MISEDUCATIONS:
call me and finish this war offline

Lol. I shall pass. I forgive you.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. I shall pass. I forgive you.

hillarious

Originalsly:
It is the nature of men to cheat.... but we try as hard as possible to suppress that part of us.... and when we really can't. .. we try not to hurt your feelings by doing so secretly...making you believe that you are the only woman in our life. We have no choice. ...we would really love to introduce our side chicksss to you.....no cheating...but being open and truthful and honest but this would not be accepted by you...why?

Pls speak for yourself because I don't cheat & will never, Even when my gurl cheats on Me. Na to walk away....I don't need to retaliate or do any thing funny to Her. I'm absolutely sure Karma would surely effect Its duty. My last gurlfriend who was secretly cheating on Me which I do notice sometimes when we have form. She will deny and say God that she Isn't cheating on me that I'm the only one. Hmmm At last she got Impregnated by the anonymous person she was cheating on me with when we were distance away from each other.

jenigurl:
Please I want to hear from cheats, you know yourselves

You have 2 ,3 or 4 different women , you tell each of them the same "I love you line" you are nice.to each of them , you make each of them feel she is the one

You demand loyalty from her, she could do all the right things yet when the opportunity presents itself you cheat, why?

What does a girl have to do?

Please use different accounts if you have to but I just need to get your feedback

I need to understand Why? Why do you do this?

Be honest , there will be no judging you , just say it as it is ..

Maybe there's something one could learn from your comments who knows

Cc seun cc mynd44 cc modz

Cheating is not about men alone, it includes women.

Men don't cheat with Men (For the most)
"Men" cheat with "Women"
If men cheat 10times, obviously another lady as cheated 10times too...with him

It is both gender.

The question should be, why do people cheat?

People cheat for many reasons. It is difficult to specify why and why. And I suggest you don't capitalise on that. Truth is, not everyone cheats. There are men and women that don't cheat. I repeat there are men and women that don't cheat.

It is very very hard to find them but they exist. The reason why they don't cheat is personal. 70% of them claims its the level of attraction they have with their partner, while 30% claims its religion and virginity that make them not to cheat.

Which ever it is, attraction plays a higher role, and it works with guilt.

If you have 100% attraction and 0 guilt, you will cheat.
If you have 100% attraction and 30% guilt, you are very much likely not to cheat.
If you have 100% attraction and 100% guilt, I doubt cheating will happen.

This is a very broad topic.
Don't focus on WHY they cheat, focus on how to get the few that are likely NOT TO cheat.... Because I assure you they are there!

Even you OP, it is very likely you may have cheated too. Cheating is everywhere. "Gold" is not everywhere, that is why its hard to come by.

Find someone with a higher level of guilt (conscience) / attraction IN YOU.... That is the key. Finding the REASON it is impossible!..... They are too many!

jenigurl:


So basically you are saying it is in the nature of every man to cheat? so i ask again why then should we be speaking of one being faithful in a relationship?

This is a very gloomy perspective honestly. Why then should we women bother or try hard knowing that no matter how submissive, caring, or selfless you are he will definitely cheat on you?

Heyyyy!!...slow down! ...I said it is the nature of men to cheat...cheat meaning having at least one chick on the side...not saying every man will...just saying it is the nature of man. Some men do well to suppress that part of his nature...that is not natural..but some manage anyways...not all men can...not all men cannot.
And slow down again.... I never said a man will definitely cheat.... he is likely to cheat...but not must. As a woman...you should always...always....ehmmm.....see the man as innocent...unless he gives you...unless he gives you......unless he gives you a reason to believe he is cheating....not for you to go digging and finding out or listening to ehmmm....home wreckers! But if you find him to be a cheat...then how can you trust him?...that's a careless man...causing you grief....no respect for all your submissiveness....caring and selflessness....he should be left alone and for that reason nature has produced men like me to replace such wicked men...... loving and caring and respectful and truthful and ehmmm.......let me shut up.

Originalsly:


Heyyyy!!...slow down! ...I said it is the nature of men to cheat...cheat meaning having at least one chick on the side...not saying every man will...just saying it is the nature of man. Some men do well to suppress that part of his nature...that is not natural..but some manage anyways...not all men can...not all men cannot.
And slow down again.... I never said a man will definitely cheat.... he is likely to cheat...but not must. As a woman...you should always...always....ehmmm.....see the man as innocent...unless he gives you...unless he gives you......unless he gives you a reason to believe he is cheating....not for you to go digging and finding out or listening to ehmmm....home wreckers! But if you find him to be a cheat...then how can you trust him?...that's a careless man...causing you grief....no respect for all your submissiveness....caring and selflessness....he should be left alone and for that reason nature has produced men like me to replace such wicked men...... loving and caring and respectful and truthful and ehmmm.......let me shut up.

