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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Omoedeki: 10:15am On Jul 31, 2017
ymimiz:
Hmm
You this scarmmer. You have started again. You did not credit me the 30Gb I paid for. Now you want to scarm others. go find another work to do.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 31, 2017
vizkiz:
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Just that people are scared they might not get that dream husband/wife/family they've always wanted.

Of Cuz anyone in his/her right mind will feel nervous about getting married! It is a union only separated by death (or signed paper as the case may be).

The only thing that makes the nervous is having to listen to my wife scream in the labor room. Bleep no! I can't stand that. Though I don't know her yet but I know I am go'n love her too much to be able to hear her scream in pains.

Until crack do you part grin grin
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jul 31, 2017
Toyindiva:
Yesso, I will feel so nervous I hope the Mr right will come very soon�����

You gotta be kidding me, there's no Mr. Right

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by femi4: 10:33am On Jul 31, 2017
kennygee:


Abeg, a man who knows God will not beat his wife. Forget that speaking in tongues lie.

God commanded men to love their wives like Christ loves the Church. Any man who isn't doing this isn't pleasing God.
I dey tell you wetin dey happen for Church. I ve seen deacon, pastors, elders having extra marital affairs. It doesn't stop them from mounting the pulpit next Sunday.

A persons character and spiritual life does not always go together

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 10:35am On Jul 31, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

Don't worry. I'm here to help you overcome those issues. And by the way, which part of Ekp do you stay? grin
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

Don't worry. I'm here to help you overcome those issues. And by the way, which part of Ekp do you stay?
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 10:49am On Jul 31, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me
You have just described me,I have a serious phobia for commitment. I panic when its starts getting serious. I just hope i can get past this
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by otabuko(m): 10:56am On Jul 31, 2017
grin
Rorachy:
cheesy.
what about a pm. This Internet thing is possible.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jul 31, 2017
whenever I see a man maltreating his wife, I tell myself I don't ever want to marry
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Chinny5(f): 11:13am On Jul 31, 2017
Awwwwn kissAwwwwn
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Chinny5(f): 11:14am On Jul 31, 2017
vizkiz:
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Just that people are scared they might not get that dream husband/wife/family they've always wanted.

Of Cuz anyone in his/her right mind will feel nervous about getting married! It is a union only separated by death (or signed paper as the case may be).

The only thing that makes the nervous is having to listen to my wife scream in the labor room. Bleep no! I can't stand that. Though I don't know her yet but I know I am go'n love her too much to be able to hear her scream in pains.
Awwwn
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by maryjane247: 11:23am On Jul 31, 2017
marriage is not easy that is why am praying for God to give me a man who will understand and love me despite my imperfection and vice versa...and our home will be heaven on earth
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Chukazu: 11:28am On Jul 31, 2017
Rorachy:
Why won't she make her kids object of love when the man start cheating.

Calm down... Nobody mentioned cheating
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by sieqe: 11:59am On Jul 31, 2017
paybak:
Its a thought i really can't wait seeing turning reality.. God, i really can't wait to become a husband and a father. I really can't wait to see my daughter. God, momma ain't supporting child outside wedlock. I ain't speaking marriage(the event) here buh the after(the family life). Someone should come and beg my babe, she should let us do this jhoor. *Sigh* i'm patiently waiting.

Pretty soon, bruvh. Lol. Same stuff here: patiently waiting for life to happen.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 31, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

It may work out BTW us
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by vizkiz: 12:11pm On Jul 31, 2017
Milonis:


Until crack do you part grin grin

bruh grin
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by sieqe: 12:12pm On Jul 31, 2017
The one thing about marriage that is very terrifying: you get married, but then; the world expects you to live up to expectations - " in-laws, and the lots of it. "
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by adetayo234: 12:19pm On Jul 31, 2017
Tricia88:
really? Hearing dat for the first time

You only need to work on yourself, lady. Everyone can get better
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by adetayo234: 12:21pm On Jul 31, 2017
yomi007k:
grin


Continue using paracetamol for another person's headache.

If a pro- feminist doea not want to marry, am I suppose to lose sleep?


U can go n solve her problem for her....have a nice week.

She isn't a pro-feminist; that is why she sees the situation as a problem. Even if you don't have helpful advice for her, silence would have sufficed
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by emeijeh(m): 12:53pm On Jul 31, 2017
Bamidele539:
what makes marriage sweet? kindly tell me if perharps my mindset could be changed!

When you marry the right person, most things will be working for you. Trust me.

