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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:57pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:

which is not entirely true according to grey,which is entirely true according to queen.


so,you see,different strokes for different folks.
Not according to me, google is our friend o grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 5:57pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
Not according to me, google is our friend o grin
hahahaha,you no well.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 5:57pm On Apr 14, 2018
chukzyfcbb:
If you don't want to spend on your lady, fine.

if you want to empty your purse on a lady fine.

My dad didn't give my mom monthly stipends, but he Spoils her silly with gifts and money to shop when she or request.

There are some marriages where the husband pay some sort of monthly stipend to the wife for her upkeep.

Relationships differ. All I know is You cannot claim to Love without Giving.

.Even God GAVE us his ONLY SON, because of the LOVE he had for us
Thanks. Finally! cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 5:58pm On Apr 14, 2018
After going through the comments herein, I nodded my head and laughed. cheesy


The bitter truth is, social media appearance is not reality.

These ladies who cry that they love rich men are the ones dating a struggling guy in real.

Nland ladies are the same ladies we see everyday in real, believe me.

Take for instance, how many of us here have seen a feminist in real or a lady claiming to be a feminist in real.

I can bet you that most Nland ladies are single and ready to accept any man that comes their way, it's a psychological observation.


In reality, you won't see a lady calling men 'Scum', you won't see a lady claiming a feminist, you won't see a lady hating struggling guys, all these formings and claims are exhibited on internet by them.


Safiaa is not dating a wealthy guy, but an average guy if atall she's dating.

Highpriestess is single and searching.

Thegeneralqueen is single .

Safiaa is an emotional lady who claims tough on media, one thing i like about her is that she's psychologically good in reading and controlling men who aren't smart to decode her motives, she's psychologically playing with you all here, she pulling your legs and you all are falling for it, her comments only revolves around transaction in relationship. I asked a favour from her, but her instinct saved her from my prepared wrath.

Highpriestess is a social media slayqueen who don't believe in love, she's single and ready to transact with a man for money-fvck . She's yet to face life.

Thegeneralqueen is a single lady, but looks like a funny woman in real, she's just an attention seeker with her money obsessed provocative comments.


If you are psychologically active, you'll understand me.

Brethren, do well to disregard what you see women claim on social media, they are just the ladies we see every day.

Nothing special.

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:58pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
You used the term ‘“life patner” and other words which insuiated marriage. Anyways whatever innit.
No that wasn't what I meant.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 5:58pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:

Thanks, how Was Your Day...
just normal,okorocha deh hide election money naw.
lool,hope you are enjoying the thread.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 5:58pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
So you have avoided the very important issue of a cheating partner and the prevalent issue of domestic violence very common among rich men that married their women as sex object cheesy

How convenient cheesy
Domestic violence is common among poor homes not rich homes get your facts right cheesy

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
nope. It’s all in correlation to this thread.
No I am missing a Loserpool game i really need to watch now,

Next time
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2018
When my Oldman married my Oldwoman he had just a small mudhouse to his name, nothing stops you from building with your partner. I am a different person I spend money on girls I date or have flings with but deep down I know I can't marry a brokeass. That's why most guys like hit and run coz most girls want to reap from where there have not planted. It's my fervent prayer that all these tear eyes girls don't end up being used as materials for money making ritual all in the name of escaping broke guyz
Thegeneralqueen:
But Chief 90% of men here wants to reap where they have not sown.....
On a serious note Chief can't you provide for the girl you're dating if you don't want her to be with someone else?


I hope she has the strength to carry on cause look at the problems I'm facing while dating a sugar daddy talk more of being married cheesy



#SUGARDADDY

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Domestic violence is common among poor homes not rich homes get your facts right cheesy
Where is the fact book so that I can get it right

Anyways, it's not peculiar to a particular background. it is more common among men and women suffering from self-esteem issues.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by bammy777(m): 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
Nope you don’t have a biological clock. You can reproduce at any age and get married at 65. Your sexual market increases as you age. You don’t run on emotions like women do, we are completely different. Stop comparing, it doesn’t work like that. Men have a much larger time scale in comparison to women, thats the truth. Men seek for the sex 90% of the time, therefore women give the sex whilst the men receive it, so I’m giving you my body. Men don’t have a “mileage” like women do. Well it’s all up to you at the end of the day.
well since its about getting paid, den I should employ more staffs to improve the labour contribution to my chilling, u shouldn't get mad when I am not emotionally connected since u ar doing it for the money, then u shudnt call me out when I decided to marry someone else after spending so much time with u since I paid for everything I got, babe don't u get it, u can't pay a staff all due payment and get blamed for sacking u when there is need to upgrade in the company since u ar getting paid.

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
After going through the comments herein, I nodded my hhead and laughed. cheesy


The bitter truth is, social media appearance is not reality.

These ladies who cry that they love rich men are the ones dating a struggling guy in real.

