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Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 5:53pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Lalas247:I'm at your service. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Toks2008: fùck outta here with that bullshìt. I didn't join this forum today and I know you and your misogynistic beliefs checkout this one below that you spent time defending why defend it if it wasn't your belief? Toks2008: 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 5:39pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: How old are you? Are you married? Why I asked is because I realize you write lots of comments about romance based on theory but you need to have the experience first. So I will henceforth stop responding to you cos you are only writing from fantasies. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 5:48pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Toks2008: you that write trash you ain't married either. pls show me my comments on romance that I wrote based on fantasy. you claim that what you write ain't your beliefs, yet you claim a woman who is not okay with an adulterous husband has no right to opt out. you go to the extent of twisting your bible to suit your male chauvinist views yet it is not your beliefs. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 6:12pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: Here we go again..if I were you I will calm down your raging hormones and learn before you foolishly make the same mistakes many ladies make. For your info I have been in and out of "marriage" and I have friends both male and female that have shared their experience. I'm too old for naira land banters so I feel at 42 the best way to give back to nairaland which I joined 10years ago is to dish out some home made truths so that the younger ones can learn but instead all I get are rantings and wishful comment from toddlers who don't even understand jack about romance and they just rant endlessly.. I'm more than qualified to give marital or relationship advice cos I have passed through that road before. You say you will leave an adulterous husband but go out and see what becomes of most of these ladies who left their adulterous husband...they end up lonely,miserable and most likely a intimacy gadget for randy boys or as mistresses of another married man... so who is fooling who? Does common sense not tell you that the mistress knew your husband was married and all she wanted was for you to leave? why leave a man who loves you and cares for you because he cheats on you? what is the freaking guaranty the next man won't do worse? All I write are points to make you ladies prepare for any crazy thing that may come up in your marriage but instead to learn you rant and rant and rant. There was a lady here on nauraland that virtually cursed my generation when she read a thread of mine about the reality of romance just for her to contact me offline a year latter to apologize and saying she now knows better. I'm not on nairaland to woo ladies which is why i have maintained proper decorum since i registered so I'm not here to impress any lady .. I'm a crazily faithful guy but does that mean I should start fooling myself preaching to guys to be faithful?,and the facr that i hate polygamy does not change the reality on ground? so why should I start forming preacher online when the fact remains that the world has gone crazy. If I were you I will print out all my threads on romance and read them again and again so that you can be more prepared for the crazy world of men out there. I will stop here. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Toks2008: I don't need all these your stories. so your rapists apologists, misogynistic male fans of nairaland don't deserve advice to be better but women need to be brainwashed to put up with bullshìt abi? The major problem I had with that your stupìd thread on divorce is that you were trying to make it an authority that a woman has to stay with a hiv prone cheating Bastard just because your misogynistic interpretation of your version of "God"said so. No regards for the woman's feelings or do you think they are woods with no feelings? So if the woman is hurting emotionally she does not deserve peace of mind abi. if she enjoys sleeping with boyfriend after the divorce so fùcking what? please don't even think I believe in the butterfly in the stomach romantic love. romantic love is fleeting and superficial. The kind of love i believe in is the one borne out of deep friendship of people with similar philosophy and beliefs where everything is mutual give and take including love and care. A man that loves and cares for his wife's feelings wouldn't hurt her. so a man who cheats on his wife (assuming the wife plays her part right) cares for himself and is selfish there is nothing loving or caring about that. so miss me with that bullshìt. anyway you are older and set in your archaic misogynist views it is well. end of discussion. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 7:59pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
[[s]quote author=Proudgorgeousga post=62104647] [s] I don't need all these your stories. so your rapists apologists, misogynistic male fans of nairaland don't deserve advice to be better but women need to be brainwashed to put up with bullshìt abi? The major problem I had with that your stupìd thread on divorce is that you were trying to make it an authority that a woman has to stay with a hiv prone cheating Bastard just because your misogynistic interpretation of your version of "God"said so. No regards for the woman's feelings or do you think they are woods with no feelings? So if the woman is hurting emotionally she does not deserve peace of mind abi. if she enjoys sleeping with boyfriend after the divorce so fùcking what? please don't even think I believe in the butterfly in the stomach romantic love. romantic love is fleeting and superficial. The kind of love i believe in is the one borne out of deep friendship of people with similar philosophy and beliefs where everything is mutual give and take including love and care. A man that loves and cares for his wife's feelings wouldn't hurt her. so a man who cheats on his wife (assuming the wife plays her part right) cares for himself and is selfish there is nothing loving or caring about that. so miss me with that bullshìt. anyway you are older and set in your archaic misogynist views it is well. end of discussion. [/quote] [/s] I have done you great honour responding to you but you just crossed the line of intelligent discussant to a low life pepper seller and such does not deserve my response any longer...Go learn some decorum ..whatever rocks your boat.Bye. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by LordKO(m): 9:21pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Toks2008, it's unfortunate that you didn't learn anything meaningful from your said failed marriage. Believe you me, you didn't achieve self-realization before contracting the said marriage, and up to now you're yet to achieve it too - citing your opinions. You're just conceited (no insult intended towards you). Actually, neither old age nor experience confers wisdom, only insight does. A clear example is PMB, he came to power as a former president and the last time I checked; with his experience and old age he's yet to show any sign of wisdom in him in the area of governance. . . I don't wish you the same in your next marriage. Meanwhile, kindly eschew the myopic thought that you're the only advanced person on nairaland romance section. There are a whole lot of advanced and successful people - from different life endeavors - of both genders that are equally members and contributors. No one person has monopoly of wisdom. 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by Toks2008(m): 9:43pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
LordKO: And you just wasted your time writing this without making any sense..how pathetic..Please communicate. I assume you are a guy yet you just trolled and that is the problem with many people who just make comments without making sense. No one knows it at but if you dont know what to write just read and leave ok. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why we should Settle For A Partner Rather Than A Lover. by LordKO(m): 9:48pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Toks2008: LOL. You're a typical example of an articulate incompetent. Bye. 3 Likes |
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