Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.

2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else.

Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.

He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx

If you are in your late 20s or ready for marriage tell him to make the introduction asap but if you just need him to solve your boredom then move on with your life without him �

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.
2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me in October which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else. Tonight he went out for with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.
He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Cc Rocktation lalasticlacla

maybe he doesn't want to put his eggs in one basket..u such a beautiful woman....he is feeling, if he can catch you, it was cheap for him, so he is going for higher catch..variety they say is the spice of life.
just have fun dear, I can see u r party freak.

lilianofentse:
I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.
He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Cc Rocktation lalasticlacla

This is your problem & you'll never leave him. My Sister, carry your cross oh! You have been Dickmatized.

truthsayer009:


This is your problem & you'll never leave him. My Sister, carry your cross oh! You have been Dickmatized.

Any advice?

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.
2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me in October which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else. Tonight he went out for with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.
He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Cc Rocktation lalasticlacla

you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we voteA atiku together in 2023

lilianofentse:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said.
2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me in October which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else. Tonight he went out for with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time.
He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me.

Cc Rocktation lalasticlacla

you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we vote

drmikeadams:
you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we vote

Am not his side chick.

I just Wish i never gave too much in the relationship

lilianofentse:
Am 19 yrs old also. The problem is that I can't get my mind off him

you don't really have any problem if you thinks relationship at this age is your priority.

vingeophysicist:
you don't really have any problem if you thinks relationship at this age is your priority.

I wanted advice not judgement

A dwarf is wondering why she is unloved.


*spits

i guess the good sex is driving u crazily in LOVE

lilianofentse:

I wanted advice not judgement

i'm not judging you my dear. I'm only saying if you see this as a problem then you should thank God because you have no problem.

LuciferRedeemed:
A dwarf is wondering why she is unloved.


*spits

You not liking short women doesn't mean others wont!

When you are ready for something meaningful reply my PM

lilianofentse:
Am 19 yrs old also. The problem is that I can't get my mind off him

Lolzz u jam good pipe of a bad nigga Find another good boy but don't let go of the good piper. But if u are lucky u might just get a good replacement piper.. Except ur ready to sacrifice a good piper for sloppy sex then u can just delete the nigga from ur life but again this would be too hard for u at 19

Just enjoy the nigga while u can ur too young to be looking for a serious guy.. explore everything and stop giving urself headache

You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask?

I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out..

Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks..
Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to
what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good..

I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here

dairykidd:


Lolzz u jam good pipe of a bad nigga Find another good boy but don't let go of the good piper. But if u are lucky u might just get a good replacement piper.. Except ur ready to sacrifice a good piper for sloppy sex then u can just delete the nigga from ur life but again this would be too hard for u at 19

Just enjoy the nigga while u can ur too young to be looking for a serious guy.. explore everything and stop giving urself headache

As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship

dmgr:
You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask?

I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out..

Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks..
Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to
what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good..

I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here

so you mean all men are cheats?
.
I don't like him because of sex only.

lilianofentse:

As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship

Nice plan... Then stop paying him too much attention. Focus on something else like making urself more beautiful on the inside and preparing urself for this cold world.. Stop checking his texts or call logs or bothering urself with who he's been with or what he's been up to. Make new friends, male and female, go out make it ur number one priority to be happy by all means then PM me

Seriously, Focus ur energy on ur personal happiness. After sometime u go dey ask urself wetin be the thing when make u think say u been love the guy b4 sef

The one that will love u will definitely find u and all this now will be ancient history

dairykidd:

Nice plan... Then stop paying him too much attention. Focus on something else like making urself more beautiful on the inside and preparing urself for this cold world.. Stop checking his texts or call logs or bothering urself with who he's been with or what he's been up to. Make new friends, male and female, go out make it ur number one priority to be happy by all means then PM me

Seriously, Focus ur energy on ur personal happiness. After sometime u go dey ask urself wetin be the thing when make u think say u been love the guy b4 sef

The one that will love u will definitely find u and all this now will be ancient history

thnx a bunch hun

Dear, u r still young with crazy, raging hormones..but you have to take a chill...his behaviours alone tells he doesn't respect you or care about your feelings...
Not all love stories end with a beautiful ending.. So, the only thing you can do is to be brave and leave his ungrateful ass instead of going mental thinking of all his doings and doubting yourself because that will follow next...
You are 19 with lots of prospect ahead, so don't jump into another relationship immediately hoping to forget him, having a boyfriend is not a must..Just be careful, selfish and next time allow the guy make more effort in the relationship, like you said you are tired of being heartbroken if he sees your worth, he will stick to you by Gods Grace
Remember time heals all wounds!!! don't be drowning in sorrows for one man matter...Many dey still come

lilianofentse:
thnx a bunch hun

Anytime

Baby gal u ar 19 u are too young to get stock in a complicated life.
You need to get busy with productive things focus on your studies get engrossed in building up your life.
You need to use your youthful age wisely, pls get your priorities right gal.

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You're too needy.

He should dump your needy ass.