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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by lenghtinny(m): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:


Yes, we are equal.
No we are not...
The world is not a one way traffic..

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 7:59am On Oct 29, 2017
Dshocker:


Every women's place is in the kitchen and the living room... grin grin grin

It is "every woman's place" not "every women's place"


You should spend the rest of your days in the kitchen and baby sitting. Let your wife go and make money, cos you wasted your time in school.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by XXLDICK(m): 7:59am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:

Yes, we are equal.
I hope you walk the talk.
do you share bills?
hope you don't play the female victim card?...

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 8:02am On Oct 29, 2017
XXLDICK:

I hope you walk the talk.

do you share bills?

hope you don't play the female victim card?...

I don't even rely on men for anything. That's how I was brought up. My mum said she never asked my dad money for "soup" and they share the bills.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 8:02am On Oct 29, 2017
iLickAnalFungus:
Tell me sweety, what is it? What do women want?
Sweety,
create a thread and ask that question. You will know.
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by lenghtinny(m): 8:04am On Oct 29, 2017
Sapiosexuality:
Feminism is highly misunderstood by most persons. Feminism is simply equality. I think the problem is the use of the prefix 'femi'.

This is feminism: http://www.mortalpoet.com/men-chill-feminism-not-think/
Equality is actually the hypocrisy that surrounds feminism... If Feminism was about equity, then they deserved to be taken serious.

Women wants to be equal to men, but only wants the advantages minus the disadvantages.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Papiikush: 8:06am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:


yeah yeah

Can you even see you are against that. Feminism is just a delusion

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 8:07am On Oct 29, 2017
Papiikush:


Can you even see you are against that. Feminism is just a delusion

you are the delusion here.
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by killsmith(f): 8:09am On Oct 29, 2017
Dshocker:


Every women's place is in the kitchen and the living room... grin grin grin
You call them women, I call them dishwashers

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Papiikush: 8:11am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:


you are the delusion here.

was that comment based on reflex to defense?

Lol, typical

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:11am On Oct 29, 2017
lenghtinny:

Equality is actually the hypocrisy that surrounds feminism... If Feminism was about equity, then they deserved to be taken serious.

Women wants to be equal to men, but only wants the advantages minus the disadvantages.
So, on what base is your understanding or definition of feminism erected? Feminists and etymologically, feminism, tell you that feminism is simply an attempt at equity and you disagree. They tell you they want to unburden the men with unnecessary baggage culture and society placed on them and you say they are hypocrites.

They want the richer person on a date to pay for the meal. They want the smarter person to be head of the family(absolutely logical). They want that girl dying for the dude to approach him and damn society and other archaic thinking. What exactly is wrong with this? Did you read that article? Read it if you didn't.

Is your problem with feminism simply the use of 'femi' or what exactly?

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by iLickAnalFungus(m): 8:12am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:

Sweety,
create a thread and ask that question. You will know.
Here you go.. https://www.nairaland.com/4144775/what-woman-really-want
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by chineduemmao: 8:18am On Oct 29, 2017
Hmm at least dis one didnt go down popular lane: why should female smokers be frowned at?
why should female promiscuity be shorned?
why must a woman learn how to cook?
why should the man be the head of the family?
even why should jesus be a male?
nansense! at least i ve seen a feminist post that makes small sense
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by esthy86(f): 8:18am On Oct 29, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Any mumu that tries to quote or use chimamanda as a reference is automatically disqualified.
Woman wey no get sense. Our mantra still remains: Fuck_feminists and everything they stand for.
hmmm,who says that woman dont have sense,your president that is a man,i guess he is full of sense







talk no more of woman like that

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by lenghtinny(m): 8:19am On Oct 29, 2017
Sapiosexuality:
So, on what basis is your understanding or definition of feminism erected? Feminists and etymologically, feminism, tell you that feminism is simply an attempt at equality and you disagree. They tell you they want to unburden the men with unnecessary baggage culture and society placed on them and you say they are hypocrites. They want the richer person on a date to pay for the meal. They want the smarter person to be head of the family(absolutely logical). They want that girl dying for the dude to approach him and damn society and other archaic thinking. What exactly is wrong with this? Did you read that article? Read it if you didn't.


