highqueen:

You would have told me something I will.regret?

Really? Have you written your first semester exams and what was your gp?

The earlier you learn how to face your books and leave innocent girls alone, the better for you.
I'm done replying you.

Wailer continue wailing..
Don't go and find husband

highqueen:

You would have told me something I will.regret?

Really? Have you written your first semester exams and what was your gp?

The earlier you learn how to face your books and leave innocent girls alone, the better for you.
I'm done replying you.

pocohantas:


How can a 21y/o guy have a serious relationship? The only serious thing you have, is an erectíon.

Truth is, you will most likely get heart-broken like 4 times before you marry. In fact, you will be a transitional boyfriend for like 7yrs or more. A 21yo guy is nowhere close in mental/emotional maturity to a 21yo girl. That is why a girl of that age can marry and adapt, but a guy can't try it.

Your wife is in SS2, one guy in Diamond bank will marry your babe. When you are ready to marry, another 400l guy will create this thread. Don't stress yourself over it, it is what it is...

I just love u.

gloria34:
I just love u.

People like you can destroy family ehn.?
See as you and your cohorts just write the script and..... action..but thank God none of you knows what the future holds

This Is Evidence That University Is Not a Guarantee Of Intelligence... Despite Your 400 Level, your Age Has Proved Itself to Be Superior

IamPlato:
This Is Evidence That University Is Not a Guarantee Of Intelligence... Despite Your 400 Level, your Age Has Proved Itself to Be Superior

I guess that's how you talk to your younger siblings when your opinion is sorted about how they should go about things

pocohantas:


How can a 21y/o guy have a serious relationship? The only serious thing you have, is an erectíon.

Truth is, you will most likely get heart-broken like 4 times before you marry. In fact, you will be a transitional boyfriend for like 7yrs or more. A 21yo guy is nowhere close in mental/emotional maturity to a 21yo girl. That is why a girl of that age can marry and adapt, but a guy can't try it.

Your wife is in SS2, one guy in Diamond bank will marry your babe. When you are ready to marry, another 400l guy will create this thread. Don't stress yourself over it, it is what it is...

have you seen my book

Plyza:


People like you can destroy family ehn.?
See as you and your cohorts just write the script and..... action..but thank God none of you knows what the future holds

Were u expecting everyone to tell u that she will wait? If different opinions weren't needed, y open a thread in d first place?

gloria34:
Were u expecting everyone to tell u that she will wait? If different opinions weren't needed, y open a thread in d first place?

Actually I was expecting people like you to come on board..
I.e those that always want negative things to happen so that they can laugh their asses out

Plyza:


I guess that's how you talk to your younger siblings when your opinion is sorted about how they should go about things

I Am Considering Your Age... That Shouldnt Be Your Problem... In Few Years That Thing You Feel Could Fade Away

IamPlato:
I Am Considering Your Age... That Shouldnt Be Your Problem... In Few Years That Thing You Feel Could Fade Away

Hey bro that not what you said..you just put it that am dumb..
Anyways thanks..

It's not a problem..just a feeling that she worth it

Plyza:


Actually I was expecting people like you to come on board..
I.e those that always want negative things to happen so that they can laugh their asses out

I'll be waiting to read Ur heart break thread. Now run along

gloria34:
I'll be waiting to read Ur heart break thread. Now run along

I said it!!!
Another bad Belle spotted.. cheese

Plyza:


Hey bro that not what you said.. you just put it that am dumb
Anyways thanks..

It's not a problem..just a feeling that she worth it

Your Words Not Mine...


I Only Understand That You will Only React Emotionally According To Your Age

IamPlato:
Your Words Not Mine...


I Only Understand That You will Only React Emotionally According To Your Age

Did you have to relate it to intelligence to make your point...
All the same..thanks

Plyza:


Did you have to relate it to intelligence to make your point...
All the same..thanks

I Just Have The Feeling you Should Have More Important Things To worry About.

Rosay15:
... You're welcome dear and am sorry for my errors in d comment. I was typing fast... Stay bless.

You still made two errors in this comment, identify them if you can...
Answers=I'm/blessed

eezeribe:

You still made two errors in this comment, identify them if you can...
Answers=I'm/blessed

... Tnks

u've been intoxicated by smelling pussy...just a phase in life i guess...when reality hits u hard, u'll wake up

LegendaryLover:
u've been intoxicated by smelling pussy...just a phase in life i guess...when reality hits u hard, u'll wake up

I wonder y someone can't make his point without disgracing his generation

Hahaha! Woww...A 21 years old guy in 400L thinking of marriage??!!
I haven't read about this in my entire life
My dear, this is mere feelings it would soon fade away ok. Just continue the relationship with her once suitors start coming for her please don't hold her back
I wish you goodluck

Plyza:
Am in 400 level of a federal University in Nigeria..I have this girlfriend.we have a serious relationship and am 21.i love her and she does too.i want to end up with her in marriage but don't have money yet.she is a hairdresser and she's good.my issue now is that I don't have money and guys are coming for her,she ain't giving them attention..we share alot together that's why am able to know.we don't have any problems at all...in a nutshell am afraid of not getting married to her cos if I don't I think I might have lost someone great..


Am new here sha

Better set your priorities straight now. At 21 as a guy, marriage should be the least of your worries. Don't ever force her to wait for you. Let her go with her suitor if she chooses to go. Chase success first then marriage can come later. You will still get good woman when the time come for you to marry.