How can someone read this? It looks like sand in a shore.

jenigurl:


So basically you are saying it is in the nature of every man to cheat? so i ask again why then should we be speaking of one being faithful in a relationship?

This is a very gloomy perspective honestly. Why then should we women bother or try hard knowing that no matter how submissive, caring, or selfless you are he will definitely cheat on you?

Please Ignore those guys saying it's in Men's nature to cheat. They are usually the weak minded and can never think outside the little box they call brain. Now, to answer your question WOMEN ARE VERY BAD AT PICKING A LONG TERM PARTNER.

If there's one thing I've learnt about women it's that they are very attracted to guys who have alot of women flaunting around them. Whether he is chasing them or they are chasing him, it doesn't matter, you just like a guy who every other girl wants a piece of.

That's not a bad thing, but usually, the signs of a cheat are there but you are often trying to out-compete the other woman and get the guy as your own. Women compete with each other sooo fvcking much, in fact, I never knew this until I started to get close to them, you will never know if you study them from a far. It is because of your nature that's why you make this poor dating choices.

Also, men have always been polygamous, but there are still good men out there the only thing is that you will never be interested in them. I can't tell you how easy it's become for me to date and have sex with multiple people just because I keep a lot of female friends, It just makes you very desirable to women but it's the opposite for men.

Modified: So just as I finished typing my comment, this topic landed on FP; https://www.nairaland.com/4620964/never-introduce-man-female-friends It's basically the same thing I was saying. Women always want what other women have.

jenigurl:
Please I want to hear from cheats, you know yourselves

You have 2 ,3 or 4 different women , you tell each of them the same "I love you line" you are nice to each of them , you make each of them feel she is the one

You demand loyalty from her, she could do all the right things yet when the opportunity presents itself you cheat, why?

What does a girl have to do?

Please use different accounts if you have to but I just need to get your feedback

I need to understand Why? Why do you do this?

Be honest , there will be no judging you , just say it as it is ..

Maybe there's something one could learn from your comments who knows

Cc seun cc mynd44 cc modz

CHEATING IS BY CHOICE OF WILL. IN OTHER WORDS IT IS A PERVERSION OF FREE WILL. These are absolute statements at the very core of TRUTH. TRUISMS that needs no argument at all as to a CONTRARY. It can never ever be defeated.

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING NATURAL about cheating in human beings, man or woman. Nature is governed by LAWS that is never IRRATIONAL but LOGICAL with ESSENCE which gives OPTIONS to choose from with INEVITABLE CONSEQUENCES.

What there is in us all, jenigurl is FREE WILL to choose between GOOD (HONESTY) and EVIL (DISHONESTY, CHEAT) and with that very gift of the INTELLECT to make us choose WISELY the process to our ends. PROGRESS, SUCCESS or REGRESS, REGRETS, FAILURE.

'PROGRESS ' is the very reward of HONESTY, a consequence of choice. But today's men and women who pride themselves as MORDERNS are very much in CONFLICT with the gift of INTELLECT, UNWISE. The choose a life of eventual regret.

Men and women of old never ever SELF DECIEVED themselves to try to make a BETRAYAL OF TRUST, 'CHEATING' as their own human unquiness coughing and vomiting out postulations of sophistry as to uphold UNTRUTH using biology to invent irrational ideologies because they suffered not from the mind disease as being MENTALLY ILL, deficient of SENSE.


They of course chose WISDOM over FOOLISHNESS as any normal human being would.

For they know, and are not IGNORANT of the natural design of the human society, which is one designed to function on INTER-DEPENDENCY in other words RELATIONSHIP. Be it business (money affairs), romance (affairs of the heart) and e.t c RELATIONSHIPS can only function on inter-dependency, a bonding between two or more people and with HONESTY, TRUST and not DISHONESTY, DISTRUST, 'CHEATING' as the only variable that gives assurance of efficiency, fruitfulness if it is the desired result to be accomplished.

It is ABSURD to infer cheating to be the nature of any man, except the nature of men DISQUALIFIED for DIGNITY who are without DISCIPLINE and are SHORT-SIGHTED about consequences in the realm of REALITIES.