And imagine having not thinking of what to cook after a hard day's job in the office.. ...

The sex nko? wink
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by remi1444: 2:03pm On Jul 31, 2017
joyberry:
.Nope, finished last year.As for your advice, Thanks but not now;Have lots of emotional issues to work on.Don't wanna go into a relationship and be a emotional burden to someone
if you are ok by it, ko si wahala. cool
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Josephamstrong1(m): 2:14pm On Jul 31, 2017
zinny377:
My worst fear in marriage is what I would do when we have fights...dealing with fights in a relationship is so unnerving for me.


I jus want to run away when there are issues...my only consolation is that am marrying my soulmate someday n we will deal with it together. smiley

You don't run away from your fears or challenges. He who fights and runs away, lives to fight another day. Back in the day with my ex, I used to run away whenever there's a fight. Maturity set in, I couldn't run anymore. I understood the fact that there's always smtn good abt her whc attracted me in the first place. I'll take her on a walk and we talk tnz over...funny enough we see ourselves falling more deeply. She left on her own cos she found sm1 better I guess buh didn't make any less of me. Shit happens, you only got to cowboy the Bleep up and move the damn on.
Issues in relationships are inevitable... Running away makes you a coward. Xcept you know the love or spark ain't there anymore. Every sweet relationship you see and adore out there has their own challenges oooo, forget o. Life is amado uwa george.
I used to call my dog onyekowa.
Keedu nwanyi a?
Biko wetaram more two bo.

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Bamidele539: 3:06pm On Jul 31, 2017
emeijeh:


When you marry the right person, most things will be working for you. Trust me.

And imagine having not thinking of what to cook after a hard day's job in the office.. ...

The sex nko? wink
what if the guy is yet to get a profitable job @ age 30...dnt you think nervousness will surely increase?
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Rick9(m): 4:12pm On Jul 31, 2017
Yes I do, when I think of the cost and the time
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by jayvine(f): 4:20pm On Jul 31, 2017
hkidola00:
pls someone should help me with dat lil wayne‘s pic screaming ashewoooo
You're crazy lol
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jul 31, 2017
Sylverly:
I'm not fully convinced that, that could be the main reason.. Well, what ll be ll be. Another thing is have you known her for a while
Yeah of course. We have been dating for more than two years.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 31, 2017
femi4:
I dey tell you wetin dey happen for Church. I ve seen deacon, pastors, elders having extra marital affairs. It doesn't stop them from mounting the pulpit next Sunday.

A persons character and spiritual life does not always go together

I don't believe you. A Christian has an impeccable character. Gal 5:22-23

If you call yourself a christian and don't have these fruits, your Christianity is Questionable.

The Scribes and Pharisees in the bible were even more devout than these pastors you talk about, but are they Christians?.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by tosyne2much(m): 5:31pm On Jul 31, 2017
The thought of a problematic, unfaithful and disrespectful woman scares marriage out of me

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Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by jy2kbeyond(m): 5:42pm On Jul 31, 2017
joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me
You are a lesbian probably.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by Sylverly(m): 5:48pm On Jul 31, 2017
Cossie0000001:

Yeah of course. We have been dating for more than two years.
that's quite some time . And all these while, she never had issue with that.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by jy2kbeyond(m): 5:50pm On Jul 31, 2017
kennygee:


With the divorce rate these days. Yes I do.

With the kind of comments from men on NL, yes I do.

I saw a post where NL men were insinuating that Nigerian women don't deserve to be cared for and pampered, it made me feel sorry for women who would thank God that they had found "husbands" in these type of men.

Then, how many men really know God. Most men just go to church and some claim to be workers but don't live like Christians should. A man that can't lead you spiritually, what is the goal of your marriage?

I want to Dm. I need you to tell me more about Jesus.
Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by RSVP: 5:56pm On Jul 31, 2017
femi4:
I dey tell you wetin dey happen for Church. I ve seen deacon, pastors, elders having extra marital affairs. It doesn't stop them from mounting the pulpit next Sunday.

A persons character and spiritual life does not always go together


Thank you my broda. Character and spiritual life are two different things but some pple don't get it... Being active in church or mosque doesn't make you a good human.

I once had a friend which is a very good christian and she's one of the choir members in her church. She would drag us to church every Sunday and if you no go na wahala.

She can pray from morning till night and always portray herself as "saint" but guess what, she did an abortion twice wey me still be virgin den.. Dey all r hypocrites! Lol

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