCX:
dude get out of that relationship-
I know a girl going out with another guy and she started flirting with me, now I have naked pics of her on my computer and phone and I'm gonna bone her within the next couple of weeks...do you want your fiancee on some other guy's ****?

Aderola15:


Jesu


Some girls sef

Azumoney44:
are you better than her, dont bring jesus into this topic

StrawberryGloss:


How will you see it

Aderola15:


100% better than she is. I don't send nudes and if I'm gonna be doing that for any stupid reason, it's definitely not to a side nigga.


Ps: I don't do things for stupid reasons.

Azumoney44:
pls ask questions before you conclude.

1)Did the guy tell you she sent him nude pix
2) Do you know if the guy snap the pix by himself

I will advise you not to judge without concret investigation.

i'm guilty of number two and assuming I say same thing you will start throeing insult not knowing I snap the pix myself and she didnt send me any nude pix.

now I understand your environmental background upbringing.

Aderola15:


100% better than she is. I don't send nudes and if I'm gonna be doing that for any stupid reason, it's definitely not to a side nigga.


Ps: I don't do things for stupid reasons.

Azumoney44:
pls ask questions before you conclude.

1)Did the guy tell you she sent him nude pix
2) Do you know if the guy snap the pix by himself

I will advise you not to judge without concret investigation.

i'm guilty of number two and assuming I say same thing you will start throeing insult not knowing I snap the pix myself and she didnt send me any nude pix.

now I understand your environmental background upbringing.

Aderola15:


100% better than she is. I don't send nudes and if I'm gonna be doing that for any stupid reason, it's definitely not to a side nigga.


Ps: I don't do things for stupid reasons.

Victornezzar:

Aderola u dey send nudes?

Aderola15:


She started flirting with him first, that should have told you how he got her nudes plus only a deranged person would go about snapping nude without the consent of the other party and I don't go about thinking the worst of people. So, you should understand why I didn't see him in that light. I replied you earlier because I was yet to go through your profile, don't look forward to any mention from me. Au revior

Aderola15:


You want make I send to you?

Victornezzar:

Wat do I need a gal nudes 4
am just saying tho
a man dat isn't ur husband