Victornezzar:
Okay Is d gal fine.....i don't mind hooking up with her but not as a galfriend oo

lol

sekxy:

lol

can't sleep?

I just read reasons why people lie in a relationship, mostly girls [url]http://loveplanets.com.ng/6-major-reasons-why-people-lie-in-a-relationship/ [/url]

dingbang:
can't sleep?

I do wake up early what of you

Well she lied ! And also wants to rope you into telling more lies !
My dear no solution to this .. if it is what she said it is .( why lie in the first place ) that has already broken trust

If it was me I will do exactly what the guy did call it quits .. sexyk you know full well how manipulative we ladies can can be .. ( guys are not that smart ) so that being said do not help her lie as a good friend she should advice her to tell the truth and dance to the music ! If it was meant to be it will be

sekxy:

I do wake up early what of you

hmmm.. I like a girl who wakes up early... Well I am a deep sleeper... I kind of slept early last night so I found myself awake by 2am

Sekxy, would you call your friend a liar on a norm?

dingbang:
hmmm.. I like a girl who wakes up early... Well I am a deep sleeper... I kind of slept early last night so I found myself awake by 2am

lol okay

Aderola15:
Sekxy, would you call your friend a liar on a norm?

she is not a liar
.but I think she lied to impress the guy

sekxy:

please this is long but I will be happy if u can go through and help.. .

So my girlfriend chatted me up some weeks back,in the chat she was like "babe help me".and I asked her what happened and she said that i should do her a favour and lie about giving her some gifts when we were in our year 2,that just incase her boyfriend ask me about the gift that i should claim that i gave her the gift..but i didn't go on to ask her why she wanted me to lie moreover I wasn't comfortable with that so I declined ,we just laughed over it and moved on..


the second issue is that she still keeps contact with her ex,although there is nothing going on between them...,just a normal friendship..all they do is to talk and joke about stuffs because the guy now have a girlfriend and I can testify to that because I'm also his friend..
so my girlfriend's boyfriend asked her about the guy who is now her ex,maybe because the boyfriend has seen the particular contact on her phone severally, ,,she lied and said it's a female (is a name a guy or a lady can answer),because the guy doesn't need any guy around her......fast forward to 2 days back when the boyfriend got her phone and went through her chats and saw the chat on how she's asking me to lie about some certain gift and also a chat on her Facebook as at last 2years when she was sick and I asked her the cause of her sickness and she said it's her then boyfriend who is now her ex we laughed over it... (she mentioned the same ex name in the chat )..The boyfriend after going through the
chat now called the relationship a quit....


please my question now is :
1)since he didn't see any sexual chat between the ex and his girlfriend, why would he break up knowing fully well that it is a hello hi kind of chat.

2)please any advice if she should walk away or beg him...
please I'm confused and don't know the possible solution to this because the boyfriend warned her not to tell me so that i won't beg on her behalf.. .
thanks

He brokeup because the girl was never or can not be trusted,the relationship was filled with lies,,,na wa ooo u con still help ur babe dey lie abi eh,ok oooo just dey go ya own way I nor dey date u again u can't be trusted also..

Lalas247:


Well she lied ! And also wants to rope you into telling more lies !
My dear no solution to this .. if it is what she said it is .( why lie in the first place ) that has already broken trust

If it was me I will do exactly what the guy did call it quits .. sexyk you know full well how manipulative we ladies can can be .. ( guys are not that smart ) so that being said do not help her lie as a good friend she should advice her to tell the truth and dance to the music ! If it was meant to be it will be

lolz

Martin0:
He brokeup because the girl was never or can not be trusted,the relationship was filled with lies,,,na wa ooo u con still help ur babe dey lie abi eh,ok oooo just dey go ya own way I nor dey date u again u can't be trusted also..

hahahahahaha. ..didn't you see where I said that i declined gifting her

sekxy:

hahahahahaha. ..didn't you see where I said that i declined gifting her

so u think say I go follow believ say na there u take start to dey cover for her abi,forget eee according to gordons it has ''dayed''

U como mt that parts na eh,

Lalas247:


Well she lied ! And also wants to rope you into telling more lies !
My dear no solution to this .. if it is what she said it is .( why lie in the first place ) that has already broken trust

If it was me I will do exactly what the guy did call it quits .. sexyk you know full well how manipulative we ladies can can be .. ( guys are not that smart ) so that being said do not help her lie as a good friend she should advice her to tell the truth and dance to the music ! If it was meant to be it will be

eh eh guy's are not that smart abi ok ooo..

Martin0:
so u think say I go follow believ say na there u take start to dey cover for her abi,forget eee according to gordons it has ''dayed''

Lol....I didn't cover her up ...I declined the offer

sekxy:

Lol....I didn't cover her up ...I declined the offer

I nor believ eee nor be u type am...