Let us bear in mind the very context with which this word 'CHEATING' is used on this thread which is in LOVE affairs, a relationship between a man and woman.

Jenigurl. These men cheat, because they are NOT ready to outgrow the ANIMALISTIC traits in them as to BECOME TRUSTWORTHY HUMAN BEINGS. The are DRIVEN by BASE urges which end up debasing them to the LOWEST of low.

The last two sentences lies my answer to your questions as to why men ( women) CHEAT.

CHEATING IN ANY RELATIONSHIP AT ALL, IS A MANIFESTAION OF THE DISEASE OF SELFISHNESS, THOUGHTLESSNESS, LACK OF CONSCIENCE AND COWARDICE IN ONE OF THE TWO PARTIES.



I hope to write more while hoping you understood my explanation of the dynamics of the human society designed on inter-dependency, a prelude to my answer.

* Men and women who try to justify CHEATING to the point of becoming it's advocate are by fact once or many times cheated upon. Their advocacies is a means of escaping from themselves instead of facing and treating their emotional wounds to the point of healing.

Lonestar124:
No..what I'm saying is every guy that is cheating is wasting his time,strength, resources, accumulating enough migraine on himself, bringing misfortunes and ramdon impediments in his life.

I can imagine myself marinating in it again.......Already learfned from my experience.

Kudos to you. CHEATING is for the low life.

MISEDUCATIONS:
men cheat because contrary to what women have been taught all their life men dont love sex, but love [b] variety
you may be the most beautiful woman in the world and give a man all the sex in the world, still he will cheat. men are wired for variety. while [b]women are wired for singularity. women want Prince Charming. men want all the pvssy in the world.

women are wired for singularity. You mean WOMEN don't cheat? If they do kindly tell us why and how they get to act contrary to their wiring?

Nofav0rs:
It's called BALANCE DIET

Clown!

WORDWORLD:

women are wired for singularity. You mean WOMEN don't cheat? If they do kindly tell us why and how they get to act contrary to their wiring?

in as much as men are wired for plurality, yet there are some who dont cheat so women are wired for singularity but still there are others who cheat.
but men's nature allows them to enjoy cheating and feel pride while women's cheating causes them anxiety and fills them with shame.
when a cheating man is caught he just shrugs it off but a woman can even kill herself.

MISEDUCATIONS:
in as much as men are wired for plurality, yet there are some who dont cheat so women are wired for singularity but still there are others who cheat.
but men's nature allows them to enjoy cheating and feel pride while women's cheating causes them anxiety and fills them with shame.
when a cheating man is caught he just shrugs it off but a woman can even kill herself.

It's about the society and not about singularity. The promiscuous West is enough evidence. Women enjoy cheating as much as men. And are very much approved for being cheats in such mental domain of WHO GIVES A FVCK. The bottom line is its all about CHOICE.

MariaLavina:


Clown!

WORDWORLD:


It's about the society and not about singularity. The promiscuous West is enough evidence. Women enjoy cheating as much as men. And are very much approved for being cheats in such mental domain of WHO GIVES A FVCK. The bottom line is its all about CHOICE. I have added to my earlier post before this reply. Thank you.

how are Western women enjoying their freedom to be hoes when anit-depressant and other suchlike medication use has sky-rocketed and more and more women are going insane?

western women abhor the situation they are in. they threw a tantrum and the beta men in power gave in. now women have all the freedom to be hoes but its not what they really wanted. their solution? bring in Real Men who can bring in order: Muslims migrants. the same muslim men known to keep women under lock and key .

MISEDUCATIONS:
how are Western women enjoying their freedom to be hoes when anit-depressant and other suchlike medication use has sky-rocketed and more and more women are going insane?

western women abhor the situation they are in. they threw a tantrum and the beta men in power gave in. now women have all the freedom to be hoes but its not what they really wanted. their solution? bring in Real Men who can bring in order: Muslims migrants. the same muslim men known to keep women under lock and key .

Muslim men says TRUMP?! The whole mess boils down to choice of ideology.

WORDWORLD:


Muslim men says TRUMP?!

what say you?

WORDWORLD:


Muslim men says TRUMP?! The whole mess boils down to choice of ideology.

whats up with you and adding to posts? is your brain getting slower?

riddle me this:
why are Feminists making noise supporting Islam when Islam is directly opposed to Feminist ideology?

WORDWORLD:


It's about the society and not about singularity. The promiscuous West is enough evidence. Women enjoy cheating as much as men. And are very much approved for being cheats in such mental domain of WHO GIVES A FVCK. The bottom line is its all about CHOICE.

