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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by nkemchineke: 4:49pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by tk4rd: 6:26pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:So, with the bolded,, If Sex is still considered as Investment in a relationship,, Then what is the REWARD.?? !! !! |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Kay17: 6:27pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
gentlegenius: *faints* |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:33pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: There he goes again, eating his own vomit. Attention seeker, Foolish thread, but you still came back here to express your dumb opinion...lol...I know your type. Logical argument? You expected me to come up with a logical argument, when you can't obviously use that mango you call head to reason. Attraction for girls will always remain an emotional thing. Take it or Leave it sissy. Don't pour your frustration on me because you obviously seem mad at the post. If babe Don dump you, deal with it, Don't vent your frustration here biko. Last I remember, opening a thread on nairaland is free. Create yours, and stop distracting the goal of this thread. #Peace and Piece. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:41pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
tk4rd: You don't get the basic investment theory. Sex is the greatest investment in any relationship, especially for the fair sex. Once a guy sleeps with a girl, there is every possibility, he might sleep with her again. Her emotional response towards the guy increase beyond the normal. I am not talking about rape or sleeping with olosho oh. #Peace 2 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by obi4eze(m): 6:42pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: From all your replies, it is so obvious that you know nothing about relationship. I'm happy that I've achieved my aim. Good night. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:44pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: send me your babe number abeg. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by obi4eze(m): 6:46pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:46pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
skelefish: Thanks #Bro Glad you enjoyed the post. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:49pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: Lol...no let your heart beat. Type the name in full sissy. Modified. Oya na...abi na you get the sim? Foolish thread, but you penned down all the posted tips and hints. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by obi4eze(m): 6:54pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: My heart beat say wetin happen? U be God? Abi women don finish for this world? |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:59pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: lmao...Sissy. I no be God, but am sure the tips here will work on her. Attraction for every girl, irrespective of how she might want to front, is the same. Your logical thinking towards the concept of attraction is why you keep getting dumped/friendzoned all the time- that's why you mad @ the post. Take am or Leave am.... |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:04pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Anita The Naughty Housemaid Pt 2 will be posted soon. It also promises to make an interesting read. Thanks to everyone that contributed to this post. The Fundamentals can be found in 2013 thread. www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see Stay Grinding, Stay Hungry 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:21pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Mrcapability7: You ve made the mistake of asking her out. Never ever ask a girl to be your gf. Don't ever try to make a girl like or love you. it will ways backfire. Attraction, for girls, is an emotional thing. Stop waiting for a yes or no. Delete her number, pics, and chat. There are lots of girls out there. Stop wasting your time with a girl who doesn't value you. FREE THE GIRL. As painful as it might sound, that's your best choice. 5 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by macof(m): 7:26pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
gentlegenius: Just don't destroy this girls life...thats the important thing. She is still young and as easy as she is for you to "shape" into the type of woman you want. No doubt your past experience and inability to "shape" a woman close to your age drove you to this but you must realize that your coming into her life like this is risky for her Don't take advantage of the poverty of her family to manipulate and turn her into a toy. Also realize that the probability of her becoming a young widow in future is high |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by tk4rd: 7:33pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:So,, the reward for the initial "greatest investment" of sex is "more sex, and more and more sex".?? |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by obi4eze(m): 7:47pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: The way you keep mentioning this dumping/'friendzoning' baffles me. It's not everyone that gets 'friendzoned' or dumped the way you think or go after women as you think. Some of us even 'friendzone' ladies and some of the ladies understand while some don't. Besides, some of us are more interested in other things than relationships and sex. Like I said earlier, sex is overrated and that's one of the major reasons why we have many of the problems we have in this world. Put sex in its right place and many of the problems will reduce. If the purpose of having a relationship is sex then the relationship will surely go downhill once it is achieved. You get? 2 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:51pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
