Every couple argues, and this is normal. However, if a conflict is prolonged, it can lead to a deplorable outcome. Below are some ways to end argument between couples most times, learn and practice accordingly.

(1) Remember there is another point of view:
Forgetting that both partners are involved in the relationship can cause aggression. Flexibility is always better: when you discuss both points of view, strong arguments come to the surface and draw attention from both sides. Don't always see things from your own view at all times.

(2) Don’t criticize the person:
Criticizing your partner’s personality will only aggravate the situation, especially if you do it deliberately. Do not insult your partner, but talk about the specific actions that upset you. Be kind enough to let him or her know his/her actions that hurt you but do not generalize on his/her behaviour

(3) Don’t discount feelings:
Speak your feelings and address the feelings of your partner, showing your interest in their emotional state. Let him/her know that most things he/she says upsets him/her equally might be upsetting to you too as a human being

(4) Do not assume your worst thoughts are true:
Don’t think your partner is always up to no good when away from you. This can only provoke a new quarrel. Clarify the motives of your partner’s behavior and don't assume negative things.

(5) Don’t look down on your partner:
Do not express your superiority over your partner. This way you show them they aren’t good enough for you. Suggest looking for a solution to the problem together. Don't say I know what is good for you, rather ask for his/her opinion and think it through together.

(6) Don’t look for someone to blame:
It is wrong to debate who’s guilty. The event has already happened. It is now better to spend time figuring out what the best exit strategy is. Trying to pinpoint who started the argument will lead to more degenerated conversation, it is best you channel that energy to seeking out the solution.

(7) Don’t recall old misunderstandings:
Reminding your partner of past arguments will not fix situations from the past, and it will provoke a new quarrel. Discuss what’s bothering you right away. After the situation is resolved, save yourself some grief and don’t return to it, this probably will bring back "forgotten anger" that will ultimately want to be addressed thereby heating up the argument.


Do you agree? Also feel free to add yours. (matured minds only)

RuthDaniels:
Be open to another's perspective. Yours must not be the only "right" one!

Yeah

Be sincere and don't be hooked with tears...be smart

RuthDaniels:
Be open to another's perspective. Yours must not be the only "right" one!

They don't know!

Bantino:
Every couple argues, and this is normal. However, if a conflict is prolonged, it can lead to a deplorable outcome. Below are some ways to end argument between couples most times, learn and practice accordingly.

(1) Remember there is another point of view:
Forgetting that both partners are involved in the relationship can cause aggression. Flexibility is always better: when you discuss both points of view, strong arguments come to the surface and draw attention from both sides. Don't always see things from your own view at all times.

(2) Don’t criticize the person:
Criticizing your partner’s personality will only aggravate the situation, especially if you do it deliberately. Do not insult your partner, but talk about the specific actions that upset you. Be kind enough to let him or her know his/her actions that hurt you but do not generalize on his/her behaviour

(3) Don’t discount feelings:
Speak your feelings and address the feelings of your partner, showing your interest in their emotional state. Let him/her know that most things he/she says upsets him/her equally might be upsetting to you too as a human being

(4) Do not assume your worst thoughts are true:
Don’t think your partner is always up to no good when away from you. This can only provoke a new quarrel. Clarify the motives of your partner’s behavior and don't assume negative things.

(5) Don’t look down on your partner:
Do not express your superiority over your partner. This way you show them they aren’t good enough for you. Suggest looking for a solution to the problem together. Don't say I know what is good for you, rather ask for his/her opinion and think it through together.

(6) Don’t look for someone to blame:
It is wrong to debate who’s guilty. The event has already happened. It is now better to spend time figuring out what the best exit strategy is. Trying to pinpoint who started the argument will lead to more degenerated conversation, it is best you channel that energy to seeking out the solution.

(7) Don’t recall old misunderstandings:
Reminding your partner of past arguments will not fix situations from the past, and it will provoke a new quarrel. Discuss what’s bothering you right away. After the situation is resolved, save yourself some grief and don’t return to it, this probably will bring back "forgotten anger" that will ultimately want to be addressed thereby heating up the argument.


Do you agree? Also feel free to add yours. (matured minds only)

Yes there’s another way. When they start their argument, just put water and swish it in your mouth & don’t swallow it till they get done talking. After they are done, get yourself busy with something.

Beey:
Yes there’s another way. When they start their argument, just put water and swish it in your mouth & don’t swallow it till they get done talking. After they are done, get yourself busy with something.

Wetin you de talkAbi you be fati2001's twin sister,always making off topic comments.

NNU0000:
Wetin you de talkAbi you be fati2001's twin sister,always making off topic comments.

What exactly is off about my comment?I don’t know what you are talking about.Am not from Nigeria so all this fati twin talk, I don’t understand.

Bantino:
Every couple argues, and this is normal. However, if a conflict is prolonged, it can lead to a deplorable outcome. Below are some ways to end argument between couples most times, learn and practice accordingly.

(1) Remember there is another point of view:
Forgetting that both partners are involved in the relationship can cause aggression. Flexibility is always better: when you discuss both points of view, strong arguments come to the surface and draw attention from both sides. Don't always see things from your own view at all times.

(2) Don’t criticize the person:
Criticizing your partner’s personality will only aggravate the situation, especially if you do it deliberately. Do not insult your partner, but talk about the specific actions that upset you. Be kind enough to let him or her know his/her actions that hurt you but do not generalize on his/her behaviour

(3) Don’t discount feelings:
Speak your feelings and address the feelings of your partner, showing your interest in their emotional state. Let him/her know that most things he/she says upsets him/her equally might be upsetting to you too as a human being

(4) Do not assume your worst thoughts are true:
Don’t think your partner is always up to no good when away from you. This can only provoke a new quarrel. Clarify the motives of your partner’s behavior and don't assume negative things.

(5) Don’t look down on your partner:
Do not express your superiority over your partner. This way you show them they aren’t good enough for you. Suggest looking for a solution to the problem together. Don't say I know what is good for you, rather ask for his/her opinion and think it through together.

(6) Don’t look for someone to blame:
It is wrong to debate who’s guilty. The event has already happened. It is now better to spend time figuring out what the best exit strategy is. Trying to pinpoint who started the argument will lead to more degenerated conversation, it is best you channel that energy to seeking out the solution.

(7) Don’t recall old misunderstandings:
Reminding your partner of past arguments will not fix situations from the past, and it will provoke a new quarrel. Discuss what’s bothering you right away. After the situation is resolved, save yourself some grief and don’t return to it, this probably will bring back "forgotten anger" that will ultimately want to be addressed thereby heating up the argument.


Do you agree? Also feel free to add yours. (matured minds only)

agreed nice write up

Not when you are very provoked, some people are very annoying and you need tell them the truth