Really?....women may enjoy cheating as much as men but bro...they are nowhere nearly as much approved as men.... they are called whores.... hood rats...run around girls.....bitches...baby mamas....and a host of other derogatory names.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Pure lie. Not all Men cheat. They're just very rare.

you are very correct.
don't believe all those lies of people who have no principle and have lost their honor

there are thousands of men that are faithful.
difficult to find them? yes.
but there are.

also there are straight -forward guys that fell due to temptation and had kept faithful since then.

Nofav0rs:

I hope you know overfeeding kills

MariaLavina:
I hope you know overfeeding kills

No chance. As long as you eat healthy. You safe. I like mixing draw with egusi soup

Nofav0rs:
No chance. As long as you eat healthy. You safe. I like mixing draw with egusi soup

I was right to consider you dangerous

MariaLavina:
I was right to consider you dangerous

You're creepy Don't be masking up

And no, I'm not dangerous... man's harmless

WORDWORLD:


CHEATING IS BY CHOICE OF WILL. IN OTHER WORDS IT IS A PERVERSION OF FREE WILL. These are absolute statements at the very core of TRUTH. TRUISMS that needs no argument at all as to a CONTRARY. It can never ever be defeated.

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING NATURAL about cheating in human beings, man or woman. Nature is governed by LAWS that is never IRRATIONAL but LOGICAL with ESSENCE which gives OPTIONS to choose from with INEVITABLE CONSEQUENCES.

What there is in us all, jenigurl is FREE WILL to choose between GOOD (HONESTY) and EVIL (DISHONESTY, CHEAT) and with that very gift of the INTELLECT to make us choose WISELY the process to our ends. PROGRESS, SUCCESS or REGRESS, REGRETS, FAILURE.

'PROGRESS ' is the very reward of HONESTY, a consequence of choice. But today's men and women who pride themselves as MORDERNS are very much in CONFLICT with the gift of INTELLECT, UNWISE. The choose a life of eventual regret.

The men and women of old never ever SELF DECIEVED themselves to try to make a BETRAYAL OF TRUST, 'CHEATING' as their own human unquiness coughing and vomiting out postulations of sophistry as to uphold UNTRUTH using biology to invent irrational ideologies because they suffered not from the mind disease as being MENTALLY ILL, deficient of SENSE.


They of course chose WISDOM over FOOLISHNESS as any normal human being would.

For they know, and are not IGNORANT about the natural design of the human society, which is one designed to function on INTER-DEPENDENCY in other words RELATIONSHIP. Be it business (money affairs), romance (affairs of the heart) and e.t c RELATIONSHIPS can only function on inter-dependency, a bonding between two or more people and with HONESTY, TRUST and not DISHONESTY, DISTRUST, 'CHEATING' as the only variable that gives assurance of efficiency, fruitfulness if it is the desired result to be accomplished.

It is ABSURD to infer cheating to be the nature of any man, except the nature of men DISQUALIFIED for DIGNITY who are without DISCIPLINE and are SHORT-SIGHTED about consequences in the realm of REALITIES.

Let us bear in mind the very context with which this word 'CHEATING' is used on this thread is in LOVE affairs, a relationship between a man and woman.

Jenigurl. These men cheat, because they are NOT ready to outgrow the ANIMALISTIC traits in them as to BECOME TRUSTWORTHY HUMAN BEINGS. The are DRIVEN by BASE urges which end up debasing them to the LOWEST of low.

The last two sentences lies my answer to your questions as to why men ( women) CHEAT.

CHEATING IN ANY RELATIONSHIP AT ALL, IS A MANIFESTAION OF THE DISEASE OF SELFISHNESS, THOUGHTLESSNESS, LACK OF CONSCIENCE AND COWARDICE IN ONE OF THE TWO PARTIES.



I hope to write more while hoping you understood my explanation of the dynamics of the human society designed on inter-dependency, a prelude to my answer.

* Men and women who try to justify CHEATING to the point of becoming it's advocate are by fact once or many times cheated upon. Their advocacies is a means of escaping from themselves instead of facing and treating their emotional wounds to the point of healing.

WOooaaahhh. Preach it!!!!

Uglymugg:


Please Ignore those guys saying it's in Men's nature to cheat. They are usually the weak minded and can never think outside the little box they call brain. Now, to answer your question WOMEN ARE THE VERY BAD AT PICKING A LONG TERM PARTNER.

