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Even With My Cute Looks, She Still Said "No" by Sokere8: 1:56pm On Aug 18, 2017
One of the desires of humans is to be accepted, especially when such adds something positive to one’s life. The feeling is exceptionally daring and comforting. Thus, it will be okay to make a conclusion that rejection is dreadfully despised by people who tend to be rejected in one way or the other.

A common similarity amongst humans in regards to rejection is this; both the poor, rich, beautiful, and successful people have, and still encounter rejection in one way or the other. In fact rejection is encouraged to be embraced as a positive feedback in areas of inventories, marketing, art, and other profession as contrary to the view that it is a negative reaction. It is said to be a great part of the heroic story of great men all over the world.

Just like any other person, I have had my share of rejection. I was rejected on three consecutive times when I applied for an admission into college. At some point I'd concluded that no school was going to accept me or maybe I was a failure, but the score sheets were my only consolation. Mama's words encouraged me and in the fourth year I had offers from four colleges that I had to make a choice. After graduation getting a good job was yet another adventure that only with time, determination and resilience did I surmount.

I was also rejected in relationship as my best friend in college suddenly cut off our communication without any explanation. I felt bad because at least I deserved an explanation to know if I'd offended her, it was my first experience so taking it to heart was the thing to do. Yes it didn’t save a thorn, she left without a reason.

Rejection, whether in relationship, at work, by family, acquaintances, friends, strangers or any other field, is something that either make us or break us as emotional being. The way we approach it determines greatly our smiles or frown. Although it comes with an unpleasant feeling that could seem insurmountable, but as a champion you should not let it get to you.

How do you handle a rejection? The reality is that rejection is part of life. There will be times when your applications for a position, your request for a leave, your ideas for change, request for assistance, or your love will be rejected by someone somewhere. It is better that you accept this rejection as a part of life and learn how to bounce back and try again.

Facts about Rejection
1) Rejection will make you feel bitter and sad for a while. This is because you are a human being with emotions.

2) Sometimes being rejected does not mean you are not good enough, but rather that the person has not noticed what you have to offer.

3) Being rejected gives you more time to improve yourself and explore all the options that will come to you. Rejection usually opens better doors and opportunities for a person on the long run.

Steps in Handling Rejection

1) Take a deep breath and accept that you were rejected. Inner peace begins the moment you decide not to let another person or event control your emotions. Yes! You were jilted. Your proposal was refused. No big deal! It’s part of life so accept it in good faith.

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Re: Even With My Cute Looks, She Still Said "No" by Nobody: 2:00pm On Aug 18, 2017
Only losers get rejected by women. Try not to look or behave like a loser and no girl will be able reject you.

Also, before you approach a woman try to examine the kind of person she and then examine yourself to see if you are the kind of person she would want to date. If you are wise, you'll arrive at the right answer.
Re: Even With My Cute Looks, She Still Said "No" by Cool23(m): 2:10pm On Aug 18, 2017
DouglasH92:
Only losers get rejected by women. Try not to look or behave like a loser and no girl will be able reject you.

Also, before you approach a woman try to examine the kind of person she and then examine yourself to see if you are the kind of person she would want to date. If you are wise, you'll arrive at the right answer.
some girls will say no and then when they see you with another girl they will tell you that why did you not press on

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