Beedude:

Apostle Ayodele Babalola that started CAC in 1930 didn't have a successful marriage. Are u telling me as at 1930 he fornicated or his wife wasn't a virgin ? Even our great grand mothers and fathers faced one problem or anoda during dose periods. Am a christian and happily married. But there is a big difference between religion and facts. If u av a good partner just be thankful

buygala:
Premarital sex is good.

Ask the Bastards on this forum... .. I suppose they are forever grateful to their parents for fornicating them into this sweet life

Ask people who due to premarital sex, discovered that they had sex compatibility issues with their then partners, and thus broke up, escaping a lifetime of sexual frustration.
I couldn't have agree with you any less. You spot on on the points. Scientifically, it has been proven that sex is good and healthy for d body

Ask all fornicators and fornicatresses.... Sex whether premarital or post marital, is very essential to our mental health and physical well-being. ..... And I happen to be a very proud fornicator... My most brilliant moments have almost always been after having some very good sex

But some other people will argue that premarital sex leads to unwanted pregnancies, STDs, spiritual disconnection from God, gross abuse of our body which is supposed to be the temple of the Living God, and hellfire in the end. So we all should avoid premarital sex . ..

They are entitled to their opinion, just like I am entitled to mine.. . Even the best of things if not properly utilized, can become the worst of things.. . The same water that keeps us alive, hydrated and clean in the right circumstances will remorselessly drown and kill us in the wrong circumstances

My point is.... We should all live and let live.. . As a proud fornicator, I don't go around judging those opposed to my fornicating way of life.. . So the anti-fornicators should let us be as well

eboiga:
What about people that were raped? In everything,God knows best

Safiaa:
Trying to stay celibate but its hard.

sukkot:
brother, you dont know that man intimately do you ? you dont know what he was doing under the cloak of darkness. let me tell you something ? any man who is uplifted into these positions are uplifted into these positions because their life will be used to tell a story. not because they are righteous. you will find out the most wicked and unrighteous men are your pastors and apostles. they are uplifted because they are wicked and they have to be uplifted so that when they are brought down the whole world can witness the work of GOD. any man who is uplifted is a wicked demon. the real righteous people are lowly servants. if you understand that spiritual concept you will stop making posts like this thinking rich pastors and uplifted men are men of God

ucheuzor1:

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My brother d thing no easy to avoid o especially when u have a partner.
But on a more serious note, religion tends to limit us from so many things I feel we ourselves know that are quite illogical to avoid. No wonder they said that "religion is the opium (a narcotic) of the masses""..... Religion constrains a wise man sometimes to look foolish in making some decisions.

Beedude:

I won't drag this further. But u can never ever know how God works. He alone understand all. God that allowed Solomon to have 1000 women , Abraham made love to another woman and was still called father of faith. Premarital sex is bad. But the way u talk is as if God already programmed ur partner for u on earth. Life is far beyond that. U hear of people dying day by day. Are u telling me the people God programmed with them won't av a fulfilled marriage with another man or woman . This life is a mystery u can never solve. I pray God help us all. Happy Sunday

sukkot:
brother, you dont know that man intimately do you ? you dont know what he was doing under the cloak of darkness. let me tell you something ? any man who is uplifted into these positions are uplifted into these positions because their life will be used to tell a story. not because they are righteous. you will find out the most wicked and unrighteous men are your pastors and apostles. they are uplifted because they are wicked and they have to be uplifted so that when they are brought down the whole world can witness the work of GOD. any man who is uplifted is a wicked demon. the real righteous people are lowly servants. if you understand that spiritual concept you will stop making posts like this thinking rich pastors and uplifted men are men of God

sukkot:
brother, you dont know that man intimately do you ? you dont know what he was doing under the cloak of darkness. let me tell you something ? any man who is uplifted into these positions are uplifted into these positions because their life will be used to tell a story. not because they are righteous. you will find out the most wicked and unrighteous men are your pastors and apostles. they are uplifted because they are wicked and they have to be uplifted so that when they are brought down the whole world can witness the work of GOD. any man who is uplifted is a wicked demon. the real righteous people are lowly servants. if you understand that spiritual concept you will stop making posts like this thinking rich pastors and uplifted men are men of God

jfleece:
young man pls stop saying rubbish... Don't deceive people with ur manipulative analysis.

sukkot:
listen, the world has been turned upside down. what you think is right is wrong and what you think is wrong is right. and when the KING returns everything will be turned right-side up again. you are living in a fallen world as we speak and everything has been reversed. if you cant understand this concept maybe you are one of the spiritually blind who has been deceived by the devil .

