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Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Olumaeme: 10:08pm On May 16, 2018 |
You messed up big time, no matter how beautiful your girlfriend is, don't hail her too much, she will start misbehaving. Telling her you know every man want her is total and arrant nonsense, she's not the most beautiful girl in Nigeria, this young ladies when hailed too much misbehave because it gets into their head. Am not saying, you shouldn't appreciate her, but pretend as if you have dated more beautiful ladies before and she's just like the normal beautiful ones you have dated in time past, don't let her know that she's the best thing to happen after slice bread. Now, since you have messed up, pretend as if nothing is happening and be busy with yourself, don't look at her profile pictures or whatsapp status, hangout and have up, upload pictures and funny videos, she will call you if she really cares. Don't pick up till after 2 days when she finally calls, tell her you are the head and deserve some respect, if she doesn't call, forget her and move on, there are millions of beautiful ladies in Nigeria to choose from 3 Likes |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Cherez: 10:09pm On May 16, 2018 |
pocohantas:I have read most of your posts on NL and believe me, you're a cool woman. Well done |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by 49cents(m): 11:03pm On May 16, 2018 |
Temitope74: You are the problem not her. You have to upgrade why draws you to women. How can you actually intend to marry a shallow and concieved and psychologically un-ready girl because you want to parade a beauty queen as a wife.....your guts is already telling you what she could do if you end up marrying her. Beauty is decietful. All these words of mine won't stop you only real hurt from her later and a personal admission of your poor judgement will reset your brains to factory settings. I have been there. I have solid experience 1 Like |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by 49cents(m): 11:08pm On May 16, 2018 |
DreamersVille24: Such a lady can't change like that. They usually soft pedal when they hit 30 plus. When pride has held a soul hostage it takes a miracle for its victim to escape with colossal destruction The poster is the problem. He must learn to find again attractiveness in the core of the woman and not just in the phyisal aspects |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by eduevolutionnow(m): 11:27pm On May 16, 2018 |
I can really feel your pain from your write up but something you must keep mind is that olamide song. Hustle, loyalty and Respect and what do you need from a woman are the last two: Loyalty and Respect. Nigga, I have to tell you the hard truth, you've got neither from her. You either nip this in the bud right now or you allow her go her way while you continue your search for a good wife. Trust me, no lady is happy when she thinks she settled. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Holymann(m): 11:59pm On May 16, 2018 |
iLegendd:how do you want your thunder, boiled or roasted |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:07am On May 17, 2018 |
Temitope74:Excuse me....did you really dump your ex for her How do y'all think you gonna get away with hurting others for your own selfish reasons This is what you get, when you hurt others. I doubt if this particular lady will marry you...the foundation of anything you do in life matters...your foundation was a faulty one that caused the pain of another. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Elouise: 4:12am On May 17, 2018 |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by mattsvibes: 4:38am On May 17, 2018 |
girl like that would always face out if i like a girl and she does not talk anything about marriage i would keep playing game with her when am done i push her off the clif and give my heart to someone who values it not hoes 1 Like |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 4:54am On May 17, 2018 |
Temitope74: 22 is she not too young for marriage? is she even a graduate yet? |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 4:56am On May 17, 2018 |
Elouise: is she a stay at home wife? |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 5:03am On May 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: For me.. I think guys should go for ladies above 28years they're more emotionally ,spiritually and physically matured. they have things to offer that ladies still in their early 20s can't offer. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 5:49am On May 17, 2018 |
These things are not what you write and give somebody @OP. You were too stiff, too formal, too commanding. You are in your early thirties and moving with a girl that's a decade younger doesn't give you the right to lord over her. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by galadima77(m): 6:42am On May 17, 2018 |
OP don't use too many words on women... keep it short and simple and most importantly, try and overlook some things. Live with it or hop out! u just dey whine like u starting a lister generator. 1 Like |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Elouise: 7:37am On May 17, 2018 |
Elder001:yeah. good thing is she is not violent and that's maybe because my cousin isn't violent actually. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 7:43am On May 17, 2018 |
Elouise: I wonder why a man will want to marry a stay at home wife in this era why is she always nagging?? she doesn't contribute anything yet she's nagging.. smh can't you guys discipline your brother? |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by adeniyisamuel59(m): 8:13am On May 17, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Truth you have just said there, he is too obsessed with beauty, good relationship is not about beauty but good character. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by adeniyisamuel59(m): 8:17am On May 17, 2018 |