tk4rd: It's the greatest emotional investment. That's the meaning. It's the door/key which unlocks all the positive emotions a woman can experience towards a man. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Xxxtedy nice one |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by tk4rd: 8:03pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:Now,, tell me more.. With all the constant sex and all,, can it still be possible that the lady is still not expressing her full positive emotions to the guy.?? 2 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:05pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
obi4eze: You make too many generalizations that are alien to the highlighted points in the article. Read the article well. From the title of this thread, you should know what the article is about: Reasons why girls friendzone guys. Nothing like sex should the major focus a relationship was mentioned. Even if you still don't Wana accept it, the joy of sex still, and will always remain, the biggest investment in any convo. It's Nature, and that is why humans are still alive today. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:11pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
tk4rd: sure... y not. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:20pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Let me explain it like this. The biggest gift a girl can give to a guy is sex. Forget money, gifts, cars....and all that. For a new chick you just met, it's her biggest investment. Once she gives it out ( willingly, not via rape) she becomes emotionally connected to you. All the walls of her resistance is destroyed. She becomes open and bare to you. As far you keep playing your game maturely, she will remain yours. That's is why women can't forget their first love- the guy that de-flowered her. They might lose touch with the but they can never forget his name,or the experience. I bet you now know why a woman l suddenly start chasing you, after sex. It's nature...and you can't fight nature. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by gentlegenius(m): 10:23pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
macof:You were making sense until you said those rubbish in bracket. How dare you spoke about her being a widow? Do you know the life expectancy of family? For your information, I came from a family where men usually live long and look younger than their real age. That's our nature. I am not an exception. If you see me, you'll think I am 25 years old. If I don't marry a lady that is at least 12 years younger than me, there's a high chance that she'll soon look older than me. Let me surprise you a bit... My father was 17 years older than my mum but right now, my father is alive and very strong but my mum passed away 4 years ago. They were happily married for 33 years before death separated them. The wide age difference between them wasn't noticeable in any way. Sometimes when they go out together, they look like age mates. I learned from them that if I don't marry a lady far younger than me, I will be making a serious mistake. Here I am dating a girl that is just 13 years younger than me and you guys are taking panadol for my headache even when you know nothing about me and my family. It's a pity. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by spartacus11(m): 10:28pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
gentlegenius: Calm down, u own no one explanation for ur actions. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Ochima75(m): 10:36pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
nkemchineke: Hmmmmm |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by DonroxyII: 4:59am On Aug 09, 2017 |
gentlegenius:Relationship is like flipping a coin, it cud be head or tail..... Me, I always imagine the worst case scenario in a relationship and prepare myself for it ..... By that, My heart don't get broken .... Thus, I don't invest more than I can afford to lose when things head the other way!!! If she doesn't show interest in giving me my least target ROI, I also reduce my investment significantly!!! My time, My money and Myself belong to me , Use them for someone else judiciously !!! 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Mrcapability7: 5:43am On Aug 09, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:mind explaining what you mean by emotional thing |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by tk4rd: 7:58am On Aug 09, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:Kaii.. Anyway.. My own is,, If I discover I am getting into the friendzone of any lady, and I asked her out, and she turned me down or gave me some ambiguous answers,, na to just forget about the lady be that.. Everything about her in my mind ends be that oo.. She would even be the one trying to call up once in a while, and the calls sef would be like disturbance to me by then. Some people would say, "You fight for what is yours".. For me,, I fight for what is already mine, so as to keep it as mine,, and not for someone who is not yet sure what she thinks about me, or for someone who already declined. |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by macof(m): 12:05pm On Aug 09, 2017 |
gentlegenius: You misunderstood; High probability not definitely, takin into consideration that statistics show women live longer than men.. I think almost 10 years longer It is normal to think about life expectancy when the age difference is that large. But seems you have considered this already |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Konquest: 2:00pm On Aug 09, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by gentlegenius(m): 10:31pm On Aug 09, 2017 |
macof:Yeah... I considered that while making my choice of a life partner. I would have been so stupid not to choose a very young girl with a wide age difference. Sometimes I still pray and hope that she wouldn't look older than me when she grows up because to be frank with you, nature has made us to look younger as we age. I have never told her how old I am and even if I do, she won't believe I'm up to 30. Based on my looks, she believed I'm not more than 25. She doesn't even see me as someone who is too old for her probably because my looks has deceived her. |
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