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I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other. . Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy. . . I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage? MATURED ADVICE PLS. Lalasticlala, mynd44. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Space booked |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyy... |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I ll advice u tell Ada what transpired between u and Abigail and convince her that its ur past and can never happen again... if she truly loves u, she ll accept it and continue with u.. but never allow Abigail to seduce u... never grow love for Abigail again... wish u best of luck 1 Like |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by greatnaija01: 5:16pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
HAVE YOU TOLD ADA? or she is ignorant about your past. entering marriage with secrets like this may cause issues later o, I am also not saying you should go into detail but you could have discussed this passively when you met Ada knowing she was a sister to the lady you slept with. its polite to make it known that you were once close else you may cause a rift in the family and ADA would be the victim. Since you love her, let her know you met her sister first and also, try an get on Abigail's good side else you will come to know that HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED... Ladies like abigail may be vengeful and you do not know how far they will take it just to cause you the pain they are currently feeling. JayIlych: |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 5:18pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
U shouldn't tell Ada.. I insist you settle with Abigail first before the wedding |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by valgbo(m): 5:22pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 5:23pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
You have entered one chance my brother! Well sha, listen to the advice of the people above me. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Sage7(m): 5:25pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Be sure not to let the father hear this. But you wicked, sleeping with sisters and now you want to separate them. If you don't tell Ada, you might think you are the smart one....even if you tell Ada and she still wants to marry you...something bigger than you is bound to happen and you will be at the receiving end! Be guided! 1 Like |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 5:27pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
dingbang:Settle what exactly? Don't listen to this dude Op! Secrets destroys like fire! |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
greatnaija01: BRO, HOW DO I TELL ADA? IT MIGHT CAUSE PROBLEMS WITH HER SISTER(EVEN THO WE WERE NOT DATING THEN) AND THE MARRIAGE. EVERYONE HAS A PAST, I'M JUST HOPING ABIGAIL WOULD UNDERSTAND THIS. . THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
abokibuhari:If you don't have anything to contribute, don't insult me pls. Nobody knows who's who beyond this platform. Be warned |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Exceptionalgod:If i tell ada, she'll never trust me around her sis. She'll always wonder if i'm straffing abigail behind her back. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
dingbang:How do i settle with her? What steps do you recommend? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by LessNoise: 5:52pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
This is for OP
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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Sage7: OGA, PLEASE I NEED GUIDE, THAT'S WHY I POSTED IT ON THIS FORUM |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:Tell your wife to be. Just come clean so Abigail won't have a blackmailing chip. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
AryEmber:PLEASE TRY AND PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, WHICH OPTION WOULD BE LESS DAMAGING? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:THANKS. THIS WAS HELPFUL. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by babyfaceafrica: 6:02pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Lies |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 6:17pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:In which of the sister's shoe to be precise? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
AryEmber:Ada. She's the one i want to marry. Everything revolves around her |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Lalasticlala, please move this to fp for more feedback. Thanks. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nelly21: 6:30pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
From your write up it's obvious you knew they are sisters before you went after Ada...Why would you do something like that when you know it is sure to lead to strife between the two of them? I mean there are other girls why go for her sister in particular? I don't doubt that you may truly love the girl but if she ends up with you there will always be a coldness between the siblings unless Abigail gets married too |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:you must be joking |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 6:43pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:invite her for a date, bring d topic up for discussion, insist u wana marry her sis and if she were a good person, she wouldn't do anything to hurt her sis. Ask her what she wants... If she says she can't deal then you threaten her that u will tell her sis everything dat aspired BTW u two and its Gona be her loss if she doesn't grow up and act like an adult. |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
dingbang:I'm afraid i'll be the one to lose. I hope she even agrees to the date and sees reason. So i shouldn't tell ada, right? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by xlander(m): 7:01pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Continue to bleep them both |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 7:05pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Gofwane(m): 7:20pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
JayIlych:@Bolded, you meant ABIGAIL. Right?? |
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Gofwane:Probably an error. Thanks for pointing it out |
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