LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

Lol, so why complain then? you had to spend to impress her friends and to impress her. Na so dem take dey cash maga all in the name of relationship.

LukeSkywalker78:
but what I know is that she has never done such to me before. Her friends her hungry (fact) but I think she's different.

Just be careful

Lol

LukeSkywalker78:
Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

captain cook? are u in Adoekiti?

U hv to man up n know when to say yes or no otherwise ur gf sef will forge ahead ....don't be Mr too nice guy

rex444:
U hv to man up n know when to say yes or no otherwise ur gf sef will forge ahead ....don't be Mr too nice guy

right now, I'm giving my relationship tactics som second thoughts now.

Lomprico2:


You be real mugu!!

Succinctly put.

LukeSkywalker78:
Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

...ok..who reject you...wot's her name?

MrCork:



...ok..who reject you...wot's her name?

for privacy reasons, let's call her Funke.

eosigwe:
captain cook? are u in Adoekiti?

no

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

is she doing u a favor by dating you?

LukeSkywalker78:
but what I know is that she has never done such to me before. Her friends her hungry (fact) but I think she's different.

baba you messed up, dem just dey teach you lesson

me wey i done wakee tay...

the medicine is not to be there in the first place or be there with enough cash...

those ladies knew what they were doing, they were not 'elebis', they werr just sizing you up, now you know

Spoilert alert!! ...the said chic may not really like you cos no Nigeria girl will allow her friends spend her true man's money ...watch out bro you might just be her and her clique meal ticket

weyreypey:
whatever happened to saying no.

Abi o, I don’t know why guys will always prefer to die in silence all because they want to form nice guy. Funny thing the first rule of dating, Nice guys never get the girl.

The girl is actually daft. Op should feel free to put the moves on her friends.

ndy87:
I went for lunch with someone today, I took bottled water and I saw a friend on my way, she joined us and I paid for her food. Don't go and show a guy that you have hungry friends and be insulted. Mr man tell your babe to caution her friends before she lands u in trouble.

aunty which kain lie be this na


you went for "lunch" and took only bottled water?¥


na bottle water you chop for lunch?

Lomprico2:

You be real mugu!!

Seconded.,
i cant beleive this guy is my name sake.

Shey nah dem force you to buy ahm for dem? You Willingly lavished your hard earned money on them, just to impress your girlfriend and her friends. So stop complaining. Abeg

LukeSkywalker78:
Like seriously. I've been dating a girl for sometime now (past a year) and we are getting pretty serious. Anyways yesterday I wanted to see her and I gave her a call. She asked me to come over to her house. I told her I wanted to take her out and she agreed. As I got there, her friends (besties?) Came over and said they wanted to drop by. As they understood what was going on, they said they wanted to tag along. We agreed and went to Captain cook. We ordered and these friends were ordering like ther was no tomorrow. Even my GF asked if what they were ordering wasn't too much but they ignored her and kept doing their thing. Afterwards, they asked me (again) to buy them takeaway. I didn't have much money on me to buy takeaway so I had to buy them Captain Cook bread for each of them. I was so drained that I'm still recovering. My GF has never done such. I was just saying " Shey awon elebi leleyi ni" ( Yoruba guys will understand ). I just wanted to know if all girl's friends are like this if they are taken out. I will never forget this. P.S: I'm not generalizing women o.

Are u a student of Ospoly or you live in Osogbo?

How much you spend?

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

stop being a sissy. like someone who replied you above said "you have not become a man enough to man a woman". so because you don't want to fumble in front of her friends you have to spend your life out so that she will not see that as reason to leave you. my advice, you are still young and dumb for any relationship. trust me those babe will laugh you and call you MUMU at your back.

