BigBashiru:
In general I don't deal with barbarians and savages so this thread is closed. No more new posts.

Well, now you know this place is crawling with barbarians. . Sorry to ddisappoint.

BigBashiru:


Okay.

I will now no longer reply to ur messages so as not to get personal. If u have personal issues they are YOUR PROBLEM.

Says the woman who wants to force men into marrying old hags. You could not even beg us to consider you people. You just came demanding like God gave you the mandate to demand that we pick less quality women. Waka dia.

BigBashiru:

It was only a postulation.
I agree it could be flawed.
I was hoping to have a decent civilized conversation e.g. why it's flawed etc. Thanks for at least being civil.

Well, thanks for your civil response too...

efesodje:


As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

efesodje:


As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

BigBashiru:

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

Sorry bro you can't close this thread, only mods can do that. Or are you one?

BigBashiru:
Enough of this sexist nonsense - women over 30 are this, women over 30 are that. This bs is rooted in objectification instead of seeing a woman as a full human being. Man no be God.

Marriage is rooted partriarchy. Today in most developed countries, husband and wife are co bread winners. Partriarchy is dying thr world over... the women above 30 nonsense is rooted in partriarchy. If God gave Esther or Ruth or so a man in old age then who is man?

A woman's youth belongs to her boyfriend or husband; she chooses her style. You cannot dictate to a woman how to use her youth just as she did not dictate urs to you. You are pressing for a woman to get married fast to satisfy the lust of ur own eyes.

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Thank you.

bless you

BigBashiru:


The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

This is a false narrative!

In most cases, when a man's proposal to a lady is rejected for any reason, he takes it in good faith with little or no drama to it...

Shugavee:
bless you

Shugavee you don come?

Welcome

efesodje:


Shugavee you don come?

Welcome

;Dthank you

BigBashiru:

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

Ah ah, what uisall this sophistry? Am I the only one who thinks this person needs urgent mental care? A woman risks losing her life from violence from a man if she tells him she wouldn't date him because he's over 30?

Anyway, let me educate your obviously ignorant mind. A woman will marry anything as far it has a big dîck and enough money. Looks dont really matter, age doesn't really matter. Men and women look for different things in a spouse. Men look for youth amongst other things, women look for financial competence amongst other things. You should stop talking about things you know nothing about.

Maybe you're just trolling. Your comments don't sound like they come from a sane woman's mind.

Me i no like wahala so i don tell mods make dem close the thread. There are psychopaths out there. But at least I don gist my mind and it's obviously my opinion and i could be wrong of course.

TonyeBarcanista:

This is a false narrative!

In most cases, when a man's proposal to a lady is rejected for any reason, he takes it in good faith with little or no drama to it...

Do u want me to show u three cases from newspapers where women and girls lost their lives in Nigeria because they said no to a man's advances? I can show u three cases within the last 12 months from credible news sources such as Punch.
Anyway the thread is closed. Let each person do wat suits them.

Shugavee:
bless you

If you really wanted what was best for your sisters you wouldn't endorse lies that could put them in jeopardy. Women may not like being overlooked when they cross 30 but a thread like this dies nothing to help them accept reality.

You don't see men forcing women to marry them when they are broke or short or ugly. We know what women want in a spouse and we try to meet up. We don't feel entitled to a woman's love. We don't demand that they marry us no matter what.

If you like propagate this trash OP has written, you know who will regret eventually. As women approach 30 more are just reaching 20, 21, 22, etc. Wake up and help your sisters.

BigBashiru:

Do u want me to show u three cases from newspapers where women and girls lost their lives in Nigeria because they said no to a man's advances? I can show u three cases within the last 12 months from credible news sources such as Punch.
Anyway the thread is closed. Let each person do wat suits them.

If you can show just 3 out of over a million rejection given men then you justify my claim that MOST Men take rejection in GOOD FAITH!

In fact, the minority men that act drama or go violent usually do so WHEN they feel/assume the girl in question "defrauded" them of hard earned cash and ditched them afterwards!


Meanwhile, I await your stories

BigBashiru:

Do u want me to show u three cases from newspapers where women and girls lost their lives in Nigeria because they said no to a man's advances? I can show u three cases within the last 12 months from credible news sources such as Punch.
Anyway the thread is closed. Let each person do wat suits them.

By all means show these articles, because three out of a million cases is tantamount to a proliferation.

BigBashiru:
i could be wrong of course.

Yet, you opened a topic pontificating like you got the gist from Mt. Sinai, but you're not a psychopath.

Belafonte:


If you really wanted what was best for your sisters you wouldn't endorse lies that could put them in jeopardy. Women may not like being overlooked when they cross 30 but a thread like this dies nothing to help them accept reality.

You don't see men forcing women to marry them when they are broke or short or ugly. We know what women want in a spouse and we try to meet up. We don't feel entitled to a woman's love. We don't demand that they marry us no matter what.

If you like propagate this trash OP has written, you know who will regret eventually. As women approach 30 more are just reaching 20, 21, 22, etc. Wake up and help your sisters.

smh!!!!!

Shugavee:
smh!!!!!

I feel the same way for ya.

Belafonte:


I feel the same way for ya.

smh!!!!!

BigBashiru:


The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

. Its like you are not stable upstairs? Just read the nonsense you typed here. So a woman that is 30 and above risk losing her life from violence from the man. Abeg go and sit down,you are not intelligent.

Shugavee:
smh!!!!!

There's a place I think you could the shaking to better use. If you know what I mean!

Belafonte:


There's a place I think you could the shaking to better use. If you know what I mean!

hahahahah nut is loosing somewhere in ur brain

Belafonte:


There's a place I think you could the shaking to better use. If you know what I mean!

. Why won't she support the dumb post? when she is nearing her menopause

TonyeBarcanista:

If you can show just 3 out of over a million rejection given men then you justify my claim that MOST Men take rejection in GOOD FAITH!

In fact, the minority men that act drama or go violent usually do so WHEN they feel/assume the girl in question "defrauded" them of hard earned cash and ditched them afterwards!


Meanwhile, I await your stories

You make sense. I don't dispute that. Yes ur claim is justified.

I'm glad at least I can have an insult free and emotionally neutral conversation.

Shugavee:
hahahahah nut is loosing somewhere in ur brain

Help me, I help you, that's my own. If you like pass up the opportunity, na you Sabi. Me I sha know how to eat wella.

30 is too much; i dont waste time any time on a girl over 24.thats ancient in women years...

BigBashiru:

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

And all the girls that reject men on a daily basis because he is broke, too short, too handsome, too dark, too ugly, too skinny, etc., why haven't they all been killed or treated to violence? You are obviously very stewpid.

If you wanna pass a message please do so without adding unnecessary maggi and spice. Maybe some clueless guy will take pity on your old self and marry you.

mgtow:


And all the girls that reject men on a daily basis because he is broke, too short, too handsome, too dark, too ugly, too skinny, etc., why haven't they all been killed or treated to violence? You are obviously very stewpid.

If you wanna pass a message please do so without adding unnecessary maggi and spice. Maybe some clueless guy will take pity on your old self and marry you.

Women are incapable of violence. Didn't you know this?

Belafonte:

Women are incapable of violence. Didn't you know this?

I've always known this bro. Na today?

mgtow:


I've always known this bro. Na today?

E done tey.

BigBashiru:


You make sense. I don't dispute that. Yes ur claim is justified.

I'm glad at least I can have an insult free and emotionally neutral conversation.

You are welcome