Why u nor put screen shot

sekxy:

Lol....I didn't cover her up ...I declined the offer

A relationship without trust is like a phone with no
service, all you do is play games..
If it me ah long long time it's been over,I may not even tell her,aww start doing things that will make her realize what she did,I won't even tell her the words or voice it out,she will just see it in me in a very simple manner,,,how will I be living with lies with someone I wish to settle down with mehn women women u pple hmmm like that babe talk @lalas say we nor dey smart,well I never understand weitin dat one stand for,coz all her words when it come to issue like this it definately stands for something..

Martin0:
I nor believ eee nor be u type am...

Hmmm, well who am I to force u to believe me

sekxy:

Hmmm, well who am I to force u to believe me

ee u don forget sekxy wanyi owerri...well u try sha I don hear ya tory,

sekxy:

she is not a liar
.but I think she lied to impress the guy

She lied because she was sure the guy wouldn't handle the truth maturely, she lied out of fear...

Aderola15:


She lied because she was sure the guy wouldn't handle the truth maturely, she lied out of fear...

yeah...she feared because he is just this jealous type

your friend needs to grow up. she shows immaturity by her actions. why lie about things as meagre as these? also, I would not recommend staying in touch with your ex - that relationship ended for a reason, and you're in a new one now. you cannot eat your cake and have it. your friend has to be honest with her self and with her boyfriend (that's if he accepts her back).

There is nothing like a causal friendship between a man and a woman, is either they are sleeping with each other . The ealier you girls understand it the better for you

VargasVee:
The guy has been looking for a reason to walk away a long time.


Is he a baby? She should move on.

That is so not true.

dingbang:
he feels he is dating a liar and girl filled with deceit

God bless u... No friction in ur head at all.. That's just the fact.

sekxy:

Lol. .I asked her and she said she bought it herself,I think she wants the guy to get her a gift indirectly and she doesn't know how to ask

OP I am a bit lost here... Initially u said she told u she got it from her ex and now she said she bought it herself... Pls which one really happened?

IkennaDavid1:
OP I am a bit lost here... Initially u said she told u she got it from her ex and now she said she bought it herself... Pls which one really happened?

I asked her this..the day I posted it here..that was when she told me the truth that she bought it herself

On a second thought, why would anyone go to check his/her spouse's phone chats, call logs or contacts? .. What are they looking for there?.. If they eventually see what they were looking for can they handle it?..


I THOUGHT TRUST WAS SUPPOSED TO BE THE BACKBONE OF EVERY RELATIONSHIP.

sekxy:

I asked her this..the day I posted it here..that was when she told me the truth that she bought it herself

That means she lied to u too... Then she doesn't deserve a good guy..
Secondly I am suspecting she is still sleeping with her ex. That's the only reason why she would tell her bf that it was a fellow girl's contact she saved...
My dear she deserves the BOOT... My advice is, she should amend her ways, become more truthful and open to people and above all forget that guy for now because he won't trust her again in a while.

sekxy:

please this is long but I will be happy if u can go through and help.. .

So my girlfriend chatted me up some weeks back,in the chat she was like "babe help me".and I asked her what happened and she said that i should do her a favour and lie about giving her some gifts when we were in our year 2,that just incase her boyfriend ask me about the gift that i should claim that i gave her the gift..but i didn't go on to ask her why she wanted me to lie moreover I wasn't comfortable with that so I declined ,we just laughed over it and moved on..


the second issue is that she still keeps contact with her ex,although there is nothing going on between them...,just a normal friendship..all they do is to talk and joke about stuffs because the guy now have a girlfriend and I can testify to that because I'm also his friend..
so my girlfriend's boyfriend asked her about the guy who is now her ex,maybe because the boyfriend has seen the particular contact on her phone severally, ,,she lied and said it's a female (is a name a guy or a lady can answer),because the guy doesn't need any guy around her......fast forward to 2 days back when the boyfriend got her phone and went through her chats and saw the chat on how she's asking me to lie about some certain gift and also a chat on her Facebook as at last 2years when she was sick and I asked her the cause of her sickness and she said it's her then boyfriend who is now her ex we laughed over it... (she mentioned the same ex name in the chat )..The boyfriend after going through the
chat now called the relationship a quit....


please my question now is :
1)since he didn't see any sexual chat between the ex and his girlfriend, why would he break up knowing fully well that it is a hello hi kind of chat.

2)please any advice if she should walk away or beg him...
please I'm confused and don't know the possible solution to this because the boyfriend warned her not to tell me so that i won't beg on her behalf.. .
thanks

Is it by chat??
Are you trying to say that she didn't fukk the ex??