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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by buccal(m): 11:05pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
the night is young we can link up, i go love u sotey u go wounjure..
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by buccal(m): 11:06pm On Nov 10, 2017
VickyRotex:
undecided undecided undecided
Baby what's wrong?
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by BigSarah(f): 11:06pm On Nov 10, 2017
buccal:
the night is young we can link up, i go love u sotey u go wounjure..

No thanks kiss

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Lexusgs430: 11:07pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry

Let me introduce you to the dating scene .....
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by fatymore(f): 11:08pm On Nov 10, 2017
Don't know yet
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Vizzim: 11:08pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry

Your still young.. Just be patient no rush.
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Nov 10, 2017
Lol, the hussle is real oh.
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Nov 10, 2017
Nysc is as pointless as bigbroda naija should be scraped .

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by harbjar(m): 11:11pm On Nov 10, 2017
Still in the goddamned NYSC and am babeless.... � mcm

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by buccal(m): 11:11pm On Nov 10, 2017
Vizzim:


Your still young.. Just be patient no rush.
you're still young till grin i pity her....be turning them down u hear

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Nov 10, 2017
oteikwu16:
Mine is still waxing stronger. I'm hoping on tying the nut soon.
And also nut inside her after tying the knot with her. grin

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by AverageAnnie(f): 11:12pm On Nov 10, 2017
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...
Modified:Thanks to those who encouraged me..

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by buccal(m): 11:12pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:


No thanks kiss
and you sounded asif you need a bf angry

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by buccal(m): 11:13pm On Nov 10, 2017
AverageAnnie:
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...
God doesnt cover people's eye..how will he see God's creations? angry

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Sanctus1(m): 11:14pm On Nov 10, 2017
after nysc we went back to the real person..

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by MUYEEKFIRST(m): 11:15pm On Nov 10, 2017
7Alexander:
Mine survived till 2years after the program, I had plans of us walking down the aisle at the end of the day, but it just didn't work out.

I wish it did, but it was a surreal experience
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Leez(m): 11:20pm On Nov 10, 2017
paulstrings:
During our University days, we've acquired the Love of our Life at one point. He/She must be someone you planned to settle with after school. Oh, the Joy, the Romance and the Memories. That level of relationship is always something serious.

But then NYSC Happened.

The Camping is the crux of the whole matter.

21 days of meeting new people, having fun, a different environment and schedule.

There is this air of freedom and sense of adventure.

You begin to form alliances, acquaintances, and friendships to survive.

These networks will help you survive the 21 "horrible" days.

Disaster will always be lurking around the corner. You just like this guy/girl so much, and you can’t get them out of your mind because you get to see them every day for the next 21 days. You see them at the parade grounds, hostels, kitchen, seminar halls and variety classes. The attraction becomes something of a greater magnitude

You finally decide to take action and you know, this cliché

“Whatever happens in Moscow, stays in Moscow”.

there’s always something about connecting in such circumstances.

The Intimidation in our service camps is so high. Takes a lot of strength and willpower to resist such temptations. You will want to fight the urge to try someone new.

The Vegas of your dreams.

My Camp was interesting, Corpers went as far as organizing a party tagged "Night of Fornication". They printed flyers and shared around. {The camp director heard about it and gave us a hot moralizing sermon on the campgrounds the following morning. Youthful Exuberance!! She chided, even though a majority of us didn't know what went down the previous night.

Well, consider the fact that most people who attended the event were in a relationship or semi-relationship. And “things” must have happened that day. That was just an instance.

I heard stories of married corpers having extramarital affairs in camps. This might even go on to continue all through the service year.

My Advice to Corpers and partners are as follows

* Get prepared before they are being posted out to their service states. Discuss it
* Keep a constant communication. Give Him/her all the attention they deserve
* Make sure you part in high spirits. don't allow a fight before they leave.
* Try to visit if you can

Well, Humans are unpredictable beings. Let’s hope we can trust our partners to stay faithful and true during their NYSC days. For any healthy relationship, there must be trust, loyalty, and commitment.” Being in a foreign place and away from your love can definitely be tough but you can pull through. Besides, it has its own advantages, like

* The Absence makes the heart grow fonder
* Bringing romance to your relationship
* Falling in love with yourself and discovering new things about yourself

My sympathies go out to the insecure ones {Shrugs}. I personally don’t think they’ll survive the absence of their partners. They will go on to have a high degree of paranoia.

Please, tell us ... Did your relationship survive past the gruesome NYSC test?

Source: http://lifeafternysc.com/did-your-relationship-survive-after-nysc/


relationship grin grin grin
i enjoyed my national youth sex convention sha
thnks to halima,chioma and dm dope mamas
s/out my homies n ppa
#memories

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 10, 2017
very few remain
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by ikdaddy01(m): 11:21pm On Nov 10, 2017
To ur tent Oh Isreal!

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Leez(m): 11:22pm On Nov 10, 2017
harbjar:
Still in the goddamned NYSC and am babeless.... � mcm
how na undecided
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by curvilicious: 11:23pm On Nov 10, 2017
Mine neva worked out well

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Rubbiish(m): 11:24pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
Just 300lvl?
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by dammytimmy(m): 11:25pm On Nov 10, 2017
AverageAnnie:
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...
smiley
AverageAnnie:
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...
amen
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by nkemjacob2(m): 11:25pm On Nov 10, 2017
Noooooooooo9ooooooooooooooooooo. My woman said I should go and look for money oooo. Dat is how d relationship ended

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by darlingtonNYIG(m): 11:26pm On Nov 10, 2017
The lady I met in camp as way back 2012 in Abuja is my fiancee now and we are tying the knot next year.

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by prynsex(m): 11:30pm On Nov 10, 2017
so everybody above me haff served?

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by delerx(m): 11:32pm On Nov 10, 2017
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Hustlerlomo(m): 11:39pm On Nov 10, 2017
I met her in Ogun state camp and we are getting married by next year.

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by ugonna1054(m): 11:40pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
can i be your play play boyfriend? grin

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Dainikel(m): 11:41pm On Nov 10, 2017
Mine survived tho narrowly...thanks to a decisive stand.

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by mazizitonene(m): 11:43pm On Nov 10, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
relationship is not by force...neither is it a criteria for anything.......besides u still have a long way to go....just 300lvl....

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