Your gal frwnd is d cause of ya problem, u tagged dem her besties nd she can not talk some sense into dem......some besties re so bad dat dey could go extreme to ridicule ones boyfriend, but as a correct babes wey she be, she shouldn't hv gvn dem d opportunity 2 b so possessive, Mayb she enjoyed he whole scenero.

fancy4eve:
Your gal frwnd is d cause of ya problem, u tagged dem her besties nd she can not talk some sense into dem......some besties re so bad dat dey could go extreme to ridicule ones boyfriend, but as a correct babes wey she be, she shouldn't hv gvn dem d opportunity 2 b so possessive, Mayb she enjoyed he whole scenero.

you just nail it

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

Don't send or sell yourself into perpetual slavery because you want to impress some people.

isaacsegun:

you just nail it

I no dey take chances oh, make person no put sand 4 mi garri , sum gals re deliberately wicked.

Her friends are evil and she probably knows that. She was hoping you would be man enough to fight your own battles. It's very sexy when a man shows he has a backbone. In thinking you were impressing her you may have put her off. Women want a man that can take control of a situation. If you were a baller and this didn't bother you then it would be fine but the fact that it does shows you as a victim and theres nothing sexy about a victim.

Next time you are in this situation, hand her the money you had for the date and tell her to take her friends out because you wanted to spend quality time with her and you're not comfortable taking her friends out. Tell her your her man and not theirs, walk away and don't call her. If she's worth wifing she won't pull that bs on you again.

LukeSkywalker78:
please explain sir. I'm listening.

ur so called girlfriend and her friends will now go back to their hostel laughing about how they drained all ur money and how dey regard u as the new maga in town. Know when to say yes and when to say no.dats what makes u a man.

els0nm0rali:


No matter how close those girls are to your gf she should be able to excuse the two of you and tell them it's a private outing.

Don't be surprised if she actually called her friends to come tag along and don't be surprised if you are her maga or side boo.

I'm sure they are busy laughing at you right now.

Girls be wicked like that.

sure its certain they are laghing at him right now.its all a planned work.bros don spend all im small allawee to impress a girl and her friends.dem plan for d op and it worked so well.

LivingFree:
Her friends are evil and she probably knows that. She was hoping you would be man enough to fight your own battles. It's very sexy when a man shows he has a backbone. In thinking you were impressing her you may have put her off. Women want a man that can take control of a situation. If you were a baller and this didn't bother you then it would be fine but the fact that it does shows you as a victim and theres nothing sexy about a victim.

Next time you are in this situation, hand her the money you had for the date and tell her to take her friends out because you wanted to spend quality time with her and you're not comfortable taking her friends out. Tell her your her man and not theirs, walk away and don't call her. If she's worth wifing she won't pull that bs on you again.

op listen to this lady

lefulefu:
sure its certain they are laghing at him right now.its all a planned work.bros don spend all im small allawee to impress a girl and her friends.dem plan for d op and it worked so well.

Lol. Let's hope he's smarter now.

LukeSkywalker78:
man... I like this gal a lot that's why the relationship could last this long. To fumble in front of her friends could be Game Over for me. Her friends opinion about me could sway her attention away from me. It has happened to me. Twice.

You are still a toy boy thing. And to think that you actually call( assume) her YOUR girl is most nauseating.

Wake me up when you grow up.

FrostyButter:
I remember back in my days in school, I wanted to just get lunch with this girl i really liked. Not like I was broke, but I had a budget. And along came her friends. I just brought out all the money i had then on me. 1,500 and handed it over to the chic . "See , this is all I have , you, do the buying with it."

She by her self told her friends to excuse .

Ladies, i get it that sometimes you want to give your friends a treat or maybe to impress them. But its not the way .

And you single hungry friends that lurk in the dark, looking for your friends boyfriend to treat you to a free meal. Except he invited you. Stay the hell away!

Shameless Hungry bunch!!! I'm sure there is a special place in hell for you guys.

And this has nothing to do with being broke... Some people run on budgets.

bro i wonder wats so special in fried rice and chicken dat some girls will kill demselves over it in resturants for a free bite dat u will be escorting ur friend's boyfriend to just get a free bite. Poverty in naija ehn. Its only in naija u will see two ppl fighting and using weapon to threaten each other of a plate of half done jollof rice and badly cooked chicken.