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Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 6:57pm On Feb 02, 2018
It's no news that the male folks are very promiscuous and when they do it, they do it with so much boldness. Most times I ask myself why promiscuity is so common among males and I feel sometimes it'll be okay to blames the female folks a little. Before you come for my head, see my reasons below
1. We're in a kind of society where females feel it's okay for men to cheat on them. Most times, the male folks grow up in homes where their mum 'accept her fate' and they usually hear their mums say men are allowed to cheat. So they grow up with that kind of mentality that cheating is acceptable if you're a guy. So the first blame is making their sons feel it's okay to cheat as long as they are males.

2. When women keep on accepting men that cheat on them, it gives them the courage to cheat more because they know she'll always forgive him because it's his duty to do so. The truth is, if most women stop accepting men that keeps on cheating on them, the rate of cheating will reduce drastically.
3. Some women want what others have, I'm a female and I know this very well. Some females are so sick they feel they're more attractive when a guy with a partner sleep with them. Some don't like seeing other happy while others have been hurt and they feel it's only fair if they retaliate even if the lady is innocent.


Our society and values are bleeped up but we can still be better. To the male folks, one of the worse thing you can do to your partner is cheat on her. Just think how it hurts when a female cheats on you, then just imagine a female feeling this way almost every time. You can't love someone and still cheat on the person cos if you love someone, you can never hurt the person. There's no excuse what's wrong is wrong.
Share your opinions, all opinions are welcome.




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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by NairalandCS(m): 7:05pm On Feb 02, 2018
Is it still promiscuity if I'm single ?
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:07pm On Feb 02, 2018
Yes they can. When you guys say men, it's not all men that engage in this things. It's probably 20 percent of men. It's called hypergamy and the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of men are actually good and decent but women love the bad boys and are attracted to them but they are a small minority in manosphere.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Safiaa(f): 7:13pm On Feb 02, 2018
I do believe that women should learn to take responsibility for themselves. You get treated by what you accept, and if you allow men to treat you like trash they will lol. But please men are promiscuous because they want to be ahbeg. Even if all the women in the world stopped tolerating cheating, they would still do it. Probably just be more cautious to avoid their partners from finding. Because I won't lie, men cheat but they're not very smart about it that's why they always get caught lol.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by orisa37: 7:22pm On Feb 02, 2018
Any Act or Art of bleeping is caused by Eve.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by NairalandCS(m): 7:24pm On Feb 02, 2018
tensazangetsu20:
Yes they can. When you guys say men, it's not all men that engage in this things. It's probably 20 percent of men. It's called hypergamy and the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of men are actually good and decent but women love the bad boys and are attracted to them but they are a small minority in manosphere.

I keep saying it.

They'll see all the signs of a guy that'll totally fvck them up but still stick their head in and want to die there.

Later now you'll be hearing 'men are scum' upandan. undecided

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:26pm On Feb 02, 2018
NairalandCS:


I keep saying it.

They'll see all the signs of a guy that'll totally fvck them up but still stick their head in and want to die there.

Later now you'll be hearing 'men are scum' upandan. undecided
As in the whole thing just tire me. To them it's always the man's fault. Blame men for everything. Thank God for sex dolls.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Feb 02, 2018
Takes 2 to tango....both are to be blamed
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Elparaiso(m): 8:07pm On Feb 02, 2018
Are the men sleeping with themselves? Of course, the blame is on men and women.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 8:11pm On Feb 02, 2018
NairalandCS:
Is it still promiscuity if I'm single ?
Hmm I don't think so
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 8:15pm On Feb 02, 2018
tensazangetsu20:
Yes they can. When you guys say men, it's not all men that engage in this things. It's probably 20 percent of men. It's called hypergamy and the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of men are actually good and decent but women love the bad boys and are attracted to them but they are a small minority in manosphere.
It's not true, there's nothing I hate as much as bad guys. And it's very difficult to know the good guys because there are so many bad guys acting like good guys just to get what they want.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 8:20pm On Feb 02, 2018
Safiaa:
I do believe that women should learn to take responsibility for themselves. You get treated by what you accept, and if you allow men to treat you like trash they will lol. But please men are promiscuous because they want to be ahbeg. Even if all the women in the world stopped tolerating cheating, they would still do it. Probably just be more cautious to avoid their partners from finding. Because I won't lie, men cheat but they're not very smart about it that's why they always get caught lol.
They do it cos in the homes they grew up, they probably heard the women saying it's okay to cheat. And you things you learn from childhood usually has strong impact on you
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:29pm On Feb 02, 2018
Peachess:

