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Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by lordsbiz(m): 2:00am On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy:First thing off all, stop beating him for christ sake! Else you are going to raise an hell of a rogue. If he's hyper active then there is the solution.hes your beloved son, then spend quality time with him, put him into sport let him start sport early, it's has happened before it could happen again, once he starts burning all the energy he will naturally calm down! Who knows you might have a boy in your hands that will win more Olympic gold than all these losers we have. Lol. But the first thing is to start seeing his situation has a blessing, stop beating the boy don't destroy his moral, who knows you may kill so much more in him 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by talktobetchu: 3:37am On Apr 15, 2018 |
Enrol your child in a fencing club. Fencing as a sport is more than physical combat. There are lots to be enjoyed and learnt by your child. Channel your child's energy rightly. If interested, send me a pm. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Bibi294(f): 6:17am On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy: You need to stop beating him, it could make him more stubborn... My parents were once in your shoes, I was worse while growing up... We have this neighbor with 3 children, if you see what they turned their mother into, but thankfully, the first born is overcoming that stage now. Continue to monitor him, correct him and handle him like a man... Don't stress his mother too much cos only men can handle children like him... |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by CaesarDon(m): 7:04am On Apr 15, 2018 |
FRoosevelt: the psychiatric ward of any hospital, preferably a government hospital The doctor as to ascertain u don't have any heart problems Cause aderall kills immediately, if the recipient of the drug has a heart defect or history of heart related issues And because of the dosage as well, cos if use more than d prescribed dosage, it's effect may be counteractive |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by mediclife1987(m): 7:41am On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy: This sounds like Gregory and Sandor Clegane. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Obas101(m): 7:41am On Apr 15, 2018 |
You no Sabi beat ur son. Imagine your wife is even doing it better than smh. Be the man, get a small cane and beat him till he cries, then punish for some minutes let him feel remorse. He may hate you, when you eventually free him. Later that evening talk to him nd make him realize what he is doing is bad then let him reflect on it. Also, it's possible your son is this way because of the freedom you give him to relate with other stubborn kids in the neighborhood 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by eyinjuege: 9:28am On Apr 15, 2018 |
What are his teachers saying about him in school? If his teachers say he's disruptive and cant concentrate, you may need to take him to be assessed by a behavioutal therapist. If the teachers say he's engaging in school, when given tasks, he might just need to be engaged in something more productive at home. Register him for a swimming lessons, piano lessons, get a teacher for him to come once a week to teach him. Make sure he's engaged every day of the week doing something positive. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by mytym(m): 4:57pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
ofalu047: Honestly I tell you. He's hyperactivity is just an expression of what the brain feeds the muscle. Other factors may be responsible too like sugar content in meals and all...but after i read the part that said the boy is a lefty, I saw a different thing- avalanche of intelligence looking for expression. Let him learn Pianoforte or The Pipe Organ from a good disciplinarian/Organist. You'll be proud of him by the time he's 7. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:43pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Obas101: He doesn't even step out to compound to play because you can't leave him alone unmonitored. Even when kids come around to visit us and you allow them to play outside, he'll start running around picking objects he sees and fights them |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:47pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Their teachers never complain, he's obedient and active in school, no negative complaints from the school so far |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:50pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
mytym: Oversabi is worrying him, he believes he knows too much and corrects elderly people when they make blunders, I feel embarrassed sometimes when he corrects my friends |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:52pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
pimper24: He takes Golden Morn every morning before his main meal from when he was 1yr old |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Nobody: 7:00pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
oshunloye:Hello, i would like to ask if you prescribe Adderall in your Medical centre? Thanks. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 7:08pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
redsun: To be honest with you, beating him has not made soft because no matter how much you do, he doesn't cry for more than 5 seconds and most time he'll quickly hug you and say 'I love you " before you beat him, I'll just be weakened and free him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by mytym(m): 7:18pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy: Your son is an intelligent southpaw. Take advantage of the excess energy and channel it well before the boy forms habits that aren't so presentable and before his spirit is conquered and becomes defeated at heart making him to be disinterested in anything. You know from law of conservation of energy, it can neither be destroyed nor created...But can be transformed from a particular form to another... Convert Your son's energy into useful wits. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by mytym(m): 7:29pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy: I believe his I.Q is top-notch. Don't be embarrassed, talk to his teacher too... Our culture have a way of killing expressionism in kids. An elderly person is not right because they're old. You can ask the teacher to correct him among his peers when he's wrong. Ask him(son) how he feels when the teacher corrected him in the presence of his peers...His response could help you tailor your next move. Genius kids tend to be bored, spontaneous and restless if subjected to mental activities thats below their intelligence. Follow all the medical advices folks have given here, see a clinical psychologist and watch him. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 7:47pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
onatisi: I'm grateful to God for that I must confess, he has only fallen sick twice since his birth |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by eyinjuege: 8:29pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
PurestBoy: He needs to be kept busy at home, positively busy. Get a lesson teacher for him, (i know he's still young, but he really needs to channel all that energy into something positive), help him pick up skills like swimming, tennis. It will cost you money and time sha, but it will still benefit your child at the end of the day. If you have parks around you, take him to the park once or twice a week to run around. Maybe he will develop a love for sports. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Actually I wish to get him a private lesson but paying his tuition is a huge task and doesn't even pay as at when due, we hardly spend together sef cos man has to go out go hustle. Most times when I drop him at school, he would have slept by the time I return and the cycle goes like that. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by blank(f): 11:09pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Ahmeduana: When she has started walking more firmly, like when she is a year and still walking on tip toes then you can buy firm ankle boots. It makes them uncomfortable on tip toes and encourages them to put their full feet down. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Pavore9: 7:50am On Apr 16, 2018 |
Tellemall: Do psychologists in Nigeria have the power to prescribe medications? |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by ritzyrita: 4:47pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
I think it has a lot to do with his age..i ve a 4 year old son too and he is EXACTLY what you just described..d consolation is he is so intelligent!so relax..it will reduce with time /age |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by ahnie: 1:13am On Apr 17, 2018 |
Please help. my daughter is gonna be 3years this June. a lefty n super intelligent, an eloquent talker with coherent speech,but very hyperactive and its really burning me out. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Originalsly: 10:47am On Apr 18, 2018 |
adaksbullet: I can't figure why people take this your comment seriously! |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by comtem2011: 11:31am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Offpoint:the child go become mumu now and i'm pretty sure u won't like it. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Obierika(m): 4:49pm On May 05, 2018 |
Personally i think you over-indulged the boy and he started having a feeling of entitlement 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by desirel: 11:59am On May 08, 2018 |
Did your child behave different in the presence of other adults/care givers/family members? |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by budaatum: 5:34pm On May 08, 2018 |
A lot of energy and not enough physical or mental stimulation for a child so endowed. Are they being taught anything without the beating? Do you take them to places where they can run safely? PurestBoy: |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:21pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
desirel: He behaves same way, everyone knows him, he will be noticed within few minutes wherever he goes. Can't count how many times we beat him in a day. |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:24pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
ahnie: Same as my son, lefty and super intelligent, reads perfectly now. Problem is he's too hyper active, his mom beats him too many times in a meeting and scold me whenever I try to stop her from beating him |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:26pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
ritzyrita: I believe that too now that he has an active brother and now has the job of a guide to him |
Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:32pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Obierika: Yes, I hardly beat him and that's why he fears his mom more than he does to me and we quarrel always because she beats him too much. I might angrily injure him if I try to beat him. I only ask him to kneel down though he knows how to manipulate me like "Daddy, I love you, can I come and hug you". I'll just free him and next second, he's back doing what made me punish him in the first place |
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