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| 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 1:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
1. You're hot-headed. If something unpleasant happens with you and your partner, you go from 0 to 100 in three seconds. You mumble mean things — maybe even throw things — and you lash out whether the issue is big or small. The way out of this is to become aware of your behavior and change it. Consider an anger management program, or, at the very least, learn to take a break from combative conversations for 20 minutes to give yourself time to cool down. 2. You think your partner is inferior to you. You think you're the bomb, and your partner isn't. When you feel you're superior, you will develop contempt for your partner and put them down either when you're alone or when you're around others. You will try to make your partner feel small — and a person will tolerate nasty behavior like that for only so long. 3. You avoid conflict. You're the life of the party when life is rainbows and puppies — but when conflict arises, you run for the hills. Solving problems is not exactly one of your skills. But life isn't all rainbows, and if you are conflict-avoidant, you may shut down completely — which will make your partner anxious or angry. If your partner feels like he can engage you only when things are going perfectly, that's not a good thing. 4. You're obsessed with social media. If you're always on social media posting sexy photos of yourself, or — yikes! — flirting with your exes, your partner will definitely feel insecure and threatened. And guess what? That kind of behavior also makes you look insecure and desperate for attention.. This gives way for problems to start setting in. 5. You don't take responsibility for your actions. If everything is always your partner's fault and never your own, you're probably being a bit biased or irrational. If you don't easily say, "I'm sorry," and instead blame your actions on someone else, it's a sure-fire way to relationship disaster. 6. You have friends whispering in your ear. If your close pals are filling your head with thoughts like, "You could do so much better," they may be culprits in sabotaging your relationship. Ask yourself: Is this something that happens repeatedly? How well do these close friends sustain their own relationships? It may be time to stop listening to your nearest and dearest. Stop giving space for negative thoughts, surround yourself with people who'll help to grow your relationship or better stay without them, you don't need them Credit: Today.com Read more here http://orjisblog.com.ng/2017/09/22/8-signs-youre-the-problem-in-your-relationship/ Lalasticlala 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Lalas247(f): 1:29pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Number 6 Good point never ever listen to friends .. they can have hidden agenda Ben brainwashing you cause they don't want it to work between you and ur spouse ... please stay away from ppl who have never even been in long term relationship, married and virgins Envy can ruin lives  I know few ppl even here on Nl who are married still post picture chat upload up and down some even in their 30's ( it's no ones biz between the people in the relationship)... yet they are still married so you can't judge based on photos and sites they are on .. everyone is different so you handle your relationship how u deem fit Me once I marry or serious relationship ... wetin I dey find for social media when I can be doing reverse cowgirl on my hubby 24/7  |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by GloriaNinja(f): 1:33pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
 RELATIONSHIP IS NOT EASY.. THE DRAMA AND STRESS DEY TOO MUCH JARE. IN MY OPINION. RELATIONSHIP SUCKS. ONLY FEW PEOPLE ENJOY IT. AND IT'S A NIGHT MARE TO SOME PEOPLE1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by IamLEGEND1: 1:43pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
There is nothing more annoying than a girl obsessed with social media. Only you dey snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, whatsapp, even 2go. Bending your legs one kind & Pouting your lips then taking selfies like an imbecile_and Posting the pictures upandan. You come dey watch Keeping up with the Kardashians join. I no like vain people at all... 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by CaroLyner(f): 1:44pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
You avoid conflict. You're the life of the party when life is rainbows and puppies — but when conflict arises, you run for the hills. Solving problems is not exactly one of your skills. But life isn't all rainbows, and if you are conflict-avoidant, you may shut down completely — which will make your partner anxious or angry. Agreed 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Draei: 1:45pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
For those concerned... |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Nobody: 1:50pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
different strokes for different folks..observe your partner and know what suits him or her. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 1:52pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1: This is so funny. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by biacan(f): 2:08pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
well said laveda |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 2:24pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 2:24pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sekxy: Yeah, but these tips still help. We learn everyday. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by naijaboiy: 2:25pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Well why be a problem in a relationship when you can be single and just be your Fücking self, without being any Fücking problem to no relationship or any Fücking body?  6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Nobody: 2:26pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Laveda:alright. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by biacan(f): 2:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Laveda:you are welcome |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by biacan(f): 2:28pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
naijaboiy: naijaboy why are you angry lately...... |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Rajosh(m): 2:34pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:very true. the drama is enough to discourage someone. 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 2:34pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Your repetition of fücking though |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by obiorathesubtle: 2:45pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
naijabo: This is the only sensible comment on this thread.. 3 Likes |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by naijaboiy: 2:46pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
biacan:Tiz the season perhaps. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by naijaboiy: 2:49pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Laveda:Always seeing the twisted angle of that word right?  |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 3:01pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Well written article |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by zicoraads: 3:09pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
See naijaboiy, I know he's nursing a broken heart 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by biacan(f): 3:10pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
naijaboiy: hmmm |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 3:23pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Cleopatra4(f): 4:19pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Lalas247:Pray he won't start seeking advice about his wife wanting to kill him with her insatiable desire for sex. 2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 4:24pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Lalas247: Lol. You can be on social media too but it's just gonna have limits. @ Reverse cowgirl |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Burna88(f): 4:25pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Okay but |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Burna88(f): 4:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
if i eva Have a serious relationship in thé next life,i ll be nice. |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Laveda(f): 4:29pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Burna88: Lol |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Lalas247(f): 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Laveda: |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Lalas247(f): 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:He won't have time or the energy to seek any advice |
| Re: 8 Signs You’re The Problem In Your Relationship by Blackhawk01: 4:41pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Best comment, 100% legit.  2 Likes 1 Share |
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