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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by stevups(m): 10:10am On Jun 14, 2018
I think she needs a man to get married to. Pls go to church, you will see God fearing niga.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by buchasman(m): 10:11am On Jun 14, 2018
[quote author=ChangeIsCostant post=68448333]A 28-year-old relationship expert has taken to social media to reveal her dilemma. The young lady identified as Oby Omalicha Chuka revealed that she has been dating three guys for over 2 years now but sleeps with only one of them. According to her, the two other guys who "she does not have sex with" - are now separately asking her questions about marriage which has led to her confusion over who to choose.

She posted her story in a Facebook group as she urged online users not to judge her for action and give her reasonable advice on what to do.

Below is what she wrote;

I have never been this confused in my entire life, kindly read to the end and advice me sincerely. Please don't tell me to pray or go for deliverance, I know that already, I just need practical advice. I am 28 years old, I have been dating these 3 guys for 2 years plus, I am not an ashawo cos I don't even sleep with 2, I only sleep with one. I just don't want to put all my eggs in one basket cos you never know who would turn out to be an asshole.

So everything has been OK until recently, as if they planned it, the 2 guys that I do not sleep with started asking questions about my people, how they do marriage rites, if I would like to marry them and so many questions suggesting that a proposal is probably on their minds.

And the way this is going, if I don't make up my mind soon, I will not be able to say yes or no if any of them proposes, I like them differently for different reasons. Please help me to decide, what really matters most in marriage, should I test them with one of my girlfriends to see who really loves me? What do I do please? No insults please I will be reading comments.


how have you been coping with these 3 guys cha! you must be conversant with lies.... please stop dating them, I mean the 3 guys and start a new life.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by NeeKlaus: 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018
izzou:


So none of the three guys are her friends on facebook?

And none of them keep tabs or stalk her on social media?

I thought you were smarter than this undecided
You thought wrong all along. Beauty without brains. grin
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by emanobis(m): 10:13am On Jun 14, 2018
ChangeIsCostant:
A 28-year-old relationship expert has taken to social media to reveal her dilemma. The young lady identified as Oby Omalicha Chuka revealed that she has been dating three guys for over 2 years now but sleeps with only one of them. According to her, the two other guys who "she does not have sex with" - are now separately asking her questions about marriage which has led to her confusion over who to choose.

She posted her story in a Facebook group as she urged online users not to judge her for action and give her reasonable advice on what to do.

Below is what she wrote;

I have never been this confused in my entire life, kindly read to the end and advice me sincerely. Please don't tell me to pray or go for deliverance, I know that already, I just need practical advice. I am 28 years old, I have been dating these 3 guys for 2 years plus, I am not an ashawo cos I don't even sleep with 2, I only sleep with one. I just don't want to put all my eggs in one basket cos you never know who would turn out to be an asshole.

So everything has been OK until recently, as if they planned it, the 2 guys that I do not sleep with started asking questions about my people, how they do marriage rites, if I would like to marry them and so many questions suggesting that a proposal is probably on their minds.

And the way this is going, if I don't make up my mind soon, I will not be able to say yes or no if any of them proposes, I like them differently for different reasons. Please help me to decide, what really matters most in marriage, should I test them with one of my girlfriends to see who really loves me? What do I do please? No insults please I will be reading comments.


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First of all, let me start by saying this: Your desperation to settle down will be your utmost challenge, it will definitely becloud your sense of judgement and fairness. That's one thing you must have to tackle.
On the other hand, I wont advice you to test them using your girlfriends-never use a yam to test the loyalty of a goat, men can fall very well in that and most people you call friends are not friends, they will make matters worse for you.
Calm down, follow your heart, keep money and financial bouyancy aside, your heart must belong to one of them, you just have to close your eyes and listen to your inner being.
The one you are sleeping with, what made him so special in your life? Are you just his intimacy gadget? Is there really LOVE in wht both of you are doing?
Finally, tell the other two that you will like to go for an HIV test, anyone of them that starts sounding diplomatic and political, please run as far as your legs can carry you coz most of them would wnt to use marriage as a tool to lay u, after wch the story is over.
Lest I forget, seek God's direction, and look for a good well-respected aged mother and confide in her, seek the advice of the grey hairs.
May God be with you
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kmaster007: 10:16am On Jun 14, 2018
you no be ashewo but ur olosho,slay Mama
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by pafisayo(m): 10:18am On Jun 14, 2018
MoshoodOkunola:
those two guys are senseless.