It's not true, there's nothing I hate as much as bad guys. And it's very difficult to know the good guys because there are so many bad guys acting like good guys just to get what they want.
The last sentence who else can you blame except your species.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 8:56pm On Feb 02, 2018
tensazangetsu20:

The last sentence who else can you blame except your species.
Nope, it's the pretentious guy that are to be blamed. In this case
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by donstan18: 9:04pm On Feb 02, 2018
Peachess:

Nope, it's the pretentious guy that are to be blamed. In this case


Bitter truth!

Finance is one of the main reason that's projecting tolerance of cheaters by women.

They can't stand to loose a man that foots their bill, hence keep accepting and tolerating them.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Akinbahm(m): 11:57pm On Feb 02, 2018
Safiaa:
I do believe that women should learn to take responsibility for themselves. You get treated by what you accept, and if you allow men to treat you like trash they will lol. But please men are promiscuous because they want to be ahbeg. Even if all the women in the world stopped tolerating cheating, they would still do it. Probably just be more cautious to avoid their partners from finding. Because I won't lie, men cheat but they're not very smart about it that's why they always get caught lol.
This is probably coming out from a che*t and mind u those shallow guys who cheated on you doesn't know how to play their card well cause if they do u won't caught them do step up on the guys u r dealing with... am not a cheat and I will never be don't take my words personal just here to av fun!!!
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by ubunja(m): 2:45am On Feb 03, 2018
i keep hearing all men cheat but the last time i checked 80% of guys are in Friendzones and only 20% of guys are actually sharing all the women amongst themselves. angry
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 9:50am On Feb 03, 2018
donstan18:



Bitter truth!

Finance is one of the main reason that's projecting tolerance of cheaters by women.

They can't stand to loose a man that foots their bill, hence keep accepting and tolerating them.
It's not all, many ladies can fend for themselves. The reason why they stay is because they feel it's the duty of a man to cheat, they don't want people to laugh at them.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 9:53am On Feb 03, 2018
ubunja:
i keep hearing all men cheat but the last time i checked 80% of guys are in Friendzones and only 20% of guys are actually sharing all the women amongst themselves. angry
LOL, geez, where did you get this outrageous number from?
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by donstan18: 10:00am On Feb 03, 2018
Peachess:

It's not all, many ladies can fend for themselves. The reason why they stay is because they feel it's the duty of a man to cheat, they don't want people to laugh at them.

Most ladies don't fend themselves in Africa when they are in a relationship, you don't expect a financial stable woman to tolerate a cheat with the excuse that it's the duty of a man to cheat.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Fvcklyn01: 10:00am On Feb 03, 2018
Peachess:

LOL, geez, where did you get this outrageous number from?


-Ain't it Fůcking true?
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by ubunja(m): 10:13am On Feb 03, 2018
Peachess:

LOL, geez, where did you get this outrageous number from?
dont you just love it when your world is turned upside down with new information you never knew cheesy
just ask yourself why Sex Dolls are trending but you havent noticed any drop in the quantity of sex you are getting.
also, ask yourself why masturbation addiction in men has exploded today in the era of free sex.something that must be ON THE DECLINE.why are more men w@nking when women are more loose than ever??
not as many guys as women think are actually getting access to pvssy.it will suprise you.also if you have time Google will tell you More women have STIs than men.its something women just dont realize.by being choosy and all wanting that same few hot guys you have made the majority of guys single.its not a blame game im playing.just keep it in your heart as something new you learnt today.

