Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

My dear, I will advise you to seak for your sisters opinion since the guy want to take up the responsibility of the lady... Abortion is a no go area O! Let her give birth to the child

You can't force her to abort her child, if she had wanted to abort it, she for done do am, una no go know say she carry belle sef.

Let her have the child and learn from her mistake, believe me when the baby comes you guys won't feel this bad anymore.




To people saying they neglected their duties, life is not always like that. Will they follow the girl around all the time. Some people get easily influenced and carried away by peer pressure no matter the training you give them.
Even pastor pikin dey carry belle.

This world av spoil finish.... Wen we were young, the only thing on our mind was books.

Skipuru:


No I should be carrying her on my back.
I dey Lagos dey hustle mean while they are living comfortably at ph.

Men PH sha,I been tidy enough barneys for that yard that year sha,even my homie been put one smallie in the family way.truthfully though you go need elderly person to clear this matter because you Gan self still dey young ,if the homeboy when score dey capable to take care of your sis and her baby then no wham,still arrange boys to treat him fvck up its very necessary

It's a SERIOUS STURVS now.
Consider the spiritual effects of ALL this. It's well in the end in JESUS name.

NA FUTURE HOE BE THIS. YOU FOR ADVISE AM NOW SEE WETIN DON HAPPEN. SHE DON GO CHOP JUICY CASSAVA DEY PREGNANT. GOOD FOR HER. NEXT TIME SHE NO GO BANG ANYHOW

Remember it's her life,it's her Choices....Dont force her,I advise you to let her do what she wants..I..Just be supportive...but pls dont let her get married! she can have the child n still go to school if she wants to..let her find her own path just be there whenever she falls..
As for the guy,have a guy to guy talk! let him be the one to pay her bills !!!!!.....

abortion is murder,if she can,let her deliver d baby.everything will be fine

Akowemoon:




My dear, I will advise you to seak for your sisters opinion since the guy want to take up the responsibility of the lady... Abortion is a no go area O! Let her give birth to the child

I choose to be on the street after my secondary school because of my family now look at the way the bastard brought Shame to me.

pls dont abort the baby.allow the guy to take the responsiblity as he said then put all your effort to see that she is ok at this stage support her the did has been done already.she will write her weac next year

If u dare abort that innocent child I will make sure your testicles are aborted aswelll......... I HATE NIGERIA!!!

Hmm

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

oh!!!..my God!!!....this is gross

It’s quite difficult but it has happened.The person responsible is willing to accept his role let her have the baby.You cannot determine how her future birth cycles will be.Unless otherwise medically proven that her health is in danger then it could be terminated.Don’t have that mentality that “others will laugh at your family.”

Let her abort the baby, if she gives birth at 16 years she has practically wasted away her destiny.

Bro i think d decision is hers to take. Only let her know what she's getting herself into, wat to gain n lose.
Lucky d impregnator has promised to take full responsibility. But talk to ur sis in a calm tone. No need to beat or poison her. #myopinion.com

justscorchone:



Men PH sha,I been tidy enough barneys for that yard that year sha,even my homie been put one smallie in the family way.truthfully though you go need elderly person to clear this matter because you Gan self still dey young ,if the homeboy when score dey capable to take care of your sis and her baby then no wham,still arrange boys to treat him fvck up its very necessary

Guy me no be wahala person now I never tell my senior brother wey dey ph him Na bad boy. I too dey calm because if I should go to ph Na to cause big wahala.

yungEX:
My guy she's the person with child... Take am easy with her, point out to her the kind thing she's entering into by deciding to keep the child as regards her education . At the end of the day it's her choice that matters. If na me na to abort am sha

ur Advice get K-Leg

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

Give the boy some slack, he is 22 in the street, hustling to better his life then come back to change the fortune of his family.


He needs to be encouraged and also solutions should be provided for his present situation which can derail his vision. Stop adding fuel to his misery.




Skipuru: There are some things we can't change when it happens, we need to take time and think of what's the best for ourselves. Your sister made a mistake and i will advise you to use the carrot and stick approach. You need to know if the goathead that impregnated her has the mental and financial capacity to take care of your sister.