In clear terms, feminism is not any different misogyny... They are simply man hater and not helper. Cut that crap about what they want and what they don't want.
While misogyny is heavily frowned upon, feminism is heavily cheered on because women will always have their way in a supposed man's world

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Cuteamigo1(m): 8:20am On Oct 29, 2017
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by esthy86(f): 8:21am On Oct 29, 2017
Dshocker:


Every women's place is in the kitchen and the living room... grin grin grin
interesting,in this 21 century you still speak like this,but i disagree with u









wtf
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Nobody: 8:25am On Oct 29, 2017
chineduemmao:
Hmm at least dis one didnt go down popular lane:
why should female smokers be frowned at?

why should female promiscuity be shorned?

why must a woman learn how to cook?

why should the man be the head of the family?

even why should jesus be a male?

nansense!
at least i ve seen a feminist post that makes small sense


why should Jesus be male?

all this heartbroken, "undickified" girls nor go kill us with laugh

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by chineduemmao: 8:25am On Oct 29, 2017
XXLDICK:
Though I'm male, but I'm a hardcore feminist.

As long as they are not advocating for equity but equality, I'm in �% support.

...

No more quota for females, let's shrug it out pound for pound ( surely, the male folks will win. But that's what equality is all about grin)

When we get into a fight, no more playing the victim card, we should be judged equally cool

All guys should be at the forefront campaigning for gender equality. We are equal grin
u should hav told us to commit murder don de hungry u since
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by XXLDICK(m): 8:27am On Oct 29, 2017
pweetiedee:


I don't even rely on men for anything. That's how I was brought up. My mum said she never asked my dad money for "soup" and they share the bills.

Nice one. I like your kind of girls. Surely, you will agree with me your kind are rare to find which says a lot about the gender equality buhaha

I also hope you will share the wedding bills, let it not seem girls are now commodities guys purchase

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by chineduemmao: 8:28am On Oct 29, 2017
ivolt:
Unfortunately, this writer fails to define "feminism",
leaving rooms for kids to engage in imaginative
and straw-men arguments.
u better start changing that definition in ur head! am assuming though
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by chineduemmao: 8:30am On Oct 29, 2017
mrphysics:
No be only feminist but Foolminist.
my man u de here?
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:30am On Oct 29, 2017
lenghtinny:

In clear terms, feminism is not any different misogyny... They are simply man hater and not helper. Cut that crap about what they want and what they don't want.
While misogyny is heavily frowned upon, feminism is heavily cheered on because women will always have their way in a supposed man's world
In clear terms according to who or what?

You are confusing chauvinism for feminism. That's why I'm asking you where exactly your understanding of Feminism emanates. Tell me. This is wiki's definition:

"Feminism is a range of political movements , ideologies , and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to such opportunities for men".

What is your definition and where exactly did you get it from? Or you must agree that a follower of Jesus Christ is not a Christian just because you think he is not Christian? Give me something and read the article.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by desmonpiro: 8:37am On Oct 29, 2017
MhisTahrah:
....
I love this article..women, girls, ladies, mamas should focus more on self dependency than taking man as their competitor or superior.. every human being has the ability to think..so think about on how to make it yourself

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 8:38am On Oct 29, 2017
XXLDICK:

Nice one. I like your kind of girls. Surely, you will agree with me your kind are rare to find which says a lot about the gender equality buhaha

I also hope you will share the wedding bills, let it not seem girls are now commodities guys purchase

wedding bills.

Iyawo loni igbeyawo


Its the wife's family that celebrates the wedding more na. God provide for me and my parent. I can't let one in-law cumman be telling me they "did wedding" for me.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by chineduemmao: 8:39am On Oct 29, 2017
Sapiosexuality:
... They want that girl dying for the dude to approach him and damn society and other archaic thinking...

dis one go fun die! i just de imagine nam... hahahahahahahahaha
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by pweetiedee(m): 8:40am On Oct 29, 2017
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Talkwell: 8:41am On Oct 29, 2017
Sapiosexuality:
So, on what base is your understanding or definition of feminism erected? Feminists and etymologically, feminism, tell you that feminism is simply an attempt at equity and you disagree. They tell you they want to unburden the men with unnecessary baggage culture and society placed on them and you say they are hypocrites.

