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Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 7:08pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: Issokey. Continue searching for a lover. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Toks2008:I will . 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 5:15pm On Oct 28, 2017 |
Toks2008: Who are the mods of nairaland asides lalastic...lala? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by BruncleZuma: 2:12pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
People that have seen more hotel rooms than Gideons Bible go think say dem be experts... 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Adaumunocha(f): 2:13pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Toks goan marry sir |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Toks2008: I like the ideas expressed in this thread, though it may seem difficult to accept, but many of the stuffs here seems legit. Nice pic, by the way |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by asawanathegreat(m): 2:14pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Make una learn ooooo |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Oyindidi(f): 2:17pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:You are so right, love doesn't exist. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by happney65: 2:19pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
daewoorazer: 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 2:19pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Jupxter: Ose padi mi. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Toks2008: Twale. Ko ma lo be They won't understand, strain isn't involved in these partnerships. There's liberalism, it's a union that forces each party to bring their best to the table. It involves working on projects together.It's fun, it's team work, and it's fun.I love it, it's what i intend doing with one.And with time, the emotions and feelings evolve, and love grows naturally |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 2:22pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Oyindidi: I hope your husband doesnt know your moniker sha. I won't join the pleading party 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Oyindidi(f): 2:24pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Jupxter:Do I look like I give a fucccck? He do browse with my phone I know why I said that, love do fade at some point in relationship. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Yes, there are lows with love, that's when we need to look at things that interests both parties, do them to occupy, and then we rebound from such low points. So yes, love exists ma. You of all married people should know that, or haven't you experienced those moments. Aha, you know what i mean ryt. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Oyindidi(f): 2:29pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Jupxter:Una like my marriage o, I go host una for my house soon. I've been in it for 10 years by God's grace. I know when I say love doesn't exist at some point. Of course there is love but in this topic of discussion, I agree with my friend Toks2008 |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Oyindidi(f): 2:30pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Jupxter:Which moments? are you married? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by ObamaOsama: 2:31pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
the op is right. if we all keep that in ur mind it will help us, later the real love will come |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by inotice: 2:34pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
for those who get easily bored from all the lovey-dovey dramas of the conventional marriage or relationship, this model is the best thing that can happen to their lives.We have emotionally independent people and when these type get into marriage with the average emotional needy man or woman, it always degenerates to irreconcilable differences |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 2:38pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Even if it never comes,we still remain together if the terms and conditions are continually adhered to withoit that crazy dumb emotional tupsy turvy facade called love and if it ever developes,it will be a mutually benefitting one. ObamaOsama: |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by nacaz4real(m): 2:39pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
My friend your article makes a lot of sense. Many people would not get the sense this, however, if many people couples can follow these simple principles they'll definitely build stronger relationships. Nice piece for mature minds only. Toks2008: |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by MichaelTLoni: 2:47pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Arrant NONSENSE...Use the bible as your final arbiter before you lead people astray.im outta here. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Evergreat2014(m): 2:54pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
alexialin: I usually come and read people's opinions here on Nairalad without quoting. But you actually gave back an excellent reply I can't ignore. Thumbs up. There is still hope after all for humans. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by KINGS100(m): 3:05pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
doesn't make sense to me. sound like mere business contract, marriage is a more serious endeavor. the guy way above me have said it all Alexialin |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by inotice: 3:06pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
for the vast majority, this model is sure to wreck disaster.Most people need constant assurance of love, care and encouragement to be happy and fulfilled in life, Hence a marriage based on mere materialistic and sexual benefit is sure to work against their happiness.The feeling of being wanted with an intense passion in marriage is a secret paramount desire of most women.While a feeling of being an abundant provider and a source of joy demonstrated by a loving partner in marriage, is a secret paramount desire for most men.Therefore a beneficiary partner for marriage is sure to fail the most. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by olabrad: 3:10pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Benita27: I like your orientation. Relationship is for sharing love, concern, feelings, desires, affections, companionship, true friendship,etc, and not just for mutual benefit. It turns the purpose of relationship on its head. This so-called partnership is synonymous to having the service of a prostitute to yourself alone. Where is the sense in that? She can as well disappear if a better offer comes by. I only get annoyed with you when you start promoting the Nigerian (unreasonable) version of feminism. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by wonder233: 3:22pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
This is a very well written and thought out write-up. I totally agree with the points put forward, the irony of the situation is that this is actually the so-called 'true love' many so elusively desire...but then, only the very thoughtful will decipher. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 3:26pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
MichaelTLoni: Lol! I'm more spiritual than you can ever possibly imagine. All these people writing sermon here have no dotty clue of what a love affair is but only fantasizing. ...if you like preach from now till eternity. ..marriages will continue to crash and lovers will turn to haters so why fool ourselves. GOD is the only one who can give true love and every human love is 200% business deal..quote me in heaven. No one gets married to another without a strong reason and when you love with a reason then it becomes selfish and unreliable cos take away that thing and the love fades. So please continue to daydream about what is right and write a novel on it ..the fact remains that there is no true love out there. As far as I'm concerned,I will marry a lady that pleases me and I expect her to be with me if only I have what she desires and of course with time,the bond (not love) we form will probably keep us together till death. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by mgbadike81: 3:41pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:add tinubu,ngige,Peter obi,obiano and change your name to ipob are not my enemies. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Blonchilli(m): 4:04pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:I agree with you 100 percent. It's time we accept the fact that emotions fade. Look at male to male relationships, it lasts because they know what they want from themselves. People now rush in and out of relationship/marriages because they don't know what they want |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by omegaRealtoz(m): 4:06pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Dear OP. Your write up is so wrong. Because it works for you does not mean it works for another. God that Instituted love is all wise so my dear even if you go into a relationship with these rules as time goes on one of you will still start developing feelings so whats d point. These are keys to loneliness. 1 Like |
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