Nland ladies are the same ladies we see everyday in real, believe me.

Take for instance, how many of us here have seen a feminist in real or a lady claiming to be a feminist in real.

I can bet you that most Nland ladies are single and ready to accept any man that comes their way, it's a psychological observation.


In reality, you won't see a lady calling men 'Scum', you won't see a lady claiming a feminist, you won't see a lady hating struggling guys, all these formings and claims are exhibited on internet by them.


Safiaa is not dating a wealthy guy, but an average guy if atall she's dating.

Highpriestess is single and searching.

Thegeneralqueen is single .

Safiaa is an emotional lady who claims tough on media, one thing i like about her is that she's psychologically good in reading and controlling men who aren't smart to decode her motives, she's psychologically playing with you all here, she pulling your legs and you all are falling for it, her comments only revolves around transaction in relationship. I asked a favour from her, but her instinct saved her from my prepared wrath.

Highpriestess is a social media slayqueen who don't believe in love, she's single and ready to transact with a man for money-fvck . She's yet to face life.

Thegeneralqueen is a single lady, but looks like a funny woman in real, she's just an attention seeker with her money obsessed provocative comments.


If you are psychologically active, you'll understand me.

Brethren, do well to disregard what you see women claim on social media, they are just he ladies we see every day.

Nothing special.

ahn ahn all this for me. Well my dude is above average, not a millionaire but good enough lol. I’m only saying what people think in their heads but are scared to say. I also used to belive in only love when I was 15 but I grew up and realised there’s more to love. Love is not enough smiley
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by UDUJ(m): 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
After going through the comments herein, I nodded my head and laughed. cheesy


The bitter truth is, social media appearance is not reality.

These ladies who cry that they love rich men are the ones dating a struggling guy in real.

Nland ladies are the same ladies we see everyday in real, believe me.

Take for instance, how many of us here have seen a feminist in real or a lady claiming to be a feminist in real.

I can bet you that most Nland ladies are single and ready to accept any man that comes their way, it's a psychological observation.


In reality, you won't see a lady calling men 'Scum', you won't see a lady claiming a feminist, you won't see a lady hating struggling guys, all these formings and claims are exhibited on internet by them.


Safiaa is not dating a wealthy guy, but an average guy if atall she's dating.

Highpriestess is single and searching.

Thegeneralqueen is single .

Safiaa is an emotional lady who claims tough on media, one thing i like about her is that she's psychologically good in reading and controlling men who aren't smart to decode her motives, she's psychologically playing with you all here, she pulling your legs and you all are falling for it, her comments only revolves around transaction in relationship. I asked a favour from her, but her instinct saved her from my prepared wrath.

Highpriestess is a social media slayqueen who don't believe in love, she's single and ready to transact with a man for money-fvck . She's yet to face life.

Thegeneralqueen is a single lady, but looks like a funny woman in real, she's just an attention seeker with her money obsessed provocative comments.


If you are psychologically active, you'll understand me.

Brethren, do well to disregard what you see women claim on social media, they are just he ladies we see every day.

Nothing special.


GBAM cheesy grin

This analysis will be framed for ETERNITY cheesy

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:01pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.
parasitic eediot
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
No I am missing a Loserpool game i really need to watch now,

Next time
later x

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
just normal,okorocha deh hide election money naw.
lool,hope you are enjoying the thread.

Lol

Dont Mind The Cockroach Governor... His Expiring date Is Near...


Yes I De Feel The Thread o. Another Guy Bringing, Girls And Their Wahala tongue
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18 I'm not single and I'm not searching.

and for the money-fvck,maybe it applies only in your life. don't be pained about my decisions in life,nothing will ever make me date a broke guy,I'm hustling on my own,he should go and hustle, when he makes the money he can then approach me.

lool,nothing for broke idiots.cheesy

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by pu7pl3(m): 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
The late Nelson Mandela once said" education is a powerful weapon which can be used to change the world".

It is a tool meant for liberation and self sufficiency.

Therefore, nobody should have a sense of entitlement after the acquisition of education, otherwise Mandela must have been lying when he made that statement.



Lol bro most "educated" girls in nigeria dont give a fvck about what mandela said

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:03pm On Apr 14, 2018
bammy777:
well since its about getting paid, den I should employ more staffs to improve the labour contribution to my chilling, u shouldn't get mad when I am not emotionally connected since u ar doing it for the money, then u shudnt call me out when I decided to marry someone else after spending so much time with u since I paid for everything I got, babe don't u get it, u can't pay a staff all due payment and get blamed for sacking u when there is need to upgrade in the company since u ar getting paid.
But who said I’m only dating you for the money? Lol you people refuse to comprehend shaaaaa grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:04pm On Apr 14, 2018
DonPiiko:
When my Oldman married my Oldwoman he had just a small mudhouse to his name, nothing stops you from building with your partner. I am a different person I spend money on girls I date or have flings with but deep down I know I can't marry a brokeass. That's why most guys like hit and run coz most girls want to reap from where there have not planted. It's my fervent prayer that all these tear eyes girls don't end up being used as materials for money making ritual all in the name of escaping broke guyz
Chief gone are the sweet old days not now that you're being hit with reality.....it's very risky to date a broke guy shocked

90% of working class ladies also wants men to spend on them
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:04pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:



Lol


Dont Mind The Cockroach Governor... His Expiring date Is Near...