Lol ... not really .
The only reason she remembered to mention she’s not sleeping with two of them is to buttress her statement “ she’s not an Ashewo”
The truth is even the Dumbest of boys can tell when a girl is cheating!!
Sometimes a boy will pretend or act like e is dumb for reasons best known to him.
Why front and fight a girl who’s cheating but still gives you-
Peace of mind
Steady sex
Probably tidy up your place weekends
Knows how to make your favorite meal
Probably does not demand unnecessary money.
Even a girl with 3 boyfriend can give superb advise, life changing advise.
Most men cheat also but by putting all these out she’s either surfing for attention or basically talking about someone pretty close to her .
Who knows ?? Lol
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by dyeklint66: 10:19am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
Oh God! We, your children have gathered here once again today to ask for a favor.

>Any lady that'll play tum-bom tum-bom with us, your lovely men.
>Any prostitute that'll be sleeping outside while using us to practice "3 eggs in a basket.
>Any lady with her nose looking like an improper fraction like this lady.
>Any lady that plans to use us as plan B.
>Any hoe like this lady that would want us to marry her while she's fvcking another man.


Please, order gazillion of soja ants, millipede, centipede from Uganda, Somalia, Kenya and Zimbabwe and send them to her pant to suck her bottomless pussay for 3 hours. So. That she'll know that we your children are serving a living God.

Nonsense and PVC
��������� AMIN........
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by izzou(m): 10:20am On Jun 14, 2018
NeeKlaus:

You thought wrong all along. Beauty without brains. grin

grin grin grin grin

Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kwankwaso(m): 10:23am On Jun 14, 2018
Lies from pit of hell
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by bejeria101(m): 10:25am On Jun 14, 2018
No your not! You are a new prototype!
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 14, 2018
"I am not an ashawo,cos i dont even sleep with 2,i only sleep with one".......... This is what i read 4 d 1st time today. ~SMH~ u might nt b an ash** but certainly wont escape being an olosho
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Thistles: 10:32am On Jun 14, 2018
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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Bahddo(m): 10:34am On Jun 14, 2018
Nothing new here. Some ladies have as many as 5 or 6 guys they are dating at the same time 'for different reasons'. They are masters of the cheating game, and they call it not putting all your eggs in one basket.

But let a guy try getting one side chic... His babe with 2 other bfs would snoop around and catch him. grin
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by andyanders: 10:59am On Jun 14, 2018
Lonestar124:
Two guy want to propose to you at same time as if they bargain it.

Sister nobody is dating you....stop lying.

OK what will happened if one of the guys sees her post.


Those guys she is dating could be those type of guys that cannot read and wright as they have nothing to do with social media. How can a sane person appear on social media with her real pictures and be seeking/asking silly advise as to who to marry among the 3 guys she is dating.

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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:06am On Jun 14, 2018
Spells:
why are you letting the devil use you na, why
Some had to be used.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Lonestar124: 11:09am On Jun 14, 2018
andyanders:
Those guys she is dating could be those type of guys that cannot read and wright as they have nothing to do with social media. How can a sane person appear on social media with her real pictures and be seeking/asking silly advise as to who to marry among the 3 guys she is dating.
I'm still surprise bro...No atom of credibility in what she wrote.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by princfred(m): 11:16am On Jun 14, 2018
Whats the difference between dating a Nigerian girl and going for ashawo? Isn't both pay as you go? In both cases, the day you stop paying thats the day the going ends.
Maybe just because one is sure that she has other customers in ashawo case while not so sure for gf is the difference.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by mamaafrik(m): 11:17am On Jun 14, 2018
madam Helen the relationship expert,i see you
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Lonestar124: 11:19am On Jun 14, 2018
Slimsly100:





My brother it happens. Right now I'm wearing almost the same shoes. Two men dey on top marriage matter for my head. One wants it this year, the other next year. Though ain't sleeping with any of them. I don't really know whom to say yes to cause they are both different.

