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Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by blairlady(f): 3:33pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
There is this friend of mine(female) who confided in me asking for my opinion; she's askin if its right for her to be the first to propose love to a guy she's having feelings for and will this said guy see her as one cheap girl? She and this said guy are friends but she notice that she is developing deep feelings for him, thinking about him all the time So i decided to post it here for mature contribution.. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Ekakamba: 3:35pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
It is right but note that 99.9% of my niccas will accept not because of love but for the free supply of 24/7 kpansh. Beware! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Florblu(f): 3:38pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
It is right in the Western world. But in Nigeria it is all shades of WRONG,she might regret it for life especially with the prevalence of gullible Nigeria men |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by pu7pl3(m): 3:39pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
No dont tell him just keep it in ur mind and die with it because ure waiting for him and when you see him with another girl just keep feeling bitter and remorseful to urself too 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by skylane: 3:41pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
blairlady:I see nothing wrong in she opening up,as long as the guy is mature in mind,av witness. Such somany times and dey are still doing well,she should not waste time |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by mofeoluwadassah: 3:42pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
theres nothing wrong in it,only that some guys will see it as been cheap |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Homeboiy: 4:03pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
No die of silence 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by AlexCk: 4:20pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Lol,.there's nothing wrong tho, If na cool guy, he won't think she's cheap, he'd be impressed too, might even accept especially if he likes her company, except if he already has a gf & says no, that friendship go dey awkward. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Chidonc(m): 4:34pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
haba, this ur friend that have been falling for, so she can't just walk up anf toast me, chai, tell her am blushing already ooo if the guy is matured no problem, if otherwise, na her center of gravity go pay the price. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Homoviator: 4:36pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
I suggest she shows the guy some green lights to determine whether the guy has any iota of feelings for her before she opens up. There is nothing wrong in a Lady expressing her feelings first, only that some naija guyz wouldn't really appreciate it. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Divay22(f): 4:45pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
She should throw the question to him indirectly and judge from his reply... But in all, it's better you say it and free your mind.. It's all part of life experience |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
I respect girls who are bold enough to do that... So yeah, to me, its right. Can't speak for someone else. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by JaffyJoe(m): 6:26pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Op you are pretty enough to stimulate a move from a man. Don't sell yourself short, it rarely ends well. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
blairlady: Tell her not to ever try it. she's not developing any feelings jhur. it's infatuation, she should give herself time it will go away. she will make a big fool of herself by telling him. Guys will tell you they like girls who are straight and who can do it bla bla bla but when you actually do it it's another ball game entirely. she should save herself the mental stress, it's not worth it 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Ghosttt(m): 7:31pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
She can go ahead and tell him bt after dat, u need to be very careful with the response u get. If u get a no den, I'll thank God with u bt if u get a yes for an answer u need to be sure he's nt just up for d forbidden fruit alone. Take dis from sum1 dat is speaking outta experience. Only few guys will stick to a lady if she does dat while others will eat n go. Av tasted both the eat n go and staying category. Bt my eat n go surpasses the one I took seriously. In other words she should be sure dat the guy is really into her bfor she expresses her feelings. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
I say... Just make sure you are (mentally and emotionally) strong to withstand the outcome for proclaiming your feelings. If in case he does not reciprocate or it backfires etc. But..yea. In any case, Get it out of ya system. I find It's better to just get it out sooner. Bottling emotions up is never good for anyone mentally, emotionally, physically (health wise). Do it sooner, and move on sooner (if not reciprocated). Release yourself from the emotional torment and free yourself to move on. No one ever regrets not telling someone they loved them on their deathbeds. It's usually regrets about what wasn't said or done. Life's too short.............you have one life, strive to live it well, with minimal regrets. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Ghosttt(m): 7:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Ghosttt: Below are few points she needs to watch out for if she eventually gets a yes: 1. Walk away from d relationship If the guy is too eager for seks. U shud understand y 2. If he doesn't respects u 3. If he barely calls u 4. If at any point u feel u are nt treated d way u ought to be. 5. Run the moment ur mind tell u too |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by LanreGH(m): 7:43pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
It's cool, though there might be some consequences |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Sierusvirus(m): 7:44pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
It's not a big deal, she should voice it out |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Tmiky: 8:47pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
she can try it, if it workout, fine,,,,,,life is ful of adventures, its all full, quote me |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by BlaQWolf: 9:01pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Evaberry: Sent you a mail eva |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by adajoe555: 9:48pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
This is 21 century it is right for a girl to but In this part of our country its called desperation. All these guys will say you are desperate |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by secondincommand: 10:07pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Evaberry: Evaberry:see ur mouth.... Its people like you who replay a guy message 5yrs after jst becuuz he's back from America. Smh |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by horciglowri(f): 10:17pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
You just said my mind.. God bless you for me Evaberry: |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by babyfaceafrica: 11:37pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yes |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by slyd90(m): 2:25am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Ekakamba: my exact point |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Dshocker(m): 4:06am On Sep 16, 2017 |
blairlady: We understand that this your friend is you,so stop lying and hiding under that umbrella...So i just would advise you shouldn't take that step,but trying to show him some "Green light" will do. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by ericca: 4:20am On Sep 16, 2017 |
For conservative societies, this is absolutely not the norm. For liberal societies, this practice is acceptable. In my opinion, this action should be celebrated. If you have feelings for someone, you won't rely on fate to make the magic happen. Rather, you make sure that you do everything in your power to make the relationship happen. If you continue to wait, there will be a chance that you won't be noticed. My stance is a yes. You should act now. Time is precious. Love is rare. |
Re: Is It Right For A Lady To Propose Love To A Guy She Has Feelings For? by Dnockeror333(m): 8:49am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Why not? Is she not being human enough? If we thought because we do not have `the checks and pockets' to go all out with her, why not allow a girl box in? The world is suffering because man wants to be a must man! Woman, its not pride, its another side of humility, ask the tongueless soul out! If your friend cannot say "will you..." Ask him then "won't you like to..." This avaricious and pompous Adamic man! Woman, go out and ask him out...! Or have ypu no tongue? |
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