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Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by IYANGBALI: 11:37pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
No wonder I doesn't see her on nairaland again, she has goned |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by delishpot: 11:37pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
emperormossad: Hahaha, na so na. oya shift give me the ludo dice make I throw. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by IYANGBALI: 11:40pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Rat poison in our area is just one hundred naira and it works very fast when taken |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by psalmsjob: 11:46pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Oma307:Is there really anything like "marriage expert"? There are none my brother! marriage is as unique as we are individuals. #LoveTheTruth 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by emperormossad(m): 11:49pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
delishpot:I don shift tey tey na...you be boss of life! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Noniee: 11:49pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
You are a very stupid man You had a child before your marriage then kept it as a secret away from her, now she finds out, feels betrayed and you think she should clap for you? Biko, if you woke up one morning and found out your wife had a child b4 you married her and then kept it a secret from you and you later found out, shea you will give her a pat on the back that she did too wonderfully. You give out what you cannot take. Now you come here blabbing on social media. All I can picture here is a fat immature bunch of a kid man. If a woman came blabbing like this online, I wud even spare her small, but a man? It's disgusting 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by smulti(m): 11:53pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
** Am i the first guy to have a kid out of wedlock, then why she threatening me ** hahahaha !! bros you make me laugh...pls when was it a crime to have kids outside wedlock.. buhahahhaha !! well you initially made yourself vulnerable to her hence she use that against you your first sin was to keep that as a secret to the woman you want to marry...who does that intact you invented the trouble yourself having a child at any point in time from any woman can never be seen as a mistake as long as it's your blood, rather getting married to the wrong woman is what you should see as a mistake pls don't be so primitive cc akpunda86 . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Beey(f): 11:58pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86:Help me understand, even if things didn't workout with your ex-gf, you both have a child.Why haven't you seen your daughter in the last 5 years?Is it because of your wife?If your wife can't stand you co-parenting your daughter with your ex, then I just don't understand. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by smulti(m): 12:09am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Beey: I love these question but then, I think he is too immature for marriage even though he didn't mention his age . marriage is best handled by matured adults especially the men . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by CioAngels(f): 12:19am On Nov 15, 2017 |
You want to go back to your ex and mother of your child, beautiful, your ex was there when you married your wife,now your wife is now a pester and you won't mind going back to ex. What if your ex is responsible to your wives behaviour because she wants you back? It is possible, most women are evil. Oma ni , ma je ko isise, a de korirae. Women? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by QueenBeeQBQ: 12:36am On Nov 15, 2017 |
What I just have to say is this: we've read your version. Now, post the link of this thread to your wife, like you said you would; then, we can read her version too... After which, we can discern the truth, and advice accordingly... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by jojothaiv(m): 12:47am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Business Is Business.... I Have Learn To Keep Personal Off Social Media! |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by isalegan2: 1:02am On Nov 15, 2017 |
to this thread. And we think we have problems! (Well, we all do.) Barbii: Thank you o! This thread is too much. Seriously. I thought all the grown-ups left Nairaland. But. . . here they are! That O.P don hear am. delishpot: I know, right? That's the world we live in. Armchair OB-GYNs everywhere. IYANGBALI:Werey! You been knowing her? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by isalegan2: 1:14am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Bullhari: Thanks for this. Too many great posts here to quote them all. I don't wish to add fuel to fire because OP wrote that things have since calmed down. But yeah, there's two or more sides to every quarrel. . . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by YelloweWest: 1:23am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:What is the "small thing" she is always nagging about? It may be small to u but big to her. By the way u sound like a 21year old. You are too immature to be married! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by YelloweWest: 1:27am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Billyonaire:Well said. The op sounds like a dumb fool. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Ishilove: 1:53am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:I'm pretty sure you share the lions portion of the blame. A woman has miscarried for you NINE fvcking times and you opened your razor mouth to tell her you're "tired of that kind of news". In short I stopped paying attention to your whining after that line. Do you know the trauma she has been passing through? You deserve every treatment she is giving you. Little man 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Caulay(m): 2:38am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Seems you've already taken your decision. Wondering why it's here. I don't think you want advice. You're only informing us. So, we don hear. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by obytex(m): 2:54am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Na lie. Cos of the like. Lienus mhizesther: |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by globalview(m): 3:06am On Nov 15, 2017 |
