Hello guys, I'm new here. I've been a ghost reader but I decided to create this account so as to share my story with y'all.

I have a girlfriend, we started dating in January 2017. We both school here in Ogun state. Two or three months into the relationship, she cheated on me with a friend of hers(a friend of mine too, but not really close). One way or the other, I got to know and I asked her, she lied at first but later confessed. She begged and I forgave her (cos I wasn't all that loyal and faithful too). I forgot everything, things got smooth again and I honestly stopped being unfaithful which she knew about.

To cut the story short, just this past weekend, she told me she wanted to go see a female friend in another university, TASUED to be precise. She even told her mom same thing cause she called her in my presence. My gut told me it was just a cover up story for something else but I couldn't have stopped her from going(could I?) Before she travelled, we had a very little, in fact inconsiderable disagreement on Friday and she left my place angrily, went back to her hostel and refused to pick my calls. She travelled on a Saturday morning and came back on Monday morning. Due to the fact that I had a feeling she wasn't going to see a friend, I checked her whatsapp messages(which I wasn't supposed to do, I admit) and to my amazement, she went to see a guy in TASUED. They were even 'in love' before she went over there. I didn't say a word and I acted normal. She even had the gut to tell me she had met a 'maga' in TASUED, which I didn't say anything about.

So this morning, I got her talking and she confessed that she actually had sex with the guy and it was because I offended her on Friday. I was so shocked and speechless. Due to the way I got her to confess (I have a non violent way of getting people to confess), I couldn't get angry and I just acted like I wasn't hurt(I've always been acting like I got no emotions). Now, I feel so so so betrayed and heartbroken. I still like her but then I don't want to be in a relationship with an unrelenting cheat. For the first time in my life, I don't know what to do and I'm really hurting deep inside.

I'm not here to seek for advice but to emphasize that "these hoes are not loyal".

This one is serious oo

Oya, make I go bring my pillow and mat siddon wait for advice....

These babes ain't loyal at all

Bro. you need to let go of the girl, once a cheat always a cheat. Sorry you got a disloyal girl, nevertheless there are some loyal girls out there, thou very few in number.

I swear bro, the thing just shock me

Olalan:
Bro. you need to let go of the girl, once a cheat always a cheat. Sorry you got a disloyal girl, nevertheless there are some loyal girls out there, thou very few in number.

I have no option than to let go. I can't deal with the thought of my girlfriend being a relentless cheat.

this type can transfer HIV AIDS to u ooo! you'd better run for ur dear life.

DrinkLimca:
Dump her, simple as ABC..

Sure bro but not yet. I have vowed to make her p***y as wide as possible and dump her silly ass since she's nothing but a hoe. I always use protection tho

Na person future wife she be,..girls are wack

The issue is not forgiving cheats, the problem is that they will cheat again. So your mistake was to forgive her.

Pubichairs:
Na person future wife she be,..girls are wack

I pity the guy cos na p***y with a radius of 10cm he go meet

Chikita66:
The issue is not forgiving cheats, the problem is that they will cheat again. So your mistake was to forgive her.

I know right? But the thing is, she was so sober the first time and I just had to forgive her, coupled with the fact that I was not totally faithful too(although she didn't know I had side chics)

Yves girls just ain't loyal......the matter tire me I swear

Noob46:

I know right? But the thing is, she was so sober the first time and I just had to forgive her, coupled with the fact that I was not totally faithful too(although she didn't know I had side chics)

Should I say nemesis caught up with you, she might know you are cheating, you can't be cheating and expect the other to be faithful, it's double cheating.

I don't get? What type advice are u seeking for?

Lomprico2:
I don't get? What type advice are u seeking for?

Read the last part bro...This time, slowly.

Forget about girls for now. Concentrate on your studies.

Chikita66:
Should I say nemesis caught up with you, she might know you are cheating, you can't be cheating and expect the other to be faithful, it's double cheating.

No, she never knew. In fact, i had to cut ties with other side chicks after her first time cos I hate being caught in the same crime I once caught someone. So I was just foolishly being loyal while she was getting smashed by other guys

Noob46:

Sure bro but not yet. I have vowed to make her p***y as wide as possible and dump her silly ass since she's nothing but a hoe. I always use protection tho

Why waste time?

You've forgotten your worth or something? You'll be surprised in the cause of widening her pussy, you'll fall helplessly in love again. You've done it before, you'll do it again.

TellMeNothing:
Forget about girls for now. Concentrate on your studies.

Don't be too quick to judge. I'm finalizing my project work right now. Abi a soon to be graduate can't have a girlfriend?

The fact that your babe isn't loyal doesn't make other babes the same

Abeg bounce if you are not looking for advice

Where did you even meet that kinda girl

If there's a woman in your life and she's 'good' please always appreciate and show her some respect it's not easy

makydebbie:
Why waste time?

You've forgotten your worth or something? You'll be surprised in the cause of widening her pussy, you'll fall helplessly in love again. You've done it before, you'll do it again.

Impossible!
Fall in love with an unrepentant cheat again? Ko le work!

MhizzAJ:
The fact that your babe isn't loyal doesn't make other babes the same

Abeg bounce if you are not looking for advice

Where did you even meet that kinda girl

If there's a woman in your life and she's 'good' please always appreciate and show her some respect it's not easy

I never said other babes are same. I was just emphasizing that general "these hoes ain't loyal" saying.

Btw, it seems like you have an advice for me. I would appreciate it!

It pains to be privy to reality. Perhaps she cheated on another guy with you in the first place

Noob46:

I never said other babes are same. I was just emphasizing that general "these hoes ain't loyal" saying.

Btw, it seems like you have an advice for me. I would appreciate it!

Move on!

That kinda of woman will cause you pains

DeSepiero:
It pains to be privy to reality.
Perhaps she cheated on another guy with you in the first place

No she didn't. In fact, I broke her hymen, one thing that made me decide to be loyal and faithful to her.

Noob46:

Impossible!
Fall in love with an unrepentant cheat again? Ko le work!

If you say so. I no fit argue.

Lol

Noob46:

No she didn't. In fact, I broke her hymen, one thing that made me decide to be loyal and faithful to her.

Not too surprised. We all have that natural trigger to go out of convention; it's a matter of circumstance.

Noob46:

Don't be too quick to judge. I'm finalizing my project work right now. Abi a soon to be graduate can't have a girlfriend?

That is the more reason you should focus on rounding up your studies.
Ofcourse you can, but not going after girls that will inhibit your progress.

On a sunday evening like this you should be either reading or having subtle fun or doing things that make you be in peace with your current level in life - not coming to Nairaland to cry baby because of a farming implement.