mikedimeji:

Lots of laugh at ur ignorance

sukkot:
how GOD works is revealed to his genuine servants.

amos 3 vs 7 Surely the Lord Yahweh will do nothing, unless he reveals his secret to his servants the prophets.

and with regards to solomon, I never said you cannot have as many wives as you want. Just make sure any woman you sleep with you keep as your wife. its not a sin to have many wives. the sin is in sleeping with women and walking away from them. gerrit ?

sukkot:
listen, the world has been turned upside down. what you think is right is wrong and what you think is wrong is right. and when the KING returns everything will be turned right-side up again. you are living in a fallen world as we speak and everything has been reversed. if you cant understand this concept maybe you are one of the spiritually blind who has been deceived by the devil .

jfleece:
now listen very carefully.. Ur religious mentality is flawed... So u tink u know all about God and the mysteries of life ? Even king Solomon in all his wisdom didn't understood a minute fraction of life's mysteries.. So please get ur facts ryt before analysing.... Not everyone is dumb u know... Best regards.

Beedude:

Christians can have many wives? Is it possible for all the wives not to have met with a man before ?
And in a situation whereby u slept with a woman and she still left. Or a girl that was raped ? U kill urself ? I will still repeat myself clearly. Even if the husband and wife are virgin till the wedding night, if dey don't have the enduring attitude they will divorce and God will keep looking at their dumbness.

Shelloween:
My view as a Christian is that it's bad.

My view as a human being, if God really wanted us to shy away from premarital sex.... Why then did He let us to sexually mature early? ( How am I supposed to wait till marriage?) sexual tempation we get from girls, is more than the temptation Satan gave Jesus Christ.

nkemdi89:
Premarital sex is bad, but all those wedding pastors are conducting every Saturday haven't the bed been defiled? Even pastors encourages it now, woman are ready to avoid it but men are not willing. No man wants to marry a woman without having a feel of her .

sukkot:
like i said earlier bro

amos 3 vs 7 Surely the Lord Yahweh will do nothing, unless he reveals his secret to his servants the prophets. <<< I AM ASSUMING YOU BELIEVE IN THE WORDS WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE RIGHT ?

Safiaa:
Trying to stay celibate but its hard.

sukkot:
how GOD works is revealed to his genuine servants.

amos 3 vs 7 Surely the Lord Yahweh will do nothing, unless he reveals his secret to his servants the prophets.

and with regards to solomon, I never said you cannot have as many wives as you want. Just make sure any woman you sleep with you keep as your wife. its not a sin to have many wives. the sin is in sleeping with women and walking away from them. gerrit ?

jfleece:
do me a favor and conceptualize the bolded.... Clarifying it's effect on ur perception about life In detail.

nkemdi89:
Premarital sex is bad, but all those wedding pastors are conducting every Saturday haven't the bed been defiled? Even pastors encourages it now, woman are ready to avoid it but men are not willing. No man wants to marry a woman without having a feel of her .

AngelicBeing:
Really, but he created one woman for my Brother Adam and not wives, Na wao, Sukkot you have started again with your deep teachings, igwe must hear this, but joke apart l was of the opinion, based on what happened in Genesis that believers can only marry on wife. The scripture is indeed deep, the ways of Jehovah are unsearchable, his mind and thought are weigh higher than that of man, looking at the scripture do sometimes make me keep quiet because Only God knows what he is doing, someone like David took someone's wife and also planned the guy's death, although he was punished by God but God called David a man after his heart, Jacob took Esau's blessings and indirectly was approved by Heaven, although Jacob had his challenges as well but he found favor before God, l love Jacob and I hate Esau says the scripture, and he also said He will have mercy on who he wants and also hardens who he wants, for that purpose Pharoah was hardened unto destruction, it is not of him that runs or wills but God that sheweth mercy Qed

sukkot:
well you have to understand that everything hinges on the commandments. it is better for a man not to even marry at all says GOD because a woman is a distraction. however so that you dont die in lust the serious men of God can take 1 wife if they want. now if you choose to go for many wives you can but that means you are an unserious carnal person, but its not a sin, but dealing with many women will take over your life and GOD cant use a person like that. what was the cause of solomons fall ? many wives. so the point is its better not to marry but if you are a serious minded man take one wife so you dont die in lust, and if you are someone who has no ambitions or goals spiritual or otherwise and your whole life is just hinging on carnality then you can take many wives. just know sex is the marriage ceremony in GODS eye. so any woman you yansh is your wife.