mhisbliss:
Nice detective work, now that you know, what are you gonna do with it

Elder001:


lynched by who?

LivingFree:
If you let people be gay then you won't have such a complicated society!

So, because I show love to my fellow woman, I must enjoy fish? Correct?

#Dumb generation

Earthbound:

So by your logic guys who like their dik sucked are gay's too. Smh

donemperor:
I stopped reading at "going by the Bible and Quran ".At that point I knew that this is a person without a shred of empathy and common sense and incapable of reading.Most likely hasn't read the Quran or Bible,but is simply quoting what his Pastor or Imam told him.

A closed mind is a useless mind.

darkchild64:


can we say the same about catholic priests and nuns

"if a large part of the society should become catholic priests and nuns then no more families and children anymore. Celibacy is a disease that needs to be treated "

SoapQueen:


If I am not wrong, Locke was an empiricist, you should read up other views. Philosophers like Plato were rationalists, they believed that man was born with reasoning. Better put,
Anamnesis.

smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

samyfreshsmooth:



you a lesbian too?

godofuck231:
Wey them!

godofuck231:
He has said a lot, by nature and psychology women are attracted to each other, men? We fight our selves

Mrmourinho:
I Will Neva Take Dat Number 2 4rm U, My Mum Uses An Anklet On D RIGHT LEG Same As All My Younger Sis, Does That Mean They Are Lesbians??

wenenike:
I have a female friend she is married, she wears a ''RING'' on her right leg foretoe and bead on her waist. what do you tell of this?

BlackManta:


And when they investigate and fail to find proof of any sexual activity etc. The gay is innocent.

Even if the stupid Nigeria Police arrest a gay, charge him to court and they fail to provide of proof of any sex related activities, that gay has not committed any crime and he will walk free.

Being gay is not a crime.

Do you understand?

Mrmourinho:
I Will Neva Take Dat Number 2 4rm U, My Mum Uses An Anklet On D RIGHT LEG Same As All My Younger Sis, Does That Mean They Are Lesbians??

godofuck231:


I smell a drill sergeant here, Bros no kill person pikin o, lol

smeag0l:
Please take time to read the initial post. Howbeit, slowly. Thank you

RosaBerry:
@ OP you made your point.

Expose them!!!



Quote me and let thunder visit you.

TheEminentLaity:
I sort of agree with the point of your original post that no one should marry another if they are not the sexual preference but don't you think it's silly to be basing your 'morality' on religious texts? Have you even read those books to know the immoral and senseless killings by god and his prophets in your holy book?

Why don't you first learn about homosexuality, learn the history and actually what's in your bible then see the unjust and discriminatory law in Nigeria against homosexuals. Hope you won't go beat up the demon out of your sibling if you find that they are homosexual.

The discriminatory law is what, by and large, caused your friends to end up in such marriages and trust, nobody's opening up to you about their sexuality with your religious dogmatic demeanor. Another thing, FYI homosexuality has been observed in animals and it's no longer news. You have a smartphone and an internet, use it. Check Quora to see how it is to be homosexual before you kill them because of a book of talking snakes and donkeys and moon splitting.

SexytorresE:
I disagree on the chain part, I wore chain on my left or right leg is cos I liked it. but am not a Lez...

Magnifik18:


I don't need to read your rubbish in its entity b4 I know it's trash.. besides ain't nobody got time for that.

I tell ya, sin is sin & targeting lesbians is very poor judgement- take it or throw it away.

Bloggers in Nigeria want to judge/ critisize others but very quick to bully or intimidate anyone who is critical of their poor quality of work.

NONSENSE.

You are a hypocrite. Leave lesbians alone and let their creator be the judge of them.

Shift your focus to the happenings in your country like corruption, killings and more.

Corrupt leaders, murderers and all other sinners will equally go to hell if they don't turn away from evil.

Just curious though: if you keep replying everyone who... smh..... never mind!

Audray:
This one sounds like he's been ignored or snubbed by some girl he's into. His #RantMode is activated. Grow balls and do something to alleviate the shîtty situation your beloved "morality based country" is swaddled up in rather than create an utterly useless "how to ID lesbians" thread on NL. Now that you've put this "guide" up here , what next?...

smeag0l:
I won't mind that kind of hangout too o.

Elder001:


and what makes gay and lesbianism nefarious?

Pray tell me, how exactly is gay and lesbianism affecting your life?.

What has the morality done for the Nigerian economy? . Like I said earlier, y'all need serious exposure.
Focus on your shítty country and stop monitoring the sexual life of other people.

OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay .

Anyway, my baby mama is a lesbian.

TheEminentLaity:

On the one hand, you say if you were gay, you wouldn't give a shït on how you are perceived by others, and on the other say Bobrisky has negative lifestyle and doing more harm to public perception of gays, not in your opinion, but obvious reasons.


Your comments clearly expressed condemnation, however subtle. The thing I was trying to highlight to you from your earlier comment was that you kind of endorsed Bobrisky on one hand (you wouldn't give a shït if you were gay) and then condemned him in the end. We cannot control public perception, as much as we would want to. You don't have to be a philanthropist to be liked for your sexuality or help public perception of people of same sexuality, who would want to carry such a burden?

I understand what you mean, just wanted to highlight the contradiction in your comment. I only knew about Bobrisky because my younger sister finds him/her funny. Really, not a big deal.