So I met this guy at my best friend's boyfriend's birthday party... At that time he was hitting on me but I wasnt interested so I just snubbed him... Then this last weekend, my friend invited me for a hangout and honestly I didn't know it was at the guys house. I got to find out when I got there and I was told. I didn't have a problem with it cuz I felt he would be over trying yo hit on me but he kept hitting on me and I got high, he was high too, one thing led to the other, we started kissing (I wouldn't lie, I was quite aware of everything happening and I didn't try to stop it) from kissing, we went inside. One thing led to another and I had the greatest sex of my life.... Next morning, he made me feel extremely great about myself, it didn't feel like a one night stand, he refused to let me leave that day and made us stay the whole weekend in his house.... I had never felt so wanted and special, he made me breakfast in bed, acted like we were dating and had known each other forever.... But now the problem is I'm scared, i grew to really like him over the weekend but my friend said he's a F**K BOY and she has heard him bragging to her boyfriend about how many girls he has had sex with.... I really like him, he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted and he didn't seem to me like he is a f**k boy.... How do I know if the way he treated me the whole time was just pretence or if he really does like me....

Start counting your loses

Oyindidi:
Start counting your loses

My loses?

You can also form "fuckgirl" and add him to your "body count", that way you too can brag like him

KingGem:


My loses?

Yes, cos your friend may be right

Oyindidi:
Yes, cos your friend may be right

I know but we still talk till now and she checked her boyfriebd's chat with him and they didn't talk about me whereas they usually talk about other girls

na real wa

UnknownT:
You can also form "fuckgirl" and add him to your "body count", that way you too can brag like him

Lol, I've thought of that but I kinda like him and I haven't stopped thinking about him since

girls Like you stopped existing 167BC...
Where the hell did you spring up from??

BiafraBushBoy:
girls Like you stopped existing 167BC...

Where the hell did you spring up from??

Stopped existing? You mean I'm naive?...

KingGem:


I know but we still talk till now and she checked her boyfriebd's chat with him and they didn't talk about me whereas they usually talk about other girls

Don't give yourself false hope. Expect the best and be ready for the worst. Use your head in this case not your heart

KingGem:

Stopped existing? You mean I'm naive?...

Naive is quite nice to describe you...
Bring up something worse...
I am waiting!!

Oyindidi:
Don't give yourself false hope. Expect the best and be ready for the worst. Use your head in this case not your heart

Got it.... Thanks

BiafraBushBoy:


Naive is quite nice to describe you...

Bring up something worse...

I am waiting!!

Stupid?

KingGem:


Got it.... Thanks

welcome dear, be good

KingGem:

Stupid?

Okay.... you are getting there....
One more trial...
Go harder this time!!

BiafraBushBoy:


Okay.... you are getting there....

One more trial...

Go harder this time!!

Lol.... This is weird but this just helped... You might not have intended for it to help but it did so thanks

Papiikush:
Must it always be a relationship? Can't you just continue with the the casual sex?

I guess but I just want to know where I stand and if he's a Bleep boy then I don't think its a good idea since they are often blabber mouths plus I've never had casual sex before

KingGem:



Lol.... This is weird but this just helped... You might not have intended for it to help but it did so thanks

#Safe #Peace

Send your naked pictures to him in which to know if he's gonna expose it or advise you not to do that again.

Olibboy:
Send your naked pictures to him in which to know if he's gonna expose it or advise you not to do that again.

Really nigga? Smh

BiafraBushBoy:
girls Like you stopped existing 167BC...

Where the hell did you spring up from??

She's alien mehhn

KingGem:


I guess but I just want to know where I stand and if he's a Bleep boy then I don't think its a good idea since they are often blabber mouths plus I've never had casual sex before

And you think we can know this from the summary you just put up...




How we supposed to know? Are we magicians

KingGem:
So I met this guy at my best friend's boyfriend's birthday party... At that time he was hitting on me but I wasnt interested so I just snubbed him... Then this last weekend, my friend invited me for a hangout and honestly I didn't know it was at the guys house. I got to find out when I got there and I was told. I didn't have a problem with it cuz I felt he would be over trying yo hit on me but he kept hitting on me and I got high, he was high too, one thing led to the other, we started kissing (I wouldn't lie, I was quite aware of everything happening and I didn't try to stop it) from kissing, we went inside. One thing led to another and I had the greatest sex of my life.... Next morning, he made me feel extremely great about myself, it didn't feel like a one night stand, he refused to let me leave that day and made us stay the whole weekend in his house.... I had never felt so wanted and special, he made me breakfast in bed, acted like we were dating and had known each other forever.... But now the problem is I'm scared, i grew to really like him over the weekend but my friend said he's a F**K BOY and she has heard him bragging to her boyfriend about how many girls he has had sex with.... I really like him, he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted and he didn't seem to me like he is a f**k boy.... How do I know if the way he treated me the whole time was just pretence or if he really does like me....

While you do not toss what your girl-lady said away just like that.....By all means, stay away from any sexual relations with him. And take time to get to know the true person he is at heart, That's the recipe for a successful relationship.

GoldenSpine24:



While you do not toss what your girl-lady said away just like that.....By all means, stay away from any sexual relations with him. And take time to get to know the true person he is at heart, That's the recipe for a successful relationship.

This is very helpful, thanks

KingGem:


Really nigga? Smh

Don't send ur own. look for anyone dah get ur complexion

Olibboy:
Don't send ur own. look for anyone dah get ur complexion

Its a bad idea... And if he sends it around, how many people do I want to start explaining to that its not mine?

let time tell....Be chill about it,don't act clingy aight?

KingGem:


Its a bad idea... And if he sends it around, how many people do I want to start explaining to that its not mine?

my idea is not selling b dah

KingGem:
So I met this guy at my best friend's boyfriend's birthday party... At that time he was hitting on me but I wasnt interested so I just snubbed him... Then this last weekend, my friend invited me for a hangout and honestly I didn't know it was at the guys house. I got to find out when I got there and I was told. I didn't have a problem with it cuz I felt he would be over trying yo hit on me but he kept hitting on me and I got high, he was high too, one thing led to the other, we started kissing (I wouldn't lie, I was quite aware of everything happening and I didn't try to stop it) from kissing, we went inside. One thing led to another and I had the greatest sex of my life.... Next morning, he made me feel extremely great about myself, it didn't feel like a one night stand, he refused to let me leave that day and made us stay the whole weekend in his house.... I had never felt so wanted and special, he made me breakfast in bed, acted like we were dating and had known each other forever.... But now the problem is I'm scared, i grew to really like him over the weekend but my friend said he's a F**K BOY and she has heard him bragging to her boyfriend about how many girls he has had sex with.... I really like him, he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted and he didn't seem to me like he is a f**k boy.... How do I know if the way he treated me the whole time was just pretence or if he really does like me....

You are one of those girls that usually like to upgrade to girlfriend status after the rush in sex....i get...u seem like a good girl that just fucckked up..d problem is..u enjoyed ur fvckup..and u might not mind fvcking up again

The great sex is just confusing u...u actually don't like the guy before u arrived at the crib remember??...

Just take a chill pill, don't go looking for that sex again otherwise u'll start claiming love in less than a week... ...dont visit him, let him come to you....an if he doesn't, move on....if u force it, u'll just become his bitchh..
There's nothing u can do about the situation of a possible kiss & tell...u let ur guard down easily...if u dont let it happen again...mayb u still have one card left to play...i.e if he likes u at all in the first place..