supersystemsnig:



People can't stay in casual friendships for a week

People can't stay in a church for a month

People can't stick with a clique for a session

Clients can't be loyal to a company

A Buyer can't be loyal to the seller

Apprentices can't be loyal for long to the superior. it's a sh.it mehn, people need to take back their minds and will power back

It's damn about mastering one's self over every other sh*t

We've gotta find what we like and drill it, till it becomes what we want it to be...Thus cheating, or jumping around is more about one's soulish issues, inconsistencies, and lack of awareness of one's state of self

Cheating is mostly not a partner-problem, it's a self problem. The inability to contain one's self...

Peace..Damn, i'm enjoying my cartoon tonight.. Di gbe gbe rigbe rigbe, re gbe, re gbe, re gbe... Ijo ti mo jo la na da...?

pocohantas:

K!


I hope you don't develop high BP. You have no problem with everyone affirming your post...but you wanna have cardiac arrest over a counter. Smh...

tosyne2much:
Brilliantly written


You forgot to add that he will be walking faster than you in order to avoid people seeing you together

zanogo:

Cool!!!!

emusmithy:


You use to be my "fan"

I dunno what's gotten into you. You are just attacking me left, right and center. Am I Buhari?

emusmithy:


Lolz; it's like you're talking from knowledge o

supersystemsnig:
The challenge with falling in love is remaining in it. The human heart easily gets swayed. Takes maturity to have a mind fixated on a person and keep it there, there are too many alternatives and an undisciplined fellow, male, or female will keep jumping form one party to the next if one doesn't master his/herself.....Relationships is more about mastering one's self than any other thing

PrimadonnaO:


I totally.agree. But then again, all it takes sometimes to remain committed is to be truly in love. When you love a person, you simply don't want to lose them, as such you won't consciously do anytging to jeopardize youe relationship, always want them to be happy. This is one of the simplest definitions of love I know.

pocohantas:


I can counter any post I choose to. Your ability to put aside delusion of persecution and address it objectively, is maturity.

No, you're not Buhari.

pocohantas:
This guy must be a learner...

Naija guys wey be say, their heart and dick is too much for one woman. So,they share it among 4women.
Call it division of labour.

They can even introduce you to their ancestors, babe, e no mean anything o. One has to use lots of intuition and be hopeful too.

supersystemsnig:



I was just about turning off my laptop to enjoy my night rest but i feel i should address this before i go to bed...


Yes, i agree 100%.... But many times we do these things that choke relationships, rebounding from a low or from the ash is usually the problem when they occur, too many times, the fire is not there anymore, the willpower is gone, but we are saying the same thing anyways..You're ryt...I'm talking more about staying in love and not falling out of it, which most times isn't just subject to personal decisions like you stated but people's inability to focus on a partner without getting bored or tired of them

Peachess:
Sometimes we know, we're just too blinded by love to do the right thing.

emusmithy:


Lolz; I've been posting threads on NL as far back as back; I sure know what ONLINE MATURITY is. Otherwise I won't have gotten this far. #clearsthroat

Ermm, about the delusion of persecution thinghy and you getting too e-serious....Errm, Stop being too serious

deepwater:
This list is for the boys

When a MAN is done with you, he packages you well for the next Man, he does not leave you heart broken, he let you go in peace without revenge, he explains nicely why you two can not be together anymore, he restores your confidence, he makes sure all pending issues are resolved, he wishes you well.

Rokia2:
He don't look at you the same. Try looking deep into h is eyes you will see how he truly feels about you.

He looks at you cry without consoling you. (He's now heartless with no sympathy towards you.

Everything is your fault. Every argument is turned against you. You are the cause of everything.



You feel lonely when you are with him. He's there but you are more lonely then when you was even single


Your nak--end-e-ss don't even move him anymore. He's no longer attracted to you.

Sex becomes blah and boring.

His kissing feels different.

He's now too busy for you. He don't call much he barely text he don't even take you on dates anymore.

He don't remember your anniversary neither your birthday. You are no longer important to him.


He's easily irritable around you. Every little thing piss him off about you.


You now have a billion bad ways he start looking for every fault. Faults you never even knew existed is now invented by him.


He don't share his deepest feelings with you anymore. He becomes a total Stranger.

He no longer shows concern. If you like you can stay out till 2am (none of his business)

Your heart and instinct is now telling you that this man is no longer in love with you but like the love sick fool that you are you are still in denial.

pocohantas:


Reverse psychology doesn't work on me. Go back to your first response and give yourself that advice. Dassall

Divay22:
Love they cover eye, na marriage dey open am...
But i don't see the reason why some people wanna stick around, even when you're seeing the signs everywhere...

Dust yourself and leave.

supersystemsnig:



I was just about turning off my laptop to enjoy my night rest but i feel i should address this before i go to bed...


Yes, i agree 100%.... But many times we do these things that choke relationships, rebounding from a low or from the ash is usually the problem when they occur, too many times, the fire is not there anymore, the willpower is gone, but we are saying the same thing anyways..You're ryt...I'm talking more about staying in love and not falling out of it, which most times isn't just subject to personal decisions like you stated but people's inability to focus on a partner without getting bored or tired of them

Nobodys:
lol. Its not always easy dear. Especially when u hav bin with d person for long.. pain was d day i cried and my bf told me dat my tears doesnt move a thing in him. Gawdddd i felt like commiting suicide... Till now i stil cnt leave him no matter how we try. I feel like somthing is wrong with me...

emusmithy:


If I may come in: You won't leave even if you caught him cheating?

Boyooosa:
Uhn, my mercy does not do you. Continue dulling urself.

Peachess:

WTF are you saying?

Rokia2:
He don't look at you the same. Try looking deep into h is eyes you will see how he truly feels about you.

He looks at you cry without consoling you. (He's now heartless with no sympathy towards you.

Everything is your fault. Every argument is turned against you. You are the cause of everything.
Guess u talking frm experience.


You feel lonely when you are with him. He's there but you are more lonely then when you was even single


Your nak--end-e-ss don't even move him anymore. He's no longer attracted to you.

Sex becomes blah and boring.

His kissing feels different.

He's now too busy for you. He don't call much he barely text he don't even take you on dates anymore.

He don't remember your anniversary neither your birthday. You are no longer important to him.


He's easily irritable around you. Every little thing piss him off about you.


You now have a billion bad ways he start looking for every fault. Faults you never even knew existed is now invented by him.


He don't share his deepest feelings with you anymore. He becomes a total Stranger.

He no longer shows concern. If you like you can stay out till 2am (none of his business)

Your heart and instinct is now telling you that this man is no longer in love with you but like the love sick fool that you are you are still in denial.