Burgerlomo:


Biko are you single? Are you available?

Why do you ask?

obidevine:
Hi Nairalanders , I need some mature responses .

Anytime I and my wife have a quarrel or a verbal altercation she tends to remove her ring for a few days.

Please what could this mean or how do I address this. It really gets me thinking.

My brother she doesn’t love you! And would end up leaving you. You might not like this but it’s the hard truth . Speaking from experience. Good luck bro

kimbraa:
Why do you ask?

Because I dey look 4 an epitome of beauty with brain like you

Meritocracy:
Do you think ring is a symbol of love or fashion. I don't know why people allow ordinary non living thing like ring control their entire life. Ring that can never report your wife when they fu*k her while wearing it. To hell with the useless ring.

It's not a symbol of love or fashion but it symbolises that she's taken, and by so doing, wades off guys who would've approached her if it wasn't there. Though some foolish guys still chase after married women. I think she does that to hurt her husband and to tell him she's available to other men.

Please take pocohantas's and kimbraa's advices and comments seriously. Your wife seems to be ill-tempered and also does not respect your union from her actions(that's if she does it every single time you have an altercation). I'll advise you refrain from verbal outbursts each time you have a disagreement with her. If you cannot control yourself at that moment, just walk away and then return when she must have calmed down and when your anger would have subsided, sit her down and then have a heart-to-heart talk with her. If after doing this 2 or 3 times and she doesn't change then consult someone she respects a lot or see a marriage counsellor.

obidevine:
Hi Nairalanders , I need some mature responses .

Anytime I and my wife have a quarrel or a verbal altercation she tends to remove her ring for a few days.

Please what could this mean or how do I address this. It really gets me thinking.

HardMirror:
best advice. Lol.

Thank you jawe

That is no problem but make sure she doesn't remove her pants.Anytime she removes her pants another farmer is around that vicinty
Furthermore are you sure another farmer has not secretly given her superior ring?

I've been wanting to ask too o...Cos na elders dey give the kind counsel wey u give tonight

kimbraa:
Why do you ask?

Burgerlomo:


Because I dey look 4 an epitome of beauty with brain like you

Alright, thanks but I'm not searching.

First am going to tell you straight without mincing words that you married your boss or most likely your wife have a notion she did you a great favor marrying you. You need to sit her down and and straighten things out ASAP...Mine was threatening to leave me and shatter what is delighting me....this she said severally before one day some six years ago she left with our kids before i returned from work...with our kids and ...that was the end...so Mr dont take it with a pinch of salt like i did.

A word is enough for the wise

kimbraa:
Alright, thanks but I'm not searching.

Okie Dokie

Kai it seems she doesn't like inferior ring

smeag0l:
I've been wanting to ask too o...Cos na elders dey give the kind counsel wey u give tonight

You can't handle my shìt if you were my boyfriend.

Did you beg for love? Did you force her to marry you? Did you cut corners in marrying her?
If your answer is YES to any of the above, then that's where the problem lies.


Mtcheew, after all, you begged me I'm marrying you, I don't even like you.
*Takes ring off*

Boss, m sorry, that's what going through her mind. It is not her removing the ring that is the problem, it is the thought that matters.
What prompted her to do such? She believes that ring is the card she has over you and until you become resolute she will still use such means to chide you or to make you feel disoriented.

Now here it is, ask her why she does such? If she says it's anger, tell her how she will feel if you reciprocate.

Next time, when she do it, take yours off. Sometimes, it's good to flare up for a moment, let her see the consequences of her actions and since you've already married her, sooner or later, she will know you own the master card and would never try such again.

You too stop wearing your ring,never wear it again.Tell her point blank;if she does not love you or doesnt want to stay she should leave.Be wise

It depends on what kind of baggage you have...one man's meat is another man's poison

kimbraa:
You can't handle my shìt if you were my boyfriend.

Op to say the truth, your woman don't love you the way u love her.Believe me, if she truly loves you she won't do such things. No woman in her rightful sense will dare remove a wedding ring because of mere quarrel. in fact, she is disrespecting you and her wedding vows. pls man up and be watchful. women can do stupid things especially this Generation wives. I think she is doing all those things to make u feel pained and any woman with such irresponsible character don't deserve to be loved!

It could mean nothing, yet it could mean a great deal. Some ladies, when annoyed with you tend to do things just to make you feel pained too, not that they really mean it they just wanna.prove.a.Point. its innate

smeag0l:
It depends on what kind of baggage you have...one man's meat is another man's poison

I see...

She get mon pass you

sisisioge:
Don't get too paranoid... She does it cos it gets to you. In fact, stop wearing yours entirely and watch how she complains. Then you can talk about the rule of never taking it off.

Strategist extraordinaire.

Guy! Next time, collect the ring from her and remove yours in her presence. She either beg for her ring to be given back to her or DHL herself to her family.

marriage and drama.

She is tired of the marriage and she has lost focus. That is why she removes her ring during arguments.

I can bet my bottom dollar that there is someone she is chatting with on whatsapp or other social media.

OP, go and find out, come back and tell us.

Don't pay attention... whenever she removed that ring act like u do know.. whatsup... she will get tired of that childish attitude.

This advise is cool.
If a lady is doing such, it may be that you are not also living up to responsibility, she married you out of pity, she takes care of most things in the house i.e she contributes more to the house, she cooks and take care of the home while you most times show unchallant attitude, you are not also motivated to a reasonable/arguable level. Removing ring might be the starting point, the next thing might be your family frame or other things related. She might even threaten to relocate for you or divorce you. Na small small craze dey start

1. sit her down and talk over it
2. don't give excuse for your fault, admit it
3. don't shy away from responsibilities
4. revive the relationship by taking her out or doing special things
5. you can also help in doing one or two things in the house, na your helpmate, no kill her with work

Final question to you: is your wife working?

If after trying the above, there is no change, na to speak to who both of you will listen to.

Two wrongs will not make a right.
Two hidden rings will not make a happy home.

#thistoowillpassaway

Peace out

Jackossky:
Did you beg for love? Did you force her to marry you? Did you cut corners in marrying her?
If your answer is YES to any of the above, then that's where the problem lies.


Mtcheew, after all, you begged me I'm marrying you, I don't even like you.
*Takes ring off*

Boss, m sorry, that's what going through her mind. It is not her removing the ring that is the problem, it is the thought that matters.
What prompted her to do such? She believes that ring is the card she has over you and until you become resolute she will still use such means to chide you or to make you feel disoriented.

Now here it is, ask her why she does such? If she says it's anger, tell her how she will feel if you reciprocate.

Next time, when she do it, take yours off. Sometimes, it's good to flare up for a moment, let her see the consequences of her actions and since you've already married her, sooner or later, she will know you own the master card and would never try such again.

Read the handwriting on the wall bro

marvelli:
It seems you married a child.

i think thats the case

Na so olosho dey behave o,one leg in, one leg out.



We are nothing but virgins in the eyes of our parents.

Good Night.

She seems frustrated in that marriage. And she could be distracted

obidevine:
Hi Nairalanders , I need some mature responses .

Anytime I and my wife have a quarrel or a verbal altercation she tends to remove her ring for a few days.

Please what could this mean or how do I address this. It really gets me thinking.

She removes her ring, so is that a big deal? What about couples that don't wear a wedding band at all?

Don't allow such trivial issues bother you.... She still puts it back on eventually, just ignore.......

If a time comes, and she completely refuses to put it back on and seeks a divorce. What would you do?

Small girl de worry am