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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by biblegirl: 10:04pm On Aug 03, 2017
be prayerful

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by spartoo: 10:04pm On Aug 03, 2017
1) Do not marry a Yoruba lady.. they are promiscuous

2) Do not marry from Imo and Abia states.. they are expensive

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by KayDEAN(m): 10:05pm On Aug 03, 2017
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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ehix89(m): 10:05pm On Aug 03, 2017
Be Contented with your spouse, the beautiful ones are not yet born

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by daben1(m): 10:05pm On Aug 03, 2017
Kondomatic:
Do unto your husband as you would like him to do unto you.
that's it, if you'll do to me what you'll like me to do to you, there'll be no problem, i swear!!

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 03, 2017
Where is my pen and notepad sef........continue
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by bigsmoke2(m): 10:07pm On Aug 03, 2017
love will not suffice.
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Ayanfeoluwaoba(f): 10:09pm On Aug 03, 2017
There are 4 (Four) people involved in Marriage

1. The Man you married
2. The Man you thought you married
3. The Woman you married
4. The Woman you thought you married.

Your marriage will be an Haven only if you accept each others imperfections.

Destined2win:
One of the reasons why I come here is because I desire to learn from people who are already in the 'business' of marriage. This is borne out of a dream to have an exceptional home; a marriage where I will smile all day because I am married; a marriage where the blessings of marriage surround me. I know I am not alone in this as there are a lot of young men like me who have such desires in their heart.

So if you are married and your opinion is being sought, it is because we don't wanna make mistakes. We want to know what works and what doesn't work.

Supposing you have a son or daughter who desires to get married or is about to get married and you want that child's marriage to succeed, what will be your greatest advise to that child of yours?

Please tell stories where applicable.

Thanks!

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ifewise(m): 10:09pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marry your friend
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by madjune(m): 10:11pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marry the one you love.
Marry your best friend.

Marry that person you quarrel to fall out and fall back in love with.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by ashjay001(m): 10:11pm On Aug 03, 2017
Dont get married. Boy or girl, u can live in, have kids but, dont tie any knot joor!

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by deji17: 10:13pm On Aug 03, 2017
Destined2win:
One of the reasons why I come here is because I desire to learn from people who are already in the 'business' of marriage. This is borne out of a dream to have an exceptional home; a marriage where I will smile all day because I am married; a marriage where the blessings of marriage surround me. I know I am not alone in this as there are a lot of young men like me who have such desires in their heart.

So if you are married and your opinion is being sought, it is because we don't wanna make mistakes. We want to know what works and what doesn't work.

Supposing you have a son or daughter who desires to get married or is about to get married and you want that child's marriage to succeed, what will be your greatest advise to that child of yours?

Please tell stories where applicable.

Thanks!


You must be open and demand same from your partner. Open conversation and trust is key to a long and lasting relationship.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by mohisd(m): 10:13pm On Aug 03, 2017
He shld be Patient in most circumstances
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Ralph2211(m): 10:13pm On Aug 03, 2017
Destined2win:
One of the reasons why I come here is because I desire to learn from people who are already in the 'business' of marriage. This is borne out of a dream to have an exceptional home; a marriage where I will smile all day because I am married; a marriage where the blessings of marriage surround me. I know I am not alone in this as there are a lot of young men like me who have such desires in their heart.

So if you are married and your opinion is being sought, it is because we don't wanna make mistakes. We want to know what works and what doesn't work.

Supposing you have a son or daughter who desires to get married or is about to get married and you want that child's marriage to succeed, what will be your greatest advise to that child of yours?

Please tell stories where applicable.

Thanks!


To me, my best advice to my daughter or son is dat don't expect ur spouse to be like ur father or mother, always accept ur spouse for who he/she is.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Rapture4real(m): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marriage is a union between two imperfect human beings who has agreed to tolerate,endure and forbear each other in order to have a relative perfect relationship.If you can't tolerate nonsense and shift ground from your stand,don't go into marriage.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Young03(m): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
For u to hold ur anger, u must learn how to hold ur breathe

Never argue with ur woman

pls iam not married oo
single n not searching
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by searchhussein(m): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
Women will change but men will always remain ththe same

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
Ayanfeoluwaoba:
There are 4 (Four) people involved in Marriage

1. The Man you married
2. The Man you thought you married
3. The Woman you married
4. The Woman you thought you married.

Your marriage will be an Haven only if you accept each others imperfections.

This is very realistic. Thanks.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by VickyRotex(f): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
seunny4lif:
Since I'm yet a father
I don't know what to say

What my mom told me is marriage is not easy ooooh grin grin esp after 10 years

I think its the other way round.
I'm not married, but I learnt that if you can survive the first 10 years, you can survive the next 25 years and even more.
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by cappinjerry(m): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
Do not marry my kind of wife

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:15pm On Aug 03, 2017
deji17:


You must be open and demand same from your partner. Open conversation and trust is key to a long and lasting relationship.
Thank you Sir.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Elmos: 10:15pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marry the person you sincerely love from your heart, I meant he or she you love not for beauty or material. Don’t marry someone because you sympathized with the person. While in marriage and enjoy it to the fullest, have it behind your mind that, it might end one day, if it does, don’t kill yourself, life must continue. Be truthful, if you are in love say it and if there is no more love say it.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:16pm On Aug 03, 2017
cappinjerry:
Do not marry my kind of wife
Please what happened to your wife. Kindly share
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by olaniyisamuel(m): 10:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
It's gonna b well kiss
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
Rapture4real:
Marriage is a union between two imperfect human beings who has agreed to tolerate,endure and forbear each other in order to have a relative perfect relationship.If you can't tolerate nonsense and shift ground from your stand,don't go into marriage.
Tolerate nonsense? Scary I must say
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
Avoid d following-
1. Yoloba gals
2.Nagging bitches
3.Domineering daddy gals
4. Dirty gals
5. slay bitches
6. I-invested-a-lot-in-this-relationship-so-u-must-marry-me-pussies
7.Girls who want to pin you down using their daddy's wealth to assist u
8.Unforgiving gals
9. Proud Gals
10. Obsessive gals........................thank me later

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by deji17: 10:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
Destined2win:
Thank you Sir.

You are welcome.
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
elantraceey:
I'm still searching for the best advice to give to myself ,,let me relax and learn from others.
I hope you have a pen and paper
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:20pm On Aug 03, 2017
genghiskhan007:
Avoid d following-
1. Yoloba gals
2.Nagging bitches
3.Domineering daddy gals
4. Dirty gals
5. slay bitches
6. I-invested-a-lot-in-this-relationship-so-u-must-marry-me-pussies
7.Girls who want to pin you down using their daddy's wealth to assist u
8.Unforgiving gals
9. Proud Gals
10. Obsessive gals........................thank me later
This is a list too many
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by elantraceey(f): 10:22pm On Aug 03, 2017
Destined2win:
I hope you have a pen and paper

There's just little to learn here right now as a lot of those commenting are yet to get married, I could give a well tailored speech on the dos and donts of marriage and then flop when it's time to actually practice my message, I'll rather listen to those with experience and they are either not much here or just choose to be reserved.

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Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Krystaal(m): 10:23pm On Aug 03, 2017
I'll just ask him/her an easy question..."how bad do you want that pussy/dick ??"...
Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Destined2win: 10:23pm On Aug 03, 2017
elantraceey:


There's just little to learn here right now as a lot of those commenting are yet to get married, I could give a well tailored speech on the dos and donts of marriage and then flop when it's time to actually practice my message, I'll rather listen to those with experience and they are either not much here or just choose to be reserved.
You always have something reasonable but defensive to say smiley

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