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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 9:34pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:



https://www.google.rs/amp/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4117362/amp/Oklahoma-man-forced-pay-child-support-s-kid-didn-t-girlfriend-cheating-time.html
Thomas did not think his wife was cheating on him when she became pregnant
He asked for a DNA test when the child turned three which proved he wasn't the father
Oklahoma law says someone must ask for a paternity test within two years or be forced to pay child support
An Oklahoma man is being forced to pay child support for another man's child because he ordered a paternity test too late.

Thomas, who did not give his last name, asked for a paternity test for his three year old son when his marriage fell apart.


I want to believe this ops man is abroad and I did not say he will definitely be forced to pay. I clearly said in some instances he may be forced to pay. So it's not impossible.
Plus alimony is not judged by cheating, unless they had a prenup she still could get half of his property depending g on their marriage and things that happened while they were married.
you are using a single case that is subject of petitions to the state lawmakers to change the law. Even the judge earlier ruled that he cant pay child support...but he later changed it saying tbe laws says he must have challenged within 2yrs but the guy is saying he had no reason to be suspicious. And mind you...this is only okhlahoma and this is the only known case in the whole world and that useless law will be changed. Note...assuming tbe guy discovered it earlier than 2yrs you wont pay too. So the bottomline is this....you are not supposed to pay child support for a child not yours but in oklahoma if you dont discover early you may till you chsllenge the decision to supreme court
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thesuave10(m): 9:35pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


Smart pants I sight you. No anointing oil and Holly water for your prayer table?

undecided
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Antoeni(m): 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2017
Ah Woman! Woman !!Woman!!!
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2017
helpee:
you are using a single case that is subject of petitions to the state lawmakers to change the law. Even the judge earlier ruled that he cant pay child support...but he later changed it saying tbe laws says he must have challenged within 2yrs but the guy is saying he had no reason to be suspicious. And mind you...this is only okhlahoma and this is the only known case in the whole world and that useless law will be changed. Note...assuming tbe guy discovered it earlier than 2yrs you wont pay too. So the bottomline is this....you are not supposed to pay child support for a child not yours but in oklahoma if you dont discover early you may till you chsllenge the decision to supreme court

I said in some cases. Abeg go back and read my past posts. People said once it's confirmed that a child does not belong to a man He is not expected to pay and I said in some cases he is made to pay. Tell me where I was wrong again? Plus go online and see some other cases abound under different circumstances. So there is. Possibility and we can not decide online what may or may not be. He should get a lawyer and get the best advice for the case at hand

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thesuave10(m): 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2017
helpee:
you are using a single case that is subject of petitions to the state lawmakers to change the law. Even the judge earlier ruled that he cant pay child support...but he later changed it saying tbe laws says he must have challenged within 2yrs but the guy is saying he had no reason to be suspicious. And mind you...this is only okhlahoma and this is the only known case in the whole world and that useless law will be changed. Note...assuming tbe guy discovered it earlier than 2yrs you wont pay too. So the bottomline is this....you are not supposed to pay child support for a child not yours but in oklahoma if you dont discover early you may till you chsllenge the decision to supreme court

You dey mind that fool

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Bizibi(m): 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2017
sunkky83:



You just speak my mind. What a wicked world that woman is being judge for d same offense that when man committed will go freely. No one is even considering the situation of the woman. It's a pity!
considering what?
You guys are just twisting words to support the lady's mess......it goes to show some of you will do the same,if a man focus on his job and the wife can't then she should leave the marriage, it's that too hard.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Bizibi(m): 9:37pm On Aug 09, 2017
sunkky83:



You just speak my mind. What a wicked world that woman is being judge for d same offense that when man committed will go freely. No one is even considering the situation of the woman. It's a pity!
considering what?
You guys are just twisting words to support the lady's mess......it goes to show some of you will do the same,if a man focus on his job and the wife can't cope then she should leave the marriage, it's that too hard.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by jfleece(m): 9:38pm On Aug 09, 2017
Chai Dat woman is damn so wicked....

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:39pm On Aug 09, 2017
thesuave10:


You dey mind that fool

Do you feel better now? Fool? No stronger words to qualify me? I am wiser than all your ancestors even your parents combined even my dog is wiser than them.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by correctguy101(m): 9:41pm On Aug 09, 2017
jjjjj2017:
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Thanks brother, God bless
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thesuave10(m): 9:41pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


Do you feel better now? Fool? No stronger words to qualify me? I am wiser than all your ancestors even your parents combined even my dog is wiser than them.
Aii undecided

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thestevens: 9:42pm On Aug 09, 2017
Hope this not telemundo?, cos this woman does not deserve even her own property. Get a good lawyer and Bleep her off.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Humanistme: 9:42pm On Aug 09, 2017
take half of his property? in this patriarchy way we dey? abeg take am easy with the lies.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 9:44pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


I said in some cases. Abeg go back and read my past posts. People said once it's confirmed that a child does not belong to a man He is not expected to pay and I said in some cases he is made to pay. Tell me where I was wrong again? Plus go online and see some other cases abound under different circumstances. So there is. Possibility and we can not decide online what may or may not be. He should get a lawyer and get the best advice for the case at hand
the bottomline....if it is established the child is not his....that is paternity by deception. If the case is well pursued, no judge will ask you to support a child not yours.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Collins4u1(m): 9:44pm On Aug 09, 2017
Shezhawt:
Toss her cheating ass outta the window.. I loathe adultery with a passion


she's hot really.. Uhmmm :*
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
Bizibi:
considering what?
You guys are just twisting words to support the lady's mess......it goes to show some of you will do the same,if a man focus on his job and the wife can't cope then she should leave the marriage, it's that too hard.


