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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by oglalasioux(m): 7:39am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Some married women can't stand their husband not giving them money the morning after making love to them no matter how rich they are. Those are the ones their inclination for prostitution came through their DNA. They will be faithful in the marriage until their husbands stop dropping 2 thousand naira after every sex. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Wallade(m): 7:41am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Omachona: Sorry, you will always regret this move. She will ground the business |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by joe4christ(m): 7:42am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lalas247: If by chance your Bro is faced with same situation like this. You can advice him to proceed. But pls don't advice someone's child to proceed with such acidic relationship. Its really that bad of you! |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ib22003(m): 7:42am On Jun 10, 2018 |
I have this same dilemma, why invest money in a lady if you are the one going to carry all the bills. It's an African thing. An elder told me that this is normal, but depending on the woman, they occasionally take care of bills. And also multiple sources of income is good for the family. Even if she does not take care of bills she will spend on the children. Keep in mind that this depends on the lady. mistacoco: |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Lalas247(f): 7:45am On Jun 10, 2018 |
joe4christ:If u say so... Some people can change... he can correct that mentality You ever heard of Prenup? He should use it.. she leaves the same way she came ... |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Agwaso: 7:45am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:. I think her thought is not entirely incorrect. It is Your responsibility take care of the home, your wife and your children even if you wife earns more than you. If your monthly income cannot sustain the home then your wife can support you. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by KcAngel(m): 7:46am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:LAUNCH UR CHICKEN LEG....RUN!!! NEVER LOOK BACK 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by tonididdy(m): 7:47am On Jun 10, 2018 |
ItzBIM:she just takes him for a fool that's why she owes him no explanation and to think he will be getting married to her ? SMH |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by D1zion: 7:49am On Jun 10, 2018 |
I think your gf is a selfish & money monger sorry to tell you that. But if today you happen to become broke is either she leaves you or she will be assisting but will always take u as a house boy & always tell the world that she's the catering for everything in the house. Listen to what most people tell you here. Is either you find a solution now the earlier the better of finding your Square root or everything you give her must be in writing form. Don't look at how you've spent on her. Look for someone that will always be there for you through thick or thin. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by joe4christ(m): 7:50am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco: Mr, pls can you do me and I guess majority of nairalanders the favour of not boring us with your marital wahala should you proceed to marry such egocentric lady you call your woman. I've seen countless of niggas like you who don't heed to advice till they fall into that great pit due to the limitations in their foresight induced by love and infatuation. Your eyes go clear u when you don finally enter that one chance. I've saved your moniker for future purpose! 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by hokafor(m): 7:55am On Jun 10, 2018 |
I think you are in trouble for getting involved with this breed of dog.she will make your life miserable |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by joe4christ(m): 7:59am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lalas247: I quite understand your point. But considering the OP. Damn, that nigga is obviously weak and I doubt he has the will power to put her in her right place. She must have sensed him as a weakling to have such guts to even voice that out even if she has such intention. As an alpha male, this nigga is a sissy |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by joe4christ(m): 8:07am On Jun 10, 2018 |
ItzBIM: Thats even the annoying part of the OP write up. I felt so angry reading that line. Damn, a lady who mistakenly use that line on me on such personal matter that I feel concerns us both, I won't hesitate to break that relationship without any regret. I will be thanking my stars for revealing her true identity to me less I make the worst mistake of my life. Fear women o! |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by sekem: 8:08am On Jun 10, 2018 |
The funniest part of this whole nonsense is that most women of nowadays have this HELPER mentality... most especially when it comes to money matters But as for me, I don't really care You are my HELPER which is good I am also your HELPER Okay...? Good and fine Now, the implication is that as my HELPER, you are free to do whatever you like with your own money I have no problems with that And likewise me I am totally free to do whatever I want to do with my own money If you don't like it, then we all can as well kiss the marriage goodbye One thing I've come to learn in this life is that whenever you are dealing with women, make sure you treat her exactly the same way she treats you. Never ever you compromise on that! If she is the selfish type, make sure you show her the true meaning and colour of selfishness If she is the kind and considerate type, then be kind and considerate to her That is the only way you can actually beat women in their own often devious game But if you make the mistake of trying to succumb to her demands, simply because you want to prove that you are indeed a gentleman or REAL man or whatever, then I am sorry for you because yours is a lost cause already Women, by their intrinsic nature, are totally selfish Any man who wants to secure his future, finance and peace of mind while dealing with women will have to learn how to be ABSOLUTELY and TOTALLY selfish and know when and where to apply his own supreme selfishness That's the only way to reset their brains and start bringing out the altruistic nature in them that will benefit all concerned If you don't or can't do this I'm sorry, But sorry will be your name 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by nelsonebby(m): 8:08am On Jun 10, 2018 |