Abeg story plenty.
But na this sleeping with one while hanging the other two na im taya me for her case
Firstly, it is not justifiable for a girl to keep three boyfriends for two years. It prove her potential in promiscuity after marriage.

I just see a girl with bad upbringing, no atom shame.

She has got the attention she want.

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Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by oneTIMEman(m): 11:24am On Jun 14, 2018
How I wish I'm one of them...local ash
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:28am On Jun 14, 2018
grin grin cheesy grin... Kuku kii me
IamD18:
Oh God! We, your children have gathered here once again today to ask for a favor.

>Any lady that'll play tum-bom tum-bom with us, your lovely men.
>Any prostitute that'll be sleeping outside while using us to practice "3 eggs in a basket.
>Any lady with her nose looking like an improper fraction like this lady.
>Any lady that plans to use us as plan B.
>Any hoe like this lady that would want us to marry her while she's fvcking another man.


Please, order gazillion of soja ants, millipede, centipede from Uganda, Somalia, Kenya and Zimbabwe and send them to her pant to suck her bottomless pussay for 3 hours. So. That she'll know that we your children are serving a living God.

Nonsense and PVC
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:30am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
chai this world sef.embarassed
some ladies are still single and searching while this one is already in a 3 stable relationship. cry
Abi o. And some guys are single n searching too but not to share like this one o
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Tonytonex(m): 11:31am On Jun 14, 2018
Follow Your Heart Beautiful Bea.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by itzjwizzy(m): 11:31am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


You thought what? Who? Smart?
Hahaahahahahhahahahahaha.. grin
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 14, 2018
Oh well!! I guess the internet is another world of it's own.. but I'd still smash her couchie tho �
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Mart1994(m): 11:55am On Jun 14, 2018
Were are the feminists now, huh? They keep dia mouths shut wen stuff like these comes up. Though I still feel this one just wanna trend like the others... Nice try grin grin
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by kilojoDesigns: 11:55am On Jun 14, 2018
I thought Men are supposed to be the scum
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Nobody: 11:59am On Jun 14, 2018
pity the grooms of this generation hoes and slutts are their companions.
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by iamgeneral(m): 12:21pm On Jun 14, 2018
In this country you are dating a guy for months without sex and he wants to marry you lolx.. grin sister.. your fellow are in hell, see her innocent face' your excuses for not having sex with them is that you are a what ...? no make me vex oh just stop it lipsrsealed angry
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by amedualiyi: 12:43pm On Jun 14, 2018
CSTR1003:
Scum.

The two men that dated her for 2 years without touching her have no taste or common sense.
And I am sure they are her ATMs.

Some men na wa o.

She is not telling the truth. I don't think any guy will do this. Two years not two days. I dey mad?
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by Shemadex(m): 12:48pm On Jun 14, 2018
izzou:
grin

Lies Lies Lies

Why do people try so hard to seek attention these days? Or can one convert a particular number of likes on social media to cash?

You claim to be in a dilemma, but you had to reveal it using your own picture. Did it occur to you that the three of them might be reading this? grin Who even gave you the ring on your hand? angry

Mtcheeew. Petty slutty cheap attention seeking creature undecided
������bro dont mind her may dey think we ar mumu lik her
Re: 'I Am Not An Ashawo'; Lady Who Has Been Dating 3 Guys For Over Two Years. Photo by InMyOpinion(m): 1:08pm On Jun 14, 2018
izzou:
grin

Lies Lies Lies

Why do people try so hard to seek attention these days? Or can one convert a particular number of likes on social media to cash?

You claim to be in a dilemma, but you had to reveal it using your own picture. Did it occur to you that the three of them might be reading this? grin Who even gave you the ring on your hand? angry

Mtcheeew. Petty slutty cheap attention seeking creature undecided

Bros easy na smiley

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