They want the richer person on a date to pay for the meal. They want the smarter person to be head of the family(absolutely logical). They want that girl dying for the dude to approach him and damn society and other archaic thinking. What exactly is wrong with this? Did you read that article? Read it if you didn't.

Is your problem with feminism simply the use of 'femi' or what exactly?


There are different definitions of feminism, most narcissistic women have hijacked the whole feminism talk and today we have 3rd wave feminists that have no clue what they're fighting for.

While the op is placing feminism in a good light, there are other feminists that are placing it in a bad light that's what's gets everyone pissed.

The dumb feminists have overshadowed the good ones,their behavior is used as a yardstick for feminism.

There are a whole lotta women that can't accept feminism openly grin

When Oprah was asked,instead of saying YES,she had to define what she thinks feminism is and say she supports what her definition (meaning she knows that the narcissistic feminists have given feminism a bad name)

German chancellor was asked the same thing and she did the exact thing Oprah did grin

Yahoo's CEO was asked the same thing and she's clearly against it.

I can go on listing a whole lotta females that can't say YES to feminism without explaining their own version of feminism grin

Feminism as of today has been hijacked by mentally unstable female misandrist.

MGTOW was created as a reply to feminism and its been hijacked my misogynists too.
Labels won't bring whatever true feminism stands for.

even Judge Judy is against the whole "feminism" stuff,she says she doesn't need to be under a group to prove she stands fro equality. grin

Egalitarianism should be used in place of feminism.
Adichie and other feminists are hypocrites, when Saudi recently allowed women to drive they couldn't even congratulate the ladies in saudi who've been bursting their ass off to see that dream come true.

Muslim countries are in dire need of feminism,you'll never see a feminist talking about her ongoing feminism march in Muslim countries.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:46am On Oct 29, 2017
chineduemmao:
dis one go fun die! i just de imagine nam... hahahahahahahahaha
Of course that is it. People fear what they don't understand and often hate what they can't conquer. Feminism is not harmful to our society. The only problem are some dumb people who claim to be feminist and people whose understanding of ideologies are based on how its proponents behave. Simple. Some are just scared of the word 'femi'. Just read this article to get my point.

http://www.mortalpoet.com/men-chill-feminism-not-think/
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:56am On Oct 29, 2017
Talkwell:


There are different definitions of feminism, most narcissistic women have hijacked the whole feminism talk and today we have 3rd wave feminists that have no clue what they're fighting for.

While the op is placing feminism in a good light, there are other feminists that are placing it in a bad light that's what's gets everyone pissed.

The dumb feminists have over
I think the reason people are getting scared is lack of understanding, the glorification of ignorance and the brainwash power of this chauvinistic male world. People don't want to read and thus criticise wrongly. You see, Criticism comes from understanding. But here even people who don't understand a thing want to analyse it.
Re: We Should All Be Feminist by AHCB: 9:01am On Oct 29, 2017
Rubbish! It's now official, Adichie is a bone head and she knows next to nothing. I mean, WTF! "Put a group of men together and they won't talk about women?". That's the grandest bullsh1t I've ever heard this year.

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Re: We Should All Be Feminist by JamesReacher(m): 9:02am On Oct 29, 2017
No two human beings are equal. I want to spend on my lady, I also want my lady to spend on me. Sharing of bill is frowned upon by me, we arent in a business setting. It should rather be done out of love,

' Dear, I have 15k here and it costs 30k. Take my atm love. My own turn sef would come haha '

I'm talking about real love here please not the boo bae fake ass shiit.

The problem with any form of labels is the missuse, the ignorance of not understanding it but on a surface level. Don't be a man hater , Women head organizations that my father would say yes ma to but you lazy females would rather whine all day and say how Its a men's world. Almost like the race card.

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