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Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Coloradvantage(m): 9:07am On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86:mu.mu... your problem is ego.... which secret? which third party bros shot ur dir.ty trash there... and use your head. ...if na she weh born out of wedlock now.... u go do worst! and for the shouting and voice.... brossss..... naging is what no one likes.... be a man jarehhhh.... most women does when annoyed .... you can't even handle a small stress and you here shouting.., she will see more children out of wedlock... na you go carry hand hang your self.... that time... we fit no know!!! say na you!!! we go d do eiyahhhh!!!! silly man! 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:07am On Nov 06, 2017 |
smithsydny: As in, we don scatter, both of us were stupified, she no remember the things she did and how she acted. She told me multiple times herself. Spirit husbands and wives manipulate people na. Especially through anger 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:no be say nah u talk ooo.. They are very wicked oo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Coloradvantage(m): 9:13am On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86:this is sad.... but if you can't bear.... seek legal ways of ending it!!.... just end it! simple.... she is your wife... but her ears listen more to her family.... sad!!! and most of them are just religiously blind and miracle chasers.... myopic! lol! but .... you self... I no deh your shoes.... but! instead of getting to ..... just seek a legal way of ending it all! not bearing more children out of wedlock!!! na you go suffer am last last! trust me on that 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:14am On Nov 06, 2017 |
smithsydny: Its we that act, but manipulated. That's all. When people act in weird ways, its there. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:one thing is if ur able to understand it very fast u can over come it.. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 06, 2017 |
smithsydny: Yes. I understood it in the heat, but didn't restrain myself in my case. The best bet is to deal with " anger " and things that forces us to act in the heat of the moment |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:am learning from peoples own oo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:23am On Nov 06, 2017 |
smithsydny: Lucky you. First things first, when it gets serious go for prayer/counseling, build a prayer life together, Relationships needs things that will glue both parties, if you have more things joining you both, it will alleviate tensions and how you both react under heat 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 9:29am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:thank boss I really appreciate the advice |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by LadySarah: 10:08am On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86: Hello dear,you can still work it out.listen very well.your wife is depressed and needs comfort,she needs to know that the man she married is still there.how can you tell her that you are tired of hearing she had a miscarriage,are you aware that some women have lost their lives and sanity because of one miscarriage let alone 9.Do you know what foeceful delivery is;pushing out a dead baby or evacuating the remains? Go back and apologise to her,also tell her you will bring your other daughter to get to know his sibling.Theres no shame in having a child outside and you shouldnt have kept it a secret. secondly,sit her down and tell her that whatever you happens within stays within...show her love,buy her gifts,you guys pray about it and top it with some romance.just fr a week and see the results. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:14am On Nov 06, 2017 |
LadySarah: Abi, both parties shouldn't be hot at the same time. One has to blow cold, while the other is blowing steam 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by LadySarah: 10:49am On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius: Eeh,so are you the hot or cold one?she may have been the cold one until circumstances forced her to become hot,the miscarriages and lack of affection is driving her crazy.I used to be cold until my husband tot me hotness,you need to see us raking but when the other enters gear 2,the other backs out depending on who was wrong. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:50am On Nov 06, 2017 |
LadySarah: Neither is hot or cold, rather as humans we switch between hot and cold. It's both of them, one need to pipe low, whenever the other is hot, i learnt this the hard way 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86: Having a kid out of wedlock is bad but not seeing the kid for a whole 5years!!!!!! This is inhumane 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by muller101(m): 12:51pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Stay away from marriage. Now see |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 12:55pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius: He has tried to sovle it to the best of his ability but can't. He is desperate. Pls empathise with him. This is a critical situation. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:06pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
jusRadical: You're right 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:36pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius: I still agree with you that he might not get a good advice in a forum like this. They need a very conservative christian counselor. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by AuroraB(f): 2:40pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86: 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by kally01(m): 4:25pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
hmm marriage they fear me sha, I cant shout ohh. who knows nairaland fit noor dey during our time sef to come lament 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by janvier27(m): 6:52pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Adversity brings out true character. OP, pull yourself together. Watch what you say and do when angry. Be calm. Its only then you will have a better understanding of the situation. Meanwhile it is wrong for you not to have seen your daughter for 5 years no matter the circumstances. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by josessybj: 7:28pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
If you have not see your daughter for five years because of a woman you are not man enough 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Rubbiish(m): 7:35pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86:Bro u never loved your wife You married her because of the help u stand to gain from her relations You are not a honest man Why didn't u marry your first wife? You just ruined this lady life with your deceptive way How are we even sure u told her u had a daughter before the marriage? I m having this feeling u lied to her Be a man & make a firm decision & stand by it You weak men are causing trouble for the whole world WHO DO U REALLY WANT? THIS ONE OR THE MOTHER OF YOUR DAUGHTER? your way no just pure....u sound too cunning.... 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Rubbiish(m): 7:36pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
josessybj:The op is obviously a weak man. incapable of making decisions.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by akpunda86: 7:51pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
I don hear una. Comments I be mumu,i be weak man,i be monkey,i be gold digger.thanks all,have filtered the good advice and trashed the bad ones.Thanks all. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
There doesn't seem to be any love between you two. No wonder you're both being cruel to each other, uttering threats left and right. Were you two forced to get married? Idk if you haven't seen your first child for 5-years and have since kept her a secret b/c of the shame you feel for having her outta wedlock or b/c you've been trying to dodge your responsibilities as her father. Whatever it is, it's time to get over it and grow up so you can be in this child's life. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by yvelchstores(f): 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
akpunda86:You are the man, so manage your home. That u married doesnt mean you can't see your first child. Ur wife must understand this. Maybe you are treating your first child as a shameful thing or as a mistake, if not, why is she such a big secret. If your wife told her people about your first child, and so? Its non of their business. Misunderstandings with your wife is also non of their business. This is what ypu have to make known to your inlaws. Enjoy your home. Train your wife, she is your first daughter so train her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 12:02am On Nov 07, 2017 |
akpunda86:didnt u see d signs b4 marriage & getting married shouldnt stop u from seeing or spending time wit ur 1st daughter since ur new wife know u had one. Dont get married to a bad spouse & think he/she will change |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by cococandy(f): 3:57am On Nov 07, 2017 |
You haven’t seen your child in 5 years. i can’t even take you seriously 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Jman06(m): 5:31am On Nov 07, 2017 |
I'm sure op must have started mocking his wife about having 9 miscarriages before she changed to what she is today. He must have told her that the witches in her village were responsible for those miscarriages or even accused her of being the witch herself. Yet like many nigerian men who give to their wives what they can not take, he is here lamenting. You abandoned your daughter for a whooping five years without carring about her welfare and you think that forces of nature will allow you to bear more children in this life. Better start taking full responsibility for that child, and apologise profusely to your wife for whatever emotional trauma you may have caused her. Otherwise, lamentation shall continue to be your portion. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Maradona98: 5:57am On Nov 07, 2017 |
You have not seen your daughter in 5 years That's very bad. 8 Likes |
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