The same way you will support d men folks if the reverse is d case
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Slurity(m): 9:49pm On Aug 09, 2017
the case is already won. No single dooooh for the cheating wife
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Bizibi(m): 9:51pm On Aug 09, 2017
sunkky83:



The same way you will support d men folks if the reverse is d case
what is bad is bad either the male or female......I'm sure you support the woman's extent of hiring a lawyer to collect half of his property.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by jjjjj2017: 9:54pm On Aug 09, 2017
correctguy101:

Thanks brother, God bless
you are welcome sir
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:54pm On Aug 09, 2017
helpee:
the bottomline....if it is established the child is not his....that is paternity by deception. If the case is well pursued, no judge will ask you to support a child not yours.

I said in some cases. Depends on what she and her lawyer claim. Law is quite technical and I do not claim to know all. I said he may be made to pay depending on circumstances. So let the court decide. If the case is cut and dry he goes Scot free as it should be but if he has miss steped before eg if he has said or agreed that even if he finds that the baby isn't his he would still be the dad or something to that effect( it may surprise you what love makes people do and say during pillow talks) she may bring out things that would make him lose. So he should get a lawyer.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:55pm On Aug 09, 2017
thesuave10:

Aii undecided

Your yeye dey smell. Post more memes.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Aug 09, 2017
Iamsammy:
even to d extent of d bastard child and even made d man believe na em born d pikin?

What would you have said if d reverse is d case? You men are very fast in pointing accusing finger on women but if men were to b at fault, you will always have reasons /excuse to justify his the action. Until men learn to treat women the same way they want to be treated, things like this or even worse will continue to happen

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thesuave10(m): 9:59pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


Your yeye dey smell. Post more memes.
Ok

Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:59pm On Aug 09, 2017
thesuave10:

Ok

Thanks. Na now you behave like better pikin.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Abbotp: 10:00pm On Aug 09, 2017
Donald Trump's principle on this is simple but works like magic here.
NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE YOUR SPOUSE, ALWAY SIGN A PRE NUP. THIS CANNOT BE OVER EMPHASIZED. MARRIAGE IS MADE IN HEAVEN BUT SETTLED IN COURT.

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Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by hokafor(m): 10:00pm On Aug 09, 2017
Your friend entered one chance, but he should count him self very lucky. because the low life would have try to.set him up and he Will end up in prison or even poison him slowly.I keep warning my fellow men don't make mockery of urself in the name of love. When a woman can easily manipulate u she Will be singing I love u.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by thesuave10(m): 10:03pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


Thanks. Na now you behave like better pikin.
undecided

Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 10:03pm On Aug 09, 2017
thesuave10:

undecided

Better pikin.keep posting. I will grade you when I return
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Donald7610: 10:05pm On Aug 09, 2017
She will be the one to pay the husband
If the DNA is negative
I witnessed where a woman to pay 9million Naira for a 9 years old boy for negative DNA

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by goldedprince: 10:06pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


If she is my person I will hunt your whole generations down even to the 10th. You think only you has monopoly over violence? Shoot! gone re the days o. Just leave her jejely. If she catches you red handed will she kill you? If she does kill you I will personally arrange her jail time or dash her to your family to deal with. All life is sacred.
have you hard situations where you people kill people and make it look like accident?
u dy talk like say no be naija you dey
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by OBAGADAFFI: 10:08pm On Aug 09, 2017
ZIMDRILL:



you got it wrong whatever they aquired while married is shared thats the law

the problem with many african and asian countries is that half of the time people use traditonal social laws which half of the time were always against a woman

hence you find that most women wanna days women want a civil wedding meaning the protected from tradition were brothers or relatives would take property etc in death situation, in this case she is protected by civil law to get what the bought together even if one was working

http://citifmonline.com/2017/06/14/nii-odartey-lamptey-wins-court-case-against-ex-wife/

Former Ghana international Nii Odartey, has won his lawsuit in which his wife was seeking to gain 50% of all his wealth.
An Accra High Court ruled on Wednesday ruled that, Gloria Appiah, his former wife, committed ‘adultery’ when she conceived three children out of wedlock and subsequently quashed her motion to be awarded half of the property of the former footballer.
Justice Cecilia Don-Chebe Agbevey, who presided over the matter, also ordered the estranged wife to vacate the footballer’s plush 7-bedroom apartment in East Legon within 30 days.
She was however allocated a small property at Dome, a suburb of Accra, as compensation, leaving the player with the clearance to keep the majority of his hard-earned wealth.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by cococandy(f): 10:14pm On Aug 09, 2017
Regardless of who's fault the break up is, she's entitled to half the property they acquired together as a couple (not before they got married).
So he should swallow his heartbreak (I know it's hard) and give her what's rightfully hers. Unless he's saying they have no property together as couple.

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