Yes I De Feel The Thread o. Another Guy Bringing, Girls And Their Wahala tongue
hahaha,oya let's enjoy the thread together.



while I get the pop corncheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:06pm On Apr 14, 2018
Na wao see argument.

Never thought it will escalate to this..

well different way of life for different people..

But one thing i know is that heaven and hell knows that i can never and i will never date a girl who can't afford to buy iPhone 8 for herself with her own hard earned money..

This is why i will never send any girl in romance land a pm because i know there is nothing they can offer me apart from fishery pvsssy and to bore my life with their family problem..

And i know that girls in romance land have never touch iPhone 8 not to talk of buying it..

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:07pm On Apr 14, 2018
MetalJigsaw:
parasitic eediot
Means a lot to me Sir.

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by princfred(m): 6:07pm On Apr 14, 2018
makydebbie:

Love, relationships and everything that comes with it should be mutual. I can't go into a relationship with the mentality that, I'm doing this guy a favor by dating him, then there's no love there. SUCH RELATIONSHIPS CANNOT WORK, because it's one sided. It means the love is one sided too.
For two individuals to come together, overlook each others flaws, whatever they feel should be mutual. The guy would've gone for that cute sexy girl in the street, so for him to choose you and start taking care of you, he's doing you a favor too because it could be anybody. It's better for a lady to remain single than to be in a relationship where she thinks she's doing him a favor. That's a different kind of pride and narcissism.

Lol, I'm trying to understand this, but like you said I really can't understand it, so I'll just respect your opinion. kiss
Wow i just thinking and made a comment along those lines in response to that same post, started reading yours and enjoying it all the way before noticing its you again. Wow my mental mirror you are. I guess my brain got similar signals on reading through that post. I bin no get strength to talk plenty (as usual in NL) but your response resonated with all that was in my mind.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by bammy777(m): 6:07pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
But who said I’m only dating you for the money? Lol you people refuse to comprehend shaaaaa grin
common don't do this. didn't u read what u posted, u made priority by connecting everything to returning the favour of supporting FINANCIALLY
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by makydebbie(f): 6:08pm On Apr 14, 2018
princfred:
Wow i just made a comment along those lines, started reading yours and enjoying it all the way before noticing its you again. Wow my mental mirror you are.
Lol, we meet again. cheesy

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:08pm On Apr 14, 2018
Donstan who told you I'm single ? boy is trying to shoot his shot cheesy "it's better to be single than to date a broke guy" if actually I am


And you think you can describe me by my actions on social media....? you must be joking cool

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 14, 2018
I haven't disagreed with you, money makes the world go round but it's a very unproductive venture to waste your earnings on things that won't bring returns. I throw money at random girls but its a very silly thing to do. It's best to find someone that's worth it and build your world around her. The best opinion in my view is marry someone that's financially stable at your level and build your kingdom together.
Thegeneralqueen:
Chief gone are the sweet old days not now that you're being hit with reality.....it's very risky to date a broke guy shocked

90% of working class ladies also wants men to spend on them

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by makydebbie(f): 6:09pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa, hope you don't think sex is one sided too and it we giving the favor?

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:09pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:

You see why you are the General queen.
profound knowledgeable facts you have got about relationships,how can i even start dating a stingy broke idiot,lol.


whatever he displays while in relationship, will be applied when he walks you down the isle.
nothing for broke idiots,nothing.

they should work hard and earn there money,while I'm also doing the same.

we shall meet when he becomes rich.

I can't even advise my enemy to date a stingy broke idiot,mtchew.




Thegeneralqueen! Dont Allow This Girl Whine you o. You No Be Any Generalqueen undecided


Generalqueen kor Generatorqueen ni
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2018
If you all check the first page of this thread, I booked a space,but didn't modify it for reasons best known to me.

I can authoritatively tell you all that most of these ladies you see here disturbing and obsessing for money don't have a man in their lives, they are just single and not getting proper attentions a normal lady should get from men.

Social media is just a small pretentious, boastful, predictable and hypocritical village , and it'll take beyond mere comments and posts to decode what is clearly tabled before you.

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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:





Thegeneralqueen! Dont Allow This Girl Whine you o. You No Be Any Generalqueen undecided


Generalqueen kor Generatorqueen ni
bia,boo goan rest o.cheesy

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