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Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:35am On May 17, 2018 |
biacan:God bless your soul you don't ever in your life come across my type. No you go run leave the relationship where you dsy wait for apology |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by biacan(f): 9:28am On May 17, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:You nor fit do anything I go make you sell your papa house use the money pay my bride price |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:01am On May 17, 2018 |
biacan:lmao!! You no fit abeg |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by biacan(f): 10:03am On May 17, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:I dey like stubborn men like you because I go bend you to my will awon Alfa male |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:11am On May 17, 2018 |
biacan:Alfa ke? eeh you dey use jazz ni? I no fear you my mumsy na prayer warriors |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by biacan(f): 10:13am On May 17, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:You don begin fear
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Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:31am On May 17, 2018 |
biacan:He that is in me is greater than he that is in the world |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Nobody: 10:38am On May 17, 2018 |
Why does this remind me of me and my almost/sort-of/had-a-thing “boyfriend”? We’ve not spoken in weeks. His pride/ego is enormous but he just doesn’t know who he’s dealing with. When he’s ready to talk, he’ll call. Op, you were too harsh on your girl. You erroneously jumped into a lot of conclusions, you obviously have ego issues as well. You know how women are and how they like to be treated, especially young adult women. You’re not compatible especially with the age difference, the concept of settling down is scary to her and that’s very understandable as she’s still young and she probably has a lot of things she still wants to achieve. At least you’ve gone through that phase of youthful exuberance while she’s still on it but you’re ready to finally settle down so you can see where the conflict of interest and goals stem from. I can honestly relate to your story. I’m going through something very similar, I’m sort of seeing someone older who has a big ego while mine is even bigger. Honestly if I were your girl, I’d break things off with you with that horrid message. I understand your plight and your fears and opinion but that was no way to put it across to her. You should have been more subtle and diplomatic, that was a very disrespectful messsge. Come back and tell me she did not block you after this, I won’t believe. Una go dey very alright last last And don’t think her fear of marriage stems from the fact that she still wants to “slay” and weigh her other options and other trivial reasons you might think. Marriage talk scares the fuçk out of me. Don’t get me wrong: I want to get married, I want to have a family but there are still a lot of things I want to achieve. I want to get a masters degree, I want to be a certified Financial Analayst, I’m still contemplating getting an MBA in addition to an Msc, I want to advance to a certain level in my career plus other aspirations I have. And you know that once marriage is in the picture, a lot of goals have to be sacrificed to take on the new marital responsibilities. Anytime my significant other mentioned marriage, I literally used to become really nervous. I couldn’t see myself settling down anytime soon while he was very ready mentally, financially and in all ramifications. I’d be really offended if he tells me that I shy away from discussing marriage because I want to weigh other options. Really offended. You people just need to sit down and talk like adults abeg. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by biacan(f): 10:39am On May 17, 2018 |
YoungDaNaval:Enyaaaa nnam eweyzinewe ozogo atuzinegu |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Teespice(f): 10:45am On May 17, 2018 |
trust me, what you said was out of anger but you made sense. The heart wants what it wants. I will not be the one to tell you to free her and move on. that decision is solely yours to make. |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by Curvinus(m): 11:43am On May 17, 2018 |
op u need to understand that desire is not something you can negotiate. it is a process that happens in the head via electrical impulses in the brain. you only negotiate to have sex with a beautiful woman and move on to other things when ur done. if she tries to cling to you but is furious when you don't give her money, maybe she needs you as her stable provider, in which case u continue to shag as FWB not necessarily an exclusive affair. and u don't go about demanding loyalty or barking like a deranged dog. she comes around, u guys fukk and she leaves in the morning with a little pocket money like a transaction and she can spend the money on whatever/whoever she's into. it's not ur deal. u just blow ur load and back off. no sentiments. no epistle. she's just your booty call. but your lovers will come into ur life, and they will chase u with everything at their disposal to to be with u. that's when u begin to talk marriage or LTR. 1 Like |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by morenike195(f): 1:51pm On May 17, 2018 |
Hmmmm, pesin wey get head no get cap and d one Wey get cap no get head...... though some of ur words were ash, try n apologize to her n make her understand ur plight,then if she's not willing to hear, "d ball is in ur court"...... |
Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by 2buffagain(m): 2:15pm On May 17, 2018 |
Women aren't ready for marriage until age 25. Age 25 is the last brain growth spurt in most human adults. |
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