@mistacoco. Give it to her He knows what she’s doing. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 8:12am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:I am sorry bro but you area real Sissy |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by YelloweWest: 8:13am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by pedrilo: 8:15am On Jun 10, 2018 |
bethyz:so u dnt have a mind of ur own? U cnt tink for urself? Winners chapel my Asss. Pls singles shud discuss n define everytin concerning finances b4 wedding to avoid divorce. Ladies must understand that it is NOT possible for an average man in 9ja to shoulder all the expenses alone in marriage except he is very very rich (in hundreds of million naira), therefor, all hands must be on deck to fend for the family, if the lady is working n earning say 100k, kindly contribute 20k for monthly expenses and let hubby handle the rest. Dnt say u will help wen hubby is broke, that is very inconsiderate n selfish. This was the same reason I ended my relationship wit a certain lady last year, she works n earn above 100k, I earn more than her. So while we were discussing issues concerning finances in marriage, she said she will not contribute a dime from her pay for anytin weda monthly expenses or children sch fees or house rent, that those r my responsibilities not hers, but that she can only assist me wen I go broke, I replied with God forbid I WILL NEVER GO BROKE! I told her it's better she assist me so that I dnt go broke, and she refused. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by smartigo: 8:15am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:u just sounded like a fool. can you hear yourself? That means she can't buy your anything |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Freestainworld(m): 8:18am On Jun 10, 2018 |
don't start what you can't finish bro, if its me, can't even marry her again, it shows how selfish and immature she is in thinking. that kind of a girl can even turn you into a house help in the future if paraventually something goes wrong with your income. say no to Gold diggers pretending to love you. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by emelda86(f): 8:19am On Jun 10, 2018 |
pedrilo: My guy have spoken! Peddy what's up? |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Anijay1212(m): 8:24am On Jun 10, 2018 |
IamD18:Lol... please your options are very extreme,try and send the baked one instead. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by pedrilo: 8:27am On Jun 10, 2018 |
emelda86:emy.luv i bam, bn out of Lagos for official assignment but I'm bak now. Happy sunday |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by emelda86(f): 8:28am On Jun 10, 2018 |
pedrilo: Happy Sunday to you too...was looking for you all through yesterday but thank God u are back |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by pedrilo: 8:31am On Jun 10, 2018 |
emelda86:ur a sweet girl Emelda. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by TheSpellChecker: 8:31am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Freestainworld: paraventually indeed! I believe what you wanted to say is peradventure. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by chuksonia(m): 8:33am On Jun 10, 2018 |
take ma advice, ladies these days are something else! u try to convince yourself That she's the one for u, and start making plans to wife tagg her! in no time She would spill of her mouth something really dangerous That's supposed to flag her! But most guys are blinded by lemme say the useless act called love or probably her puccy. and u still wanna proceed with the whole process. oga our mother's weren't like this, they where always wanting to stand by u regardless! now the reserve is the case, a whole lot of em are selfish too proud and just too arrogant! obviously becos they feel they're doing a guy a favor by dating him! you've gotta take your time with any lady before making her the mother of your kids, I for once almost got caught up in this mess of being blinded by love and wanting to be with her, my old man would always tell me the beautiful one's are not yet born, so brother don't allow a random bitc!h just be about things like this and your over look it, even if you're going to go on wit the wedding then u must now be aware of the kinda person and be careful, and don't loose guard............ |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by emelda86(f): 8:36am On Jun 10, 2018 |
pedrilo: Awwww...u are a sweet guy too |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by pedrilo: 8:39am On Jun 10, 2018 |
betty616:can u just imagine! Even as a lady u bliv he is talking trash. Some men r so stewpeed. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Adukey(f): 8:42am On Jun 10, 2018 |
CryptoClub2018: Na wa, you come spoil everything with your last statement. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by pedrilo: 8:43am On Jun 10, 2018 |
mistacoco:if you go ahead to marry this lady YOU WILL END UP IN McDONALD. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by weyreypey: 8:43am On Jun 10, 2018 |
SoapQueen:Bae no let water carry you o.... I get eye for your matter like kilode...hope you are single o |
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