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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by stevups(m): 10:10am On Jun 14, 2018 |
I think she needs a man to get married to. Pls go to church, you will see God fearing niga. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by buchasman(m): 10:11am On Jun 14, 2018 |
[quote author=ChangeIsCostant post=68448333]A 28-year-old relationship expert has taken to social media to reveal her dilemma. The young lady identified as Oby Omalicha Chuka revealed that she has been dating three guys for over 2 years now but sleeps with only one of them. According to her, the two other guys who "she does not have sex with" - are now separately asking her questions about marriage which has led to her confusion over who to choose. She posted her story in a Facebook group as she urged online users not to judge her for action and give her reasonable advice on what to do. Below is what she wrote; I have never been this confused in my entire life, kindly read to the end and advice me sincerely. Please don't tell me to pray or go for deliverance, I know that already, I just need practical advice. I am 28 years old, I have been dating these 3 guys for 2 years plus, I am not an ashawo cos I don't even sleep with 2, I only sleep with one. I just don't want to put all my eggs in one basket cos you never know who would turn out to be an asshole. So everything has been OK until recently, as if they planned it, the 2 guys that I do not sleep with started asking questions about my people, how they do marriage rites, if I would like to marry them and so many questions suggesting that a proposal is probably on their minds. And the way this is going, if I don't make up my mind soon, I will not be able to say yes or no if any of them proposes, I like them differently for different reasons. Please help me to decide, what really matters most in marriage, should I test them with one of my girlfriends to see who really loves me? What do I do please? No insults please I will be reading comments. how have you been coping with these 3 guys cha! you must be conversant with lies.... please stop dating them, I mean the 3 guys and start a new life. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by NeeKlaus: 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018 |
izzou:You thought wrong all along. Beauty without brains. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by emanobis(m): 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018 |
ChangeIsCostant: First of all, let me start by saying this: Your desperation to settle down will be your utmost challenge, it will definitely becloud your sense of judgement and fairness. That's one thing you must have to tackle. On the other hand, I wont advice you to test them using your girlfriends-never use a yam to test the loyalty of a goat, men can fall very well in that and most people you call friends are not friends, they will make matters worse for you. Calm down, follow your heart, keep money and financial bouyancy aside, your heart must belong to one of them, you just have to close your eyes and listen to your inner being. The one you are sleeping with, what made him so special in your life? Are you just his intimacy gadget? Is there really LOVE in wht both of you are doing? Finally, tell the other two that you will like to go for an HIV test, anyone of them that starts sounding diplomatic and political, please run as far as your legs can carry you coz most of them would wnt to use marriage as a tool to lay u, after wch the story is over. Lest I forget, seek God's direction, and look for a good well-respected aged mother and confide in her, seek the advice of the grey hairs. May God be with you |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kmaster007: 10:16am On Jun 14, 2018 |
you no be ashewo but ur olosho,slay Mama |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by pafisayo(m): 10:18am On Jun 14, 2018 |
MoshoodOkunola: Lol ... not really . The only reason she remembered to mention she’s not sleeping with two of them is to buttress her statement “ she’s not an Ashewo” The truth is even the Dumbest of boys can tell when a girl is cheating!! Sometimes a boy will pretend or act like e is dumb for reasons best known to him. Why front and fight a girl who’s cheating but still gives you- Peace of mind Steady sex Probably tidy up your place weekends Knows how to make your favorite meal Probably does not demand unnecessary money. Even a girl with 3 boyfriend can give superb advise, life changing advise. Most men cheat also but by putting all these out she’s either surfing for attention or basically talking about someone pretty close to her . Who knows ?? Lol |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by dyeklint66: 10:19am On Jun 14, 2018 |
IamD18:��������� AMIN........ |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by izzou(m): 10:20am On Jun 14, 2018 |
NeeKlaus:
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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kwankwaso(m): 10:23am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Lies from pit of hell |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by bejeria101(m): 10:25am On Jun 14, 2018 |
No your not! You are a new prototype! |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 14, 2018 |
"I am not an ashawo,cos i dont even sleep with 2,i only sleep with one".......... This is what i read 4 d 1st time today. ~SMH~ u might nt b an ash** but certainly wont escape being an olosho |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Thistles: 10:32am On Jun 14, 2018 |
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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Bahddo(m): 10:34am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Nothing new here. Some ladies have as many as 5 or 6 guys they are dating at the same time 'for different reasons'. They are masters of the cheating game, and they call it not putting all your eggs in one basket. But let a guy try getting one side chic... His babe with 2 other bfs would snoop around and catch him. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by andyanders: 10:59am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Lonestar124:Those guys she is dating could be those type of guys that cannot read and wright as they have nothing to do with social media. How can a sane person appear on social media with her real pictures and be seeking/asking silly advise as to who to marry among the 3 guys she is dating. 1 Like |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:06am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Spells:Some had to be used. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Lonestar124: 11:09am On Jun 14, 2018 |
andyanders:I'm still surprise bro...No atom of credibility in what she wrote. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by princfred(m): 11:16am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Whats the difference between dating a Nigerian girl and going for ashawo? Isn't both pay as you go? In both cases, the day you stop paying thats the day the going ends. Maybe just because one is sure that she has other customers in ashawo case while not so sure for gf is the difference. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by mamaafrik(m): 11:17am On Jun 14, 2018 |
madam Helen the relationship expert,i see you |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Lonestar124: 11:19am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Slimsly100:Firstly, it is not justifiable for a girl to keep three boyfriends for two years. It prove her potential in promiscuity after marriage. I just see a girl with bad upbringing, no atom shame. She has got the attention she want. 1 Like |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by oneTIMEman(m): 11:24am On Jun 14, 2018 |
How I wish I'm one of them...local ash |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:28am On Jun 14, 2018 |
... Kuku kii me IamD18: |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:30am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Preshy561:Abi o. And some guys are single n searching too but not to share like this one o |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Tonytonex(m): 11:31am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Follow Your Heart Beautiful Bea. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:31am On Jun 14, 2018 |
IamD18:Hahaahahahahhahahahahaha.. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Oh well!! I guess the internet is another world of it's own.. but I'd still smash her couchie tho � |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Mart1994(m): 11:55am On Jun 14, 2018 |
Were are the feminists now, huh? They keep dia mouths shut wen stuff like these comes up. Though I still feel this one just wanna trend like the others... Nice try |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kilojoDesigns: 11:55am On Jun 14, 2018 |
I thought Men are supposed to be the scum |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:59am On Jun 14, 2018 |
pity the grooms of this generation hoes and slutts are their companions. |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by iamgeneral(m): 12:21pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
In this country you are dating a guy for months without sex and he wants to marry you lolx.. sister.. your fellow are in hell, see her innocent face' your excuses for not having sex with them is that you are a what ...? no make me vex oh just stop it |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by amedualiyi: 12:43pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
CSTR1003: She is not telling the truth. I don't think any guy will do this. Two years not two days. I dey mad? |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Shemadex(m): 12:48pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
izzou:������bro dont mind her may dey think we ar mumu lik her |
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by InMyOpinion(m): 1:08pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
izzou: Bros easy na |
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