If there's one thing I've learnt about women it's that they are very attracted to guys who have alot of women flaunting around them. Whether he is chasing them or they are chasing him, it doesn't matter, you just like a guy who every other girl wants a piece of.

That's not a bad thing, but usually, the signs of a cheat are there but you are often trying to out-compete the other woman and get the guy as your own. Women compete with each other sooo fvcking much, in fact, I never knew this until I started to get close to them, you will never know if you study them from a far. It is because of your nature that's why you make this poor dating choices.

Also, men have always been polygamous, but there are still good men out there the only thing is that you will never be interested in them. I can't tell you how easy it's become for me to date and have sex with multiple people just because I keep a lot of female friends, It just makes you very desirable to women but it's the opposite for men.

Modified: So just as I finished typing my comment, this topic landed on FP; https://www.nairaland.com/4620964/never-introduce-man-female-friends It's basically the same thing I was saying. Women always want what other women have.

Beautiful

Originalsly:


Heyyyy!!...slow down! ...I said it is the nature of men to cheat...cheat meaning having at least one chick on the side...not saying every man will...just saying it is the nature of man. Some men do well to suppress that part of his nature...that is not natural..but some manage anyways...not all men can...not all men cannot.
And slow down again.... I never said a man will definitely cheat.... he is likely to cheat...but not must. As a woman...you should always...always....ehmmm.....see the man as innocent...unless he gives you...unless he gives you......unless he gives you a reason to believe he is cheating....not for you to go digging and finding out or listening to ehmmm....home wreckers! But if you find him to be a cheat...then how can you trust him?...that's a careless man...causing you grief....no respect for all your submissiveness....caring and selflessness....he should be left alone and for that reason nature has produced men like me to replace such wicked men...... loving and caring and respectful and truthful and ehmmm.......let me shut up.

Thank you for clarifying

rainmaker12:


Cheating is not about men alone, it includes women.

Men don't cheat with Men (For the most)
"Men" cheat with "Women"
If men cheat 10times, obviously another lady as cheated 10times too...with him

It is both gender.

The question should be, why do people cheat?

People cheat for many reasons. It is difficult to specify why and why. And I suggest you don't capitalise on that. Truth is, not everyone cheats. There are men and women that don't cheat. I repeat there are men and women that don't cheat.

It is very very hard to find them but they exist. The reason why they don't cheat is personal. 70% of them claims its the level of attraction they have with their partner, while 30% claims its religion and virginity that make them not to cheat.

Which ever it is, attraction plays a higher role, and it works with guilt.

If you have 100% attraction and 0 guilt, you will cheat.
If you have 100% attraction and 30% guilt, you are very much likely not to cheat.
If you have 100% attraction and 100% guilt, I doubt cheating will happen.

This is a very broad topic.
Don't focus on WHY they cheat, focus on how to get the few that are likely NOT TO cheat.... Because I assure you they are there!

Even you OP, it is very likely you may have cheated too. Cheating is everywhere. "Gold" is not everywhere, that is why its hard to come by.

Find someone with a higher level of guilt (conscience) / attraction IN YOU.... That is the key. Finding the REASON it is impossible!..... They are too many!

Thank you for your comment

jenigurl:


Thank you for your comment

Example of attraction is love
Example of guilt is conscience

You will see difference when you find someone with these two

UyaiIncomparabl:


Pure lie. Not all Men cheat. They're just very rare.

thank you so much for this your comment. I am a living prove.


Blessed are you, UyaiIncomparabl
daughter of the most high, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven.




God bless you Uyai for this piece.



Now I feel there're some sane ladies on this forum.

jenigurl:
Please I want to hear from cheats, you know yourselves

You have 2 ,3 or 4 different women , you tell each of them the same "I love you line" you are nice.to each of them , you make each of them feel she is the one

You demand loyalty from her, she could do all the right things yet when the opportunity presents itself you cheat, why?

What does a girl have to do?

Please use different accounts if you have to but I just need to get your feedback

I need to understand Why? Why do you do this?

Be honest , there will be no judging you , just say it as it is ..

Maybe there's something one could learn from your comments who knows

Cc seun cc mynd44 cc modz

Adventure , Exploration , Research, Swagz, Fun , Variety .....
I have never cheated OK , aswear

UyaiIncomparabl:
Stupid comment.
SMH. I pity the Woman in your life.
Cheating isn't normal. If you're my husband/boyfriend and you cheat on me, I'll kill you. Simple. No time mehn.

This one is really brutal

Well prepare to kill us all cos its in the blood, take it or leave it my dear