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Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by omohj: 9:31am On Jul 26, 2018 |
It is not normal, it is so wrong, soon they will start seeing each other, going out on a date, then spending the night with each other. Put a stop to it now. It's either she stop communicating with him or she pack her things and go stay eith the man. Another suggestion, request for the man's wife number and make her your best friend also.. suggest this to your wife, and see her reaction. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by HDT13(m): 9:32am On Jul 26, 2018 |
having opposite sex has best friend is like having a chicken as pet .....na for chop last last |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 9:39am On Jul 26, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Very correct... Some dumb f00ls can't differentiate it tho 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Nobody: 9:44am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Ifakiland:Karma....Karma deals with the offspring sometimes. That you killed doesn't mean you will be killed, but your innocent grand child that is about to become a great doctor can be burnt to death with tire & fuel on the ground of false accusation. Fear karma!!! |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by DAVEZONIGLTD: 9:54am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Cut the evil seed off now before it germinate . This is purely emotional adultery. Use your brain not keypad. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by cooldove8: 9:57am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Charlynega:some advice na hard vices �� you wey give this hard vice u go green make me and your wife be best friend |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by hollowpot15684(m): 10:20am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: Jealousy jealousy , I won't be suprise you also have female friends you chat with on your phone though. Anyways I will advise you watch her closely, it is not a bad thing for her to have Male friends, but as far as I'm concerned you are supposed to be her best male friend. For her to have the boldness to tell you the guy is her best friend alone is a red flag. But don't be too jealous, it is also your duty to watch her closely in order to stop her from committing any indesireable act.. Women are emotional, so be very careful not to handle this emotionally, Rather; Concentrate on whatsoever trick the guy might be using to get her attention.. I also suspect you haven't verbally inform your wife that you are not comfortable with their conversation. If you have, then you may continue to say it to her jokingly to ascertain it, especially when you both are having fun, tell her that it doesn't really baffle you that you are only concerned about her.. Don't be suprise if she had known the guy before, peharps the guy might even be one of her ex.. Don't take it too personal, handle it like a father advising his daughter. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by touche(m): 10:23am On Jul 26, 2018 |
In this situation, it's best not to react with words, rather with action. Simply mirror her actions. Get a female bestie too and rub it all up in her face. Watch and observe the way she reacts. That will answer your question. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by ebere100: 10:48am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: My brother, your wife should stop it, if she want her marriage. Cos before u no it, she will start developing feelings for the guy. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by slap1(m): 11:01am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Ifakiland: Oshey, screwdriver. 3 Likes
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Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Skmoda360(m): 11:01am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Ab025:God go bless mama wey born you....op try and pick on this guy comment. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Skmoda360(m): 11:02am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Tekzyflex:You have a point tho.... |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Skmoda360(m): 11:03am On Jul 26, 2018 |
delugajackson:She will later cheat on him if he doesn't checkmate her now... My instinct tho.. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by marv1: 11:10am On Jul 26, 2018 |
That's how infidelity starts. if you don't act now to cut it off by instructing her to do just that then be ready to face the consequence when it matures I to infidelity. You don't put fire on the roof and go to sleep as if all is well. it will consume everything you have worked for all your life.. Some ladies are carefree. This is what happens in offices today that always lead to office romance which I have seen before.. I can assure you if your wife doesn't see it as a dangerous thing to avoid some day to come she will fall into extra-marital affairs. Women are emotional beings and the day you are not there for her emotionally she will go for the substitute. Its a time bomb waiting to explode. Its a matter of time. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by utenwuson: 11:14am On Jul 26, 2018 |
IntrovertedK:always try to be reasonable at least, and stop talking trash, no best friend can be more than a family, and stop quoting that you read online as evidence, smith this smith that as if u were there, there's every reason for the man to be worried, any little secret about the family is easily said to the best crap, if he had the chance he will sleep with her, 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by neighbourhud: 11:39am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Jasen1:Thanks. I doing that right away |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Reelmii: 11:49am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300:are u sure she told this 'best friend' that she is married? |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Reelmii: 11:54am On Jul 26, 2018 |
Spatta:ho can they respond when they are guilty of the offence. let them keep reading so that they will learn |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by chrizzyace: 12:50pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: Wow... my brother, you need to let her understand the “respect of rules” in marriages, it’s not advisable for her or you to have a best friend of opposite sex... a woman or man that respect her partner will always learn to respect his or her wish. Even if she had been best friend with him from secondary school, it’s no excuse, and your wife is suppose to limit all possible means of communication with him... I can’t understand why she would want to jeopardize her marriage for a so called male best friend wow... I’ll suggest you talk to your wife in a subtle manner, don’t allow anger control your mind,cause it usually result to chaos, and you’ll end up using the wrong words to get to her, so, just take it easy on yourself, and on her too, and also try to understand why she’s giving the best friend more attention than you, cause you are supposed to be her best friend, I mean does it mean, that if anything happens inside the house she’ll find solace in sharing it with him? Rather than talking about it with you, that’s if there’s no fluent or friendly communication between you both. So just be calm and handle it all with love, unless it gets out of hands then you’ll then decide on what to do next. All the best ... |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by chrizzyace: 12:54pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
hollowpot15684: Your response is similar to mine, so far the best I’ve read here. Nice one my brother... people should learn to give advice in a proper manner, cause you never know you might be saving someone’s life one way or the other. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Jsucre(m): 12:59pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
MissRaine69:gbayi |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by sixtinx(m): 1:29pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Jasen1: Jasen1: Jasen1:Guy pls am also interested. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 1:41pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
You can’t be really close to the opposite sex without having some kind of emotions involved. I don’t approve of it . I have guy friends but we’re not speaking everyday and every minute. It’s just weird to me. If you ask her to limit her communication with him and she doesn’t, you know where you stand. |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 1:48pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
2buffagain:Very true. My future guy can’t have any female friends and I like it like that. Can’t be paranoid and worried for nothing. Not even worth it tbh. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Lalas247(f): 2:03pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
me I have male friends o... but they are respectful sha ... they value the friendship more than making a pass.... but as for hubby he doesn't even have one won't mind if he did ..its all about trust and knowing what boundaries you can't cross.... |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by zicoraads: 2:18pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Saff:So how about all my crushes on Nairaland? You want me to abandon all the ladies? |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 2:20pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads:Yup. You gotta throw them in the trash |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by zicoraads: 2:21pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Saff: |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 2:22pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads:You belong to someone else, stop troubling me |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by zicoraads: 2:31pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Saff:Really? This is new to me. Who is that? |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by UyiIredia(m): 2:54pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Gabrie300: To be honest there isn't anything wrong with a married woman having a male friend so far she isn't cheating on her husband with the guy. But many married people (husband or wife) feel uncomfortable with it because of possible problems. I think one should apply wisdom, instead of her cutting him off entirely, suggest to her to reduce her chatting with him (because her talking always with him is worrisome) and you on your part increase your chatting with your wife. Ideally, the husband of woman should be her best friend not another man. Maybe the man offers her some attention and care you don't give and you need to step it up in your relationship with her. Best of luck. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Ifakiland(m): 2:56pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
slap1:ha my gee, you sabi the level. 1 Like |
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