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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Caseless: 8:04am On Nov 11, 2017
femidejulius:
That woman I started relationship with during NYSC is today my wife and mother of my children.
I wish I achieved that with my own. But I lost her to religious difference and long distance.
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Dirkcoyt: 8:04am On Nov 11, 2017
Michelle55:
hehehehe..chill, na your country you dey yab so oh. lemme coman be going Biko
bye bye
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Caseless: 8:05am On Nov 11, 2017
Yusfunoble:
Hmm... dunno if mine is going to..

Meanwhile I no chop tonigh angry
wow
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by slyrone(m): 8:06am On Nov 11, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
stop lying
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by arrestdarrester: 8:06am On Nov 11, 2017
My wife and I met on Campus. We served same year after having been mobilized to different and distant states. We married after NYSC.

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by slyrone(m): 8:07am On Nov 11, 2017
PMWSpirit:
My relationship was basically sleeping with the locals. Nobody knew when i left sef.
oloshi

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by GHOLDINGS: 8:09am On Nov 11, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
how old are you?
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Kendrick80(m): 8:19am On Nov 11, 2017
ReubenE:
Nope. As if it was programmed, the whole thing crashed before the day of POP. A bad memory that I don't want to keep.

Though, I remember AJIMOBI HALL, NYSC camp Iseyin Oyo State
I stayed opposite u guys(Alafin extension)...u guys always make d news every morning.

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Spaxon(f): 8:23am On Nov 11, 2017
pesinfada:
if na u I jam

Wallahi I no let go
u wee still let me go o
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Kendrick80(m): 8:25am On Nov 11, 2017
PMWSpirit:
My relationship was basically sleeping with the locals. Nobody knew when i left sef.
Bad guy....I had a local babe too,she was heart broken wen I left.I miss her tho,she was nice 2 me.
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 8:31am On Nov 11, 2017
Spaxon:
u wee still let me go o
lie lie.. ...i no let u go.

My only challenge is how to reach u!!
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by oyepaulkay(m): 8:36am On Nov 11, 2017
grin grin grin

NYSC turned us to exes.

but in the end everybody will move on... some will be happy while some will regret.

cool cool cool

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Spaxon(f): 8:39am On Nov 11, 2017
pesinfada:
lie lie.. ...i no let u go.

My only challenge is how to reach u!!
which is what I don't know
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 11, 2017
Spaxon:
which is what I don't know
08125673642
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 11, 2017
Spaxon:
which is what I don't know
have u seen d no?
So I can delete.
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Abdgafarplenty(m): 9:02am On Nov 11, 2017
I had a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend, that I already had plans that she'd meet my parents after Nysc. the trouble started in camp, then a visit to her was magical till she abandoned me in her lodge to meet a guy he already told me about. he claimed he's sick and wanted to give him something to eat. ( I still wished I didn't agree to that) After that came the problem and she called it quit.

I dunno what happened, or how it happened. but I lost her to NYSC
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by perdollar(m): 9:08am On Nov 11, 2017
b4 nysc I was into a relationship, periNYSC and postNYSC, d relationship stl stands. #committed#faithful
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Lilv(m): 9:16am On Nov 11, 2017
Spaxon:
which is what I don't know
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by freezyprinzy(m): 9:17am On Nov 11, 2017
BabbanBura:


fine for where? if you wan find way to creep into her pu..ssy abeg fine a less obvious one cos this one no be it

Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by benswagtt(m): 9:20am On Nov 11, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
Wanted to believe you, until I saw your pic...
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Bibi294(f): 9:22am On Nov 11, 2017
BAILMONEY:
LOL BIBIDEAR WHY DID YOU CHANGE YOUR MONIKERgrin
moniker? What moniker? Me no change moniker
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by xty50(f): 9:23am On Nov 11, 2017
It did a little bit cheesy

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Bibi294(f): 9:23am On Nov 11, 2017
BabbanBura:


he must be enjoying ya cuchie real good
So everything is about cuchie?
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by ReubenE(m): 9:31am On Nov 11, 2017
Temmytea70:


ajimobi hall of life... what year?
2014 Batch B

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by MrMoney007: 9:33am On Nov 11, 2017
BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc cry
Lai Mohammed
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by ReubenE(m): 9:34am On Nov 11, 2017
Kendrick80:

I stayed opposite u guys(Alafin extension)...u guys always make d news every morning.
That Hall was my best experience in NYSC, cuz my PPA had more firewalls than the devil's bedroom. With a wailing principal and jealous teachers, the school was hell

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by ReubenE(m): 9:38am On Nov 11, 2017
cutesimplycalm:

Ajimobi guys r always troublesome probably because the is just too crowded
Troublesome you can say, but the experience was awesome perhaps the best during my service year.

AJIMOBI HALL was more than a crowd, it was a multitude....

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by slimjosh43: 9:40am On Nov 11, 2017
paulstrings:
During our University days, we've acquired the Love of our Life at one point. He/She must be someone you planned to settle with after school. Oh, the Joy, the Romance and the Memories. That level of relationship is always something serious.

But then NYSC Happened.

The Camping is the crux of the whole matter.

21 days of meeting new people, having fun, a different environment and schedule.

There is this air of freedom and sense of adventure.

You begin to form alliances, acquaintances, and friendships to survive.

These networks will help you survive the 21 "horrible" days.

Disaster will always be lurking around the corner. You just like this guy/girl so much, and you can’t get them out of your mind because you get to see them every day for the next 21 days. You see them at the parade grounds, hostels, kitchen, seminar halls and variety classes. The attraction becomes something of a greater magnitude

You finally decide to take action and you know, this cliché

“Whatever happens in Moscow, stays in Moscow”.

there’s always something about connecting in such circumstances.

The Intimidation in our service camps is so high. Takes a lot of strength and willpower to resist such temptations. You will want to fight the urge to try someone new.

The Vegas of your dreams.

My Camp was interesting, Corpers went as far as organizing a party tagged "Night of Fornication". They printed flyers and shared around. {The camp director heard about it and gave us a hot moralizing sermon on the campgrounds the following morning. Youthful Exuberance!! She chided, even though a majority of us didn't know what went down the previous night.

Well, consider the fact that most people who attended the event were in a relationship or semi-relationship. And “things” must have happened that day. That was just an instance.

I heard stories of married corpers having extramarital affairs in camps. This might even go on to continue all through the service year.

My Advice to Corpers and partners are as follows

* Get prepared before they are being posted out to their service states. Discuss it
* Keep a constant communication. Give Him/her all the attention they deserve
* Make sure you part in high spirits. don't allow a fight before they leave.
* Try to visit if you can

Well, Humans are unpredictable beings. Let’s hope we can trust our partners to stay faithful and true during their NYSC days. For any healthy relationship, there must be trust, loyalty, and commitment.” Being in a foreign place and away from your love can definitely be tough but you can pull through. Besides, it has its own advantages, like

* The Absence makes the heart grow fonder
* Bringing romance to your relationship
* Falling in love with yourself and discovering new things about yourself

My sympathies go out to the insecure ones {Shrugs}. I personally don’t think they’ll survive the absence of their partners. They will go on to have a high degree of paranoia.

Please, tell us ... Did your relationship survive past the gruesome NYSC test?

Source: http://lifeafternysc.com/did-your-relationship-survive-after-nysc/



I dated my babel 2 years before nysc and we still on even after service despite no bleeping.
If you know what you want and you are matured mentally then you'd be fine

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by BAILMONEY: 9:42am On Nov 11, 2017
Bibi294:
moniker? What moniker? Me no change moniker
HOWS GOKE7 ITS BEEN LONG I HEARD FROM HIM
Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Joejoe12(m): 9:43am On Nov 11, 2017
yes, we survive NYSC. We are married now, thank you

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Re: Did Your Relationship Survive After NYSC? by Chukazu: 10:00am On Nov 11, 2017
AverageAnnie:
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...
Modified:Thanks to those who encouraged me..

if you cover your eyes as not to see your enemies; when your friends walk pass you won't see them undecided

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