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by imitateMe(m): 10:13am On Feb 03, 2018
Nonsense post.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 03, 2018
I don't think its okay for a man to cheat on me, that's why I dump his sorry ass if he does that.


Their are some things I won't tolerate in a relationship.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Akinbahm(m): 12:00pm On Feb 03, 2018
Chikita66:
I don't think its okay for a man to cheat on me, that's why I dump his sorry ass if he does that.


Their are some things I won't tolerate in a relationship.
Madam but it okay for u to cheat on ur partner, how I wish your man is here on nairaland to see your comment!
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Feb 03, 2018
[b] Lol! Let the blame shift begin!.

Men would say: She seduced me, ' I have never seen an attractive woman like she is'. 'my wife is an old cargo'. "Bimpe cooks better" , "If only my wife was more creative in bed" etc.

Women would say: ,"all men cheat" "All men are polygamous in nature" " he is never satisfied ". "he is a greedy fellow "

Then we keep going in circles, glorifying promiscuity like it is the normal way of life. The point is you cheat because you want to cheat! No one takes the fault but you.

Yes! circumstances may occur that could have led to cheating but then, whatever happens to walking out. We need to be more decisive in life, You can never have all you desire in one person, that's where compromise should come in. You have to let go desires /wants if you want that perfect relationship.

If you can't compromise, kindly walk out. Don't live life at the expense of others!
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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Feb 03, 2018
Safiaa:
men cheat but they're not very smart about it that's why they always get caught lol.

Safiaa are saying that women are masters of the cheating game, SMOOTH CRIMINALS? If not why not? And i love your words of wisdom which is,

Safiaa:
I do believe that women should learn to take responsibility for themselves. You get treated by what you accept, and if you allow men to treat you like trash they will lol.


supported by,

ITS A MAN'S JOB TO RESPECT WOMEN BUT ITS A WOMANS JOB TO GIVE HIM WHAT TO RESPECT.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 3:28pm On Feb 03, 2018
donstan18:


Most ladies don't fend themselves in Africa when they are in a relationship, you don't expect a financial stable woman to tolerate a cheat with the excuse that it's the duty of a man to cheat.


Here is where I give up because most African women are truly dependent on men. Well you won't blame them that much cos society made them that way, making them believe it's not okay to be more successful than their men.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 3:30pm On Feb 03, 2018
Fvcklyn01:


-Ain't it Fůcking true?
It's not true, most men have at least three partners.
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Fvcklyn01: 3:31pm On Feb 03, 2018
Peachess:

It's not true, most men have at least three partners.


-And the fůcking girls?
Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by donstan18: 3:34pm On Feb 03, 2018
Peachess:

Here is where I give up because most African women are truly dependent on men. Well you won't blame them that much cos society made them that way, making them believe it's not okay to be more successful than their men.

I don't get, why won't I blame them?

How did the society make them that way?

What and how did the society note that it isn't okay for women to be successful than men?, throw more light, please.

I'm lost!

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Re: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(f): 3:36pm On Feb 03, 2018
ubunja:

dont you just love it when your world is turned upside down with new information you never knew cheesy
just ask yourself why Sex Dolls are trending but you havent noticed any drop in the quantity of sex you are getting.
also, ask yourself why masturbation addiction in men has exploded today in the era of free sex.something that must be ON THE DECLINE.why are more men w@nking when women are more loose than ever??
not as many guys as women think are actually getting access to pvssy.it will suprise you.also if you have time Google will tell you More women have STIs than men.its something women just dont realize.by being choosy and all wanting that same few hot guys you have made the majority of guys single.its not a blame game im playing.just keep it in your heart as something new you learnt today.
You're using sex dolls to support your opinion but do you know women have always had different intimacy gadgets at their disposal? Why is it so common among females these days, if your number is truly correct?
Women have more STDs than men because the anatomy of the female sexual organ makes women more susceptible to STDs. Do some research

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