Using the carrot and Stick approach for your sister means that you will have to show your sister that you will be there for her and you will give your moral support to her through this trying times so she shouldn't panic and make rash decisions like following the goathead that impregnated her cos her family rejected her.
The Stick approach implies that you need to be a Man and make sure the Goathead doesn't abscond from his responsibility and that your sister doesn't continue seeing him if he refuses to take responsibility.

Tell the goathead that i said he is a pedophile and can be jailed for having carnal knowledge of an underage girl.



Be strong

please do not abort...because its murder!...its best to accept the future n begin early prep 4 it...encourage ur sista n make her strong...if she loves the guy then no issues...marriage things all d way!...COS TWO WRONGS DONT MAKE NO RIGHT...peace!

You haven't provided enough information on this issue.

See forget that guy and all the I will take care of the baby. The guy no get money. If the guy get money e no suppose dey fu.cck small pickin. Na your family go take care of the baby last last.

If your family dey okay financially, keep the baby. If not , you know what to do. No carry person come suffer abeg.

Besides once your sister don born, husband go scarce like mad. Factor that one too. 99% probability dey say the guy no go marry your sister.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

pls free the girl, though she is small I think she can cope.by the way am new here any welcome?

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

pls free the girl, though she is small I think she can cope.by the way am new here any welcome?

QueenOfNepal:
Give the boy some slack, he is 22 in the street, hustling to better his life then come back to change the fortune of his family.


He needs to be encouraged and also solutions should be provided for his present situation which can derail his vision. Stop adding fuel to his misery.




Skipuru: There are some things we can't change when it happens, we need to take time and think of what's the best for ourselves. Your sister made a mistake and i will advise you to use the carrot and stick approacu

��� thanks for that I appreciate.

nigeriancritic1:

I have a 16 year old daughter and i know how much of tactical talking i do to remind her that useless boy like you are everywhere without future and i showed her examples of futures. Do you have a kid yet? Come learn. Idiot!

You don't need to reply that loose dog.......Children of this generation need thorough lecture and lessons on the danger and evil attached to premarital sex........but some animals on this forum will keep saying being a virgin does not assured good home and all sort of rubbish to destroy the destiny of the upcoming.......I keep telling my only sister of age 17 that if she got impregnated by any lunatic roaming the street.......She should get ready to quit her education and face the reality of hard labour and poverty because I won't allow my parents who goes out all day for their hard earned money to spend such money on a useless child that can'nt stay away from sex and make her studies her priorities

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Sincerely, it happens.
U don't need to get too upset about the whole shiiit. I was in ur position 16 years ago and that foetus back then is now preparing for waec now, so its not a big deal. If u truly love ur sis, u n ur mum don't need to make her go thru unnecessary isolation/dejection, she will survive it and the foetus will be preparing for waec in the next 16 yrs.
All she needs is u n ur mum's support.
Thank me in the next 16 yrs.

Tell her to have the baby, pregnancy is not a death sentence. It is a normal phase of life every productive woman most likely will go through, just that it should be done responsibly at a matured age and within the confines of matrimony to increase the possibility of success but there is one size fits all idea of running life successfully. Since she know who did, and that person is not denying it, it is a blessing. let the guy Who impregnated her bring his family to do a formal introduction and make sure it is video recorded where the guy takes responsibility for the pregnancy, and what he will do to suppprt her and the child, for future reference. Then an agreement can be reached for a formal marriage in the future, maybe when she graduates from university, and all that.... Many people missed their future life partners because of things like this, please manage this thing with wisdom and seek the face of the lord, it is well.

She made a mistake but I really don't see why she should abort the baby since the person responsible didn't deny, abortion is wrong and dangerous, don't forget the emotional stigma she'd have to live with if she goes through with it, I'm sure you'd change ur perspective when the baby comes goodluck

she is too young to have a baby

The deed has been done. Let her bear the child. Do not commit murder

Please, let her keep the pregnancy. What if she abort the pregnancy and she finds it difficult to get pregnant when she is really ready. And mind you,if you abort am she go carry another one. Shame, pls every families have their ups and down abeggy. Please let her keep it.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

When you were enjoying unprotected sex what were you expecting? Plasma TV?