I don't see serious issue on this, the real trauma your wife has is series of miscarriages, this got to her head and make her misbehave, plus move closer to her let her know you are together, show concern and work medically and spiritually on how she also will become a mother.pls don't neglect nor divorce her... her state of unhappiness made her misbehaved ...so also talk to her not to externalise her home issues again. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by ReinaFarine: 4:26am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Just imagine losing nine people you love with everything in you in the space of five years and your woman saying don't disturb me about that....... She apologized for betraying your secret and you're still calling her a nag? I'm not saying your wife is a do no wrong angel.... But her desperation for a child is obvious... She carried a dead baby in her womb for weeks. And you're using the I already have a kid card when you're not even sure the kid is yours.... You might not be the biological father of the kid, you're not emotionally there for the kid... You call up the baby mama when you're having problems with your wife to rub it in? And you think that gives you a right to pick her up when you're too lazy to handle your marriage...... Seriously, These ate your complaints..... 1. Your wife is a loud nag..... But you're the one down playing her pain..... 2. She betrayed you by revealing your secret.... A secret you didn't care to see for five years?!?! How can God trust you with another..... 3. She threatens to leave.... You're talking about bringing back your ex like you're so conversant with her she's ready to move in at anytime.... 4. She's threatening to get you fired.... You're her husband.... If you're a good one, there is no way she'll want you to sit at home.... And if you're good at what you do... You will not rely on family connections.... Her family members are complaining you want to kill her..... Well, you never mentioned any fault of yours apart from having a child that is supposed to be a secret so I don't know why they'll ever think you the hurt no fly fertile quiet angel would ever think of hurting the loud mouthed overly religious, infertile, nagging ogbanje..... Grow up.... Bring your daughter in.... Love your wife and stop feeling you're a catch she should be lucky to have... Left to me you're an irresponsible childish person! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Donjazzy12(m): 4:27am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:Divorce her immediately. Your lovely daughter will lobe you for this. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by tobiasbeecher: 5:01am On Nov 15, 2017 |
KreativGenius:What do you mean by that? Are you the spokesperson of the forum? If you don't have what to say does it mean that others don't have? Why are you trying to shut down somebody who is pouring his emotional struggles? Don't you know that getting your emotional problems out is a form of therapy? Would you rather he sucks inside and takes irrational decision that people like you will also criticize him for? Please, if you can't advise him concerning what he said, you will do well to ignore him rather than trying to shame him for voicing out his problems. Op, your wife is like every other woman, they normally tell their family about their husband so don't use because of that to hate her. The next woman you will bring in may also have such character, then will you drive her away also? Try and talk to her and know how you will resolve this. Marriage is full of challenges bro. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Obierika(m): 5:13am On Nov 15, 2017 |
KreativGenius: ...And who told you that a marriage cannot be undone? |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by olabisimichael: 5:28am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Billyonaire: A million dollar worth of advice given freely If anybody says a contrary opinion to this! He is not your friend, single and have experience marital bliss in his life so he is out looking for bedfellows! It seems you are truly what you accused your wife of! In all your complaints, you never said she is cheating on you and that is the only reason why a marriage can break irretrievably! Cheating! Every other issue in marriage is a test of the union! Deal with yours man! |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 5:47am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:Bros u dont owe nobody any explanation. Do what u have to do and face ur new life without her. I am in d same position too,and as i tell u dis my bag is in my car heading to her hometown to get dowry i paid back. Do what u have to do to avoid becoming a murderer or ending up dead. Gudluk bro |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Lokoyen(m): 5:47am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Bamidele539: The guy is confused!!! |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by alen4smith(m): 5:53am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:e be like say her nagging attitude dey learn for where your own dey!bros you dey nag sha i throway yansh for you 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Mayflowa(m): 6:02am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86: How do you know the child you are talking about is yours? Have you done DNA to confirm paternity? Your wife really tried keeping this your secret for 5 good years. Most women would release it in less than a year especially when they facing birth problem. Miscarriage for women, is like losing a real child. That woman has lost 9 children. She is wounded and frustrated and depressed. Only you can make her happy by your words and action. I expect you would be gentle on her. I am probably sure, she caught communicating with your child and ex. That would infuriate any woman. Be careful, some women can poison you when you behave that way. That said. What is wrong with you?? Why do u agree to hide a child secret like you are a criminal especially in times when the society is accepting of baby mamas and daddy. You are the crazy one hear. Anyone knowing of your child status shouldn't bother you. You have a child and that it is! And you should involve your wife in the welfare of the child. Lastly, don't threaten your wife with your child and ex. That is a no no. Any woman can strike you in her condition. Are you not afraid!!! If you can't afford to be nice to her now, Just run away. You can divorce her some other day. Anyway, your wife seems good. You are the one not handling things well. And you can start being nice this minute. Goodluck 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Lokoyen(m): 6:10am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86: U never see nagging!!! If U don't av a child out of wedlock is a different ball game. Her miscarriages caused the sudden change in her behaviour. Av been there I know what am saying. When I got married, my wife had close to a year delay to conceive, dat was wen I knew women don't joke with babies once dey re married. My wife's behavior changed. Once a loving caring lady turned to a nagging lady. It was quarrels at every slightest provocation. Thank God I understood her,most times I will calmed her encouraged her. She got tired of nagging after all and she got pregnant after treating PID. Do u know throughout dis period no 3rd party knew abt our incessant fights. If I frustrated her during dat period she too cud tell her family members. Marriage is abt maturity! Back to you OP, Insecurity will set in wen she thinks abt ur daughter. She needs ur support, she didn't create herself to av miscarriages. U Sudnt use her predicament to mock her. Both of u sud go for medical checkup. Please don't leave ur wife!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by makydebbie(f): 6:16am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86:I hate all these family business ehn! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by hidhrhis(m): 6:30am On Nov 15, 2017 |
i cant comment cos im yet to have a gf talkless of wife or kid but bro it is not something u can do on nairaland although my nairalanders will always give u d best advice but it is a decision u must make urself and d decision u make will determine whether ur marriage crash or not so think wisely b4 u act |
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