Irenemmeso:
Hahaha! Woww...A 21 years old guy in 400L thinking of marriage??!!
I haven't read about this in my entire life
My dear, this is mere feelings it would soon fade away ok. Just continue the relationship with him once suitors start coming for her please don't hold her back
I wish you goodluck

You learn new things everyday, I guess this is one of them

pocohantas:


How can a 21y/o guy have a serious relationship? The only serious thing you have, is an erectíon.

Truth is, you will most likely get heart-broken like 4 times before you marry. In fact, you will be a transitional boyfriend for like 7yrs or more. A 21yo guy is nowhere close in mental/emotional maturity to a 21yo girl. That is why a girl of that age can marry and adapt, but a guy can't try it.

Your wife is in SS2, one guy in Diamond bank will marry your babe. When you are ready to marry, another 400l guy will create this thread. Don't stress yourself over it, it is what it is...

what do you mean by a guy not mentally and emotionally mature. Everything boils down to his financial buoyancy. Men will always marry late because of the financial commitment involved not all those rubbish you enumerated. If women, where breadwinners the reverse will be the case. Go to Indian and confirm.

vingeophysicist:
what do you mean by a guy not mentally and emotionally mature. Everything boils down to his financial buoyancy. Men will always marry late because of the financial commitment involved not all those rubbish you enumerated. If women, where breadwinners the reverse will be the case. Go to Indian and confirm.

Women are more emotionally mature than men of same age. That is why a lady in her early 20s dating a guy of same age, feels like a kiddies party. With all their stupid mind games and struggle to exert manliness.

All this your outburst will not change it.

Mind you, I have seen stupid middle aged men, we have some on NL sef. But men just get this sexy masculinity as they grow. No one is talking finances here, but if given the money...them still no get sense.

Plyza:
Am in 400 level of a federal University in Nigeria..I have this girlfriend.we have a serious relationship and am 21.i love her and she does too.i want to end up with her in marriage but don't have money yet.she is a hairdresser and she's good.my issue now is that I don't have money and guys are coming for her,she ain't giving them attention..we share alot together that's why am able to know.we don't have any problems at all...in a nutshell am afraid of not getting married to her cos if I don't I think I might have lost someone great..


Am new here sha

The harsh truth is that you will not marry that girl because I don't see her waiting for you for the next 5 to 6 years to marry her. You are just 21, your priority should be graduating with a good grade. When you graduate, and you are comfortable girls will flock around you. Stop stressing yourself. Take this as an advice from an elder brother.

pocohantas:


Women are more emotionally mature than men of same age. That is why a lady in her early 20s dating a guy of same age, feels like a kiddies party. With all their stupid mind games and struggle to exert manliness.

All this your outburst will not change it.

Mind you, I have seen stupid middle aged men, we have some on NL sef. But men just get this sexy masculinity as they grow. No one is talking finances here, but if given the money...them still no get sense.

madam even girls of 21 years are not mature. Before a lady starts having sense is from 28. I'm telling you this from experience.

Anfieldboss:


madam even girls of 21 years are not mature. Before a lady starts having sense is from 28. I'm telling you this from experience.

True, but she still has more sense than a 28y/o guy. Because she knows no time to play around any more.

Plyza:
Am in 400 level of a federal University in Nigeria..I have this girlfriend.we have a serious relationship and am 21.i love her and she does too.i want to end up with her in marriage but don't have money yet.she is a hairdresser and she's good.my issue now is that I don't have money and guys are coming for her,she ain't giving them attention..we share alot together that's why am able to know.we don't have any problems at all...in a nutshell am afraid of not getting married to her cos if I don't I think I might have lost someone great..


Am new here sha

I understand your situation wella.
From your explanation, your problem is not that you are 21. Is not the girl in question. Is not money. Yeah, money is not your problem.

Your problem is "FEAR"

Yes, fear. And trust me, it is fear that will make you loose her if you don't stop being afraid of losing her.

This is just a comment, and as such, I can't say much.

The only thing I will advise you is that you should stop being afraid.
Learn to be yourself. Don't allow situation or circumstances to pressure you into doing something you are not ready for including marriage. Don't try to force situations because if the time is not right, there is nothing you can do.

Let me just stop here.

pocohantas:


True, but she still has more sense than a 28y/o guy. Because she knows no time to play around any more.

maturity is not by age especially for men, for women it's largely by age though. Unless the 28 year old guy is not exposed. Do you know what you're saying sef Girls of that age (early twenties) are easy victims for guys (the irresponsible ones), they just use and dump them. It seems you're confusing maturity with being responsible and decent.

Anfieldboss:


maturity is not by age especially for men, for women it's largely by age though. Unless the 28 year old guy is not exposed. Do you know what you're saying sef Girls of that age (early twenties) are easy victims for guys (the irresponsible ones), they just use and dump them. It seems you're confusing maturity with being responsible and decent.

I maintain my stand, thanks and have a nice day.

pocohantas:


Women are more emotionally mature than men of same age. That is why a lady in her early 20s dating a guy of same age, feels like a kiddies party. With all their stupid mind games and struggle to exert manliness.

All this your outburst will not change it.

Mind you, I have seen stupid middle aged men, we have some on NL sef. But men just get this sexy masculinity as they grow. No one is talking finances here, but if given the money...them still no get sense.

you are shifting the goal post. your initial post portrays the fact that young men lack the mental and emotional maturity to sustain a marriage. I am telling you outrightly it is due to financial constraint. Ladies require little or no financial commitment that is why they will always marry early not because they approach mental and emotional maturity early.